#Propeestplatonic

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Propeestplatonic, Propeestalterous, Propeestsensual, Propeestaquaplatonic, and Propeestqueerplatonic Alt. Flags

Propeest- : An aspec identity which feels like a mix of many (any more than two aspec identities) that all are a part of your identity. From the Latin words “prope est” (meaning close to).

In order, each aspec identity is Aplatonic, Non/Analterous, Asensual, Aquaplatonic, and Aqueerplatonic.

Using my Propeestsexual / Propeestace and Propeestromantic / Propeestaro flag layouts but for the other existing Propeest- terms (plus Aquaplatonic) with flags!

I tried to blend and darken each color on the flags to get one (or in Propeestaqp's case, two) unified color(s) for each identity.

Possible alternative names for each (in order) are Propeestapl, Propeestnonalt, Propeestnonalt, Propeestasen, Popeestaquapla, and Propeestaqp.

Help with ALT text appreciated!

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Oh okay! Thanks for letting me know. I was wondering... Could apl-spec also relate to the fact that you're desire, interest, or energy for a platonic relationship is void, lacks, or frays? Like you still like their company, but trying up held what society has friends do is something you can't really truly fulfill because you're desire isn't strong or fully there sometimes over time? I don't know.

I like having friends, but my idea of platonic love isn't super strong or doesn't seem to be defined how other allos see it I think. I feel very comfortable going in and out because my desire for them isn't super strong at times and sometimes can fray.

And I always feel bad when I prioritize my family or my special interests over friends (I'm not sure my definition of besties is typical. I'm autistic btw so that does sorta have an effect. Idk... The idea of not being super on top with friends instead just chilling and not trying be the perfect host for friends whenever they hang out is kind of freeing for me. Then again I could be just lazy and need to try harder. :/)

I do feeling of fear of missing out and missing them, but I can't really seem to be that involved as much as I wish too sometimes.

Like I said, I don't specifically know other than keeping close friends or friendships are hard sometimes for me especially since I'm autistic and my special interests tend to hold my desire captive the most. I do desire social contact, but I can't really grantee I'm always there 100%

Sorry that this is long, but I kind of needed to vent rn bc platonic relationships are stressing me out as much I do enjoy having them.

You don't have to try harder 🙁

"Like you still like their company, but trying to upheld what society has friends do is something you can't really truly fullfill"

This is relatable.

"Could Apl-spec also relate to the fact that you're desire, interest, energy is void, lacks, or frays?"

Yep

Aplspec just means it's on a spectrum, Voidpl/Voidplatonic and Fraypl/Frayplatonic are on that spectrum as well.

I think you can certainly identify as Aplspec if you want, and if you experience platonic attraction fluctuating maybe you might be Aplflux(Platonicflux/Aplatonicflux)? At least that's how it sounds.

You do also seem to sound Grey/Fray. But I'm not too sure, I don't think I've heard enough here to go by.

I am also Greypl, and I don't experience strong and/or frequent platonic attraction, and it's not necessarily always the same. I have questioned Aplspike before too due to an instance where I felt it strong. (But so strong I guess it became hard to differentiate what type of attraction I was feeling in that moment. But that's besides the point.)

In any case, it is also possible to be all three! If you feel like they all fit you;

Propeestplatonic

Myrplatonic

Such as these. 🙂

Also perhaps your Aplatonicism is also defined by your Autism.

Aplatonicism was also helped developed by those who were ND.

"Sorry that this is long, but I kind of needed to vent rn because platonic relationships are stressing me out"

It's ok. I get it

Relationships can be stressful and you can feel pressured to do obligatory deeds that don't feel like they come naturally to you.

If anyone else wants to, feel free fill in or to make an addendum.

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I’m part of the MOGAI (LGBTQIA+) community.

I’m neither cisgender or hetero, I’m of marginalized gender alignment and marginalized orientation, and I proudly reclaim the word queer (q-spec/queeric). I’m multinominal, but due to trolls and bigots on this site, you can just call me Mer. My pronouns are he/him/his, xe/xem/xyrs, they/them/theirs, and occasionally ve/ver/vis.

I’m transgender. I fluctuate between being a trans man, a nonbinary person, or both at the same time (nonbinaryflux), and I’m fluid amongst nonbinary genders (nonbinaryfluix). I also use the labels nonbinary man, manby, xuy, genderqueer, genderqueer man, genderfluid, genderfluid man, genderflux, manflux, fluidflux, fluidflux man, demifluid, demifluid man, demiflux, demiflux man, demifluidflux, demifluidflux man, demigender, demiman, deminonbinary, bigender, bigenderfluid, bigenderflux, and genderfaunet to describe my identity.

Fluid Between: agender | androgyne | juxera | neutrois | proxvir

I’m on the anattractional spectrum, both a-spec and apl-spec (aplaroace). I’m both aro-spec and ace-spec (aroace). I’m also gray-spec and m-spec. I’m an angled aroace.

