#anyway just posting this for all the thirsty jeff stans who follow me

[from-beyond]

Jeffrey Combs as John Reilly in Castle Freak, 1995 

[staglaurent]

Your one of my favorite harries out there! You're so respectful of his relationships and is a big bf stan! I also follow you on twitter. Hope you could entertain me with discussion of bf Harry as I see them from my own lens. I always liked it when Harry gets a gf and follow their relationship because I want him to be happy. I never shipped myself with him so I was never the jealous stan. Here's my own personal observation on his relationships and I hope to hear your thoughts. (1)

Haylor - a ship that's long been dead fans won't let go. I'll admit though, I don't believe Harry was in love with her but it was impactful to him as it was his first real experience in a celebrity relationship. You could see they tried to make it normal, but it was Harry's awakening to his new kind of life. I think he always liked her and I think she liked him. But nothing can convince me he was in love. It was a very exciting but chaotic relationship. Sorry but red is the better album.

Haige - fratboy Harry indeed. Obviously he liked her, but I don't think he fell for her at all. He was very thirsty at that time, remember this was wild Harry era. He was whipped, but in an infatuated kind of way and obviously wanted to impress her. The name change in teenage dirtbag is still iconic! Still it was a very messy relationship, but they seemed to have remained friends. I think she was really his type, but again I don't think his feelings were that deep.

Hadine - the forgotten girlfriend. I think Harry was actually trying to have a serious and committed relationship with her. She was close to Jeff and Glenne, they hung out a lot, and remember the cute bday pics. I'm sad to hear that the fans hate affected their relationship. This was a very private relationship and they spent a lot of time together. We barely have pics of them so I can't really judge, but it appears to me Harry was trying to be a committed bf for once. Was he in love? nah.

Hess - doesn't seem serious at all. Loved that she fought back against the fans, but she did like the attention if we're being honest. Also she seemed sort of bitter for a while. Anyway she was like there for a month? We'll never know, but its obvious Harry didn't have strong feelings.

Hamille - ok this one is different. Harry is open with us, Harry is willing to share with us, and Harry more or less confirmed that yes I was in love and this is my ex-girlfriend. I think this is Harry's first time being in love. Alien girl was more puppy love to me, the other exes imo not really, but Camille was him screaming about how he just wants to love her and him screaming in pain as she's moving on. Harry is clearly whipped and even before the album, he was very serious this time.

These are just my observations and I could be wrong. He could be in love with all of them. I just based on what I witnessed during those eras, the relationship timelines, and of course his songs. Fine Line is all about Camille so you can easily tell how he felt. HS1 is all about his previous relationships, it wasn't a Haylor, Hadine, Haige or Hadine album because he never made a way to confirm who those songs are about. Obviously Two Ghost is about Taylor, that's it. Hope to hear your response!

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I think you hoped for a better response to this, but it took me so long to bring myself to reply that I just don’t feel like having this conversation. I wasn’t in the right head space to reply. Everyone who ever tried to message me knows I take ages to reply because I’m not always at the right mentality to do it. Regardless of my mental state (send help) I think it’s only fair you get an answer of some sort. I’m sorry it’s not as composed as you probably wished for and I’m very grateful for your support and kind words, but I couldn’t post pone this reply any longer so here it is… I bolded the statements I agree with and I put the one I very much disagree with in red 😉 (1989 forever!!) .

I’d like to add that I think HS1 is about several relationships, not all of them romantic. ☺️