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#Flirty af with that russian damn
zappedbyzabka · 7 months
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busanlove9597 · 3 years
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in case of unpopular opinion , 1) i dont know how unpopular this is but , i very recently saw one of the big km blogger mentioning the same theory . its about km rings.ys they maybe matching rings but members have lots of matching rings.to say they r promise rings / even engagment rings bought from tokyo etc etc are bullshit. the only fact we know is km does have some pairs of matching rings , even recently they are wearing matching rings for some events but that's it. 2) this is MY opinion, if someone cant accept a reality that there is a chance km may not be real or someone who does believe km is in a relationship but want them to act always like in romantic movies n if not going around crying km broke up can just stop "shipping km " now. its the best for your mental health . coz these r real people possibly in a real relationship they have good days n bad days, their fightings can remain for many days too, they r professional af , just because they r not screaming n fighting on cam doesnt means it doesnt exist , it does n they maintain their distances at those times , from my observation . N in those times u dont need to go to every km blog for reassurance , they also dont know anything more than u . also dont need to go n talk dirty about jk or jm when u think they r fighting , its their relatonship, they still love each other more than they love you even during the times of fights .
3) this is the opinion of a part of jikookers, but i also think km got evolved as "couple" by end of 2017. i know a major part of jikookers believe it happend in 2015. but from my observation n life as a queer person in a homophobic country , u just wont start a relationship or sail smoothly from the begining. u r going against a norm taught to you by society,u wont jump directly to confess even if ur crush for that person is shooting high , u will be confused af for ur sexuality or that person's sexuality, internalized homophobia may still be having its own influence on you that u cant complety accept urself or confess to the person . in some cases even if u will love n take care of that person n u maybe somewhat physically involved still u wont be able to define the relationship especially if its same sex relations in a country i live in. NO its not because ur r with that person to calmdown ur hormones but the hurdles u need to jump which r build inside u n by the society takes time. IT WILL TAKE TIME to be in a commited same sex relationship even if u love someone damn too much. N i think they reached there by end of 2017 or 2018. imo 2015 was the yr JK began to 'accept' this part of himself n start to make moves ( i believe it was jk to make a move first than wt youtube compilations shows us - the bold n flirty jm ??? ) n by end of 2015 both of them knew they like each other. for me 2016 -17 was yr of testing waters, getting to know both mentally or physcially , there were some insecurities or jealousy involved. yet i cant get vibes of a commited relationship there. ofcourse my opinion only , diff jikookers may have diff timelines according to how we see n percieve things. they had fair share of big n small ups n downs throught the yrs .they evolved n matured n we have today's jikook now.
hey, thank you so much!! 
i hope it’s okay to say a few things in response? 
re 1) rings: exactly, going as far as saying that they’re promise or engagement rings is a little...far fetched imo. i have wondered where this narrative is coming from? back then i went through bvlgari’s products to see if i can find those specific rings but i couldn’t. so either they were custom made, from an older collection or from (a) different brand(s). i know there’s this one picture that ppl love to recycle but i very clearly remember this was from a russian (?) website that wasn’t associated with bvlgari at all. and wasn’t there another pic of km shopping at gucci in the airport in japan that had sparked the bvlgari rumors in the first place? anyway. like you said, some members have matching rings/jewelry. it doesn’t mean they’re in a relationship lol 
re 2) “if someone cant accept a reality that there is a chance km may not be real or someone who does believe km is in a relationship but want them to act always like in romantic movies n if not going around crying km broke up can just stop "shipping km " now. its the best for your mental health“ THIS. i’d like to add that if your mood depends on km interactions or the lack thereof, it’s time to distance yourself. also, it’s very normal that couples don’t act couply all the time and most certainly not in professional settings aka at work which is virtually most of the time we see them... 
re 3) i think the end of 2017/2018 sounds reasonable, although i sometimes think that considering how difficult 2018 was for them, that perhaps they didn’t make it official until 2019 or. but that doesn’t align with some of the things that happened in 2018 so like...i have yet to make up my mind. 
it’s interesting that you think jk made the first move. it’s entirely possible tbh. i actually think that he came to terms with his sexuality way before jm did but perhaps that’s more headcanon than reality. 
depending on where you live being in a same-sex relationship can be someone’s death sentence and i don’t think enough ppl are aware of it. being queer on the internet is fun and games but being queer irl is different story. i grew up in a progressive country, i can’t possibly imagine what it’s like to be queer in a society that’s not as accepting as mine (despite that i’m not out to my entire family) but i am deeply sorry if that’s your reality. my childhood best friend is serbian and for as long as he was living with his parents he basically lived a double life. it took him living abroad to finally accept his homosexuality. i often read that if km are dating, they’re so lucky to have fallen in love with each other. are they though? being who they are there’s so much at stake for them and i just can’t see it as this fairytale love story that some like to label it. i realize this pov might be a bit more controversial so don’t come at me lol 
pls feel free to share more thoughts! 
