#Transabuse

[tobyisms]

need someone that's obsessed with me that i can toy with and when i get bored, toss them away like they're nothing. until days, maybe even weeks or months later, when i get bored again and come back to fuck with them.

but they're still there and willing, desperate for any scrap, any shred of affection and attention i'll give them until i inevitably find interest in other things.

and then the cycle repeats.

[vampi-rq]

Transcontrolling

A transharmful/transabuse/transabusive/transabuser subterm for one who identifies as controlling [their partner/friend/etc.]

This term is not exclusive to romantic relationship abuse, this term is explicitly inclusive of different types of abusive interpersonal relationships.

[rqpawz]

(,,>ヮ<,,) : transwildnesssurvivor — a trans - id term under the transtrauma / transharmed umbrella where someone feels as if they should've gone through wilderness survival camp , or desires to go through wilderness survival camp .

[s1llyfreakx3]

°• Some song recommendations for transgroomed/manipulated/abused folx, or generally those who want music about abusive/toxic/manipulative relationships :3 (focusing on like what transgroomed is like for me)

• "hands clean" by Alanis Morisette (90s pop about groomer grooming, and how he just got away with it and kept his metaphorical hands clean)

• "i threw glass at my friend's eyes and now I'm on probation" by Destroy Boys (punk rock, about the complicated feelings of both hating your groomer and wanting to stay with them) (THIS IS SUCH A GOOD SONG LISTEN TO IT PLEASE)

•"i hope you're hungry" by Sodikken ("misery meat" on some platforms) (weirdcore-y, using a nice cannibalism metaphor for letting yourself be abused in a relationship) ("people eater" is like the song that goes with it which is from the POV of the abuser)

•"i miss the misery" by Halestorm (metal/rock/idk genres, about missing the abuse of an abusive relationship)

•"vixen" by Destroy Boys (punk rock, sapphic, "trouble waits for a victim/I wouldn't mind being yours/seduce me, I'll come back for more")

•"all you wanna do" from Six the musical (about being groomed and manipulated multiple times, every time thinking the guy is the right one for you but they all just want to use you + like humour as a coping mechanism??)

•"drown me" by Junie & TheHutFriends (very weird /pos, about being in a toxic relationship but wanting that? Idk how to explain it it's very non-literal, also stuff like "would you like to see my world" "i see why I've never felt this way before".)

[gearbox-doll]

TRANSATTACHMENTTHERAPY !

TransAttachmentTherapy is a transharmed/transtrauma ID where someone feels like they should have gone through, wants to have gone through, has gone through, wants to go through, etc, Attachment Therapy, which is a pseudoscientific practice meant to help adopted/foster children bond with their new caretakers. It's also sometimes referred to as "rebirthing", as a common act was to force the child into regressing into an infantile state where they could then be "re-parented" by their new guardians.

The flag is meant to invoke imagery of someone laying within a stack of blankets, as a reference to the Candace Newmaker case.

[ID: an image of a five-striped flag with a circle in the middle. The stripes of the flag, from top to bottom, are dark pink, dark green, light golden yellow, dark blue, and dark purple. The circle in the middle is a pale flesh tone and lined in dark red.]

[clowninguhround]

Angel4angel qpr, 10/10, highly recommend. Never have two perfect beings made such a perfect unison. Throw in a transharmed4harmful dynamic, and that's basically icing on the cake. Bonus if one or both of you is a narc because talking about how unparalleled the divinity is gets 10x spicer when you know you're better than anyone else

Anyway, this is about my darling kitty boygirl angel ghost, I love echo dearly

And I'm conspiring to eat your partner alive if I get the chance so you're all mine

Happy 4/20, everyone!!

