#being homophobic and hate criming them for pointing out the vile shit they say and do

[killbaned]

i’d genuinely forgotten about that rancid little fuck of a man and peacefully thought he’d just fucked off into the ether never to harass anyone again but that’s clearly too much to expect from someone so uniquely White Cis Gay Man poisoned

[illnessfaker]

[ cw: f-slur, rape mention ]

no reblogs pls. this is a long vent.

haha not to be a hysterical faggot crippled shut-in freak or anything but the way ppl talk abt the defensiveness around the f-slur that some gay/bi male users (and some transfem users) on here as if it's some kind superiority pissing contest thing and not primarily about...respecting the boundaries and experiences of those gay/bi male (and transfem) users. like...being on this site as a fag-adjacent person (i say that half-jokingly because it sounds silly on one hand but on the other that's the most accurate descriptor of my gender identity, lol) is becoming increasingly draining and upsetting with how "progressive" homophobia against gay/bi men is apparently becoming, like, a meme among lgbtq people and that's acceptable somehow bc lgbtq people aren't cishets or because it's "only online" and therefore doesn't matter.

like idgaf abt ppl who aren't gay/bi men (or transfem) using the f-slur in every single context possible. if they're affectionately referring to their gay/bi male (or transfem) friends with that word (so long as said friends are comfortable with it) that's one thing. who cares. i even rb'd something where a cis butch (iirc) lesbian was talking about a gay man she knew who she was affectionatly calling a faggot and the things she said warmed my heart. if they're throwing it around at every opportunity or using it as an edgy insult against random strangers on the internet, that's another. the users on here who do the latter also regularly display behavior that like...shows a pretty clear disdain for gay/bi men (or transfem ppl) not apart of their online or "irl" circlejerks and echo chambers, and that is in no way disconnected from their love of using the f-slur, lol.

the "it's only online and so it's unimportant uwu go outside" thing also really feels like such a spit in the face as someone who both lives in a rural area full of cishet white men with guns that might try to kill me if i walked out of the house in drag (not to mention i live with my bf and his family and his parents are homophobes themselves i'm sure), and is also someone with health issues that usually keep me at home and in bed when i'm not working. i didn't always live here but even in my hometown the only "lgbtq space" i had was the high school GSA which didn't do shit other than the day of silence and was attended by people i did not feel safe around (e.g. my ex-friend who was very emotionally manipulative and ended up raping someone.) i don't have any other lgbtq spaces to go to other than online ones. if i never joined tumblr i might still be a self-hating cishet girl, or i might be dead, who knows. like, i've accepted at this point that personhood isn't something i'm allowed in (outside of my whiteness) so fuck me i guess if we need to but the idea that other young, impressionable, and/or traumatized lgbtq people who only can meet other lgbtq people and learn about lgbtq things online for whatever reason don't deserve to have us make an effort on cultivating internet spaces that are as accessible and safe for them as possible, or that their experiences and feelings are somehow unimportant is just...vile. like ofc not everyone needs to "pander" to "logged on" disabled fags like myself maybe but if you have any kind of large following on social media maybe consider that the things you say and do on said social media have like...an actual effect on other people instead of pretending that it's "just online" and therefore consequences for your actions either don't matter enough (to you personally) or somehow don't exist.

but going back to the fag thing, most popular lgbtq tumblr users on my dash i see nowadays just...simply do not give a shit whatsoever about gay/bi men, to the point they're normalizing "progressive" and "acceptable" homphobia against us bc they've convinced themselves due to the bigotry some gay/bi men (often cis, white, and wealthy mind you) exhibit we are "the cishets of the lgbtq community," despite horrific violence still being committed against us every day and despite other lgbtq people being capable of engaging in that violence themselves. ppl make thinly veiled jokes and memes where the punchline is men having sex with each other or effeminacy as if those things aren't primary avenues for gay/bi men being abused, assaulted, and killed (including acts of abuse and assault of a sexually-driven nature), as if said jokes and memes don't serve to normalize the mentalities that drive homophobic hate crimes. it's not like...a coincidence that most lgbtq people who makes these jokes aren't gay/bi men (or transfem). this doesn't even get into how things like homophobia and anti-effeminacy can pretty much boot certain gay/bi men from manhood...or womanhood...or any place in gender altogether.

