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A LOT OF THINGS CAN BE TRAUMATIC FOR CHILDREN UNDER THE AGE OF 10

I CAN'T STRESS THIS ENOUGH

WATCHING YOUR PARENTS FIGHT ALMOST EVERYDAY CAN BE TRAUMATIC

BULLYING CAN BE TRAUMATIC

BEING YELLED AT FOR DOING MINOR MISTAKE CAN BE TRAUMATIC

NOT GETTING PROPER ACCOMODATION AND COPING MECHANISM FOR YOUR MENTAL ILLNESS CAN BE TRAUMATIC

NEGLECT CAN BE TRAUMATIC

STRESSED OUT FROM BEING "GIFTED CHILD" CAN BE TRAUMATIC

YOU WERE A CHILD

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(late but whatever lmao)

Omg, we actually say this to ppl! It’s so fucking hilarious to say “oh yeah, I hear voices and sometimes they like to take over the body” instead of “oh yeah, I share this body with other people! Its called plurality…”. I’ve freaked some people out with it and its fucking hilarious.

-Shroom&Nora

funny system culture is calling your headmates The Voices bc it’s funny. “The Voices are making me drink water :(“, “The Voices are telling me they agree”, “The Voices want to take control of me, bye”

Funny system culture is…

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Sketched Fanart ✨✨

I sketched Emily and Sir Pentious in a specific scene a fren’s hazbin hotel fanfic ^^

(No it isn’t shipart you desperate fucks <3)

Does it suck? Yes. Do i still love it? Also, yes.

THE FANFIC AHSHSJSKS

Also, fag said he would get more motivation to continue to fanfic if i make this so… :3

-Orion’s Belt (maybe Nora)

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https://dragonsroost.neocities.org/essay/AmIPlural

We used this to help us. Its a lil essay on symptoms of plurality.

people who are plural commonly experience non-normal behaviors from all sections (with “disordered plurality” being an exception from requirements).

hope this helps, and we are open to answering any questions

Any tips for questioning plurals..

Just anything really

Whether it be certain aspects I could look into for more insight or even stories on how you figured it out somewhat!

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Claim nearly gave me a heart attack.

Dr. Pepper is my life 😭

-???

say goodbye to dr pepper dawg they're discontinuing them 😭😭

LIES. We continue the kidney stone production

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*goes brr in late but noncanon pokemon villain introject from gen 9*

Wanna meet behind the denny’s? I’LL KICK YOUR ASS -Passage

To all Pokémon villains (specifically those from the first 6 gens) I'll battle you ON SIGHT and you should be SHITTING YOUR PANTS

- a noncanon Pokémon protagonist kin

woah i think they made games about this /lh /silly

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tag the headmate who comes off as very blunt!

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my life ambition: to be a ghibli cat | The Secret World of Arrietty (2010)

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reminder that you can do whatever the fuck you want despite what randos say like break up that canon pairing or redeem that evil character or change their canon sexualities and genders. Fuck dude if you're going for an AU you can change literally anything. You can make an AU where everything's the same except this one guy has blonde hair. Have fun with it and FUCK everyone else. If anyone tells you you can't revel In the fact that you CAN.

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not as a dni per se, but if you’re anti endo, seriously rethink liking anything from thus blog. i am very much pro endo and im extremely sick of seeing the ableism flung at endos

you realize you pressuring them to find repressed trauma can create false memories and make things worse, right? not to mention how endos paved the way for traumagenic systems to have communities yet now yall are pushing them out and fakeclaiming them and other systems.

honestly fuck you

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I love you systems.

I love you Traumagenic systems

I love you DID systems

I love you C-DID systems

I love you P-DID systems

I love you UDD systems

I love you OSDD-1a systems

I love you OSDD-1b systems

I love you Endogenic systems

I love you Tulpa systems

I love you Willogenic systems

I love you Gateway systems

I love you Parogenic systems

I love you Dreamway systems

I love you Kin systems

I love you Neurogenic systems

I love you Median systems

I love you Polygenic/Multigenic systems

I love you Stressgenic systems

I love you Extraumagenic systems

I love you systems.

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You are not called cringe because you're fake! You're called cringe because you're real!

I have a confession to make. We're fakers.

When we're in public, we fake like we're a singlet. I fake when I front and remain silent when I'm called someone else's name. When I pretend it doesn't hurt me every time I'm misgendered. We fake when we omit details about our inner lives when talking to the few singlets we do trust enough to share with because we're afraid they will mock or judge us.

We fake and pretend all the time.

If you're reading this, there's a good chance that you're fakers like us.

You lie and pretend and omit and mask. And that's okay. You know that being out to the wrong people can destroy relationships. It can get you fired from your job. It can make you a pariah. You lie and pretend out of love for your system, to protect yourselves and those you care about. And that is nothing to be ashamed of.

But remember that these are the moments when you're lying.

You are not called cringe when you pretend so you can conform and fit in. You are not called cringe when you mask as a singlet. You are not called cringe when you lie and invalidate yourselves to keep your secret.

You are called cringe when you are real.

You are called cringe because you are honest and true to yourselves.

You are called cringe because you are brave enough to take off the mask. Even if only in certain spaces.

You called cringe when you are proud of who you are.

You face hate because you love yourselves.

Do not fear being called cringe. Wear it as a badge of honor. They attack you because you represent something new, something they don't understand. Because you took a chance in being your real self instead of hiding who you are.

Remember that the actions that others call "cringe" today will pave the way to make the systems of tomorrow feel safe and secure in being who they are. By being brave and strong and real, by putting yourself out there and trusting, you are helping to secure a future where no system needs to fake or pretend ever again.

Thank you for being you!

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MMMMMM, the urge to make a sub-blog dedicated to ID packs, userboxes, pk alter intros, coining terms, etc.

making that shit is so fucking fun -Nora

(sub-blog cuz organization)

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if y’all have “endos dni” or anything similar in your posts/blog description its an instant block btw. endos are just as valid as traumagenic systems and maybe instead of fighting each other we could try to understand one another better

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Multikósmo

Definition:

A term that only describes a highly complex headspace/innerworld (ex: lots of layers, realms, etc). Can be described as reminiscent of Polyfragmented system’s headspace. You do not need to be Polyfragmented to use this term.

Flag meaning:

Rainbow stripes = Complexity and variety

Purple shades stripes = Represent mystery in a spectrum. Purple represents not being able to understand your headspace fully, because many parts are still a mystery due to complexity. Light purple being able to understand your headspace fully.

Black stripes = Being proud of the complexity and knowing the headspace is there.

Name meanings:

Multi = Short for multiplex which can be used to describe something complicated and complex

Kósmo = Short for Kósmos (just removed the s). Greek for “World”.