#and theyre more of an obstacle they try and over come for support rather then a person they feel comforted and secure with

[yoonyia]

accidently instilled a god complex into someone

woopsies

my therapy is failing

[sometimesrosy]

Anonymous said:So you're just gonna ignore the fact that bon and the articles said becho are in a good place and theyre trying to make it work as good as possible?? There's no love triangle lmao just because clarke is in the same frame as them doesnt mean its a triangle. Jason just loves torturing bellarkes he is a sociopath.

AGAIN. I ship BELLARKE. Not b/e. I think you do not understand that this means I do not have to put YOUR ship ahead of MY ship. Because that is not shipping. The rules of my inbox are to ship and let ship, so that means you broke the rules and you are blocked from sending me asks. 

I will never understand why people do this? I used to get CL stans in my inbox telling me that I had to admit that if L hadn’t died, Clarke would have gone with L, and I just have to say, no no I don’t. Because Bellarke comes first. And the same for this B/e stuff. 

It is a minor, SUPPORTING ship. Bellarke is the central relationship. OF the entire show. Of season 5. And it will also be such in season 6. B/e had a few short scenes focusing on their relationship and one episode, and when they separated, their relationship disappeared from the story almost completely. In contrast, the entire season from 5.01 to 5.13 was ABOUT reuniting Clarke and Bellamy, how they affected each other, what they feel about each other, how they work together, how being apart guided their lives for six years. 

If B/E were endgame, then we would have seen how it started in 501. We would have grown WITH b/e to understand why they work together and why they are important. We DID NOT SEE THIS. Even if we get an explanation in a flashback now, that is filling in the blanks and gaining some sympathy for the struggle, not setting it up so we put it first. They put CLARKE first by showing us how it hurt her to be alone, WITHOUT bellamy, and then they gave us B/E to show us how she couldn’t just get Bellamy back. OMG, nonny, they gave us B/E in 5.01 PRECISELY to show how and why Clarke couldn’t have the man she was in love with and needed. 

They introduced us to B/E with Echo asking Bellamy what they would be once they reach the ground. And he answeerd “you’re my family, nothing is going to change.” FIRST because he didn’t tell her he loved her. And second because he just doomed them by telling her nothing would change, when we know that not only will Octavia have problems, but CLARKE IS ALIVE. And this changes EVERYTHING. (also something that JR told us.)

Look, i get that in order to keep your limited understanding, whether you ship B/E and want to pretend it comes first, or you want to indulge in the fantasy that you’re being persecuted by JR for shipping Bellarke (which, egocentric much?) you erase the rest of the story and honestly just look at one weekend that isn’t even canon for your evidence. And also erase the non canon evidence that doesn’t support you.

The truth is that JR, Eliza and Bob are not going to spoil the story. They’ll talk about B/E, but when Bellarke comes up they’ll talk about Bob and Eliza’s chemistry or the fun of working together instead. Because Bellarke IS the story. They’re giving us the set up. And the set up B/E is canon, as it’s been since the beginning of s5. I’ve never erased it, infact I’ve argued when people tried to. But I’m not going to say that it’s the center of the story, because it doesn’t get nearly enough time, attention or dialogue to be central. AND it was used, constantly, not to show how good B/E is, which is should if it were endgame, but to contrast Bellarke, Clarke’s feelings for Bellamy and Bellamy’s feelings for Clarke. Because the bulk of what we see of B/E on screen is contrasting Bellarke rather than developing B/E, that means the B/E is the sacrificial relationship, the OBSTACLE to the love story, not the love story itself. 

I honestly don’t see how you can say there’s no love triangle when we have IN CANON, Clarke’s jealousy when she sees them kissing, Octavia telling Bellamy he loves both Clarke and Echo, Bellamy poisoning Octavia for Clarke, a scene with Clarke and Echo in which Clarke tells Echo how she’s always cared for Bellamy and then tells her to go save him. And scenes where we can see Bellamy torn between his feelings for Clarke and Echo. That is a love triangle. 

If you want to believe that he loves Echo more than he loves Clarke and he would chose her over Clarke, then you can go ahead and do that, that’s shipping. Have fun. (I’d suggest you not send me ask though, because if you say my ship won’t happen to support yours I’ll blow your ship out of the water.)

But if you want to pretend that they AREN’T putting Bellamy’s feelings for Clarke and Echo on screen, or Clarke’s jealousy over B/E, then you’re lying to yourself and your followers. This is a canon love triangle. And you can’t have a love triangle without a canon romance on BOTH sides. B/E AND Bellarke. Which makes Bellarke real and not platonic. And not “delusional” lol. 

But you CAN’T admit that Bellarke is real, and their feelings for each other are romantic, because if you do that, if you face the fact that they love each other and NEED each other and are better together as was ALSO stated in the con by JR, eliza and Bob, then you have to acknowledge that Bellamy WILL choose Clarke. Because they’ve set up the whole story to have Bellamy and Clarke together. Every season. ALL the time. Bellamy and Clarke are soulmates. 

Bellamy and Echo are not. Speaking logically, what would happen if your significant other, your romantic partner, had another partner who was “non-romantic” but whom they NEEDED. Who was their soulmate? Who centered them. Who wasn’t YOU? How secure are YOU? B/E is going to have PROBLEMS. Because Bellarke comes first. 

Also, when speaking about B/E when asked if Bob would like it to go in the direction of Bellarke, he answered that he didn’t want Bellamy to be a dog to Echo, he didn’t want to cheat on her because Bellamy is a good man. He did say he wanted to make it work with Echo, but what does he want to make work? What IS his relationship with Echo. It’s canon, but all Bellamy has ever called her is his family. We do not know what the truth of B/E is. ECHO does not know what the truth of B/E is. She ASKED him what they would be when they got to earth. He defended and protected her, but when it came down to it, he sent her on a suicide mission when faced with Octavia’s threats to her life, and when faced with equal threats to Clarke’s life, he poisoned his sister. So yes, Bob did say he wanted to make things work with Echo. But what are the things? And how will he deal with the rest of his relationships.

In the same interview, Bob said:

The truth of Bellamy and Clarke is still there and they are two people who need each other and rely on each other.

And B/E is never going to be able forget the truth of Bellarke. 

So now what?