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Propaganda I’m falling for:

Dating to marry

Having fun sober

8 to 10 hours of sleep

Prioritizing healthy eating

Resistance training

Self improvement

Clear boundaries

Working smarter and not harder

Being in my feminine, especially when people try me

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Hailee Steinfeld 😍😍

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GIRL ROTTING (black girl edition)

People often mistake girl rotting for it being disgusting girl especially when it comes to black women/girls

Black women/girls are taught to be extremely clean,organized and neat , but what happens when they eventually get tired of it and just sit in their own laziness

Don't get me wrong , I'm not justifying laziness but you do have to understand that people eventually get tired.

Black women/girls are taught that there is always work they have to do in the house and that they should never rest until they are completely done.

Hence why alot of older Black women tend to not know how to relax or take time to themselves , because they were taught that being busy is the way.

Yes, I agree that younger black women and girls are trying to break this generational whisper that goes from ear to ear , but we often feel guilty for not being the perfect clean woman that our mothers raised us to be.

That's why being lazy and unorganized at times makes us feel so out of place.

But im here to say that it doesn't have to be that way, laziness should be embraced , DO NOT OVERDO IT.

All im saying is its okay to be lazy here and there, doing things one step at a time and really taking your time to finish some tasks

Let me give you an example:

Maybe you have to study for a test or an exam , and you know the scope weeks ahead of the actual time , just take your time , sit down with yourself , maybe study a few chapters at a time and continue doing this until eventually the test should come.

Or for the women

Let's say you have to clean for yourself, make a list of things you want to do , and make it a whole week thing instead of trying to do it all at once , separate the tasks into days and make sure you get maybe 2 or 3 things done everyday and by Sunday you have no work and u can relax

In conclusion:

This is how things should be, you shouldn't feel guilty for being a little burnt out by working around the house ect. All of this gives you the opportunity to rest and rot in bed for once in a while.