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mylifeblog814 · 3 years
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Let me guess. You went to Cuba for a long weekend and met a seemingly mysterious and charming local at Fabrica del Arte or at some other paladar in with live music. One kiss and exchange of social media handles later and you’re officially in a relationship. Welcome to Dating a Cuban.
Cubans are notorious for their charm and their confidence toshow you it. We don’t blame you forfalling in lust in a weekend. No one does, not even Camila Caballo in herfamous “Havana” hit song.
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But, I hate to break it to you,you aren’t alone.
If I had a dollar every time someone messaged me (onInstagram) a version of that story, I could buy an overly priced motorcyclealready on this damn island.
Dating a cuban and the love culture in general here is hard to explain and even more complicated to understand. Though, anyone who’s spent significant time here knows what I’m talking about.
In some unspoken language, we all do. We all know what’shappening and we all keep our mouths shut. I mean, after all, it isn’t ourbusiness. But I’m willing to share a few observations I’ve learned over theyears.
So before you recharge a cell-phone or send any moneythrough Western Union, let me try my best to describe and give you some tips onhow things work here on the island of lust.
And by no means is this a blanket explanation of every Cuban-foreign relationship. I myself would be a hypocrite to state that, as I am a Cuban-American engaged to a Cuban-Russian born (its complicated…).
So no, this does not apply toeveryone. But it does, indeed, apply.
1. Cuba’s Bad Economy Creates Avenues of Desperation
First things first: Cuba’s economy. It’s no surprise to anyone that Cuba isn’t exactly experiencing its “Golden” age.
With wages low and opportunities even lower, for many theCuban dream no longer is a dream inside the country.
Cubans look north. They look south. East and west. Just about anywhere but Cuba for their dreams for a better future.
It’s something everyone here seems to have in common. Itunites the country in some bizarre melancholy way and everyone talks about it.It’s the social glue that bonds us all together.
And because of this, Cubans have tried various differentmethods to leave the island or make their situation on it much morecomfortable.
That’s where you come in.
2. Dating a Cuban 101: Jineteros
To the seemingly naïve foreigner,many don’t know what a “Jinetero” is. Though, in Cuban culture, ‘jinetero” is aterm we grow up with.
Jineteros or Jineteras in thesimpliest form are hustlers in any way but most known for being in the sex industry.Whether for a day, a week, or for an entire relationship.
Yes, I said it- an entirerelationship.
We have met some jineteros thatwill fake being in love to continue an ongoing relationship with a foreigner. It’sa sad truth, but it does happen. They will have their own families on theisland and when the foreigner comes, their partner vacates the home and therest of the family plays along. Theywork together for the week.
Of course, like I said not every relationship is this way but if you expect to be dating a Cuban you will absolutely have to know what a jinetero is.
3. It will Be an Expensive Relationship
Expect to pay…. For everything. Unfortunately, few Cubans have the money totake their partners on a proper date to wine and dine them. That shit doesn’t happen here.
If you’re used to your partnerstaking you different places and having them pay or sharing costs, this will definitelytest you.
Because besides the costs ofgoing out to dinner and dates, you will have to get to Cuba and most likelygift them things they and their family needs. Oh yes, the. Family is alwaysincluded in Cuba. Always.
The real costs are maintainingthe relationship. Want to call Cuba?EXPENSIVE AF
Want to talk to them on theinternet? EXPENSIVE AF
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Want them to leave the country with you to start your life together? SUPER SUPER SUPER EXPENSIVE AFFF FOR YEARS.
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4. Cubans Cheat… A Lot
I know this is particularly hardand uncomfortable point to write, but they likelihood of your Cuban cheating onyou while you’re not in Cuba is enormous. Whether you’re okay with it or not, its really apart of the culture.
And weirdly because its so prevalentits still taboo to talk about. Its likewe all know its happening but pretending its not.
Ojos que no ven, Corazon que nosiente (Eyes that do not see, heart that does not feel).
Really though: Cubans cheat andthey do often.
When there’s nothing to do all day and the culture very open with sex in general, the field is wide open. Plus its also very hard to find out what you’re partner is doing inside the low connected island all day.
I recommend having an honesttalk with yourself and your partner about what you expect and your values.
5. Dating a Cuban = Moving Incredibly Fast
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I’m laughing writing this pointup but here’s a typical storyline:
Day 1: You meet and have fun
Day 2: You Meet the Family
Day 3: The Proposal
Ok that’s a bit of anexaggeration, but true. Cubans date insanely fast compared to foreigners.
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For example, foreigners take months to decide if they are actually in a relationship or not, Cubans are moved into their in-laws in a month, have a ring, and call each other “maridos (husband/wife).
I’m serious.
In conclusion, don’t be weirded out (and I am warning you) If you get proposed to on your 3rd or 4th visit and already having their mom calling you her son or daughter in law.
If you think its going too fast,just try to explain to your partner how things are a bit faster than what youare used to. Don’t feel pressured into things if your gut is telling you somethingelse.