call me exlusionary if you want but i think it's fair to say that the chances of people who aren't gay/bi men (or transfem*) facing the repurcussions of those mentalities in any meaningful way, the chances of these people actually having lived as or going to live as "faggots" is any meaningful sense is slim to none, and that's why they're so comfortable participating in this shit, and that's why i'm triggered(tm) by them "reclaiming" faggot (which doesn't really involve reclamation bc calling random strangers on the internet or gay/bi men you hate a slur isn't reclamation you morons), because frankly if you're not apart of either of those groups, you're just not a fucking faggot. it's not your word just because some rando on overwatch called you it for picking hanzo in comp. period. end of story. it's also just extremely absurd to try and claim faggotry as something you experience while...readily and happily engaging in homophobia and fag-hate (which isn't synonymous with the former term but i'm talking abt ppl who probably seldom ever engage which discussions and theory surrounding how homophobia instrumentates itself in society - or at least that which doesn't conform to their worldview). within the gay/bi male community there's plentu of masc "straight-acting" gays who weaponize this shit against fem gays and they (should) get held accountable in the same way. you're not special.

and god, being told my gendered experiences as a fag-adjacent person where (white) cafab women are fully capable of engaging in social forms of "oppression" against me and other fags in undeniably gendered ways is somehow an outlier and therefore not reflective of broader social by (white) masc urbanite tbros with definitively more social standing than i'll ever have in my life, as if i somehow developed this understanding of gendered violence just based off my own life and not...the reported and sometimes even recorded experiences of countless other fags who get mocked and silenced because anything that deviates from a watered down, shoddy cis feminist take on gender is fake news(tm) or bordering on saying misandry exists (like no it doesn't exist but acting as if homophobic shit like anti-sodomy laws, for example, has zero to do with gay/bi men's manhood is just nonsensical). convos on here abt gender being mostly dominated by (white) cafab women or sometimes (white) masc trans guys is such a mistake lmao.

anyway i'm tired and stressed and pretty done with having "acceptable" homophobic shit shoved in my face on a daily basis both online and offline but nevertheless i must persist because i'm not lucky enough to have anywhere else to go, really. just...think critically abt ur actions regarding gay/bi male sexuality and gender-stuff pretty please. please.

( *disclaimer just in case that i definitely don't see transfems as some "type" of gay/bi men. there are transfems who identify with gay/bi manhood and/or faggotry. there are transfems who don't. that's entirely up to them. thank u. )

[comeondowntosouthparkrpg-blog]

Eric Cartman

out of character info

Name/Alias: Tots

Pronouns: she/her

Age: 19

Join Our Discord: lmao already in here tho

Timezone: EST

Activity: depends on my mood- but on a good day I can be about an 8

Triggers: n/a

Password: Jwimmy can fwast pass mwy awss uwu

Character that you’re applying for: Eric Cartman

Favourite ships for your character: Eric x getting kicked in the balls really fucking hard

in character info

Full name: Erin Theodore Cartman

Birthday: July 1st

Sexuality, gender, pronouns: bisexual, male, he/him

Age and grade: 17, senior

Appearance: Super BUFF, mega RIPPED, hella HAWT-

Puberty and a lack of hygiene hit Eric Cartman like a baseball bat to a toddler’s teeth. Eric’s skin is greasy and pimply, his brown eyes are beady and swallowed by fat, he constantly smells of fast food and BO, his clothing is usually grimey and stained by food, his hair, while a pleasing auburn shade, is short and greasy. Whatever facial structure he could have had is hidden under double chins and years of bad eating. It’s as round as the rest of him. He has no neck, it’s just a layer of fat flopped over his shoulders.

Eric is short, standing at 5ft 5 inches. Due to a lack of self control he’s morbidly obese. His knees hurt when he walks and anything more physical than a slow pace makes him pour sweat and pant like a dog.

