sunsetlanee

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no disabled person should have their parents be their only choice for support/caregivers. it’s not a privilege to be stuck with them and you don’t have to be grateful.

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It is so disturbing how every time a disabled person is brutally murdered by their caregiver, the conversation revolves around what we can do to give more support to caregivers and not the welfare of disabled people and how to give people with disabilities more agency and support in escaping abusive and neglectful situations. Don’t get me wrong, caregiving is hard but I am so tired of the “I feel so bad for the caregiver, their life was so rough and then they just snapped :(” narrative and not acknowledging that the disabled individual was uniquely vulnerable and completely at the whim of someone who despised them, felt they had no inherent worth and killed them. The rates of abuse experienced by disabled people are always conveniently left out of the narrative. So often it’s twisted into something justifiable, that you should relate to the murderer and not the victim. It is so sick.

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This is the cutest pup I’ve ever seen

This is Gilbert. He’s been around a while. Attributes his long life to many, many years of always getting what he wants

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service topping is like gender affirming care to me

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Being a lesbian is so versatile. I built a tv stand for my grandma a bit ago and today I’m reupholstering a chair because the fabric didn’t have enough personality for my liking. For the past week I’ve been working on a crochet project for my friend who just had a baby.

We really can do everything.

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“Service dog working” GOD I LOVE THIS FANDOM.

This is beautiful

Butch Vi Week Day 1: Fashion

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Therapy is draining my wallet, i just need a sweet girl to kiss the sore spots on my body and tell me that I’m still loveable even when my mother hates every fibre of my being.

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everyone say thank you to Black trans women and Black trans men

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need someone to hold me by the jaw and call me a pretty boy

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Being an only child with irresponsible parents is kind of like being an eldest child but the younger sibling you’re left home alone with is a drunk 45 year old man.

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it’s me and my horny little flop blog against the world

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I’m a lesbian and I’m so totally normal about Batman. You wouldn’t believe it

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Not fem, not masc, but a secret third thing:

Autistic with no relationship to the concept of gender ✨

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MY GAWDDDDDDDDDUHHH.

FUCK

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I didn’t realize how amazing my progress was bc I’m always stressing to be better ….breathe & appreciate ur journey

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kink shaming is dead. I respect people with foot fetishes more than the president of the united states of America

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