#drawing is so much fun when you ignore all the parts of ut youre not good at

[fivepibbles]

iterator siblings!

[gameimagines]

@weronissa aw, glad you like my prompts. love you too!! anyway, here’s the whole list for good ol undertale sans! hope you like it!

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‼️ how jealous are they normally? how do they express it?

sans isn’t really the jealous type, he’s a pretty laid back guy and he trusts you to remain faithful. when he does get jealous though, it’ll manifest as sans interrupting the conversation or in the absolute worst case scenario - teleporting you two away (that’s typically reserved for if someone cat calls you, or is flirting with you in a way that makes you uncomfortable)

⛺️ where they would take their s/o on a trip?

answered this in a previous post so i’ll just copy and paste it here. ut! sans can take you just about anywhere you wanna go because of his teleport ability. sans isn’t picky on where he wants to go, but he prefers peaceful places. a cabin not too far away from a small town where he can get some good grub (namely, ketchup) is ideal. above ground think a mountain area where he can explore with you and take uninterrupted naps.

💤 big spoon or little spoon? how do they sleep regularly and with their s/o in the bed?

little spoon! he likes the feeling of your arms wrapped around his rip cage. plus it’s kinda uncomfortable for him to hold you to him when he’s the big spoon (you’ll be laying on his arm which is just jagged bones). regularly, he sleeps on his back with his arms and legs sprawled out on the bed. sans tries to keep his appendages to himself when y’all are trying to sleep, but he may unconsciously throw a leg over you while you doze.

🚼 do they want kids? how many?

can sans biologically have kids? he’s not sure. he doesn’t really have the organs necessary to coproduce a child after all. but he’d love to adopt a child. it doesn’t matter to sans whether the kid is biologically related to him or not. he doesn’t really have an ideal number on how man kids he’d want to father. no more than 5? i can also see sans as the type to welcome people into his home temporarily if they need a place to stay (parents kicked them out, having a fight with the household members, in a new city and need a place to crash).

🤝 do they like to hold hands? interlocked fingers or not? how do their hands feel?

heck yeah sans likes to hold your hand. it’s soft, squishy, and attached to you so of course he likes to hold it. interlocked fingers since grasping hands (like you’re shaking hands) is a bit weird for you since his bones push together.

🍽 how good of a cook are they? do they like to cook for their s/o?

sans is actually a pretty solid cook. does he like to? eh, not really. he’d much rather just go to grillby’s but he knows a thing or too. he makes great mac n cheese.

💙 who’s more likely to say “I love you” first, them or their s/o?

probably sans. whenever he realizes it he’ll be relatively quick to tell you (like swap! pap he may tell you in the form of a joke but it’ll still be endearing).

❌ what can’t they stand in a s/o? what is a deal breaker?

also like swap! pap, if you can’t get along with his little brother - he’ll have a hard time getting along with you. sans also can’t stand people who go back on their word. if it’s unavoidable he gets that, but if you make a decision to break a promise it’ll damage his faith in you.

☀️ early bird or night owl? do they wake their s/o up with them?

night owl. you won’t catch sans sleeping before 12 am. well, you’ll catch him napping throughout the day but actually resting for the night no. he sleeps in when he can so nah, i don’t think he’d wake you up with him unless you had something to do.

💐 how romantic are they?

he’s a huge nerd but he can be fairly romantic. sans’ memory is impeccable, he’ll remember all the foods you like to eat, places you’ve wanted to go, and things you’ve mentioned you like. so when a special occasion happens, he knows what you’ll like. sans isn’t usual romantic though, he saves it for special occasions so date nights are still pretty casual things like going to grillby’s or binge watching a new series together.

💍 how would they propose? how long would they take?

sans will take you somewhere you said you wanted to visit and propose while you’re there. how long he takes to do it depends on the person. if he’s loved you for a long time and he’s certain you feel the same (even if you’ve only been dating for a year), he‘ll decide to propose pretty quickly. key word: decide. he’ll still procrastinate on actually doing it for a hot minute.

👄 favorite place to kiss their s/o? favorite place to receive kisses?

he likes kissing your palms, lips, and forehead. sans likes receiving kisses on the same corresponding body parts (bones more accurately).

💊 how needy are they when they’re sick? how do they take care of their s/o when they’re sick?

he’s not needy, but i feel like he’s pretended to be sick more than a few times when he’s wanted extra sleep. despite his record of pretending to be sick, sans hates actually being sick. if he can, sans will want to sleep his sickness off so he won’t really want company. he may need you to wake him up to take his antibiotics if he’s been prescribed them. sans will be there to bring you some soup and be sure you remember to take your medication every couple of hours, he isn’t exactly proactive about telling you what to do when you’re sick - but he will get you whatever you say you need.

