#and there isn't a way to exist simultaneously in both queer and straight communities
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How am I supposed to be bisexual AND trans?
Someone please give me instructions
#ive watched several a video essay#about how bisexuals dont have a concrete community#with well defined history and culture and societal expectations and norms#and i got my ears pierced today#and i got them both done because there isn't a bisexual ear#and there aren't bisexual clubs#and there isn't a way to exist simultaneously in both queer and straight communities#being trans im already part of the queer community#and thus can just conform to that society expectation#but then am i too queer to have a girlfriend?#do i just want to not worry about feeling disconnected from my family and peers and act as straight passing as possible?#is any relationship im in automatically queer because of my transness#and i hoping for something that will never be possible for me?#is the act of hoping this betraying the queer community?#but similar to that. is the act of wanting to pass as cis betraying the trans community?#is the ceaseless pressure to fit neatly into a predetermined box of social expection n#ot the point of the queer community coming together?#i dont know how im supposed to exist#i dont know how to live my life#i have never seen anyone like me get old before
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