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John C. Maxwell

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The Prowler (1951) Joseph Losey

January 27th 2024

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Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it. - John Maxwell

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Algunas veces se gana, algunas veces se aprende.

John Maxwell

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"Change is inevitable. Growth is optional."

- Jonh C.Maxwell

Living abroad changed me by exposing me to new cultures and perspectives, forcing me out of my comfort zone, and teaching me resilience. John C. Maxwell's quote highlights that while change is inevitable, growth requires conscious effort and reflection. In my experience, embracing change as an opportunity for growth led to personal development and transformation.

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The people who do not grow are unwilling to be wrong so they can discover what is right. So they cling to right and they life turn out wrong

John Maxwell

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“People may hear your words, but they feel your attitude.”

—John C. Maxwell

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SpreadJoy #698: spreading positivity with quotes and @playchoices characters.

Quote in edit by John Maxwell

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“As pessoas que alcançam seu potencial pensam em aperfeiçoamento” (John Maxwell)

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Lead Like Jesus

It doesn’t take long before people catch on to bad leaders. Sometimes it’s hard to spot and other times it's far too easy. A person will likely never remember every word that was exchanged in a conversation, but they will however remember how the person made them feel. This is why it’s important to understand how crucial each present moment is and every interaction you have with others. There’s a person I know that people ask me about all the time. In fact, just about everyone I know who happens to meet them say that they give off a bad impression and something is off about them. It is a pretty impressive feat to rub everyone the wrong way immediately. Sadly, as a leader myself (understanding that I have potential to impact everyone within my sphere of influence). I have to somehow find the balance of respecting, honoring and being humble yet bold and direct to this person. What I’ve had to do so far is serve with love. I’ve had to try to show the love of God even during the most testing times. Romans 12:20 says to “feed your enemy when they are hungry, give them drink when they are thirsty and in doing so heaping hot coals upon their heads.” And to not be overcome with evil but overcome evil with good! (Romans 12:21)

I’ve come to understand that it is the goodness of God that leads people to repentance. And if someone won’t listen, we must be the example. We must exemplify the love of Christ, especially when our words will be rejected. Recently, there was a gathering and people were getting up to say kind words about this person. My wife and I both said, “we don’t even know what to say.” Thankfully, probably only by God’s Spirit I actually thought of some kind things to say. And I really meant what I said. This person and I haven’t even been on speaking terms for years. Whenever I would say Hi or Hello, they would literally look away somewhere else. But as I left that meeting, this person shook my hand and said “thank you.” This was a huge deal because I realized, they had never shaken my hand before. Ever since then, every once in a while, they will actually acknowledge my existence. That is a big win.

I’ve encountered many different leaders over the years. I have never encountered anyone like Jesus. His skills as a leader far surpasses anyone else's. I can tell by keeping close watch on the details provided in the gospels. The way he developed his disciples was by doing life with them. He didn’t just say, “show up once a week and be on time.” They got to watch first hand how he handled different situations. The other thing I love about Christ was how well he discerned those that he engaged with. When it came to his disciples, he would take his time with his teachings. When it came to others, he would often use parables. When it came to the religious leaders of the day, he would often correct them. But another thing he did with them was, he discerned their motives. This is something I’m just now learning.

One of my friends has been in a long distance relationship. There have been many red flags. One of them being the fact that she mis-led him for months. When they first started talking, he came up with a great idea to write down their prayers for each other in a notebook and at the end of three months they would share them. After sharing them, they would see how closely their prayers were in alignment. I thought this was a very creative idea. Well, for three months she acted like she was on the same page with him. Once it was time to share the prayers with each other, he found that she wrote down a total of zero prayers. So for three months she had the audacity to mis-lead him. So I felt like she wasted his time when she could have just told him upfront that she didn’t want to do it. It appeared she wasn’t ready for commitment. Many red flags later, she got into an argument with him because he said that Christmas was not literally the day Jesus was born. She started calling him stupid over and over and broke up with him. To top it all off, we found out that the name he knows her by isn’t even her real name. So I got straight with him and said, “block her number and stop talking to her, she’s a counterfeit.” He quickly agreed and said, “I think God is making it very obvious by now.”

