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victories for today: still alive, unloaded dishwasher, took out recycling, made dinner, worked out, went outside, did work

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happy 2025!!! i'm grateful for:

my loved ones

christmas gifts

soft blankets

stuffed animals

i'm grateful for the new year because i'm looking forward to the new start. i want to take steps to cope better and be a better person, both to myself and to my loved ones.

Daily Gratitude

January 1, 2025

What are you grateful for today?

Welcome to my gratitude support group! All are welcome to be a part of the gratitude crew. Re-blog, write a note or send an ask as often as makes sense for you (just once, every day, twice a year, a few times a month— doesn’t matter!)

I tag parts of the crew almost every day. If you’d like to be on the tag list let me know.

All posts will be tagged ‘resiliencewithin’s daily gratitude group’.

Prompt (if you want): In what way are you grateful for the new year?

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Reason to Live #11779

   Getting my own apartment and decorate it myself. – Guest Submission

(Please don't add negative comments to these posts.)

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a soft reminder: even though you might be disappointed in how you did this year, you still made a lot of progress. you tried and tried again, so many times. every little thing you achieved. every breakdown you got up from. every moment of happiness you encountered. every little act of self care and kindness you did. it all matters. they all helped you grow. they are all small victories to be proud of. it's not always clear to see, because day to day everything feels the same, but I promise you've come a long way since the beginning of the year. so please be extra gentle with yourself when looking back. be proud of yourself too, if you can. you did well.

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some days, you just gotta exist. that’s the only task, getting through the day alive.

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You can kill yourself later.

In the meantime, try getting through today.

Let a day turn into a week, a week into a month, a month into a year.

See what happens. See what changes.

See if you still feel the same then.

You can put it off. It is an option, but it doesn't need to be an immediate choice made out of desperation. For now, live.

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In case you are full of doubts while stumbling upon this post: You are more than your bad days. You are more than your sadness. You are more than these bad thoughts telling you that you have no purpose. You are loved. You are important. You are irreplaceable. You are so damn worthy. Nothing and no one can ever take that away from you.

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Do not let them consume you. They don’t define who you are.

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🫂 you will get through the day 🫂

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A day is not only a good day if you were productive. That's not the only thing that makes days good. Maybe you read a good book today, or watched a good movie, maybe you had a good nap today or a good chat with a friend. You don't have to be productive every day. You can still be happy with your day after resting.

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Hey, if you’re not as mentally quick as you used to be because of your illness- that’s okay. If you’re can’t think as fast or handle as many tasks that’s okay. You aren’t stupid, you aren’t unintelligent, and you aren’t less worthy of love or respect. It’s okay that your brain won’t or can’t go back to how it used to be. It’s different now, but it’s okay.

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congratulations on getting through the day even if it was really, really hard. you’re doing great.

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You’re worth caring for. You were always worth caring for. I’m so sorry if someone has made you feel otherwise.

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There are more people that acknowledge your presence than you are aware of, there are more people that care about you than you will ever realize. I have so many friends from over the years who sometimes I randomly hit up and I never realized before they told me that they actually really adore those moments that we do talk. Perhaps the cashier at the store will appreciate that you wish them a nice day, the busdriver likes that you greet them, perhaps that one stranger you held the door open for really appreciated that small gesture. Keep showing yourself to the world, you will influence more people than you will ever realize.

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