[sillyfreakx5]

omg ACTUALLY

funny dream i had last night that's so transabused/manipulated vibes ✨

Basically, I had a boyfriend and likee idk i said i thought of something funny, but then he was asking me what the thing was and for some reason I didn't want to say it despite him kinda pressuring me so then he like kissed a random ass girl while i was watching? ('twas a monogamous dream relationship) and likee with tears in my eyes and feeling SO SHIT and insecure and like absolutely awful, and i just drew the funny thing i had thought of and he said something along the lines of "hmm you'll know not to hide stuff in the future"

and then AFTERWARDS i went to be sad in the school bathroom or something idk, and then i was like "why is that actually so hot looking back ;_;"

like even in dreams I'm like WHY DO I WANT THIS SHIT XDDD

but also like ughh. emotional abuse >///<

(obvious disclaimer that I don't think shit like this irl is a good thing and am not promoting it or whatever)

[jaybirdnlexi]

Us when

[hospital-after-dark]

Creating the perfect lab rat to obey My every word, My every command but there is only so much you can do to one subject. Eventually the experiments will run their course and a new purpose will come for My little lab rat.

A pet, My pet whose whole existence revolves around Me. Every need, every want, left up to My mercy. How could I not adore something so weak and pathetic?

Eventually cutting off their limbs which only makes them more dependent on Me not only during the healing but afterwards too- they must relearn how to live and of course I will right next to them whispering that I'm all they need and to let Me take care of them.

[tobyisms]

i want to ruin your life. i want to make you feel safe and comfortable with me, make you believe that, oh, i could never ever hurt you! :)

only to viciously play with your emotions.

i want to make you think i'm dependent on you just for you to wake up one day and realize you're the one that's dependent. you're the one that's clinging on for dear life. i could leave anytime i wanted to.

except, i couldn't, because hurting you is just too goddamn fun.

[vampi-rq]

Transneglectful

A transharmful/transabusive term for when one is, desires to be, or considers themself neglectful.

[wallsrclosingin]

i need someone to hurt me so bad

i need it

i need to be taken advantage of

[rqranboo]

if any transharmful ppl want to mess with a transharmed/transabused drunk vampire hmu, limited time only. im bodily 21, please do not be sexual with me unless you're a chrono adult - this is for legal reasons. You understand <3

im allsooo transprogramed if anyone wants to mess with that, ehe mwah twirling my hair. It is a battle to type. >:3

[s1llyfreakx3]

TW: manipulation, abusive relationship, grooming in the manipulation way

(also I think this counts as romanticising them, but still portrayed as negative just in the unreliable narrator way)

Self indulgent transgroomed scenario that AAAAAAAA /pos ;w;

I want to talk to someone friendly and nice. But then they would slowly start toeing boundaries. I might notice and ask them to stop, and they would apologise, maybe draw back a bit, but return to their previous behaviour within a few days. They'd keep gradually going further and further, but it's normal to often be uncomfortable in relationships, right? We'd be talking about something I like, I'd be stimming with happiness but then they'd suddenly say something uncomfortable, that'd make me fall silent. My hand would start shaking in that awkward, nervous way, and I wouldn't know what to say or how to react. So I'd just laugh nervously, or try and do whatever I thought they wanted me to do. It's my fault for not being good enough at socialising, that's the only reason why I'm feeling so uncomfortable and why there's so many ups and downs in how I feel around them. Whenever I did something wrong, made a mistake in how I should act around people, they'd point it out. I mean that's good, it's fair if some of my behaviours are weird or are making them feel uncomfortable. They'd point out stuff I knew were problems, like forgetting to answer messages or rambling about a boring topic for too long. But they'd also tell me stuff I didn't realise were so weird and uncomfortable for others. And soon I'd realise that it's normal to do whatever they want, and that I'm a bad person if I try making a scene about something. I've always had problems with being too dramatic, and I can't let this happen here. I'd just go along with whatever they said, even if it would have been unthinkable to me just a couple months ago.

[0-not-active-anymore-0]

Oh nooo I'm in a really bad space mentally right now. It'd be such a shame if someone took advantage of that or something *bats my eyelashes cutely*

[clowninguhround]

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