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CROPPING IT HOPING IT DOESNT TAKE IT DOWN

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PLEASE DO NOT:

Interact if you are a minor, an ageless blog, or identify as a feminine gender. This is an explicit adult queer space. Please respect that. It's not that you are hated, it's that this helps for other people to feel safe to express themselves.

POSSIBLY MORE IMPORTANTLY

DO NOT ADD TAGS THAT ARE REGULAR FANDOM TAGS

I specifically try to keep my posts out of plain tags, like the Genshin impact, sagau, and twst tags for example - BECAUSE while this is a sex positive place, I don't want to contribute to

Minors finding sexual content

People finding sexual content that may be triggering to them (remember that even seeing words in a trigger warning may be enough to bring flashbacks for some people! We should do what we can, fandoms are used as safe escapism for many people and we need to respectfully give them distance the same way we ask others to give us distance)

People that just don't want to see porn right now

Literally anyone that doesn't want to see it for any reason. That is a valid thing.

BASICALLY

Don't boost my content outside of the spaces I have put it or other spaces that fit within my guidelines

This is a matter of consent. I'm not against porn, I write the damn stuff. I just want people to find it at their own discretion. You can reblog whatever of my content that you want on your account, just please respectfully keep these guidelines in mind.

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Getting so sick of seeing those damn things everywhere. Keep the existing relationship sickly sweet romantic ones coming. But I'm tired of seeing so many things that make my heart sink just reading the tags wtf man

stop making fanfics about characters raping and sexually assaulting y/n, you are fucking disgusting people who romanticize a serious crime that happens every day to children and women

"but that's just reading dark romance" that's not a dark romance, that's just the stuff of a horrible fetish, IF YOU HAVE A RAPE FETISH, GO SEEK FOR FUCKING PSYCHIATRIST HELP!!!!!!!!!!

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Rook is so into pred/prey ~

Rook loves when you surprise him by coming up behind him and putting your hand over his mouth and breathing on his neck.

Rook loves when you chase him around like a rabbit.

Rook loves when the tables are being turned on him.

Rook loves being prey ~

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everyone dunking on that automated fleshlight sex toy needs to remember that disabled people get horny too ok 💜

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Making Jamil/Leona/Riddle sit on your face. Them throwing their head back from your soft wet tongue so deep in their ass, how could they not feel so fucking good. They're begging you to stop but not getting off or saying the safeword.

They're in their whole new world while you're only just using your tongue, their eyes rolled back, face flushed with tears pouring down their faces, they just have this look in their face that begs for more but can't take anymore.

They all say they'll get you back for this but they're too fucked down to even think of things to do to you to regain their dignity back. The prettiest and most desperate moans can be heard from miles away, they're not even trying to hide how good you make them feel.

Whores

Honestly, it's what they need~

Especially Jamil/Riddle. They need a bit of stress off their back and you know just the right spots to clear their minds.

You're fingers dig so hard into their thighs you can see small drops of blood smudging onto your hands. They desperately grab at your hair, hoping for some kind of clarity (Though it just overstims them more)

You're not even sure they can think anymore, all they can do is buck into the air.

And for their empty threats, all you need to do is press a finger to their sore prostate and they'll gladly melt back into your hands.

They're so weak to you <3

hc that leona flicks his tail when he's overstim'd

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MINORS AND FEM ALIGNED DNI

CW: dom top reader, reader has a cock, cock can be read as strap

Rook Hunt is a lover of all things beautiful. So when his lover suggested putting a blindfold on him, he wasn't thrilled. You still managed to talk him into it. After all, you can always take it off for him. But only if he can say it makes your intimate moment ugly.

And that's how he ended up here, panting heavily with your fist in his hair and your cock deep inside him.

He hated to admit it, but the way the blindfold heightened his other senses brought out another beauty he had yet to experience with you. He loved hearing your breath beside his ear and being so alert to every slight touch on his skin. He shudders under you, moaning your name as you gently trace a finger across his body, teasingly sliding down his back that arches under your guidance.

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i think lots of problems in life could be solved by pinning boys up against walls and kissing them

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Don't ignore the basics! Every part of this list is a reminder about consent!