A little while later, I got on a three-way call with him and my other brother in the Lord (who was recently converted). And this topic comes up. Except my new brother in the Lord tells him advice that would be good for a married couple, but not for his particular circumstance. He tells him that he needs to go the next twenty days giving her words of affirmation. I was mind blown. Sadly, because of work, I had to get off the phone. When I got back on the call, my friend was praising the new brother in the Lord’s advice. I was perplexed. So I called my friend separately to talk to him individually. I told him it was not good advice and not to talk to that girl anymore. I referred to her as a counterfeit and he goes “so you still think she's a counterfeit?” I was baffled, because both of us had agreed many times over that this was the case. What I came to realize after talking to wise counsel was that before I go on to give people wisdom, I need to discern their hearts' intentions. Because no matter how much you care about someone and want to see them succeed, you may still be casting pearls to swine.

This wise counsel went on to say, the reason he was so quick to talk to the girl again was because he got permission by the newly converted brother in the Lord. He said, when he asked for advice, what he really wanted was permission and you didn’t give it, so he got it elsewhere. So a part of being a good leader, is knowing your audience, using discernment and using wisdom when sharing wisdom.

Another thing to keep in mind is that in order to be a good leader, we must be willing to be a good follower. Proverbs says with wise counsel our plans are established.

Plans are established by seeking advice; so if you wage war, obtain guidance. (Proverbs 20:18)

We’ve all made mistakes, we’ve all been there. But a part of being a good leader means becoming a mature person. We cannot mature spiritually if we haven’t matured emotionally. Because we must not be led by our emotions. This means I must not be frustrated when people don’t listen. Ultimately, God will do the work in people as he perfects them in the coming days. I can plant seeds and water but only God can give real increase. And my prayer as a leader is to provide healthy soil (environment) for people to grow.

I hope to grow in the LORD as His Spirit teaches me more and more as a leader. But what I never want to lose is the reality that I am His student and His disciple first. Because I cannot afford to make anything about myself. If I truly care for God’s kingdom, then I will take care of His sheep with compassion, the way Jesus did.

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Ayer fue un día de enseñanza, estuve en el Centro Penitenciario La Reforma representando a la Fundación Mejoremos Costa Rica, brindé tres mesas del Programa "Transformación Costa Rica" "La transformación está en mí", de John C Maxwell.

Mi mensaje a los privados de libertad del CAI Luis Paulino Mora:

Bienvenidos amigos, Me pidieron que diera un mensaje inspirador, la verdad quiero hablar sobre el cambio y la cultura de paz, sin dar la espalda al tema de la actitud y la Escucha que estos dos últimos serán los temas en las mesas de transformación. Antes que nada quiero decir algo, "una frase que el conferencista español me pidió prestada" No Creaís nada de lo que digo, pero si de algo te sirve lo que te diga, vé y aplicalo a tu vida, y sino , también, puedes cuestionarte. Quiero comenzar recordándoles que cada uno de ustedes tiene un poder increíble dentro de sí mismos: el poder de cambiar, de crecer y de construir un futuro mejor, tanto para ustedes mismos como para quienes les rodean. Yo puedo hablarles toda la tarde, pero no tengo la magia, la buena noticias es que todos, ahora si que todos tenemos el poder de cambiarnos. A lo largo de nuestras vidas, enfrentamos desafíos y obstáculos que pueden parecer insuperables. Pero hoy, aquí , en este espacio, tenemos la oportunidad de desafiar esas adversidades y escribir un nuevo capitulo de nuestras vidas., como diría John Maxwell, una veces ganamos otras veces aprendemos, nosotros decidimos. El cambio no siempre es fácil. Requiere de valentía, determinación y, sobre todo, la voluntad de crecer en uno mismo. Pero cada pequeño paso que damos en dirección al cambio nos acerca un poco más a la libertad, la paz interior y la realización personal. Hoy nos embarcamos juntos en un viaje de autodescubrimiento y crecimiento. A través del poder de la escucha activa, la reflexión honesta, y la disposición para aprender unos de otros, podemos transformar nuestras vidas y nuestras comunidades. Recordemos que la verdadera fuerza no radica en la violencia o la dominación, sino en la capacidad de construir puentes, de cultivar la empatía y de resolver los conflictos de manera pacífica. La cultura de paz comienza dentro de cada uno de nosotros, en nuestras acciones cotidianas y en nuestras relaciones con los demás. A medida que nos sumergimos en estas mesas de transformación John Maxwell nos dice que te sorprenderás todo lo que puede ocurrir, les invita a abrir sus corazones, todo esto sucede si estás dispuesto a hablar con honestidad en estas reuniones, y tienes apertura para un cambio positivo, Juntos, podemos construir un futuro mas brillantes, más justo, y más lleno de esperanza.

Gracias.

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Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it - John Maxwell

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"The pessimist complains about the wind. The optimist expects it to change. The leader adjusts the sails."

John Maxwell - Coach - Author

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