🗣 how do they comfort their s/o? how do they like to be comforted?

sans will either try to distract you from whatever is upsetting you or sit there and listen while you vent to him. if someone specific is the issue, expect him to crack some jokes and make fun of whoever is bothering you. he’s also pretty encouraging, sans will remind you that you can get through it. sans wants someone to encourage him when he’s feeling down. he wants someone to tell him that he isn’t stuck in his situation and push him forward. listen to what’s bothering him and gently cheer him on and tell him he can overcome it.

🗯 how protective are they? do they worry about their s/o often? what makes them nervous?

sans isn’t super protective, but he is the type to remind you to be safe. ‘txt me when u get home ok?��� is a message you’ll often receive. if there’s something he’s worried about you doing alone, he’ll go with you. he may be a passive guy but he’ll won’t show much mercy to someone who tries to hurt you. driving during storms and you going to parties with irresponsible or fairly unknown friends makes him nervous.

📖 how trusting are they? are they an open book? does it take their s/o a while to crack them open?

sans isn’t secretive but there are things he’d rather not talk about. the resets, gaster, and past mistakes are things he’ll avoid thinking about. if you ask about it he may not tell you at first, or he may point you in the direction to find out yourself. sans doesn’t like getting emotional and will avoid topics that will force him to dig up the past.

💓 what’s their love language (words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, physical touch)?

words of affirmation is san’s love language. tell him what you appreciate about him and encourage him when he needs it. it’ll mean a lot to him.

💢 what is a fight with their s/o like? how do they apologize?

sans is very non-confrontational. he’s good at changing the subject if he knows the current topic will end in a fight. when he does get in an argument, he’s passive aggressive and evasive. he’ll try to shut this discussion down and he may outright ignore you if you yell at him. sans is quick to apologize though, often accompanied by him doing something to make it up to you.

👠 how good is their sense of fashion? do they have a favorite thing to see their s/o in?

HE WEARS ONE OUTFIT. AND IT INCLUDES SLIPPERS. HE HAS NO FASHION SENSE AND DOESNT HAVE ANY PREFERENCE ON WHAT HIS S/O WEARS AS LONG AS THEY WEAR SOMETHING.

🎁 what kind of gifts do they give their s/o? what kind of gifts do they like receiving?

he’ll give you little things he knows you’d like. a blanket with from a fandom you like, a scarf that’s your favorite color, or just your favorite flavor of coffee because you have a midterm coming up. homemade things. give him a batch of cookies, a drawing, or a poem and his cheeks will glow a faint blue as he rubs the back of his neck. he loves when you make things for him.

❓one random headcanon i have about this character

sans put the dog in the kitchen (the one that ate papyrus’ secret attack). sans hoped it would discourage papyrus from facing frisk, knowing frisk had killed his brother in the last reset.

[ashleighxx]

Klarolinemashup Day Two

Saturday15th|ObjectPrompt|A belt, a coffee mug and a notebook

Klaus had been living on the streets go around a year now. His father, Mikael, had found out he wasn't his son and got seriously drunk. So by the time Klaus had come home from an art exhibit, the sight had not been pretty at all. He was always harsh with him, lashing out with his fists sometimes when he was sober, but if he had a drink it always ended up much worse, Mikael favouring his belt after a few scotches. After his beating, Mikael kicked him out with all he had on him at the time, not wanting him around his family. Klaus didn't have any friends, he loved the solitude and preferred to be around his siblings if he needed conversation and connection so he had nowhere else to go. His funds was cut now that he wasn't a real Mikaelson and his pride left him to leave to city he called home invade he bumped into his siblings. He sold his phone and some rings he had on him, took the next bus out of Chicago to New York City, and that's where he has stayed ever since. The one thing he hated living rough, apart from the weather at times, was the looks of pity people cast him. He could deal with the ignorance, the dirty looks off some businessmen who reminded him of the reason he was in that situation. The weather wasn't so nice either, especially now it was winter. It had been constantly raining and he was soaked to the bone, the little covering he did have wasn't enough, so he was huddled in a ball, shivering. Looking down a pair of black heeled boots stopped and pointed at his direction, and once they didn't move for a few minutes Klaus looked at the see what they're problem was. He lifted his gaze to follow up the knee length boots, a sliver of tights peeking between the boots and a black fitted trench coat, a leather satchel in the brightest yellow slung on the person's waist. Carrying on inspecting higher, he saw two disposable hot drinks cups in gloved hands, matching scarf, then the most beautiful sight he had seen stood before him. Soft, blonde waves, framed the stunning pale, skin as she had her head tilted down towards him. Pink rosy cheeks, probably from her drink warming her up, and sparkling, blue eyes staring at him intently.

