#bf invite me to infodump

[fen-the-space-dragon]

Hey guys, the moon is gonna cover the sun today (in some places). Just trust me. I am a god and know these things

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

AITA for not wanting to go to a con with my bf's friend?

(I submitted this a few weeks ago but a fandom ask I sent after has already made it out so I think it got lost? if im wrong feel free to delete. this is a shortened version)

everyone in this story is 20-21. so me and my bf were making plans to go to a con and the people we both wanted to ask were all busy. he suggested one of his friends, but I wasn't sure. me and my bf and the friend all went to high school together, and we're in some discord servers together, but im not super close with her. the reason I hesitated is cons are very overstimulating for me, and if im not careful I often end up totally shutting down. im uncomfortable being seen like this except by people I very deeply trust.

one time the friend in question saw me happy flapping and she gave me a weird look, and ever since then I've been a little uncomfortable around her. I feel like I'm overreacting because it was just a look and I might've been reading it wrong but if she reacted that way to me flapping then I don't want to know how she'd react to me being completely unable to speak or move my body. she's also interrupted my infodumping in the past, which I just found really rude (discord vc, I had already been talking to my bf for several minutes before she joined the call. I was talking about flight rising and she just kept talking over me and trying to talk about a different game)

in the end, we went without her because when he finally asked her she said she was busy. I feel like I'm kind of an asshole because he kept asking if he could invite her and I kept dodging giving him a clear answer, and if he'd asked sooner maybe she would've been able to make it. going with three people instead of two would've cut the cost of the hotel room, gas, etc. I feel like im judging her too harshly for just kinda looking at me weirdly one time and interrupting me that other time

What are these acronyms?

[sardonic-the-writer]

HIIII here to infodump about schlatt not expecting anything so DW you're just the first person I follow that I thought of who likes him as well sorry if this is annoying just havinf lots and looots of thiughts

CONTEXT PARAGRAPH FIRST

OK SO theres this yt series called escape the night it's made by joey Graceffa and basically each season the format is that a bunch of YouTubers are invited to some place (mansion, ball, 70s carnival town, museum) for a party, adventure, etc but they actually have to fight for their lives and do a bunch of challenges and puzzles and whatnot and each episode 2 people are voted in by the group in a final death challenge to get the thing™️ that they need and the winner gets the item they need loser dies AND YEAH EACH SEASON IS THEMED SEASON 1 IS ROARING 20S S2 IS VICTORIAN ERA S3 IS 70S RETRO CARNIVAL AND S4 (even though they're in a museum with different themes in it) I THIIINK ITS THE 60S??? REALLY REALLY COOL CONCEPT THOUGH ITS SUPER FUN

OKAY NOW ONTO SCHLATT-

I've been thinking a lot a lot about a 5th season and what YouTubers would be good for it if it ever does happen and my mind went to Jschlatt. There's this one guy from season 2 victorian era one and his name was destorm power. Each person gets a kind of "role" themed around the time period based on their personality and outfit, and destorm was the railroad tycoon.

AND WHEN I SAY THAT TJIS FUCKER WAS THE EQUIVALENT OF FUCKING SCHLATT. OH MY GOD.

SOME SHIT ABOUT DESTORM IN THE SHOW JUST FOR FRAME OF REFERENCE TO SHOW HIS RESEMBLANCE WITH SCHLATT-

draws suspicion to himself for NO REASON he's just really menacing and standoffish towards the group

gets voted into the first death challenge with this chick and wins, watches her get mauled by vampires and yells "KILL HER! KILL HER" and has to be dragged away so he doesn't die next

Starts beef with the bf of the girl who died in the challenge and calls him weak and a baby for crying about her death

Almost died one time after being seduced by spider women and then tranquilized

"I am king"

"these bitches can't kill me"

"I am the best"

"I don't run, I strut"

AND JUST OVERALL VERY UNWILLING TO WORK WITH THE REST OF THE GROUP HES SOOOOO SILLY AND MY FAV FROM THAT SEASON SCHLATT IS BASICALLY A MORE AGGRESSIVE VERSION OF HIM AND IF THEY DO A SEASON 5 IM BEGGING THAT THEY DO A DYSTOPIAN FUTURE ONE OR IF HE WAS IN SEASON 3 THEN HE WOULD HAVE BEEN THE SERIAL KILLER AS HIS ROLE OR SOME SHIT HED BE PERFECT FOR SEASON 3 BECAUSE HIS MUTTON CHOPS ARE ALREADY ON PAR WITH THE 70S FASHION!!! SCHLATT IS SUCH A CHARACTER AND HE NEEEEEEDS TO BE IN THIS SOOOOO MUCHHHHHHH

Anon before reading this, I had no idea this was even a thing. Now I'm fully invested and agreeing with you completely.

Now I'm just imagining Schlatt being in like a seventies typical suit or get up and cackling as he runs to do different challenges.

