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mar64ds · 1 year

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I feel like most undertale main characters have gone through so much trauma related to their families that seeing sans and papyrus be a happy family might make them emotional but ultimately share that happiness with them. I think their brotherly love is so essential to this friend group, even if it's just by telling puns

#this does not get explored enough. like the only character i think doesn't have family related trauma is alphys #everyone else it seems like something bad has happened in their families at some point #undyne? yeah i think she likely lost her parents at a young age #and even sans and papyrus have their own family related trauma too because they lost their dad #but they have each other and they can be happy #and everyone can heal and be happy too #deltaruneundertale

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lucabyte · 19 days

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Olive Branch

Wrong Move

#bad touch... 2! anyway to save everyone from a novella in the tags i will be replying to this post afterward with some directors commentary #EDIT: go look in the replies for a link to my director's commentary with bonus thumbnails #this has been sat around for like 2-3 months unfinished for reasons i will expand upon there. lol #isat spoilers #isat #isat fanart #isat siffrin #isat loop #isat isabeau #isafrin #isiloop #sifloop #sloops #sloopis #in stars and time #in stars and time fanart #lucabyteart #emplore u to not look at the anatomy too hard here because i basically took the executive decision to IGNORE THAT SHIT to get this finished #so its absolutely scuffed as is the spacial reasoning of the whole thing. theyre just laid next to each other in a bed/on a bedroll #just bc i have no fucking clue how clear any of that is. like at all #also i do promise that most of the time when im bashing the dolls together in my head it is like 90% yay what if they healed and were happy #but like. im not drawing that. lol. everyone else can go do that. im here to articulate concepts rather than make nice emotions #so . priorities. anyway sorry isabeau being tied up in this unfinished larger comic meant i didnt draw u for ages elsewhere #theres enough isafrin out there i dont need to contribute

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puppyeared · 9 months

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i wrote this as a joke because I wanted to strangle a guy watching tiktoks without headphones on the bus, but im genuinely disturbed that we've gotten to a point where convenience comes first. and it depresses me even more that its used to justify and monetize greed

#like we have so many ways of doing things that could help us in the long run but because we're told it requires more work we just cant #its too resource intensive. or maybe its too much to maintain. we have to overlook benefits so money can go into more important things #we teach each other to do things a certain way so it works for everyone but who was it convenient for first? what abt who it might hurt?#i have to wonder if the rules our current system uses is worth listening to or following if it doesnt have our best interests in mind. u an #me and the ppl around us.. would we be better off if i ate my meals knowing the person who grew it wanted to feed others the way they could #feed themselves? and that isnt to say we're going to be happy doing it but i guess satisfied that its helping someone instead of quietly #accepting that itll eventually go in the dumpster behind a grocery store because it stopped looking appetizing or it wasnt on sale anymore #what about building homes so we can shelter each other? what if we were satisfied with what we did because we knew it would be paid back #with kindness? isnt that what we evolved to do?? heal each others bones and tell stories and help each other??#why dont houses come with solar panels or generators unless we find a way to make people pay to use the sun? why is our pooled money used #to fund genocides instead of education and hospitals? whose interests and convenience came first when we started this??#i wont pretend to know the answer because i dont. but we all know we're miserable and im sorry to say that i cant see myself fighting #for a world that wont fight for me too. why do we work if we cant live from it?? why did they stop us from plucking more teeth from our #bosses until they could build more walls around themselves and then go back to underpaying us??#im so tired. i cant even imagine making it to age 70 #yapping #vent

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puhpandas · 3 days

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I think the reason beckory works well is that tony has a habit of getting self righteous and in his own head about things but Gregory isnt afraid to tell him off or call him out about things. the point of tony in ggy is that nobody ever told him that how hes treating other people isnt good, so that's why he got so bad. but tony would be close to Gregory and have every rational reason in the world to listen to Gregory so when he would say something like "you're treating ellis badly and that's not what a good friend does, you need to do better" hed actually listen and take it into account and improve himself