Platonic Orientation: aplatonic | grayplatonic | demiplatonic | apresplatonic | propeestplatonic | myrplatonic

Aesthetic Orientation: multiaesthetic | biaesthetic | panaesthetic | omniaesthetic

Queerplatonic Orientation: gayqueerplatonic

Alterous Orientation: aliquisalterous

Sensual Orientation: multisensual | bisensual | pansensual | omnisensual

Romantic Orientation: aromantic | grayromantic: graymultiromantic / graybiromantic / graypanromantic / grayomniromantic | demiromantic: demimultiromantic / demibiromantic / demipanromantic / demiomniromantic | culparomantic: culpamultiromantic / culpabiromantic / culpapanromantic / culpaomniromantic | quasiromantic: quasimultiromantic / quasibiromantic / quasipanromantic / quasiomniromantic | multiromantic | biromantic | panromantic | omniromantic

Sexual Orientation: asexual | graysexual: graymultisexual / graybisexual / graypansexual / grayomnisexual | demisexual: demimultisexual / demibisexual / demipansexual / demiomnisexual | multisexual | bisexual | pansexual | omnisexual

Juvelic Orientation: pluralian | diamoric | duaric (mlw) | ultric (mlw) | romeric (mlw) | achillean (mlm) | astroidian (mln) | astronic (mln) | enbian (nln)

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Orientations I Can Make Edits For (N-Z)

Hello everyone! In case anyone happens to be wondering what labels/identities you can request for me to use in edits (moodboards, flag and name edits, etc.), I’m posting lists of which ones that I’m able to make edits for.

The list will be under the cut.

Genders (A-M) | Genders (N-Z) | Alignments | Intersex Terms | Orientations (A-M) | Orientations (N-Z) | Non-Mono Terms

(The links to the other posts will be added later)

N

nanox-

nebula- (I don’t have the flag for the general orientation, but I have flags for specific orientations under it)

nebularomantic

neu-

neuro a-/neuroa-

neuro- (I don’t have the flag for the general orientation, but I have flags for specific orientations under it)

neuroalterous

neuroplatonic

neuroquasiplatonic/neuroqueerplatonic/neuroquirkyplatonic

neuroromantic

neurosensual

neurosexual

neut-

nin-

ninalterous

ninromantic

ninsensual

nocisma-

nofin-

nofinalterous

nofinromantic

nofinsensual

noma-/noman-

nomalterous/nomanalterous

nomanromantic/nomaromantic

nomansensual/nomasensual

nomin-

nominalterous

nominromantic

nominsensual

nonin-

noninalterous

noninromantic

noninsensual

notho- (I don’t have the flag for the general orientation, but I have flags for specific orientations under it)

nothoalterous

nothoplatonic

nothoquasiplatonic/nothoqueerplatonic/nothoquirkyplatonic

nothoromantic

nothosensual

nothosexual

novi-

noviromantic

novo-

nowoma-/nowoman-

nowomalterous/nowomanalterous

nowomanromantic/nowomaromantic

nowomansensual/nowomasensual

O

omni-

omniflexible

omniromantic

P

pan-

panalterous

panflux

panquasiplatonic/panqueerplatonic/panquirkyplatonic

panromantic

panromantiflux

pansensual

pentho- (I don’t have the flag for the general orientation, but I have flags for specific orientations under it)

penthoalterous

penthoplatonic

penthoquasiplatonic/penthoqueerplatonic/penthoquirkyplatonic

penthoromantic

penthosensual

penthosexual

penulti-

penultialterous

penultiquasiplatonic/penultiqueerplatonic/penultiquirkyplatonic

penultiromantic

penultisensual

perirepuls-

perospike

placio-

placioromantic

plat-/platoni-

platonifocal (acespec/arospec)/platonifocal (general)

pluralian

polar-

polaralterous

polarplatonic

polarquasiplatonic/polarqueerplatonic/polarquirkyplatonic

polarromantic

polarsensual

polarsexual

poly-

polyalterous

polyflux

polyquasiplatonic/polyqueerplatonic/polyquirkyplatonic

polyromantic

polyromantiflux

polysensual

polypan-

polypanromantic

pomo-

pomoalterous

pomoplatonic

pomoquasiplatonic/pomoqueerplatonic/pomoquirkyplatonic

pomoromantic

pomosensual

pomosexual

praes-

pre-

procul-

proculalterous

proculplatonic

proculquasiplatonic/proculqueerplatonic/proculquirkyplatonic

proculromantic

proculsensual

proculsexual

propeest- (I don’t have the flag for the general orientation, but I have flags for specific orientations under it)

propeestalterous

propeestplatonic

propeestquasiplatonic/propeestqueerplatonic/propeestquirkyplatonic

propeestromantic

propeestsensual

propeestsexual

proqua-

proqualterous

proquaromantic

proquasensual

proquu-

proquualterous

proquuromantic

proquusensual

Q

QPOC/queer people of color

quad-

quadflux

quadromantic

quadromantiflux

quasiplatonic/queerplatonic/quirkyplatonic

quasiromantic

quint-

quintflux

quintromantic

quintromantiflux

quoi-/what-/WTF-

R

recip-/recipro-

recipalterous/reciproalterous

recipplatonic/reciproplatonic

recipquasiplatonic/recipqueerplatonic/recipquirkyplatonic/reciproquasiplatonic/reciproqueerplatonic/reciproquirkyplatonic

