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Aegosexual : a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum in which one experiences a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal. They may or may not feel sexual attraction, but have no desire to participate in sexual activities with another person.

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Lesboy : is an identity for an individual who in some way identifies as a boy/man that is gay/queer for women (lesbian).

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obligatory “i love my husbands” before i go right back into my host break. the rest has been nice tbh

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intentionally switching is so weird because it’s like you can physically feel the swoosh of your brain as you replace who was at front. i can hear our voice change and our posture shift. it’s so strange

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dogboys? more like dogfags

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Statement from Tristan Kern de Gonzales

Husband of Jonathan Joss

My husband Jonathan Joss and I were involved in a shooting while checking the mail at the site of our former home. That home was burned down after over two years of threats from people in the area who repeatedly told us they would set it on fire. We reported these threats to law enforcement multiple times and nothing was done.

Throughout that time we were harassed regularly by individuals who made it clear they did not accept our relationship. Much of the harassment was openly homophobic.

When we returned to the site to check our mail we discovered the skull of one of our dogs and its harness placed in clear view. This caused both of us severe emotional distress. We began yelling and crying in response to the pain of what we saw.

While we were doing this a man approached us. He started yelling violent homophobic slurs at us. He then raised a gun from his lap and fired.

Jonathan and I had no weapons. We were not threatening anyone. We were grieving. We were standing side by side. When the man fired Jonathan pushed me out of the way. He saved my life.

Jonathan is my husband. He gave me more love in our time together than most people ever get. We were newlyweds. We picked Valentines Day. We were in the process of looking for a trailer and planning our future.

He was murdered by someone who could not stand the sight of two men loving each other.

I was with him when he passed. I told him how much he was loved.

To everyone who supported him, his fans, his friends, know that he valued you deeply. He saw you as family.

My focus now is on protecting Jonathan's legacy and honoring the life we built together.

If your concern is how someone coped with trauma or how loudly they speak when recounting injustice and being ignored by authorities then you never truly cared about my husband.

Jonathan saved my life. I will carry that forward. I will protect what he built.

- Tristan Kern de Gonzales

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This is fucking heartbreaking. The cruelty of this is just unfathomable to me, but unsurprising. It seems that everywhere I turn are examples of boundless cruelty. Jonathan was a blessing in life, and may his memory forever be a blessing to us all. I will remember him. And I hope that this June is a fucking riot.

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had a dream that my godfather died and i was super sad but nobody believed me that he existed and then i woke up super distraught and crying. before remembering. i do not have a godfather.

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look, guys, this may seem ironic coming from a person with Verbose Disease, but I'm about to tell you the secret to winning social media: shutting the fuck up. you have a controversial discourse opinion? shut the fuck up and no one will know. can't participate in a boycott for various reasons? shut the fuck up and no one will know. you think or do something Problematic that has no bearing on anyone but yourself? shut the fuck up and no one will know. you haven't been keeping up on a pressing social issue? shut the fuck up and no one will know. your mind is a wonderful place where you can have all the bad takes in the world and they're all perfectly insulated from everyone and everything unless you try to excise them on a grand scale. you can take the mental L all by yourself without using a public platform as a confession booth and face zero repercussions and it'll be just fine. open up a damn diary and explain yourself there.

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having ocd on tumblr must be like walking through a minefield. sometimes i’ll see a post and go “that had to have given someone like 5 new things to anxiously obsess over”

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get yourself a ho(st) who is also a control freak

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i miss porn bots why are all bots panhandlers now

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these are intended for fun, if youre going to start discourse please do it off my blog and remain respectful in the notes

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be free. write fanfics about your fictives.

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ough,,,, body birthday

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don’t think we ever mentioned it here but our last psych straight up just dipped out of nowhere with no warning, no referrals, just disappeared and the only reason we found out is because we had to call to reschedule our next appointment. just to get told they gotta assign us a new guy entirely.

on the bright side new guy gave us an official diagnosis that apparently the old psych had neglected to mention they gave us. so that’s. cool ig

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anytime someone calls sex “boinking” i am hit with the vivid imagery of every noise during sex being clown squeaks