#everyone in ggy is oblivious but gregory wouldnt be #hed be used to flawed people by being family with vanessa and freddy and best friends with cassie #and in turn tony #so when tony showcases traits of being flawed he cares about him and can look past them bc he knows tony is a good person #but he also keeps him in check when he goes too far #gregory who would fight someone so intensely he would be put in the hospital if someone insulted cassie:#tony you shouldnt resent ellis and say hes annoying just because he doesnt know all about this journalist from the 1920s #i think the concept of Gregory trying to be normal and live a normal life with 3 star fam and actively having to make it happen #is interesting #bc i feel like tony is so abnormal and has become disconnected from reality especially in a scenario where he lives after the ggy attack #that interacting wiht gregory whos so strange and interesting and mysterious but also has both feet rooted in the present and reality #would do him a lot of good #just make him finally take a step back and see the bigger picture and take a chill pill #also its ironic bc gregory is secretly in his head trying soo hard to be normal and do normal things #and it appears so effortless to Tony that it literally fixes him #i love thinking gregory and others relationships as Gregory not really doing anything but he still affects ppl so heavily #like gregory just existing and freddy developing a soul and sentience and finding a will to live and a purpose after dropping lead singer #gregory almost accidentally saving vanessa and just existing in her life being someone she wants to live for #giving her the motivation to get back up and eventually allowing her to heal enough to want to enjoy life by herself #Gregory doing nothing but being cassies friend and it changes her after a lifetime of abandonment #to the point where it makes her happy and fufilled and brings out the determination and bravery in her #and finally gregory with tony where him just being in tonys life not trying hard to help him out and change his way of seeing life #actually does the most to change his life and shows him that he can view things differently and that now #he finds that he WANTS to #pandas.txt #3 star fam #beckory #superstar duo #gregory #tony

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wereh0gz · 3 months

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Guess who's thinking up a new au to make themself sad with

#ramblings #spoiler alert IT'S MEEEEE #so basically. sonic unleashed bad ending #sonic fails to stop dark gaia somehow. the world is thrown into ruin but he manages to survive somehow #maybe thanks to chip #but now he's stuck in werehog form in a ruined world overrun with dark gaia minions #and as far as he knows. everyone he knew and loved is gone #and he has to live with that. the weight of his failure haunting him for the rest of his life #i. have been in a angst mood ok #there's a happy twist in there i swear i just gotta figure out how it plays out exactly #maybe years later he finds out some of his friends managed to survive and gets to meet them again #shadow definitely survives he's the ultimate lifeform. he's gotta #maybe tails and amy manage to flee to angel island since it isn't affected by everything on the surface #so them and knux are alright. for post apocalypse standards #ooh maybe chip never gets sealed back into the planet's core like dark gaia #maybe sonic helps him find a way to restore his power so that he can start to heal the world and stuff #the ideas are flowing rn too bad it's like almost midnight and i gotta sleep

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sysig · 8 months

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I can’t see a damn thing

#DQIX #WPDQIX #WPVG #Where are my glasses!#So anyway I finally beat this save lol #Well - made it to postgame anyhow #Which is long haha #Everyone still sub 50 level-wise! That's remained consistent #Although a lot of extra levels in other vocations to build up points #I cannot BeLieve Goresby-Purrvis TKO'd me on my first attempt back - I was well-leveled! I was fine!#RNG >:(#We beat him the second go around - after I looked up a guide to make sure I wasn't trying to fight him way underleveled lol #No I was actually over by like.......5-8lvs............................#His OHKO move is way too OP he managed to successfully roll it Twice in his turns >:0 Hate that furry #Anyway the rest were a cake walk lol #Like yeah I went and healed after Barbarus but aside from that I didn't even bother pfft #I didn't realize I had so little of the main campaign left! Like I'm happy to be in postgame now but dang I could've done this way sooner #I'll run around with the Express after a bit ♪ Wanna see if I can unlock some of the other vocations and collect more clothes #Do a full aesthetic run lol - finish out the Mini Medals sidequest #Plenty to do yet!#Then I really wanna look into a recording setup for my 3DS hmnn #I don't really want to send this lad away to get rigged up - and I have been looking to buy a new one but hmmnnn #I dunno #Worst case I just stream with DeSmuMe lol #I'd love a physical copy of Kuzu's adventure <3 But I also can't deny the usefulness of save states #Going back to the church every time is....Mm #I wonder if there are any USB DS controls I could use :0 That's be great I love the way the buttons feel #Still - it being a slower paced game wouldn't make it particularly demanding haha

