I'm just going to leave this here, because this woman said what I've been trying to articulate for ages much more effectively and succinctly than I've been able to
I have a close friend who’s a trans guy. A few weeks ago he told me that he isn’t allowed into the men’s or women’s toilets at his college. Not even his choice at this point. He has to use the only genderneutral toilet there instead of the men’s.
the whole mutual thing is really overhyped on this site. sometimes interests don’t match up and that’s the only reason why there isn’t a mutual following. if you’re a regular in my inbox or my notifications, i have visited your blog before. if i didn’t want you around for any reason, you would be blocked. so yeah. you can spam my notes and/or talk with me (and possibly become my friend) even if i’m not following you back. no worries.