When Eric is attempting to manipulate someone or is dressing up to pull a scheme, he pulls out all the stops with wearing nice clothes and as clean as humanly possible. Otherwise however, he does not give two shits. Afterall, why bother spending time showering when you can use that time to eat more KFC?

Eric’s wardrobe never changed, plain pants and tshirts are still his signature clothing style. In an attempt to make Eric more independant, Liane tried insisting Eric wash his own clothes. Eric instead refused to do so and chooses to continue wearing his dirty clothes until she can’t stand the sight or smell anymore and washes his clothes for him. It’s a recurring, endless cycle.

Despite all this, Eric continues to be under the delusion that he is a complete and utter chick magnet that makes all pussies in a 200 square foot radius wet. He’s convinced that there’s nothing wrong with his appearance and that he’s insanely good looking.

Personality: Eric could have been a good person. He had the potential inside him at one point before his anger and vileness took over.

Now, Eric is complete and utter, irredeemable flaming human garbage. He is racist, abusive, quick to anger and never thinks ahead unless it stands to benefit him. He constantly lies and looks to see how he can make any situation make him better. Eric can and will do anything he possibly can to get his way no matter what.

Eric is wildly self centered and can’t stand the idea of anyone around him not wanting to be at his beck and call. He’s broken in his mother to obeying his every whim and becomes enraged when she tries to put her foot down. He is a master manipulator and does not care one bit about anyone around him whatsoever. Eric truly does not feel empathy for people around him- he is the stereotype of a dangerous sociopath.

Eric thinks nothing of people around him, seeing a person cry and be hurt makes him laugh like nothing else. He is a genuine racist and hates Jews- thinking the absolute worst of them. Because of a lack of romantic and sexual endeavors he could consider successful, Eric’s developed incel and neckbeard like tendencies and ways of thinking, feeling like the world owes him sex and love and that he’s such a ‘nice guy’ that is sooo much better than all these other Chads and deserves to be surrounded by pussy. He doesn’t seem to think that his vile way of thinking and language has anything to do with his lackluster love life.

Perhaps what makes Eric so dangerous is the fact that he can be amazingly charismatic. He genuinely has good leadership skills and can masterfully weave words together when he’s actually thinking about it. He has an amazing knack for seeing a person’s weakness and exploiting it. While Eric may not be book smart, he can read and play people like a fiddle.

Eric does have some insecurities about himself but he’s buried them so deep down inside that he doesn’t realize that they’re there.

History: Eric was born and raised by Liane Cartman, a genuinely sweet single mother despite her drug addiction. She tried her hardest to raise Eric well, but as Eric grew older he became worse and worse.

For the first years of his life, he was simply a whiny and argumentative brat but as time went by he began to learn manipulation skills and started to think less and less of the people around him. His first signs of something being off about him was the way he treated his pets and his own mother. Eventually this bled into how he treated his friends and the people around him. Why Stan, Kenny and Kyle bothered with him is anybody’s guess.

Eric has a criminal record but jail seems to have not made any lasting impact on him whatsoever. He’s simply more careful about getting caught by the law. Don’t forget that Eric got away with murder when he was just ten years old. He has no morals whatsoever.

With Marvel’s continued success, Eric also continued his superhero persona. Although he claimed to be a hero fighting for justice, it’s plainly obvious to anyone with any brain cells that this is just another scheme to try and make money and bolster his own image.

Eric’s impulsivity, manipulative ways and anger issues only continued to grow as time went on. While there’s been few additions to his criminal record, the list of crimes and wrongdoings he’s committed is beyond endless. Eric Cartman doesn’t particularly have any dreams for when high school is over which intensely worries Liane. He seems perfectly content to laze around with his mother at his every beck and call.

Whatever the future holds for Eric Cartman, it’s not going to be good for anyone around him.

Sample paragraph: “Kyle you DIRTY, FILTHY FUCKING JEW!” Cartman shrieked, shoving his phone into his supposed ‘friend’s face. “I KNOW you’re running this piece of shit blog WITHOUT ME.”

The Eavesdropper. A gossip blog run by an anonymous group of people who exposed the citizens of South Park’s deepest secrets. It held power. It held influence.