[succubus-nblm]

I kinda want to start an 18+ nblm/mlm discord (ANY nb are considered!) Would anyone be interested? I just really want somewhere I can constantly infodump about my bf and I’d love to create a space where others can as well, but also have it be 18+ as I’m 22. It wouldn’t be nsfw focused or anything but would probably have a channel that is for nsfw topics. If anyone is interested please comment on this post or dm me! And if enough people are I’ll set it up and send invites

[transbonmoved]

hey guys its time for me to infodump dekumob shit

rip all the mobile users who probs have to scroll past all this im sorry

their childhoods are polar opposites. deku was powerless & bullied for this, yearning for power & to be a hero. mob was born with power & sees it as nothing but a burden and is afraid of hurting people with his power.

deku puts a lot of value in the power he was granted too while mob wishes he didnt even have his powers at times and can see them as worthless.

deku would be amazed & fascinated by mobs abilities so much. while there would probably be plenty of esper heroes, mob is so damn powerful and i think after seeing mob use some of his power deku would be able to quickly recognize that. deku probably takes notes on esper heroes such as buildup of power and notes how little buildup mob needs to give out a powerful blow.

mob tells deku abt how he loses control sometimes and deku goes on this mumbling rant on how it could happen. no conclusion is ever really made

whenever mob feels self conscious about his quirk, deku is always there to cheer him up, whether it be intentional or deku starts rambling on how useful his quirk is especially if he gets creative on the battlefield or if he wants to become a rescue hero its perfect and oh no hes going on his mumbling tangent again

work out buddies! deku ends up having to pick mob off the ground a lot but he encourages him

deku admires mobs efforts but is also worried over mob accidentally overworking himself

mob probably really admires how much muscle deku already put on which turns deku beat red each time mob compliments it but he sincerely means it, deku

their familes get along well

inko would probably love mob a lot. inko is kind of a very weak telekinesis user so they connect through quirks somewhat & inko would be so happy that deku found such a nice & caring person

ritsu & deku also get along super well. their conversations will range from small talk to really detailed discourse

ritsu is somewhat surprised when mob tells him deku is his bf but is also kind of relieved that mob would end up with such a good guy. of course it takes a while to really trust deku but ritsu never has too many doubts on him

kageyamas will invite deku to dinner & inko will invite mob to dinner sometimes

when ua gets dorms it seems like every other day mob is investigating some kind of haunting rumor. theyre rarely ever true and sometimes deku tags along out of curiosity of how mobs after school job may be like.

deku does eventually meet reigen, and really isnt quite sure what to make of the guy. he finds it odd how he is so insistent that yes, i have a quirk, what are you talking about kid, have you not heard of me??

mob lets deku info dump hero stuff whenever he wants. he doesnt understand most of the stuff but he always loves seeing deku get so passionate abt the things he loves.

he also tries reading some of dekus notebooks when offered and its just him going “lots of words i dont understand” again

at some point mob just starts shoving spare napkins in his pocket for whenever deku needs them. you could say its routine for mob to hand deku a napkin while deku lets out a “thanks” through tears

it worries mob each time though, even if to others it may be obvious happy tears mob always checks to see if deku is ok

speaking of emotions, this is another huge contrast between them. deku is very emotional and isnt afraid to cry in front of people, but can also shut off his emotions in serious times. mob on the other hand has trouble with his emotions and finds trouble expressing what emotions he is in touch with unless its a full blown breakdown. mob is more inclined to burst in situations while deku can remain cool headed.

also, theres probably going to be a time where deku has to calm mob down after hitting a (negative) 100%. with already mentioning mob bringing napkins i think comforting & supporting each other would be a huge thing in their relationship.

but also consider deku causing mob to hit 100% love at some point

deku always feels his stomach churn when mob says he “cant do anything without his powers”. deku probably would acknowledge just how intelligent mob can actually be on his own, especially when dismantling others bad behavior

he sees that first hand where, at first mob was scared of bakugou, but that anxiety quickly turned to irritation when learning about what bakugou has done to deku and what hes witnessed bakugou say about others. of course sometime this leads to an inevitable “why do you put others down?” confrontation

whether mob intentionally did it or not hes able to hit bakugou right where it counts just like he did with teru. and deku is really grateful and looks up to mob to be able to stand up to bakugou like that. and thank god for mobs barrier, or else there probably wouldve been a full blown fight.

thats another thing i think would be big with them, genuine admiration for each other.

fuck man they just love each other a lot

if we’re really smushing canon together, i think mobs experience with mogami would really make him realize just how much deku went through as a kid. 

he probably would end up despising bakugou more due to it

they go to pride together!!!

they like taking naps together after stressful days

it takes a while for them to have their first actual kiss bc they are both flustered all the time. mobs probably the one who tries making a move though.

deku helps mob study after learning just how bad mobs grades are. it doesnt really help but mob appreciates dekus help nonetheless.

their respected friend groups get along well!

