#(disclaimer bc ppl like to come for me sometimes 🥺)

[shouta-aizawow]

Interesting how Deku has, like, no flashbacks of actually being bullied by Bakugou… Just ignored largely, hanging out with Bakugou and his friends, or Bakugou bragging

And before you (general) say how Bakugou beat up Deku in one flashback, I would just like to remind everyone that:

1) It’s canon that older kids would seek out Bakugou to fight him. Deku isn’t special.

2) We were shown the middle of the conflict where Bakugou was already fighting another kid. Deku isn’t special.

3) Deku joined a fight that was already in progress. You can’t jump in the middle and defend the enemy and not expect to be treated like one as well. Deku isn’t special.

Bakugou was canonically raised with violence. Bakugou thought smoking was wrong but being aggressive wasn’t, and no one taught him otherwise. I’m not saying Bakugou was right, but I’m also not saying he bullied Deku like how a large part of the fandom thinks he did. We just don’t have proof for it. He’s a kid who is a product of his environment, and as soon as he got out of that, he got better.

He’s expressed multiple times how uncomfortable he is with Deku knowing details about him and his quirk, but somehow he is the only one that has to change, and the change always benefits Deku. This isn’t fair for Bakugou. Having to ignore your boundaries to satisfy the person pushing past them isn’t fair to anyone whether they were an aggressive child or not. Bakugou has friends that respect his boundaries. He doesn’t need ones that don’t.

That’s part of the reason why I don’t like most “bkdk talk about their past and Bakugou apologizes” fan content, because a majority of the time, Bakugou is the only one apologizing and the only one changing, and he ends up becoming friends with Deku, which is something he didn’t want but Deku kept pushing for. Deku needs to understand boundaries and change as well, and I won’t pretend that their relationship was one-sided in the toxic department, because I do not believe that it was.

[daz4i]

sometimes when i have something i really need to complain about but feel too anxious to not add a lot of disclaimers, i write the post as i want it to be without the disclaimers and draft it. i still get that "i've written it down, got it off my chest" feeling, despite not actually publishing it, and it'll be there if i ever do want to publish it. just thought i'd share what i do to get rid of that "i wanna complain about something, but i don't want to complain about someone" urge :)

aaaaah yeah that's a good idea 🥺 i noticed that a lot of times just typing something doesn't feel like a vent to me 💔💔💔 it's kinda like i need to know ppl saw it to feel like it mattered. and unfortunately that's true about small complaints too (bc unfortunately my feelings come in 2 settings so small things make me big mad and thus need big vent). does that make sense