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hopeinthebox · 4 months

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tagged by my beloved no.1 chappell roan stan @cordiallyfuturedwight thanks my darling <33 i can only apologise for the lack of ms roan here... i swear good luck babe has been on repeat i don't know what happened

tagging the usual suspects, apologies if i've already missed yours: @aprylynn @jiminsproof @thvinyl @cosmicdreamgrl @visionsofgideontheninth @hoseeok @kimchokejin @jihopesjoint @monismochi <333 and you dear reader

oh and see here for more of my self-proclaimed songs of the summer if you're interested in that kind of thing

#director's commentary--#comin' around again - they call her amber MARK because she never misses. this one is particularly delicious #the thrill is gone - it's stunning. listening to raye again to prepare myself for genesis #bring back the seven minute songs i say!!#i'm fighting my own diminished attention span tooth and nail but i'm losing badly because i keep getting distracted #helen of troy - we all moved on from solar power a little too quickly actually this summer we should throw our cellular devices in the wate #whatcha doing - yeah i have this song on repeat to fund dua's next vacation and it's an honour to contribute.#ALSO did everyone see the chris stapleton x dua acm performance? exquisite. they served AND they ate #bodyguard - still my fav. ryan beatty i could find you anywhere #skip to the good bit - rizzle kicks are making a comeback and my god it has been twelve LONG years without them.#nature is healing. i can hear the trumpets #ok love you bye - anyone who decides to use the line 'if you can't see my mirrors - i can't see you' is an instant icon #it's uncanny - hall & oates deep cut. it's obviously fab #so sick of dreaming - maggie rogers i will follow you to the ends of the earth. album is phenomenal. what a loser!!!#aw shoot - cuntry and music global pop sensation cmat has done it yet again. happy pride my queen #honourable mentions - rachel chinouriri's new album is really great. listen to 'it is what it is'#obviously rm made it to the artist list. who else up thinking about nuts and groin rn!!!!!#vampire weekend's new album is like something from a peanuts comic and st. vincent's new album is indescribable #but if i had to try i'd say like something from a peanuts comic but if woodstock had an insatiable bloodthirst #okay i think that just about covers it! thanks darlings #MWAH #receiptify #tag

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carnivalcarriondiscarded · 1 year

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sat down to think about the Light's Out au and actually. yk. plan it out since i have Affection for it and Interest in it. and then my brain went "what about the aftermath though. why don't we meticulously plan that out" I'VE BEEN TYPING IN THIS DOCUMENT FOR FIVE HOURS straight GAY

#brain: what would they do. where are they. what changes. who changes. why. how. where. etc etc etc #BRAIN PLEASE ITS ALMOST 6 AM I WANT SLEEP #but i want answers more. im never leaving this desk am i #writhing on the ground and sobbing #i mean. im exploring new ways to hurt everyone. but also heal them. and other shit too im multitasking #putting specifically barnaby Through It #at least he has his boyfriend can i get an amen to that #watch me ignore the main part of the au in favor of the aftermath. which wasnt supposed to exist #like of course i had to give em all a happy ending but my GOD id like my Brain to Chill TF Out #absolutely unprompted #to be clear the document is purely notes / bullet points #where i go 'this happened and then this happened and that also happened heres a thought'#i need to destroy an entire rotisserie chicken with my bare hands and teeth. on the floor. no restraint.#that is the current mood!#but the mood is also being incredibly soft over these puppets. i wish to hug them... but theyre not real unfortunately...#SO I'LL MAKE THEM HUG EACH OTHER. WITH MUCH EMOTION. in my mind!!!!

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opens-up-4-nobody · 1 year

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The way that the sun hits leaves and clouds. I feel like I could watch the colors change forever. If I could slow down for that long.