And Eric was completely, and utterly furious that he wasn’t on it.

“I bet you’re just keeping me out so that you can write all the nasty shit you want about me don’t you!? What else would I expect from a nasty fucking ginger, twink jew like you.” He sneered, pulling the phone away and stuffing it into his pocket. “So here’s how this is going to go down. YOU are going to tell your little gossip friends about how AMAZING and AWESOME Eric Cartman is and THEN you’re going to get me onto the group.”

The ability to be able to spread whatever gossip he wanted about anyone he wanted? Well sure he could do that whenever he wanted but this was a platform. It already had most of the work done for him. “And now, I know what you’re thinking- ‘Why would I ever let Eric join? He’s just so awesome and amazing that I know he’d outshine me in a second’. Well this is why Kyle. If you don’t, I’m going to tell everyone in this school that you are gay for Stan. Yeah. You’re fucking gay for him. I’ll tell everyone. And it’ll make everything super awkward between you and him. Maybe I’ll even fake a few kissy faggy love notes so that shit will never be the same between you two.”

His grin was wide and sickly. That would be a good threat. The embarrassment of it and the potential ruin of Kyle’s friendship with his closest and longest lasting pal was more than enough. Erin licked his lips, they tasted like grease from last night’s dinner. Kyle was below him. He was stupid and just another pawn to Eric.

If he didn’t do this- well, Eric could easily find another way to make him.

Headcanons: Eric may be bi but like, hes still super homophobic. Apparently gay activities are only acceptable if he’s doing it.

Anything else: Eric is going to say and do a lot of genuinely horrible things so warning at you dudes about that.

[knightofbalance-13]

https://rwbycrit.tumblr.com/post/165523430532/i-feel-this-needs-its-own-post-its-an-expansion

this is one of the most dumbass, vile, and insidious things I’ve ever seen kob say, particularly about lgbt issues. which is saying something.

This coming from the person who treats LGBT people as a hivemind. Yeah, why should anyone listen to you.

Yeah, it’s 2017. Last year, it was the “deadliest year on record for the LGBTQ community”

Wanna know what else happened in 2016? Conversion therapy become unbanned in over thirty states and openly gay people can actively join the military. If homophobia was as wide spread as you say, this would not be a thing. Especially if it was reported by USA Today, the third largest newspaper company in the world and a cornerstone of news. 

In 2017, at least 20 trans people have been killed in the US alone. That may not seem like a lot, but trans people make up less than 2% of the population.Â

You wanna know how much is 2% of the US population? 6.4 million and that’s cutting off two digits which if rounded up is 6.5 million people (323.95 million X .02= 6.479 million). So you wanna know the percentage of trans people killed? .0003% (20/6,479,000) Suddenly your numbers don’t look so serious. ESPECIALLY since your source outright says                                                        “Some of these cases involve clear anti-transgender bias. In others, the victim’s transgender status may have put them at risk in other ways, such as forcing them into homelessness.” Which contains weseal words and nota shred of evidence itself. So your point and source are invalid here.

According to the NY Times, “L.G.B.T. People Are More Likely to Be Targets of Hate Crimes Than Any Other Minority Group”. That article was published June 16, 2016.

Yeah...That’s because LGBT also includes racism and religious violence since LGBT people are not a race but ender and sexuality. A black gay man attacked for being black would count towards both statistics. Not to mention the source outright says the country as a whole is more accepting and the people who are doing this were radicals anyway. SO that actually supports my point that it’s being demonized.

The deadliest mass shooting in the US was at the Orlando gay night club Pulse in June of 2016. Snopes notes that, when going by common definition of “mass shooting”, Pulse was “indeed by far the “deadliest mass [public] shooting in U.S. history”. Even when it happened, people refused to believe that the fact that it was at a gay bar had anything to do with it.

Then prove it. Show sources and proof he was motivated by homophobia. Since the event is so serious, it should be easy. Burden of proof is on you. Considering you have shown to use weseal words, omit facts, outright lie and such: Your word is worth nothing.