She looked like an angel.

An angel sent down to him in his time of need.

"Hi." She said softly as she thrust her hand with one of the drinks in toward him. "It's for you." She paused. "For you to drink." She added a bit more cautiously, his face must have looked incredulous. "Thanks." He spoke in trepidation. "My names Caroline." She smiled down at him still. "Klaus." "Come one then." She demanded as she took a step to the side and started walking. "Come where?" "I can't study in the rain." She looked at him with a slight frown, as if he was to know that bit of information, as if he knew her. "I'm not..." he began to say something, he wasn't sure what though. "I'm not gonna ask for your life story or whatever. Just thought you might appreciate someone to talk to in a warm and dry place. Well if you insist." She shrugged and started to walk away. He shot up quick and grabbed his bag before he knew it, following. The blonde woman, Caroline, tilted her head back to make sure he was following behind, smirking as he realised she caught him out. She slowed her steps so he walked with her and began talking about herself. Coaxing him to do the same.

She took him into a large public library and she and the librarian at the desk greeted each other warmly before she carried on into the building.

They silently walked through the library before Caroline directed him to an empty table and she placed her bag down at the table, shrugged her coat off and hung it on the back of the chair before she sat on it. Looking up at Klaus through her long lashes, a beautiful smile on her face, she nodded for him to sit down too, and after her not so subtle encouragement, he shuffled his way opposite her. He brought his hot coffee mug down in front of him and he cradled it between his hands to try and keep the warmth in them.

He watched in confusion as she grabbed a few books out of her bag and she put them about the place in a neatly manor, spotting books on various topics which he assumed was part of her college degree. He was so confused and wary at this young woman’s display of kindness and compassion towards him.

Klaus had mixed feelings of the topic.

He hated feeling weak and accepting help from anyone, he refused a lot of help throughout his time of being homeless, but he simply didn't understand why he suddenly felt grateful now. It simply couldn't be that she was beautiful, though that did have an added bonus, but he thinks it was because she hadn't treated him luck scum, she hadn't tried to belittle him and knock him down while he was already at rock bottom. No she simply saw him, saw him as a human going through a little difficulty and as though all her words can magic his worries and make his life better. Especially when her smile reached her blue eyes and they twinkled.

He berated himself for acting weak again and he looked down at his steaming coffee, getting lost in a world of his own.

Feeling eyes on him, he glanced up at Caroline who was looking at him shyly before she turned away to look around. “What?”

“We are in a library, why don’t you grab a few books to read or you’ll be bored stiff. I'm gonna be here all day.”

Chuckling to himself at her demand, he stood up and walked a few aisles of the library and grabbed a few art books, checking out some new artists local to New York always eager to learn new techniques.

Hours passed and Klaus and Caroline were having fun. The dark haired woman from the reception desk had come over a few times. It turns out she was Caroline's friend, and this was her part time job to help fund her degree. He tried not to listen into their conversations as he was a gentleman at heart. He had to admit teasing the blonde was amusing though, even though it was sort of ungentlemanly of him. But he adorned the way her eyes flared up when he proved she was wrong and the way her forehead creased while she concentrated on her studies. She had relentlessly teased him back though and he enjoyed her look of triumph when she had beat him in a little quiz she had to do for one of her coursework.

Seeing her so passionate in her work made him feel a little somber, he couldn't remember the last time he held a paintbrush in his hands, a pencil even to sketch, and oh, how he longed to draw this stunning goddess that gave him time of day.

“What's up?” she whispered, as if she felt his sadness radiate from him.

“Nothing.” “Come on Klaus, tell me. It may help to clear some stuff off your chest.” her voice soothed him, like a balm for his soul and healing his pain.

“It’s just reading about art. Its one of my passions and I haven't been able to draw in a while that’s all.” He explained, carrying on reading his book in front of him. “I miss it.” he confessed.

Sensing to leave the topic alone, Caroline carried on reading her own book, drifting them into a comfortable silence.

Evening was fast approaching and Caroline grabbed another notebook out of her bag before scribbling some stuff onto it, ripping the page ut and folding it. She slid it towards Klaus. “There's directions and location of the homeless shelter I work at. Food, shower and a roof over your head. Please go there, the storm is rolling in any day now.” She threw her coat on and stuffed her books back into her satchel, ignore him and any signs of protesting, which he was going to. “I’ll see you around, Klaus.” She called over her shoulder as she left the library, and him behind.

Safe to say he didn't turn up at the shelter that night.