This is a good follow up to that post I made a few days ago

Kink tumblr etiquette:

Because there's a lot of fresh faces on this blog and some people aren't getting this.

Consent is mandatory. If you interact with someone's post and they tell you you've made them uncomfortable, oblige them and remove yourself from the situation, take down your post, unfollow them, etc. Your kink is not above someone else's comfort. Follow up: if you see "men DNI" or "women DNI", etc. clearly listed and you belong to said group, do not fucking interact

Put your age in your bio. I don't know how many times you people have to see that before you do it. If you are not forthcoming with your age, you do not get to interact with adult content. People can't consent to you if you don't say how old you are. If you're actually a minor, leave. You're endangering people by being here.

Do not impose your kinks on someone else's post. Especially on non-sexualized posts and ESPECIALLY if you do not know them.

Do not send unsolicited sexual messages. Especially with people who you have never interacted with before. It's creepy. And with people you do know? It still needs to be solicited, bucko. Ask them first.

Treat online kink like you would treat kink in person. If you ignore consent, boundaries, and comfort in a real kink community, you are no longer welcome in that community.

If it says don't reblog, don't reblog. Respect people's privacy.

Am I missing anything major? I might keep this updated.

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Posting this on my biggest blog for everyone to stay safe out there

THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

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SAGAU,, incubus/succubus reader

headcannons for an incubus/succubus creator in the world of self aware genshin impact.

reader uses they/them. requests and imagines in my ask box are appreciated, but will take a while. :D

warnings: NSFW, suggestive themes, crack to smut lol

incubus/succubus!creator who is a demon of lust from their original world and whose needs remain the same despite ending up in teyvat. they must feed on others'.. sexual energy in order to survive.

incubus/succubus!creator who feels too awful because awwe, all the characters are too god damn colorful and wholesome (no, they're not), how could they ever expose them to something so dark (they've been through darker things)?

incubus/succubus!creator who holds off from feeding because- because, their acolytes are so adorable. always following reader around. always giving them the most beautiful and magnificent gifts. always lighting up from the smallest hints of affection. reader doubts they're even capable of feeling lust.

incubus/succubus!creator who slowly falls into a pit of hunger and exhaustion the longer they try to control their needs. all their acolytes notice and go insane. especially morax who looks like he's ready to murder anyone who seems even a tad bit suspicious. had they accidentally fed you something wrong??? has someone been poisoning you all this time???

incubus/succubus!creator who has no choice but to explain their situation to their most loyal acolytes. reader is becoming absolutely delirious and weak, almost fainting more than once that day. they can't hold back anymore, they have to feed soon.

incubus/succubus!creator who is ashamed for feeling humiliated because god damn, they're literally a demon of lust. why is it so hard to just explain sex and sex demons to their acolytes, they've literally done worse.

incubus/succubus!creator who feels more embarrassed at kokomi, ayato and zhongli/morax's serious faces, as if they were deeply thinking of a solution to your predicament.

incubus/succubus!creator who almost dies when venti and childe desperately offer themselves to the reader, practically jumping into their lap. reader has to stop their other acolytes from murdering the two because they've actually grown a soft spot for the now very horny menaces.

incubus/succubus!creator who feels a pang of confidence suddenly hit when they see kazuha, thoma, ganyu and aether's blushing faces because good, reader isn't the only one who feels like they're suffocating from embarrassment. little does reader know, they're blushing because of the shameless and unholy thoughts that are running through their heads. they try to justify themselves in their thoughts, they only want to help you out, but everyone knows it's mostly so they can help themselves. *wenk wonk*

incubus/succubus!creator who gets interrogated by heizou and hu tao about the more technical side of feeding, a bit shocked to know that most people they've slept with don't come out alive and are even more determined to be used by reader and survive to see another day. things only get worse once kaeya and lisa butt in with the more scandalous questions, whispering into your ears questions about what you like, what turns you on, any preferences to take note of.

incubus/succubus!creator who ends up picking a few of their acolytes once they've finally faced the threads of death. safe to say, the character that ends up underneath them won't be walking for a few days. the moment they were dragged away into your bedroom, they hadn't come out for a few hours, maybe even days depending on how bad your hunger had become. cries and screams filled the confines of your personal manor.

incubus/succubus!creator who had to bed multiple characters because of their inhumane stamina. you made sure you were properly satisfied, in more ways than one. you were quite surprised to see that they had all survived after all those rounds, but what did you expect? vision-holders are a different breed.

incubus/succubus!creator who laughs at the sight of their pathetic acolyte, thoroughly spent with a sinful look in their eyes. hmm, maybe they can take a few more rounds.