Oh yeah, the AIDS crisis. Reagan underfunded AIDS research again and again, despite thousands of people dying. In the critically acclaimed “And the Band Played On” by Randy Shilts, he notes that “In the first twelve months of the epidemic… the CDC had spent $1 million on the outbreak, compared with the $9 million on Legionnaire’s disease”, of which far fewer people had died by that time. On top of that, Reagan didn’t even speak on the AIDS epidemic six years into his presidency, after over 20000 people had died from the epidemic. But it wasn’t the 1960s.

No...it was early 1970′s which would still be affected by the era of the 1960′s (Regan being appointed in 1971.) ( And it was only in 1965 that LGBT people started campaigning for equal rights. For reference, African americans didn’t get equal rights until 1968, a whole CENTURY from when the slaves where freed in 1865. So you expected to get equal rights within 6 years that an entire race only got in 100. And this all becomes you took a potshot seriously. I referenced the 1960′s because it was the most famous period of inequality in American history: I consider anything up to the 1990′s to be a dark age of equality and strife for equality.    

Harvey Milk, the first openly gay elected official in the US, was assassinated in November 1978, and his killer only got sentences seven years and was released after five. This sparked the White Night Riots, which resulted in an unauthorized raid on the gay bar the White Elephant, where police officers allegedly called patrons “fagg*ts” and “c*cksuckers” and celebrated later that night. But hey, it wasn’t the 1960s.

Still 1970′s which is only a decade after the first campaign. The fact that LGBT rights have gotten THIS far since then is a testament because, may I remind you, it took African americans 103 for the beginning of equality. The fact that an openly gay senator was elected in the 1970′s is a testiment due toThe fact that the first African American Senator to be elected before the Jim Crow laws (Edward Brooke) was elected in 1967 (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_African-American_United_States_Senators), which is 89 years as opposed to the 12 it took for Harvey Milk. Your point. Still does not. STAND.

Sodomy laws that criminalized same sex activity didn’t get repealed in Texas, and subsequently 12 other states, until 2003. I was 7 in 2003. But it wasn’t the 1960s.

And how heavily ENFORCED where those laws? Because there is a shit ton of gun control laws but no one ever enforces them. How many people were pun ished because of this law? No answer? Not my burden of proof. And yet again, that 38 as opposed to 103. The fact THAT was allowed within 50 years is an example of what I was saying.

To this day, the president of the United States spews homophobia and transphobia, working to ban transgender people from the military again after just being allowed to serve while out in 2015. But it’s not the 1960s.

A. Proof. You gotta show proof otherwise no dice.

B. I looked it up, his reasoning wasn’t that they are inferior or anything ACTUALLY transphobic but rather medical costs and time that it would take for transitioning individuals. Was it a smart move? No, it wasn’t. he should tried cutting a little of military funding for medical costs but you are the one lying here.

C. Still taking a potshot and hyperbole seriously huh? Even after you stop giving sources, all but one of your sources actually proves your point while one of them actually proves MY point and you’ve been caught manipulating facts.           

@knightofbalance-13 your ignorance is not just laughable, it’s dangerous. Its because of willfully ignorant people like you that casual and overt homophobia exists to this day. You’re disgusting and pathetic.Â

Which in every source you’ve given has been demonized and looked down upon. It’s the social norm now to look at homophobia and be disgusted. Nowadays, if you say something homophobic, the news will be all over you and you will eb driven away. You’ll be the butt of every late night comedy show. 

And about yur point “How dare you say homophobia does not exist”: I never said that. All I said was: “It’s not as bad as you are making it.” If you take a look at LGBT rights: you’ll see that you’ve gone farther in 52 years than African americasn did in nearly double the tme. Get some god damn perspective, I can feel the collective rage of every person who lived in the time of slavery and Jim Crow.

And you wanna know what doesn’t help? Attacking people for their sexuality, denying people are LGBT or that they count if they don’t agree with you, screeching homophobia at anyone you don’t like and trying to speak over other LGBT people. That’s all shit that forces LGBHT rights BACK and gives homophobes a right to exist. It’s also all shit YOU’VE done and CONTINUE to do. So you ain’t got any right to complain about equal rights when your group is actually AHEAD of the curb and you’re HOLDING THEM BACK because you can’t realize that you are no better than the people you screech at.

