#and uh. yall are damn lucky im around bc every time i let people handle things on their own
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“we need to talk / i need to tell you something” *doesn’t say anything* 🚩
#yall communication is not conditional?#literally what is wrong with you#some of yall just bait people like that and then dont say anything and make other people work for it#just to hear the things they deserve to hear#very annoyed bc this has happened a couple times in the past few years with people that i was on rocky terms with#and ‘i want to tell you something [about my side of a conflict] / i need to apologize’#followed up by no apology or explanation or something#like that has been the last nail in the coffin of multiple relationships#idk what yall expect? like ‘hi pls im begging u to give me the basic communication i deserve’??#anyway bad communication is uh. The death of many good things#and its especially bad for me bc im both very fast paced and an incredibly anxious person#so room for misunderstanding or too long of a gap in communication means i will fill it with whatever my brain creates#and that hardly bodes well for anyone#but ive been working on it for years and ive made progress and at this point i deserve people who will actually be accommodating#not to the point of doing everything exactly the way i want#but more so taking care to avoid the one thing that is actively the worst possible thing for me#anyways some stuff is going down between some friends#and im not involved in the conflict itseld#but as the person with arguably the most effective communication skills i am often the mediator and pacifist#and uh. yall are damn lucky im around bc every time i let people handle things on their own#miscommunications happen and they end very badly#so time and time again i have been the last cog in the machine that made everything work#and its purely bc i can communicate my own thoughts AND have true empathy for others simultaneously#which apparently a lot of people dont have#anyways its just reminding me of people i knew and im just constantly appalled at how bad yall are at communicating#and how bad yall are at recognizing that better communication would fix like. almost all of your relationship problems#anyways stay safe out there
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