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gentility | MDNI READ DNI

he's not immune to the rumours of who you truly are. a tyrant? demon? brutal monster? giant dragon? not much was known about you except your towering nature and frightening build. yet somehow, even in the small, mountain community you both called home these rumours still managed to find you.

but right now you were simply a cuddlebug, one thats a bit too big for the tiny bed the two of you were on. your horns were the only thing that could possibly point to any animalistic nature of yours. the bed shifted under both of your weights, a pathetic creek while you scooted closer until his back was firmly against your chest, using the opportunity to wrap your sturdy arms around his waist, huffing contently.

he chuckled, before turning to you and kissing your nose until he got your attention, faux annoyance in your eyes as you stared at him, curious. "y'know.. i've been wondering about something.." he waited until you tugged him closer, "are the rumours even based on anything? i mean.. we have been hearing the same thing everywhere we go.."

you huffed in his face, "yeah.. well i mean, i do get tendancies.. but i wouldn't show them to just everyone.. i can show you what i mean if you'd like?" that sincere, almost confused tone lured him into a trap as he nodded his head.

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"h-holy fuck, d-darling wai-wait..!" he was choking on his words, the weight of your muscular, heavy body forcing the air out of his lungs. he could feel the strain on his thighs as you forced them apart, your clawed nails digging into the skin, turning it red while you rammed inside of him, his hole squelching around your dick.

"fuuuuuuuck.." you panted into the air, before looking down at your teary eyed boyfriend, seeing your dick stretch him wide, bulging his lower stomach when you thrust particularly hard, "i don't know how long i've been holding this urge in..!" your boyfriend could see the tension in your jaw, knowing that you were holding back a snarl.

all he smelt was you, and it was dizzyingly intense. he could smell the bodywash you used, but mostly just the sweat and musk of your body from fucking him. his hands clenched the sheets until his knuckles changed colours. his face was right inbetween the muscles of your chest, and succumbing to the urge to moan inbetween your tits.

"such a good lover.. letting me use you like this.." your hands pulled him up to you by his thighs, and he wasn't sure if he should moan or figure out how you used him like a ragroll. the large, clawed hands that belonged to you found their way to his face, as you coo'd in his face about how you were so lucky to have him. he could feel you brush his hair away from his face and wipe the tears, sweat and snot from his face, opting to keep the male in your lap. he could feel the warm heat of your chest, and the firm bouncy muscle of your tits against his back while he sat on your lap, gasping at the sensations.

but holy shit. his brain was only just beginning to process what had happened, and now he understood why you're usually so gentle and hesitant with him. you treated him like silk, delicate and expensive, always opting for him on top, to go at his own pace. it was night and day compared to the way that you're fucking ruthlessly into him, holding him by the arms while you thrusted your hips up, loud, lewd noises as those big balls slapped against the crevice of his ass. his body would shake whenever he felt your dick reach impossible lengths inside of him. he could only comprehend how much power you had-- you could do anything with him that you wanted, and yet you only wanted to pleasure him.

"m'gonna fuck you till m'satisfied.." you growled into his ear, eyes blown wide at the almost feral ideas running through your head. he cried out in pleasure, head feeling light and fuzzy from how intense everything seemed to be, throat going hoarse. all he could feel, smell, touch, breathe.. was you. it wasn't long before yet another orgasm was building up inside of him, loud whimpers and moans coming from him before he sprayed his cum all over the floor infront of him

his belly bulged as you continued to thrust inside of him, slowly going erratic. your poor baby was squirming in your lap, unable to do anything more then moan and occasionally writhe in your grasp, bound to you. all he could do was sit there and let you use him as a sleeve for your own pent up desires.

he looked so good from your view as well, and his scent along with the lights illuminating his body made it hard to resist marking up your territory.