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Caroline found him two days later. She had hoped he had come to the shelter after their time spent together, but she saw the stubbornness set on his face. It was why she fled quickly, trying not to give him time to reject the idea. She had helped loads of people on the streets, day after day, but she couldn't understand why he was so different. Why she connected with him so fast, why she was desperate that he kept safe from the upcoming snow storm.

She walked around the streets of New York looking for him. She knew she was being stupid and that she may not find him in the metal jungle but she was determined to find him by tonight, before the first snowfall.

She felt foolish these past few days.

The night she left Klaus, she headed home only to bypass an art supplies shop, taking a few steps back, her feet compelled her into the store and she browsed the lavish stock they had. Caroline bought a few stuff though. A sketch pad and some pencils, hoping she would bump into him on her shifts at the shelter, but he was nowhere to be seen. So they sat in her apartment, still in its gift wrap, awaiting to be torn open by its rightful owner.

She finally spotted him across the street and she jumped through traffic to get to him on the other side. He looked up at her, startled when he registered who’s face it was under the hat and scarf she wrapped herself up in.

“Hello, love.” he smiled at her, causing her to frown at his happiness, while she was worried about him.

She  huffed and stomped her foot slightly, mentally curing herself for acting like a spoilt brat but she carried on when his face morphed into amusement. “You!” She pointed at him, “You're coming with me, whether you like it or not.”

“I cant, sweetheart. The shelter would be closing right about now.”

Damn him and his stubbornness and for refusing her generosity. “Well it's a good thing I'm not taking you there. Now grab your stuff and move it.” She put on her best commanding voice, channeling her inner cheerleader and he raised his eyebrow at her before getting his stuff together and follow her.

She led him back to her apartment and opened the door, wondering if this was a good idea after all, but she trusted him and she trusted her gut, so Caroline widened the door to let him inside. Her home was a tiny one bedroom apartment but she had gone out and decorated it in light and homey colours with soft furnishings. She was proud of what she had achieved in life, no matter how little.

Caroline walked over to the sofa and pulled it out into a bed, leaving Klaus stand in the room alone as she grabbed spare sheets and bedding from the closet. He watched her, no, gaped at her as she settled into her task of turning the living room into a bedroom for her new guest.

“I don’t need your charity, Caroline.” He tried to growl at her, but it came out more of a shocked grunt.

Giggling she walked into the tiny kitchen space that was opened out into the living room and she fixed herself and Klaus a sandwich and a drink, turning to look at him. “Tough, you're getting it.”

She brought them back into the living room and was glad when she saw Klaus had took off his jacket and had sat down on the edge of the sofa bed, looking at the side table. Looking at his name scribbled on a piece of card on top of the wrapped art supplies.

“Thats for you. You would have had it sooner, but you didn't show up.” She bit into her sandwich and turned to television on, glancing over at him now and again to make sure he was eating, and opening his gift. He gasped in surprise once he did and he choked a thanks before looking away.

It wasn't even half an hour later when she heard the tell tale signs of pencil scratching over the parchment.

She really was excited to have him stay as a roommate.

Telling him he was staying was going to be a challenge though.

But she never backed down from those.

[kendrixtermina]

Extra Typology Vol #2 - 24. The Types ft. Stress Reactions

Common flaws and breaking points manifested by the types, and some advice on how to overcome them. 

[Here comes the real talk]

Lunar

Counterproductive Behaviors: ‘Deadly Honesty’ - Viewing the world in a clear, simple way, even a sophisticated adult individual may on occasion speak or actin a way that others find naive, inept or innapropriate. Even when the Lunar knows, from experience. that behaving a particular way will not give them the result they want, they will continue to do so, with the excuse that it’s just what they “have” to do on matter of principle - they may secretly be proud of their ‘honesty’, yet they will suffer when they see how others react. They know that they should not tell the world everythng about themselves and what they are doing - yet they will also not be able to draw a line and curb their deadly honesty. 

They may also have a curiously over-developed and skewed sense of responsibility that leads them to agree to things that have nothing to do with thm, or that put them in a difficult position. They promise things that they should not, and then suffer trying to keep the promise. 

Unhappiness: Typically approaches the outside world with confidence and kindness, but retreats into their internal world when this is rebuffed. They leave as an expression of their inner pain and pile on the agressin in hope that this will somehow turn off the pain. 

They’ll reject help from the outside because they believe it’s better to be internaly ‘locked down’ - exposing their terror and pain to the outside world, and having the other side make an inadequate and unhelpful intervention is worse than coping on their own - so they’ll both isolate themselves rather than communicating, and fabricate increasingly unlikely ideas about ho to “get out of it” - by the time they let the outside world in, things have already gone seriously out of whack and they now for someone to turn into a “savior” or parental substitute, ending out seeking out scenarios in which they can be helpless and the object of sympathy when what they really need is to have their strenghts validated and supported. 