#i keep forgetting a have a deck now. i can go outside and sit there #im doing that now. sitting in the corner of a deck full of empty chairs. staring up at a big pine tree where the sun is striking it gold #at the top. i like how thr light hits the needles. if the sky was black it would look like its on fire #theres a tree outside my bedroom window too. in the morning. after the sunrises it catches thr light and refelcts the most perfect shade #of green. the kind of green that flutters translucent like youre looking up from the bottom of a pool. the light the light its all about #the sun. everything everything is about the sun. when i start my project I'll be focused on understanding how organisms catch the light bc #its so incredible and complicated it would make my chest swell to bursting if there wasnt an empty bleeding wound in my gut. a #metaphorical wound of course. i dunno. its just difficult bc right now my mood is inflated by hormones. not even that much i think I'm #just at what shoulf be a normal level of happiness so i can be slow for a minute. but just a minute bc i kno it won't last long #sorry i cant shut the fuck up when im like this but i dunno i just feel like i havr to document these ephemeral moments before they're gone #its just difficult when you kno the world is so full of beautiful things but 95% of the time your eyes are too clouded to see it #everyone tells me i work too much but i feel like im just staring off into space being miserable 60% of the time. ive just done so much #damage over the past few years im coming into a new lab as damaged goods. ive got an albatross around my neck in thr form of data i #collected so self destructively that the idea of having anything to do with its publication makes me hate myself. everytime someone tells #me good job on collecting so so so much data it feels like they're congratulating me for breaking something within myself. like i slit my #wrists and bled out on a lab bench and theyre saying good job and theyre excited for me and i have to grin and bear it and pretend im #excited too. but im not bc ive burned everything inside me to ash. so when im elevated enough to be distracted by the clouds and trees it #feels like healing. like seeing angels. beautiful ephemeral beams of light. i wish i could slow down enough to watch them. but now thr sun #is hitting the horizon and the sky is going gradually dark and i should go inside. bc i have many things to do in the morning. so that's #what ill do. and ill try to get more thsn 6hrs of sleep but its hard when your body is vibrating over with energy #but at least i dont feel tired in the morning. something in my head must be on fire #unrelated #hm i should maybe add a tw to this #tw self injury #but its the kind thst makes u good at ur Job. its the kind ppl reward. so they don't understand when u say its destroying ur life #but im trying to get better. i say as i gear up for an insane semester lol but i do mean it

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titansarmy · 1 year

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i’m going to take it a step further. nico’s healing journey not involving will solace and/or a romantic partner would be a much better story

#not that you cannot love if you haven't healed or whatever #but you're telling me that the kid who was still pushing everyone away but a few weeks back (argo ii times) got into a relationship that #quickly after????? (fact check me but tsats made it seem like it was not that much after the end of boo)#would have loved to see months of nico settling into chb and opening up #nico at chb having friends to hang out with (jason always by his side. leo who lets him hang at baker nine when it all gets too overwhelming #at camp. piper who nudges him when will solace is caught staring. percy and annabeth who invite him to seat with them at campfires)#nico having a home at cj too. friends there too. (reyna who saves him a seat by her side for whenever he visits. frank who pulls out a #mythomaniac deck once and then they're meeting bimonthly to play.)#nico learning to let others know him. wanting to stay for once. and individual journey of him overcoming.#not even fully individual but him realising that AT LAST he has a support system. a place to rest. with people who want to see him happy.#and then only then complete the healing journey by fully allowing will in #his light at the end of the tunnel #<-- a jasico enjoyer writing about solangelo endgame anyways #nico can heal !!! i love that !!! i just don't think solangelo is necessarily a part of his healing

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yoojinluv · 3 months

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#day 39 no alcohols #genuinely feeling like I’m healing from the inside out and I have no idea how I used to literally poison myself on a daily basis #on every level (mentally physically spiritually) I’m doing a bit better #I still think of my ex often but I’m finding my footing #as my own person #and not part of a pair #when we separated I really felt like part of me was ripped from my chest and left a gaping hole it’s exactly as everyone describes it.#i was so shocked at how viscerally I felt that #but now I’m slowly filling that hole with other things #and I need to make new memories #so I can stop reviewing my old happy memories like an old favorite book #need to write a new chapter.#it’s so scary to try new things sometimes but really there’s not too much to be scared of #and half the things I concern myself with never actually happen #anyways #I miss living with a cat

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fragiledate · 4 months

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i feel im too kind and sensitive for most people

