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#accomodated to sayibg they? do they say she in private to friends. do they refer to me as a gender im not when im not present
mejomonster
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4 months
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Being nonbinary and dressing feminine sometimes despite very much not being a woman is. Its like hello strangers hello new friends im making please dont immediately steamroll
#contemplating a lot
#rant
#feel free to ignore
#i just. so like. im very nonbinary
#which i suppose many nonbinary people are
#to the point im like. well i cant go to a transmasc support group or a transfem support group cause i doubt either would
#see me as someonr who fits (wish my city had a general trans meetup but we arent big enough i guess)
#i know I KNOW theres a bunch of cisgender fucks who think nonbinary = woman and it drives me up a Fucking wall
#i know theres (even more ouch) a portion of lesbians and queer ppl who see nonbinary as woman-lite or feminine man
#and just dont fucking put in the effort to grasp what being outside man or woman (or overlapping) could be
#(probably ovdrlaps w ppl who refuse to grasp pansexuality or bisexuality)
#and like. when i was young? maybe i wouldve seen myself as a trans man
#but when that didnt totally fit i felt well. maybe bigender then. nonbinary. yeah that fits i suppose
#or maybe i am a trans man who just doesnt want to change myself for societal pressure
#but i do relate to being a woman too? so nonbinary feels best. but i certainly dont feel like a woman
#im okay with she he they. but if i tell strangers theyll usually default to ONE so i just say
#THEY so strangers dont immediately try to basically pretend im not nonbinary by sticking to another pronoun they feel is easier to them
#and if i say They the fact remains: are these new strangers or friends dicks who dont respect my gender even tho they
#accomodated to sayibg they? do they say she in private to friends. do they refer to me as a gender im not when im not present
#idk i have been... interacting with a lot of straight dudes lately. and im like? im bi and nonbinary so im like. well if ur straight dude im
#not sure u would even Wanna date me? u are aware im a dude too? are u okay with that? can u respect that???
#which has NEVER happened to me before. cause i only dated bi guys nonbinary peeps like me or nonbinary lesbians
#ive never dated a person i feared may actually not see me as I Actually Am and have accepted iy
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