Solutions: Cultivate a sense of self-protection. Let go of the notion that you have to speak out about everything you know. Do not see yourself as the one who magically sorts out everyone else’s mess. 

Facing the consequences of your actions without running away or drowning in self-pity will always be an invaluable life lesson, as long as you accept emotional responsibility toward yourself and others. 

[Sigh. ‘Tis some real-talk there. I’ll need to meditate on that.]

Venus

Counterproductive Behaviors: ‘Deadly image-consciousness’ - the idea that beauty requires pain. Fixation on appearance to an unhealthy, self-destructive degree, from wearing uncomfortable clothes & makeup all the way to unhealthy body shame and being unable to cope with aging - Being a slave to image requires discipline, but the rewards are often transitory and without real worth

Unhappiness: They may feel that they can only be happy when they feel themselves well reflected in the opinions of others. Being far from the centre of intellectual thought, they may react to fleeting, valueless comments in their version of seriousness and genuinely suffer as a result - the need to compare well & please everyone becomes a form of slavery, particularly since they always have to overcome their natural inertia to do so. 

They may deny themselves experiences, reasoning that it might be too uncomfortable (wrong weather etc.) all the while wishing for someone to sweep them out of their languor, but as this type works indirectly, they fail to communicate that, and the other, not being a mind-reader, may not be capable of the “big gesture” they secretly crave - the more unhappy they become, the more they concentrate on winning a beautiful mate and they more they will be strapped to appearances - which can also lead to defeat because others may see right through their expensive haircuts, and this form of vanity is liable to transform into feelings of self-loathing and undesirability at the drop of a hat, made all the worse by their desire to pretend that all is perfect, leading them to act the most snobbish when they feel the most vulnerable. 

So they might continue to escape into soap-operas and celebrity gossip where everyone talks mechanically about feelings and the tiniest perceived slight is discussed as a matter of crucial importance and, especially if they’re inexperieced, actually try to live that sort of life.  

Their reliance on the opinions of others may cause them to overlook their own emotional intelligence and struggle with a kind of self-imposed caste system where they can only be with people of similar clothes & interest. 

Solutions: Rejoice in the thought that how we look isn’t really that important & that real beauty is on the inside. Allow yourself to be comfortable! 

Volunteering to help others may be beneficial - seeing how others survive might provide a sense of perspective. You should stop caring about ‘perfection’ how how you’re letting yourself down - check out creative pursuits but don’t turn them into a competition. Once you can accept ‘good enough’, get casual and stop bothering about physical and/or financial appearances, you will become internally free and then both you and others can enjoy your natural warmth and sensuousness. 

Mercury

Counterproductive Behaviors: ‘Deadly Drive’ - Not mining your own gold. This type may begin projects with promise but give up before taking the time needed to bring their efforts to fruition. They may not allot much time to their intimate relationships either, developing a nervous “well that’s just me” shrung when each attempt doesn’t pan out, without slowing down to accept that they could have behaved differently - Over the years the sum total of this behavior is the self-inflicted belief that “whatever I do, it’s not good enough.”.

Unhappiness: This type may be tempted to use their pepetual business as an escape from fear: What happens if they slow down? What thoughts of death and feelings of despair are they keeping at bay by never stopping?

So, they’ll still be on the lookout for new projects, gimmicks and opportunities, but they become misused as a mere distraction from the pile of half-finished projects they aready carry around, looking for “magic solutions” for their growing dissatisfaction - they thrive on the ‘initial energy’ of a project but are all too ready to slap on a generic rendition of the idea rather than invest time & commitment - and when they have to stop & take stock, because their latest endeavour has come adrift, they judge themselves hashly and fall easily into self-loathing over all the wasted potential. 

Solutions: Accept that you have the ability to change your course. Focus on quality, not just quantity. Learn to chill physically and mentally - you may be a moving type, but you are capable of adding thought to your actions.  Devote real portions of your life to grounded, well-conceived and properly executed projects or relationships. 

Try to find a balance between frenetic activity and ‘crashing’. Don’t believe that you have love “all figured out” if you drift by on superficial charme but actually have a cold, distant attitude towards your partners. Have a friend or college review your various enterpises & formulate a plan for dealing with each project or interest. 

Saturn

Counterproductive Behaviors: ‘Deadly Seriousness’ - instead of retaining some lightness and fun, they might smother the spark and insist on the driest of fact and behavior all the way to puitanism. This can lead to pedantic plodding, arguing tiny, inconsequential issues with missionary zeal. 