he swore he was going to faint. he lost track of how many times he came on your dick, or how many times his vision blurred for a second whenever you abused that bundle of nerves inside of him. he swore he would cum so hard that he would pass out from exhaustion. then a sharp, overbearing wave of pain washed over him, and when he looked back all he could see was your blown open eyes looking back at him, then inspecting the large bite mark that was on his shoulder, before licking the wound and kissing his ear.

it was hard to not go in for a second bite, but you didn't want to wound your darling.

he could feel his legs go numb, and your cock pulsing, getting harder and harder inside of him. he looked up at the ceiling, seeing the tips of your horns in the corner of his vision before you started grunting into his ear. he could feel your thighs get tenser, and your expression get more strained.

and all of a sudden your arms released his, before wrapping around him, forcing him in place while your balls pulsed. he moaned deliriously, feeling a small wave of molten cream deep inside of him, before another, and another, and another. he could hear and feel you grunt into his ear whenever you dumped another load into him, feeling him lightly swell with your cum from how much there was. your slow, light thrusts made a puddle of your cum, and excess that couldn't fit inside of him flowed out of his puffy, swollen hole and down your balls onto the ruined sheets. the feeling was so foreign to him, and so erotic that his overstimulated body had one more, weak, dry orgasm before he truly was exhausted, cuddling into your arms.

you pressed a kiss against his neck weakly, no longer pent up. he could feel your purrs as you wrapped around him for a few minutes, before sighing and carrying him to a different room, trying to figure out the best way to clean a copious amount of cum from your bedroom.

and when your boyfriend woke up all sore, swollen and stuffed, the first thing he felt was the bite mark on your shoulder, thinking about how the rumours were true.. at least in bed.

gojo, gepard, aether, caelus, megumi, nanami, kaeya, solomon, simeon, cyno + your favourites

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did you know this didn't save a hefty chunk of my work and i was like a mm away from never finishing it !

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dr ratio x top male reader

this idea came to me in a dream..... dr ratio it seems i've grown quite fond of you. nsfw, gets wholesome at the end

"see, dear, if you insert your cock in me at exactly 67 degrees to the right, we'll both feel the maximum amount of pleasure." dr ratio says confidently as he precisely adjusts your tip at his entrance to his desired position. "are... are you sure?" you can't help but stare incredulously as he treats your cock like it's a mathematical instrument. "don't be silly. i'm always right." lying beneath you, he finally finishes calibrating the angle he wants you to fuck him in. "okay. put it in me now!" he declares triumphantly, clearly proud of his own work. you can't help but shake your head fondly at his antics, his dedication to using his intelligence to "optimise" every situation was rather.... silly sometimes. nevertheless, you push into him slowly, enjoying the sound of him trying the stifle his moan at the feeling of your cock stretching his tight walls. "s-see. i told you so- mmph." his pride meant he'd completely deny this in front of anyone else, the way you'd fucked him like a whore, thrusting in and out of him at "the optimal speed" (according to him), but in private, you were the only one who he wanted to please. increasing your speed of your thrusts without warning, you can't help but smirk at the way he bucks his hips into you, legs shaking and hole clenching even tighter. "you idiot! i told you to follow the speed-" he starts to protest, but he's quickly quietened by your hand over his mouth as you lean forward and whisper lowly to his ear. "you talk too much, baby." he shudders at your words. "need some....stern teaching?" despite the intimacy of the situation, you have to try not to laugh as you repurpose the conversation you had a few days ago to rile him up. hearing you use his own words to tease him, he glares at you, but can't get any words out as his mind is so focused on being pummelled by your cock. it's so pathetic, he thinks to himself. usually his brain is so busy, endlessly pondering, but now he can't think of anything but the way you're fucking him. "shit...i'm gonna cum..." you breathe out as you hold his hips, almost reaching your limit. "do it in me." he says sharply, his attitude coming back in an instant. you have no choice but to oblige, pumping him full as the both of you climax. the two of you collapse onto the bed, a heap of sweaty bodies and unspoken affections. you lie on his chest as he strokes your hair, trying to catch your breath. "well done. plus 10 points." "what the fuck are you saying??" you laugh as you throw the pillow at him. "nothing... just talking to myself." "weirdo."