#why are people so cruel in their own heads? isnt it more fun to accept everyone? be happy ? forgive?#heavy on the forgive? bc like #ur friend is less social ... goes apart... they're acting weird... theyre being distant... GIRL I WANT TO SHAKE YOU. THEYRER SAD.#forgive. forgive the distance.#what if something bad happened like.. death? stress? everyone grieves and heals differently #(or maybe its the overt and hidden transphobia and queerphobia #and the gossip obsession)#how do i tell this to someone so that they dont get mad? like in reality and in all brutal honesty youre being a fucking asshole? like?#everyone is gonna take anything like so badly no matter how softly and emphatically i set it up...#i wanna defend people but im too much of a coward. fuck #i may be sensitive but the world is so susceptible #how can you have such averse reactions to your own fucking judgement where u decided everything that u didnt get or try to get was bad #world so beautifully neutral and you assess so much goodness and badness to everything #unfortenatly u all find me funny and i am scared of being alone so i will satnd unmoving #maybe one day ill say waht i think and lose you all and be sad and alone again but at least i think im pretty kind and tolerant #sigh #me soup

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goldiipond · 1 year

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i adore thinking about the fucked up tpn stuff that was either not considered during the writing process or deliberately left unexplored.

tpn really said 'each house has about 6 shipments and receives about 6 new children to replace them each year. the minimum age a child can be shipped out is 6. tpn begins with conny's shipment in october, after which dominic is the only remaining 6 year-old at the house' without even considering the implications of that. how about 'we know literally nothing about anyone from the age group between anna+nat's and thoma+lanni's groups because theyre all gone by the time the story starts' also literally no one ever brings them up. or my personal favorite of 'isabella painstakingly hand-made little bunny for conny's 6th birthday. conny turned 6 in september, about a month before she was shipped out' like do you think isabella was at least a little pissed about that. i like to think she was

#skye's ramblings #its totally my love of unexplored side characters but. i do get a little unwell over dominic sometimes #like. hello??? its like a well-established thing that kids in the same age group usually have closer bonds w eachother than others #youare telling me. he watched all 5 of what were probably his closest friends leave in the span of a year. this is what you are telling me #i mean maybe yvette could be considered part of his age group since they were technically born the same year??#but her birthday is also literally new years eve n shes usually grouped in w the 5 year-olds as a result #also the shipment record in the anime says that hao and sadie were 6 but the 2 kids that left before them were 7 #so maybe dominics age group was just particularly small but. he still watched them all leave in a very short amount of time #canot imagine how his conversation w don and gilda abt the escape went. god this series can fit so much childhood trauma in it #also w how close thoma and lanni are dominic and conny were also probably really close due to being the only ones left of their group #thinking abt don n dominic bonding amd sharing happy memories of conny. ijust live for older/younger gracefield kid interactions #also shamelessly stealing rachels hc of ray using his photograpic memory to share happy memories of everyone who died at gracefield #ithink dominic would really like hearing abt his friends from ray. especially happy/funny stuff he was too young to remember #and also literally any interaction w ray n the younger kids is everything to me. oh hes healing hes a good big brother... dont talk to me #'this is all most likely just a plothole' well where you see a plothole i see a GOLDMINE OF TRAUMA AND CHARACTER DYNAMIC EXPLORATION. anywa

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hecksupremechips · 5 months

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Actually cry so goddamn hard when I think about Shinjiro Aragaki healing and being loved and having to learn to be okay with himself and being taken care of

#writing him has just been like. OOOOWOEOEOEOOE i piss tears i cant handle this shit this gay ass shit #i came up with an idea for just like a cute short one shot i wanna do soon and hnnnghh im so emo about it #very healing its like very hard to write some of the shit im gonna be writing cuz basically #some of it is just a little too real man and while i crave the angst and the drama i am just like #AND THEN EVERYONE HOLDS HANDS AND ITS OKAY PLEASE DONT CRY PLEASE #and ive mentioned how shinji has accidentally become nb to me now because i just kinda happened to write him that way without meaning to #and now another thing im noticing is that in my fic hes kinda bpd coded #it definitely wasnt intentional but now im accepting it as truth no one can stop me #i just really need him to be happy its more important to me than anything else man i need it for me #and he needs to be gay with aki they need to kissy and i think its funny cuz even in the parts where shinji is mad at aki and pushing him #away its like. he kinda has it bad lol and its clear he feels no actual hatred towards aki but more just self deprecation because he doesnt #feel good enough and like idk i just think about their respective roles in society like #aki is an honor student star boxer hero very attractive very kind very popular got adopted by a rich family #hes going places you know meanwhile shinji is a drop out who never had a family ever hes homeless hes sketchy hes on drugs #his reputation couldnt be any worse and he just leans into it and feels he has no future and hes worthless garbage #and aki could literally have anyone he wants you know he has an army of girls pining over him but he doesnt want them #HE WANTS SHINJI AND NO ONE ELSE HE SPENDS YEARS CHASING AFTER HIM #and shinji HATES it hes trying so hard to push him away and be the crusty delinquent and make aki see how worthless he really is #but aki just doesnt stop he loves him so much makes me sick SICK #and shinji really loves him back hes like not gonna shut up ever about aki hes like either doing it in a gay ass annoyed way #or hes like ‘haha omg aki is so cute though hes always trying so hard to be tough but hes just so sweet and gentle you know i hope he #doesnt push himself too hard if he got hurt id fall apart hes so silly i hope hes eating good i desire him carnally’#yeah sorry gamers this is just a pairing i cant be normal about they mean so much to me personally the fate of the world rests upon them