Unhappiness: Your basic “tortured artist” routine, embracing both creativity & darkness - They feel things intellectually and sight deeply as they pull their bodies through the day. Worth becomes both a touchstone and a burdenas everything needs to be questioned, evaluated and determined. They work in depht, in seclusion or isolation, driven by a passion for the subject, but become bitter at what they see as society’s inability to appreciate the fruits of their labor - and they may labor on tiny adjustments, such as a partiular word so that what they produce has a sense of agony about it. 

Because they seek worth & meaning in everything, they assume that everyone else does, too, examining careless coments for their ‘secret meanings’; A thoughtless act will cause them agony because they won’t stop to think if it was deliberate: They automatically assume it and do not qeustion it. 

This deep seriousness also leads them to ut themselves off from lightness and joy, so in the later stages of unhapiness, this can take on a somewhat self-destructive bent  - because there is unhappyness in the world, they cannot feel happy. Instead, they blame the world for not recognizing their worth and deliberately shut down their admirable sense of worth in favor of cynical, world-weary disbelief in anything positive.

Solutions: Indulge without guilt. Explore lightness and frivolity. Recognize that not everything deserves the same seriousness.  Forgive others for what you perceive as their shortcommings, shallowness and ignorance. People are much more likely to take your advice if you cool it with the judgyness. 

Acknowledge that you cannot, all by yourself, bring the entire world up to greater consciousness - instead, re-awaken your own need for comfort and relief, which is also part of human nature. Study joy and the physical world, and integrate these concepts into your mental world - after all, you are admirably placed when it comes to learning new things, and not every conversation needs to be a tussle with conscience, morality, mortality and divine justice.

Mars

Counterproductive Behaviors: ‘Deadly Control’ - The Mars type’s forceful charm and bold initiative can deteriorate into a constant life-or-death ego struggle. Their naturally combative energy easily becomes an ugly, endless confrontation. When lost in deadly control, a dysfunctional Mars type would rather have their house burn down than be criticized for not having a smoke alarm. The cumulative toll of years of over-intense engagement may rob them of the golden years of retirement.

Unhappiness: In positive mode, this type is dynamic and draws peopl into their orbit, however, emotionally speaking, they experience their affect as being liable to change and may paranoically suspect others of doing the same. 

They’ll act confident, but ask “How am I doing?” as though they have a sense of putting energy out but needing external validation, surprising those around them. As a “doing” type, they have a need to constantly do something in order to shore up their self-opinion - although they might seem powerful, their inner vacillations and need for a fight wears on them, too - and then they try to make everything ‘wonderful’, like the businessman buying his neglected wife a fancy necklace, but when this doesn’t do the trick, they revert to agression - but are still hurting, even though they cannot show their vulnerability. 

If they cannot step outside their type’s limitations, they need the other side to draw the line - so they push people often intuitively hoping the other side will stand up for themselves - if they do, the Mars type will happily relax, enjoying a scenario in which they don’t always have to make the decision or the threat, but sometimes, they end up alienating family, friends an business associates - this is actually disturbing for the Mars type themselves, because they long for harmony and respect - So they’ll try to find a ‘magic solution’ or ‘holy grail’ all the while thinking that “This time, I will win” - unfortunately, the solution they’ll pick will be unrealistic and childish in the light of the divide their created, a bandaid on a bullethole, and when it doesn’t work, they may walk out to the street, wanting to fight someone or even everyone. 

Solutions: Learn to let go, and learn to consider the other. Strive for win-win solutions. Develop a taste for generosity & acceptance.

Allow yourself to be surrounded with accepting, generous love - even a constant warrior needs time to bathe & lick their wounds, as unthinkable as thi may seem when you are riding high. Be open to gestures of love when you least expect them. Learn to trust that you are okay instead of following the unconscious need to pit yoursel aganst others and life. A lot of Mars types often find fulfillment in becoming involved in charitable work or anything else that is visibly productive but non-competitive, where you can use your strenght for the greater good. 

Jupiter

Counterproductive Behaviors: ‘Deadly self-sacrifice.’ - An over-developed sense of guilt involving personal penance can leed to an ongoing personal creed of self-denial. (”Martyr Complex”) At some point you aren’ saving ressources, just burning yourself up and, eventually, out. Living in squalor while paying the bills for individuals who could do it themselves just fine is not ‘saint-like’, it’s called “being taken advantage of”, and the other party might well walk away one day without a word of thanks. 

Unhappiness: This type desperately wants to believe that things will be alright in the world - hence, they might be tempted to lie to themselves and others because the truth is too difficult, and cling to the convenient belied that there is a ‘saviour’ somewhere who will bring peace to themselves and the world. 