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"you know, you might be an idiot, but you're my idiot." he suddenly says, looking back as you soap his hair in your shared bath, cleaning up from your intense session earlier. his words carry a level of warmth to them despite their bluntness, a warmth he'd never give to anyone else. "stop calling me an idiot." you pout, leaning forward to smack him on the head playfully. "i'm serious! don't worry your pretty head about anything, i can do more than enough thinking for the both of us." you place your arms around him and hug him from the back in a tight embrace, the warm water surrounding you only adding to the romantic atmopshere. "whatever you say, veritas." ♡

omg i based his personality completely off his leaked voicelines and tried to incorporate some of them here hfgdhgd

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Reminder to the many many followers I have seen flow in without checking my blog itself

Minors and fem aligned DO NOT INTERACT

There are plenty of spaces for femdoms. You've already taken over all the spaces I cherished. I made this space for queer men and nonbinary people to appreciate men without the presence of women. I personally NEED spaces like this.

Why? Because women have been WILDLY predatory towards me and many others like me in the past. This isn't the only reason there need to be safe spaces of course, but I don't want feminine people here because this is meant to be a masculine queer space. I am afraid of women when there is romantic or sexual context around the topic of discussion. Please respect that and leave me and others alone when we ask. It's not your fault I'm afraid because you haven't attacked me and you probably didn't read the warning. I will now be sure to include it on every one of my posts no matter how fast they are.

Please just respect the wishes of others.

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Yakumo trying to be a good sub for his s/o but absolutely losing it when they start sucking him off is something that I feel would happen a lot, boy wants to be good but gets so excited

OMG HELLO ANGEL

NSFW UTC: minors do not interact (gn!reader)

yes for real he’d get excited so easily 🥺 I feel like he’d jerk his hips up and he can’t stop himself from grinding into your mouth! it just feels so good and so wet 💛💛

he’d totally cover his face as he tries to hide how good it feels but you gently pry his hands off his eyes and kiss him while you sneak a hand in between his legs to finger him. he jolts, moaning into your mouth as he grasps at your shoulder.

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!!!Attention!!!

Top Male reader writes you're fics might have been stolen and posted on Wattpad. I've been trying to find every single person since I have most of the fics saved in my likes but it's better to just post about it and let everyone see if their fics have been stolen. I've read most of the fics in the book and majority of them are from Tumblr.

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Reasons I refuse the general ftm character posts. Why do most posts for sub men have some type of requirement for them to be trans???

I am a trans man. Fetishizing trans men pisses me off. I started this blog for people like me to feel safe and not violated by other gay people. Gay men will love you, you are so so handsome. You have power over yourself and your body. You are loved. You are a man.

its actually deeply upsetting that not a single active ftm tag is inclusive of anyone who wants bottom surgery. i want surgery. i need it. but post op bodies are never ever treated as desirable. i have never seen any even remotely sexual content allowing ftm characters to not be DEFINED by having a cunt. you realize how awful it feels to read that? not only does so much attention being put on body parts that make me want to die make a lot of guys dysphoric (making it impossible to read fics about people like us), it also feels very isolating. am i not allowed to want surgery? i cant have sex until i get bottom surgery. i can hardly even masturbate. it makes me cry. i have seen exactly two artworks featuring guys with bottom sugery. i cant go into ftm tags without seeing boypussy everywhere. it feels like theres no one else like me. those tags are just porn. they treat trans men like we're just sexual fantasies. as if we're not real. as if we're objects for cis people to rail and nothing else. it also seems that they think old trans men don't exist. almost all of the fetish porn i see is about femboys who are barely even legal age. its disgusting on so many levels. i don't want to be an anime femboy, but thats all you see us as. you treat us like fucktoys. we're people. treat us as such. do your fucking research and stop demonizing life saving surgery. youre just a terf. even worse its mostly young trans men saying surgery is disgusting. stop it. if you keep telling young guys that surgery is dangerous and all that, people will not get surgery they need to live. if you convince people not to get that tumour removed they will die. if you convince people not to get bottom surgery when they really need it, they will die. if you do this shit and youre trans, you are still transphobic. you need to deconstruct patriarchy. you are telling people not to get surgery that could save their life. do better.