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mydr3aminvi0let · 4 months

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i wear a lot of skirts and pink and whatnot as my style has developed with me & my personality but when one of those age regression girlies latch onto me....i do not like that

#like oh....you think im one of them...bestie no im freshly 23 and im happy i made it this far i dont wanna go back #sometimes i hate being 5'2 with a small frame you have to be very careful and kinda vet everyone you interact with #idk there's a complex discussion to be had. i am someone who has went through what they fetishize and i know a lot of girls in that #community have too. so i worry a lot if if my behaviors and preferences accidentally align with that community in ways i don't realize #bc trauma will always reveal itself. idfk. when i was 20 i got in a relationship with a man who was 30 because i misheard him and thought #he was 24. i thought he was okay until we were at this giftshop and he wanted to get me something but as giftshops are super expensive #i mentioned i could fit in childrens clothes and it saves me a lot of money ($60 shoes are $30 for kids) and tbh fit my frame better #so he was “prove it” so i did and mf said “THATS HOT” ??????????? BITCH #my style wasn't even feminine in the slightest at the time 😑 it feels like a curse to have this kind of trauma then never outgrow this body #believe me ik how trauma changes your brain but how #as a woman #can you ever be apart of that community? why do you allow this to continue and not persecute these men for existing?#you're inherently enabling it and saying its okay this happened to you and its okay that other adults can hurt other kids #when my rapist got put in prison i screamed i yelled i sang i danced my friends set off FIREWORKS for me #when he got out i cried more than i ever have. i moved STATES (not the sole rzn but nonetheless) not that i was in the one he was in prison #in anyways but i was so fucking petrified he'd find me again. its embarrassing but i started sleeping with a chastity belt again.#i made more phone calls i ever have in my life to people who have and will get their hands dirty #i understand the self hatred those girls have. i understand the girls who sleep with everyone to take some of their power back.#i even understand the girls who want to get raped if they got assaulted but it never felt like enough for the pain they're experiencing #but please stay the fuck away from me. as someone who has tried to heal and wants every man like that erased from earth.#do not give them an ounce of attention. ostracize them like they're meant to be. leave it to god for their karma they will be dealt with #reckon with your pain and make sure it never happens to anyone else. only the harmed can make the greatest teachers #tbh bro i am disgusted with myself at all that those are the kinda vibes i put out.#what are you supposed to do as a woman when feminity is equalized with infantilism? i think its tone deaf and misguided whem girls are like #i dress this way to contradict societies views!!! babes its a whole cultural issue that requires reviewing and reforming #you are not doing anything revolutionary by wearing frilly skirts and saying im not like them bc they see you and ur automatically boxed in #i dress how i want and say what i want but i know as a individual im not the beacon of a groundbreaking movement #singularily flipping society on its head. dress how you want but be aware of the connotations. you're living in this society here and now #there's consequences that may not be in your favor and youll be assumed to have values that dont align with you and it may break your heart

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cute-chamomile · 9 months

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If i was being begged by my family to marry for decades and finally at age 40+ I decide to get married, and a month before the wedding someone said congratulations for my upcoming wedding to my mom, and she was like "eh, i guess it's time", I'd blow something up, I think

#evelyn stuff #like this girl. omg. ever since i remember myself everyone has been begging her to marry #and now she is getting married next month and everyone is like 'yeah i guess thats happening' no! no!!#if everyone has been pestering you to meet someone and marry them then they don't get to say 'ok but not him/you took too much time' no!#on the plus side this is kinda healing. you can try to make people happy with your choices and they will never be. so just do you.

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