Perhaps overly impacted by the ills of the world, the Jupiter type may develop a mechanical “that’s terrible” response to everything rather than actually doing what they can to change and improve things - others see them as suffering for the universe whilst inside they may actually be feeling sorry for themselves. 

They may neglect their true needs and indulge themselves in uneccesary pain; They may take a perverse delight in breaking up with someone because they can use it as an opportnity to say that they don’t have any emotional needs: Everything is for ‘others’. Having denied their needs and dissapointed those who offered them love, they may take refuge in conventional religion or mystics and wait for ‘salvation’. 

Solutions: ‘God helps the ones who help themselves’. Don’t expect to be showered with supernatural gold for your self denial - helping others should begin from a platform of personal strenght and security. Establish yourself, and you will have more ability to help, not less. 

Instead of idly waiting for revelation and sanctification, you would gain more by accomplishing small, real tasks that suit your home-loving orientation - put the principles of the saints into effect, be the change you wish to see, without vainly believing that you yourself are ‘saintly’ or holding yourself to self-flaggelating, ‘saintly’ standards. Ask yourself what you can do and then simply do it. 

You will also be helped by drawing a line under the suffering and giving yourself over to lightness - You’ll find happiness nurturing yourself by doing the things you’d otherwise feel guilty doing. 

Hybrid Types

The hybrid types may face the weaknesses and temptations of one or both of their influences, as well as the additional problem that their disparate goals/ natures may pull them apart and throw them into conflict. However, they also have the advantages of both types to help them find their way out of it & many of them lead happy lives. 

[ancmalychild]

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Blog was created on October 29 2016 - original URL; fenton-to-phantom

Rules updated on: February 20 2019

In order to make my rules easier to read, I have split them up into multiple sections and tried to keep things as short as possible.

Blog information:

Indie, canon divergent, and selective - Canon divergent because I ignore Phantom Planet as canon. Selective because I have a lot of RP side blogs connected to my hub blog

The cursor was not made by me! All credit goes to the original creator

Follows from tiny-ghost-rp-hub - This blog can not follow back due to it being a side blog. This means that my hub blog, tiny-ghost-rp-hub, shall follow you instead

Mun is 18+ - I have turned 18 in August 2018

Dark themes are present on this blog - These will be tagged as well as, if these appear in threads, they can be wrote in ways that hardly mention them or wrote as fade to black scenes if you’re uncomfortable with them!

Swearing is allowed

No Godmodding - I would prefer it if we discuss stuff before hand if it’s for content involving killing or anything along those lines. This also goes for overshadowing for ghosts.

Feel free to write starters for me - Though I’m not active 24/7, if your muse wants to interact with mine, feel free to write random starters! I won’t mind

Multimuse blogs friendly - I am fine with interacting with multimuse blogs. I run a few, after all!

Duplicate blogs friendly - I have no issue with this. In fact, I encourage it! Let Danny meet his duplicates/alternates. If you don’t want it to be two different versions of Danny meeting, we could always have a twin verse (I already have a few icons and names ready for that if needed!)

OC blogs friendly - Throw all of your OCs at me. I don’t care how many you have; I will love them

AU blogs friendly - Like with OCs, throw them at me!

Non-mutuals friendly

M!As and asks are always welcomed

I won’t RP with: blogs with muses of real life people (e.g. YouTubers), personal blogs (okay with these sending in asks, though!)

About and rule pages - I expect my rules and about to be read (the other pages on this blog aren’t as important as these two!). I also expect there to be some kind of rule or about page on your blog so I know your muse(s) better as well as your limits!

Don’t steal content - If you want to use something like a headcanon I’ve personally wrote out, please ask me if you can before using it for your muse. Same goes for stuff like icons on here (only time you can use them without asking is if I’ve made a post stating that they’re free to use)

Don’t reblog threads you’re not apart of

Icons and formatting - You don’t have to use icons if you don’t want to. As for formatting; I don’t have an issue with it. Please note that I, personally, won’t format my replies. Only thing I will do is trim threads if they start to get too long

Discord available - I have Discord and I am willing to RP there or talk OOC!

I may be slow with replies - I’m a college student, my family aren’t healthy, and I - personally - am not healthy.

Passwords - I don’t have a password for reading my rules. I also don’t send them in to others due to my social anxiety (this doesn’t mean that I don’t read them!)

Tracking the tag ’#ancmalychild’

Muse information:

My Danny is trans - If you, personally, don’t headcanon him like this, that’s okay. However I, personally, write him like this so there will be mentions of him being trans on this blog

Child threads - I headcanon that he came out as trans to his family at a young age. This age is 5. This means that, if threads take place before he’s 5/comes out, there might be mentions of his dead name and old pronouns

Powers - Along with this appearing in some threads set in the past, Danny may also accidentally use his powers in some threads if they are set during the first season/just after the accident

My Danny is Autistic and has ADHD - Thanks to a friend of mine, I headcanon Danny to be Autistic along with having ADHD. I have not been diagnosed with either of these things nor do I think I have either therefore I have done research on these. If I happen to get anything wrong, please feel free to correct me!