Overall:
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If you’re traveling to Cuba as a female solo or in a group, please please read my tips on female travel in Cuba. In short, Cuba is a fun and extremely safe place for females. You’ll just get lots of catcalls! 🙂
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Catching a Cuban eye is veryvery (extremely) easy to do, but knowing what to expect is hard. They will charm the shit out of you but youhave to be careful who really has good intentions, as in any relationship, withanyone, from anywhere.
Many Cuban-Foreign relationshipsare very beautiful and we know many long -lasting ones so of course take this blogwith just precaution.
All I ask is that if he or sheis constantly asking for money or material items to do a hard look. I advisestrongly against be sending large amounts of money on the regular to your Cubanboo.
In other words, have fun and be safe!
If you need help planning, as always let us know!
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oofcori · 4 years
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⌠ ELLA PURNELL, 21, CISFEMALE, SHE/HER ⌡ welcome back to gallagher academy, CORRINE ACCOLA! according to their records, they’re a SECOND year, specializing in THREAT ELIMINATION and SEDUCTION AND FLIRTATION ; and they DID go to a spy prep high school. when i see them walking around in the halls, i usually see a flash of ( plump candy pink lips, cherry-printed socks and curling strands of hair between fingers ). when it’s the (gemini)’s birthday on 5/28/1999, they always request their DUTCH PANCAKES from the school’s chefs. looks like they’re well on their way to graduation. 
her pinterest is here! 
LIL BIO
yo ur homegurl grew up in a small swiss town, her mother, carla, was french, and her father, tobias, was german so they did travel around a lot between the countries while she was young
when she was seven, her parents died in a mysterious fire
corrine was soon placed in the foster system, but not for long as a wealthy family had signed the papers to adopt her quickly. she moved to london with them and resumed a fairly normal life
except when she turned ten a man tried to kill her, her foster parents having to eliminate the threat quickly
which is how corrine came to know of the world of assassins and just exactly who killed her birth parents — turns out they themselves were spies who had tried to retire once they had their daughter. her dad was an elite hacker and her mum was a top assassin in her field, but they wanted better for corrine
her adoptive parents were actually her godparents she never knew and great friends of her her parents
soooo even though it’s the opposite of what her parents wanted for her, cori has been involved in the spy life from a fairly young age ! 
she’s been obsessed with becoming an assassin like her mother for as long as she found out about her tbh !
PERSONALITY
can be high key blair waldorf when she wants to be, but also very charlie kelly and an occasional dwight shrute tbh it depends on who you are she has a billion personalities
prepared to cut people off at any minor inconvenience but also super clingy and needy and will crawl back if she has to ! 
competitive af and a sore loser 
learnt about death from a young age so is very aware she has to live fast since she could die at any time so ??? catch her doing some dumb af stuff — she’s a total yes gal, legit would try anything if offered so
a flirty uncontrollable romantic ??? if she’s not batting her lashes at you, there’s a problem
falls in love every damn day probably more with the imaginative scenarios she forms about your character rather than them themselves ! 
despite being vain and having the biggest ego possible, she wants everyone to share that mentality n she’s super supportive and a hype girl !! love urself, accept urself !! 
can be childish af, especially if she wants attention and ridiculously if she’s not receiving it !! 
her parents totally coddled her, godparents spoiled her, so she’s very needy and craves physical touch a lot — loves cuddling and hugs !! always touching ppl she has to stop !! 
can either be very in your face 24/7 or very distant, her mood is like 99% cheery, optimistic, energetic but she’ll have bad days where it just dips and she’s incredibly depressed and unmotivated and thinking about death all the time !!! such fun !
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she’s a total loser because she likes to think she’s a charlie’s angel or something, you can bet kim possible and totally spies were her favourite shows growing up
do not call her corrine, she will laugh and then punch you. she goes by ‘ cori ‘ which is pronounced cory like as in cory in the house
she is truly an assassin through and through and knows she’s 100% going into that field as soon as she graduates … quite proud about it and will try and prove she’s better than you at anytime 
her dad was german, her mother was french, and she grew up in switzerland so her native languages are german, french and italian. her english is perfect except for the very occasional word that will bring out the teeeeensiest accent. she also knows spanish, mandarin, arabic and russian
speaks broken, mixed up english x french x german when v e r y intoxicated  
can horse ride, a proficient skier and competent climber, loves outdoorsy stuff and sport
so V A I N — she checks herself out in the mirror every morning and knows she’s hot af like why lie??? her parents fc in my head are natalie portman/orlando bloom so she knows where she’s got it from lmao
gets very flirty & giggly, especially when drinking wine, blames it on being half french, would make french sex jokes to seduce u
feels kind of bad that she’s gone into the life her parents didn’t want but also ??? what did they expect ????????
loves colourful socks and things with cute patterns like cherries or dinosaurs and is a mega nerd despite having a sort of queen b persona ?? she loves anime and video games, genuinely a child in a woman’s body tbh ?
truly loves to be nude ??? will use any and every opportunity to take her clothes off, very much supports other people taking their off 
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