Only person here that is ignorant is the one who can’t see their own reflection.

[the-internet-enthusiast]

reaction to this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2lqKugFdO0

I get it if you are just simply pointing out that some of the things he has done are problematic. I do understand that. BUT. I do think that when he talks about people respecting his privacy it is valid. If someone posted a picture of me on the toilet I'd be furious. I think he is a really different person now than when he made those jokes, and I wont lie the jokes were a lot... just a lot...pretty offensive yes. But he has said that he has changed since then and I believe him because the behaviour that he has been exhibiting lately shows that he is changing (for the better in my opinion) And I don't think he deserved what Phil's "old friend" said. Obviously (the friend) and Phil aren't on good terms anymore so maybe something happened that he is salty about, and is taking it out on Dan. You just never know. I just feel bad because I want them both to be happy and when people disrespect their privacy (or dig way into the past[which dan has said he wants to forget]cough I don't see how he could be happy when people do stuff like this) And I don't condone jokes about self mutilation, rape, suicide, racism or homophobia, but he has really changed. He is VERY outwardly against homophobia and racism now. And he has been very kind and supportive of us. I get your point man but please just respect that the past is the past. No hate. Nothing personal. Just trying to express an opinion don't attack me. 

 "evidence" 

 dan talks about the sensitivity of anxiety- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZPiyeTIYdQ This clip shows that he is now sensitive to the use of certain words and the fact that he offered to delete the tweet really shows that he cares for things which we are sensitive to which is very kind since we apparently don't respect things that he is sensitive to cough 

 dan being calming and kind- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IzwVPELI-s He understands that his followers tend to be sad or anxious (like most people) and is trying to calm them down and be supportive which is just a good trait overall) 

 when he used to tweet those things and now he's like this- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTF_cywdjO0 I think this shows his character development because he used to say problematic things on twitter and now he realises that its not conductive for starting a shit storm so he obviously learned his lesson. 

 about respecting women/ feminism- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_YuM961CsM he says it's an important issue insinuating that he stands for the original definition of feminism which is basically "equal rights for all genders" {opinion warning} (not feminist radicalism which is toxic because this type of activism calls men pigs and no one deserves to be called a vile name unless they have committed an extremely vile crime (being male is not a crime it is the way someone is born and being androphobic is as bad as being homophobic or racist because it is discriminating against a certain person/people for the way that they are born) 

 ANYWAYS Dan on racism- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5uFw2N-jzE Not only is he is respecting that there are different opinions, but he is also trying to explain both sides, therefore validating both opinions on the matter. Which is good because neither opinion is bad/ racist per se they are just different. 

 and about you saying he is cocky https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNK7ZvFOjXw would you rather him be filled with confidence or be like this^^^ 

 Also I am not doing this to cause a fight. I am simply expressing a counter-opinion and if any of you would like to have a calm, collected, mature debate my email is victorygirl777123@gmail.com. But if you just want to throw empty insults at me and be petty and immature go ahead and do it here because I really don't care. And I'm not in any way saying that you are petty for disagreeing, I am saying it would be petty  for you to disagree and say things like "you are stupid" or "stfu" instead of proving why I am wrong. I am sorry if I genuinely offend anyone, this is just my opinion. Do not take anything too personally.

 Dan talking about Caitlyn Jenner - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UfUjfZ8tGqo 

 You included this in your own video but I'll link it here anyways- https://twitter.com/danielhowell/status/867469795364569088 

 also @ the creator of this video: I understand that you probably worked very hard on this video and I understand that you were just expressing an opinion and i get that and hey at least you used video evidence and I wont disagree that he has been problematic in the past but I really think he is better now, and he has asked kindly for us to stop bringing up things from his past. Im not asking for people to agree with me or even respect what I'm saying, but I am asking that you all hear me out with an open mind. that was really extra but I started thinking and I got fired up and when I get fired up I write so sorry if this was annoying I just felt the need to express this... that is all

 continue with your day :)