Danny is half dead - The portal accident half killed him which resulted in him basically being an anomaly thanks to neither being dead or alive yet also both. I know; it’s shocking

Mental health and trauma - Though I have things like depression and anxiety, I don’t have everything Danny has nor have I gone through everything he has. This means I may get bits wrong. If this happens, please feel free to correct me

Shipping:

Platonic - I’m always open to this. Want your muse to have a sibling like relationship with mine? I will 100% be down for that!

Enemies - Like with platonic, I’m down for Danny being enemies or not getting along with other muses. Please note that, if this does happen, this doesn’t mean I - the mun - hate you or your muse!

Romantic - I am single ship with Danny (one ship per verse. E.g. one ship for main verse, one ship for a verse where he’s a merman, etc.). I will not ship him with others in verses where he is a child or younger. I will, however, ship (romantically only) him in verses where he’s 14+ since, well, he got into relationships before at that age

One sided - I’m fine with either of our muses gaining a crush on the other. Once again, I won’t have Danny gain a crush on your muse if it’s in a verse where he’s, like, 5

Chemistry - I ship mostly based on chemistry however that doesn’t mean discussing things can’t happen!

Don’t force relationships - This has happened to me before. Please don’t just randomly jump into my ask one day stating that your muse is, for example, the lover of my muse when they have never met before. If you want to set up a relationship with my muse, either see how chemistry works between them or discuss it with me first.

What I won’t ship: Incest, selfcest, ships similar to Pom//pous P//ep, paedophilia (and some other ships I have yet to list because there’s too many in the Phandom).

Sm//ut information:

18+ -  I will not write sm//ut with those below the age of 18. If you lie about your age and try to get me to write it with you, I shall block you

Limits - Though I am up for writing sm//ut, please note that I am not here to only write sm//ut

Discord only - Due to the recent rule and bot added to Tumblr, I will only write this content in private on Discord. Though Tumblr said that this content is okay when written, I’d rather do it on Discord since, well, I don’t trust Tumblr

No underage sm//ut - Don’t try to force me to write sm//ut with you if either of our muses are underage. If you do try to, I will block you

Consent only - I will only write sm//ut if there’s consent between muses. This means I will not write sm//ut of subjects like noncon/rape (please note that this is for my own comfort. I’m completely fine if this subject happens to be part of a backstory or something like that; I just won’t write smut of it). If you try to force me to write smut of this, I will block you

Don’t force writing sm//ut on me - Sm//ut is a subject I don’t want to write 24/7. It’s also a subject I don’t expect others to want to write 24/7. Please understand and respect if I say I don’t want to write sm//ut

Triggers:

Triggers are tagged - I will tag every triggering (and possibly triggering content) with two different tags so they have more chance of being black listed. These tags methods are as seen: ’#trigger’ and ’#trigger /’

Remind me of triggers - I follow over 600+ different blogs plus I have a bad memory thanks to physical and mental health. This means, at times, I may forget a trigger or two. If this happens, please do remind me! I don’t want to accidentally trigger someone.

Please tag the following if I follow you: Videos/photos of real life spiders, real life creatures that look like spiders (e.g. tarantulas), pictures/drawings of events like 9/11, pictures of anything related to Nazis (groups like Hy//dra are okay), Pom//pous P//ep (even if Danny is 18+).

Catch all tag: ’ #Otus don’t look ’

Mun information:

I’m Otus! I’m an 18 year old British Trans Man (he/him; okay with they/them) who still lives in the UK. I’m currently in college and come from a family who have health conditions which means I may not be active 24/7.

Due to things such as my past and what I got from my family, I have both mental and physical health issues. These are:

Depression - Diagnosed by professionals. I don’t take medication for this because the UK is awful with this sort of stuff.

General anxiety - Diagnosed by professionals. Like with depression, I don’t take anything for this because the UK is awful.

Social anxiety - Diagnosed by professionals. Same as the other two.

Raynaud’s - Not diagnosed. Parents say I have it since I’ve shown the signs of it.

Fibromyalgia - Not diagnosed. Like with Raynaud’s. Both this and Raynaud’s get worse in the winter and make it where I can’t do much due to fatigue. After a bad cold I got, coughing badly in the winter makes this a lot worse for me because it makes my chest muscles act up (which isn’t fun when you have a binder on)