recipromantic/reciproromantic

reciprosensual/recipsensual

reciprosexual/recipsexual

reflecti-

reflectialterous

reflectiplatonic

reflectiquasiplatonic/reflectiqueerplatonic/reflectiquirkyplatonic

reflectiromantic

reflectisensual

repuls-

requies-

S

sans-

sansromantic

sapphic

schrö-/schrödi- (I don’t have the flag for the general orientation, but I have flags for specific orientations under it)

schrödiromantic/schröromantic

sensual (acespec/arospec)

sensualarian

senti- (I don’t have the flag for the general orientation, but I have flags for specific orientations under it)

sentialterous

sentiplatonic

sentiquasiplatonic/sentiqueerplatonic/sentiquirkyplatonic

sentiromantic

sentisensual

sentisexual

sexually undefined/queer

singulu-

somnio-

somnioalterous

somnioplatonic

somnioquasiplatonic/somnioqueerplatonic/somnioquirkyplatonic

somnioromantic

somniosensual

specio-

specioromantic

T

tempu-

terraric

thym-

thymromantic

tri-

triflux

triromantic

triromantiflux

U

uniattraction

unialterous

uniplatonic

uniquasiplatonic/uniqueerplatonic/uniquirkyplatonic

uniromantic

unisensual

unisexual

V

venusic

vex-/vexe- (I don’t have the flag for the general orientation, but I have flags for specific orientations under it)

vexalterous/vexealterous

vexeplatonic/vexplatonic

vexequasiplatonic/vexequeerplatonic/vexequirkyplatonic/vexquasiplatonic/vexqueerplatonic/vexquirkyplatonic

vexeromantic/vexromantic

vexesensual/vexsensual

vexesexual/vexsexual

volit-

W

woma-/woman-

womalterous/womanalterous

womanromantic/womaromantic

womansensual/womasensual

womansensualflex/womasensualflex

X

xum-

xumalterous

xumplatonic

xumquasiplatonic/xumqueerplatonic/xumquirkyplatonic

xumromantic

xumsensual

xumsexual

Y

none

Z

none

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The MOGAI The Better

I’m part of the MOGAI (LGBTQIA+) community.

I’m neither cisgender or hetero, I’m of marginalized gender alignment and marginalized orientation, and I proudly reclaim the word queer (q-spec/queeric). I’m multinominal, but due to trolls and bigots on this site, you can just call me Mer. My pronouns are he/him/his, xe/xem/xyrs, they/them/theirs, and occasionally ve/ver/vis.

I’m transgender. I fluctuate between being a trans man, a nonbinary person, or both at the same time (nonbinaryflux), and I’m fluid amongst nonbinary genders (nonbinaryfluix). I also use the labels nonbinary man, manby, xuy, genderqueer, genderqueer man, genderfluid, genderfluid man, genderflux, manflux, fluidflux, fluidflux man, demifluid, demifluid man, demiflux, demiflux man, demifluidflux, demifluidflux man, demigender, demiman, deminonbinary, bigender, bigenderfluid, bigenderflux, and genderfaunet to describe my identity.

Fluid Between: agender | androgyne | juxera | neutrois | proxvir

I’m on the anattractional spectrum, both a-spec and apl-spec (aplaroace). I’m both aro-spec and ace-spec (aroace). I’m also gray-spec and m-spec. I’m an angled aroace.

Platonic Orientation: aplatonic | grayplatonic | demiplatonic | apresplatonic | propeestplatonic | myrplatonic

Aesthetic Orientation: multiaesthetic | biaesthetic | panaesthetic | omniaesthetic

Queerplatonic Orientation: gayqueerplatonic

Alterous Orientation: aliquisalterous

Sensual Orientation: multisensual | bisensual | pansensual | omnisensual

Romantic Orientation: aromantic | grayromantic: graymultiromantic / graybiromantic / graypanromantic / grayomniromantic | demiromantic: demimultiromantic / demibiromantic / demipanromantic / demiomniromantic | culparomantic: culpamultiromantic / culpabiromantic / culpapanromantic / culpaomniromantic | quasiromantic: quasimultiromantic / quasibiromantic / quasipanromantic / quasiomniromantic | multiromantic | biromantic | panromantic | omniromantic

Sexual Orientation: asexual | graysexual: graymultisexual / graybisexual / graypansexual / grayomnisexual | demisexual: demimultisexual / demibisexual / demipansexual / demiomnisexual | multisexual | bisexual | pansexual | omnisexual

Juvelic Orientation: pluralian | diamoric | duaric (mlw) | ultric (mlw) | romeric (mlw) | achillean (mlm) | astroidian (mln) | astronic (mln) | enbian (nln)