mob & iida & uraraka have no problem getting along at all. iida would probably like how close to rules mob sticks too, and uraraka would just appreciate mobs company in general. theyre floaty friends.

deku & teru get along fairly well. dekus eyes nearly bulge out of his head when learning how teru & mob met though, and how teru was a lot like bakugou at one point but is now changing for the better.

deku is blown away by the body improvement club and really has a hard time believing these kids are actually his age

they may be workout buddies but they also try to quirk train together, since they both need to try to control their powers better

hey will both post & send each other i love my bf memes

they also text each other late a night a lot. sometimes just small chat about how their day went or comfort if one is feeling bad for whatever reason

mob always gets super worried about deku when he ends up breaking bones due to his quirk

ends up giving lectures n stuff about how he needs to be more careful and how he should care more abt his well being 

THATS ANOTHER contrast mobs afraid of hurting others with his quirk while deku hurts himself with his quirk

mob saves up money from his job to get deku surprise presents n stuff

this is all i have...............for now

[aerisse-remade]

i was gonna make a post abt a specific occurence but i realized it would sound weird(er than it already is) without any background info so yeah. infodump

so sometime in early august i got out of an unhealthy relationship. im not gonna give all the details but anyway my (now) ex wanted to get back with his ex. he and the ex in question also had/has an unhealthy relationship imo. they constantly fought and cheated on each other ykno. theyre constantly on and off. anyway my ex had been my friend for like. 7 yrs prior. and senior year we got a lot closer. and my ex would talk about his relationship with his ex/bf (idk if theyre still currently dating but i assume they are). theyve been on/off for like... 3 or 4 yrs at that time

so while he was talking abt his relationship to me nd another mutual friend, we were both like "maybe you should break up". and my friend (ex) started to like.. hit on other ppl while dating his bf (...who i was also friends with), including me and our mutual friend. she brushed him off and thought it was weird/funny and i thought so too when he started doing it to me. but i was also flattered at the same time? anyway at first i brushed him off too when he hit on me, and i would tell him that i wouldnt do anything with him unless he broke up with his bf. 

so then he started to get a sad and contemplative and shit and then i realized that like. he was being serious. anyway i was uncomfortable with it after that but i still hung out w him amyway. one time he invited me and j (our mutual friend) to L's (his bf) house for some small party. which is a pretty stupid move on his part tbh but anyway i was like sure!! itd be nice to see L again. but j didnt want to come so it was just gonna be me, my ex, L, and his friends/bandmates

before going to L's place, my ex and i hung out at his house. and started to get all touchy with me?? like he'd lay on me n shit and i was super uncomfortable but i didnt say anything bc i didnt want to upset him. so we ended up at L's place and its... messy to say the least. anyway he and L started arguing and L and his friends were treating my ex like shit. so i got upset and i kept telling c (my ex) that he really should break up with him and that we should leave. but he didnt listen and for like.. the next 20 minutes i was so uncomfortable and felt so unwelcome that i demanded c to take me home. and on the way back, i told him that he needed to tell L that he was hitting on me/had feelings for me. so ofc he got upset.

later that day i saw a post he made and he tagged it as suicide note so obv i was concerned as hell and i tried calling him like a million times but he wouldnt pick up. i told j abt it so she tried calling him too. he didnt pick up. so the next few days were absolute hell. i was feeling like absolute shit and i was an anxious mess. i called him again and left a voicemail. it was like. 11 pm when i was about to try and sleep. he finally messaged me then saying shit like "i cant tell him" "im gonna kill myself" and so ofc i freak out and lie to him and say "its ok!! you dont have to tell him!!" just so he wouldn't hurt himself

and eventually i lied again and said smth like "its ok, you dont have to tell him. im fine with him not knowing" literally just bc i didnt want him to hurt himself. obviously im gonna tell him anything to persuade him to not do anything. i made him promise to see me the next day so we could talk more abt it. so we met the next day. some time during the evening he said he wanted to kiss me. i was uncomfortable as fuck but i already lied to him and said i was fine with it!! so what the fuck was i supposed to do!!! 

...anyway eventually i actually developed feelings for him so i tried even harder to convince him to break up with L, ...and L found out bc he was snooping thru c's messages. he asked me shit like 'how could i' and how betrayed he felt. i apologized to him and told him that i shouldnt have let c do anything. but at the same time i was angry. how dare he come to me and tell me HE was betrayed and how hurt HE was when he and c were constantly fighting and cheating on each other?? how dare he make me feel like I should be the one to apologize for stepping in when his relationship was failing?? 

eventually they broke up and c and i started dating. our relationship was unhealthy too, and mostly bc of me and my paranoia. i tend to have intense but unstable relationships. anyway i guess that just brings me back up to the top, where i mentioned c wanting to get back with his ex. 

i originally didnt mean to post all of this bc i only wanted to talk abt a specific occurence but i felt it needed to have background info.