#VictimMentality

[monriatitans]

QUOTE OF THE DAY Saturday, October 15, 2022

"Today is a new day. Don't let your history interfere with your destiny! Let today be the day you stop being a victim of your circumstances and start taking action towards the life you want. You have the power and the time to shape your life. Break free from the poisonous victim mentality and embrace the truth of your greatness. You were not meant for a mundane or mediocre life!" - Steve Maraboli

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[humayfoubelle]

I hate the word 'victim mentality'. As if anyone can choose to be a victim. They either are one or aren't. It's depressing to see people criticize our normal reactions to the horrible things that happen in our lives instead of questioning the system and abusive people.

[tonyfahkry]

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[filipino-millennial-mindset]

Filipino Victim Mentality

[icouldnthelpbutremember]

I wonder… was she accused of being victim? Was she wrongfully sentenced to misery? That’s the deceitful tragedy with “victim”. The thing is once you fall into the fangs of misfortune, you are tainted.. first as “victim” and that makes you instantly the accused. It instantly makes you a part of the crime and you become the center of a ripple affect to pass on misfortune and misery to those nearest to you.. So I wonder, can she be blamed for all the malignant misery, fear, and worthlessness she passed on to the ones that should’ve gotten nothing but love from her.. The word unfortunate becomes very deep when I look in her heart.. I wonder if she was never “victim”, what kind of a soul could she have become? Would she have been a doctor perhaps or a fashion designer..? Would she have been deserving of the gift of “motherhood”..? The thing is, how deep could you trace this sepsis to get to the root where the seeds of failure were planted? And if you were to do that, would she be forgiven for all the souls she broke… would she be forgiven because she herself was shattered? After all the years, I still don’t know much.. but I can finally say, I know one thing… may her God give her the love she never had.. may her God rest to peace the “victim” inside of her. By: icouldnthelpbutremember Art: Anna Matykiewicz #victimmentality #victim #supportwomen #generationaltrauma #writersofinstagram #femalewriters #heal #icouldnthelpbutremember #broken #motherhood #beautifulart #artlover https://www.instagram.com/p/Cl9dpKUpIRx/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[quotefinityofficial]

Some people love being victims because they love being able to blame someone else. Accountability is too much for them. They don't like being responsible for who've they become or where they are in life. — Anonymous #Quotefinity #quotes #quote #qotd #quoteoftheday #victimmentality #accountability https://www.instagram.com/p/CjdPQ1TrseP/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[kissingdepressionlovinglife]

Severed Relationship

Apologizing to an individual with a victim mentality is impossible. That does not mean you shouldn’t—but only if you are sincere. Never let your ego be bigger than the relationship at stake.

Today, I did just that. I was met with hostility, unforgiveness, and a severed relationship. The truth is, although it hurts, I will live. I don’t buy into the whole “But that’s your family” jargon. I buy into the “You can’t pick your family, so choose your friends/significant other wisely” jargon.

The victim mentality is strong with this family member and always has been. Everything is always someone else’s fault. Isn’t where they want to be in life because of this or that, but yet when I give advice or encouragement, they give excuses.

A playful tap to the head during Thanksgiving dinner was spun into a “YOU HIT ME” saga. Instead of communicating effectively like a 30 something year old should, he instead likes to try to intimidate women (I mean the multiple arrests for domestic violence against his girlfriends should tell you something), to which I don’t intimate easily. So my energy matched his in that moment and he didn’t like that I didn’t back down. I would have apologized right then and we could have moved forward, but no, he felt the need to let his temper fly over a playful tap to his head. Which by the way, if you have siblings, know that playful taps here and there are common. We have done this to one another many times throughout our childhood and adulthood. Let’s be clear about a few things, this individual has, on multiple occasions, physical attacked all of us immediate family members in alcohol induced rages---and EXPECTS us to forgive and forget without so much as an apology. Never once have I heard the words “I’m sorry”; “I take responsibility”; “I was wrong” come out of his mouth.

I am the oldest (living) sibling and since my playful tap did upset him I apologized later that day. He advised me to “save it for someone who cares”. The thing about apologies is—they don’t have to be accepted. It is entirely up to the person who is receiving the apology whether or not to accept it. He didn’t accept it and I just simply responded with “Alright cool.” As in that’s fine, I understand you don’t accept it. He is my brother, he knows how I speak. His reply immediately went to victimhood “You just can’t apologize can you?” Pretty sure I just did bro…

Long story short, he took a playful tap, made it out to be that I beat him and no longer wants me in his life. I find it humorous that he has physically came after me, thrown things at me, called me everything under the sun. Physically attacked our younger brother multiple times, choked him to the point that I had to pull him off of him. Attacked our mom, tried to break down her bedroom door to get to her. Has broken our dad’s nose, attacked him several times. Has been arrested on multiple occasions for domestic violence against his past girlfriends…….but I’m the piece of the shit because of a playful tap.

In conclusion--- some things are a blessing in disguise. Some relationships, blood or not, are not worth fighting for anymore. And although apologies are hard, you should still apologize—and you can’t be mad when it’s not accepted. I’m not mad that he didn’t accept my apology—that’s his right. I’m not mad he wants me out of his life. I’m perturbed at the fact that he has done worse to this family, has never apologized, and trying to make it out like I’m a horrible human being. Especially when at times, I was the ONLY sibling that he had that would still talk to him. You can only burn a bridge so many times before that bridge will no longer be rebuilt—and I am no longer available for construction.

[mutt-victim]

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[deathsmallcaps]

I opened up the YouTube app and this was the first thing that played. Didn’t know they would just start auto playing stuff now 😬.

Peterson is listed on his Wikipedia page as conservative. Ekpunobi literally works at PragerU. The company that desperately wants to discredit Black history and shut down critical race theory education in American schools.

Really makes you think about what YouTube is pushing. I mostly use YouTube for music, funny tiktok compilations because I can’t be bothered, animal videos, animatics/short films and the occasional tv show clip. As far as I know, there’s nothing in my history that ‘should’ve’ pointed me to such a video.

Be careful guys. YouTube has done a lot of stupid and unethical stuff over the years, and now there’s this shit.

To those who are unsure: You’re not a victim for taking pride in your own autonomy. You’re not teaching your children to be victims when you’re teaching them to say no. You’re not a victim for actively promoting strategies to protect your body and soul from historical shows of power. There’s a difference in celebrating the variances of the human species and othering, and assholes want you to forget that and feel guilty about your own discomfort.

I hope Ekpunobi sees the light some day soon and stops working for PragerU.

[thegoodlifewithben]

Personal responsibility is the mother of well-being and is a must have for success, total health, great relationships, self confidence and so much more. Life is miserable without it. Find out more in my latest blog about this. #PersonalDevelopment #LifeMastery #BenShomer #VictimMentality #Empowerment #EmpoweringQuotes

[verticalmomentum1]

Like Ed Mylett Told Me “Nothing Ever Happened TO You It Happened FOR You And Everything Is A Teachable Moment.

We Can Be A VICTOR Or A VICTIM, Our Choice.

I Choose VICTORY!

You?

#victimmentality #victory #mindset

[quotefinityofficial]

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