#f/o general

[1111-sunset-circle]

big f/o who can hold you on their lap with their arms around u.. BIG F/O who can let you curl up entirely on their chest?????? big f/o who can carry you…

[obsessivetherian]

[bunnys-lil-hideout]

hey. it's okay that your self-ship blog is small.

your blog doesn't need to be big or be noticed by tons of people to be considered a "good" one. your self-ship doesn't need to be noticed and praised by tons of people to be considered valid. you don't need any followers to help validate that your self-ship is good enough.

the point of self-shipping is to feel love for a character in a way that makes you happy. a romantic f/o is supposed to make you feel special and loved. a platonic f/o is supposed to make you feel like someone has your back. a familial f/o is supposed to make you feel like you have someone to come home to. a pet f/o is supposed to make you feel happy and joyful. an enemy f/o is supposed to make you feel creative.

getting a lot of notes, a ton of asks, a bunch of followers- that doesn't matter. self-shipping is not a popularity thing, it's not a trend, it's not something you should feel the need to put yourself out for.

you should do it to have fun, feel comforted, be safe, think of yourself, take care of your mental and physical health. do it because it makes you happy. do it for your f/o that'll know you better than any follower or anon ever will.

[kissingfictionalwomen]

Free my girl, she did do all of that shit but have you considered that she's cute? A little cutie patootie? My precious little honeypie sweetie darling sugar angel wifey beloved? Have you considered that?

[selfship-quotes]

F/O: *turns on the kitchen light*

S/I: *sitting at the table, eating bread*

F/O: It’s four in the morning.

S/I: Turn the light back off.

[downpourshipping]

He would never hate me for my mental illnesses and brain being fucked up and needing reassurance constantly,,

[kasperbunny]

waking your f/o up from a nap by cuddling up and spooning them from behind. you whisper their name softly, kissing against the back of their neck and running your hand along their back, then down their side. they grumble under their breath, making small, cute noises of protest as you slowly wake them. they finally open their eyes and turn to face you, their hair disheveled and their expression sleepy. you can't help but smile and kiss them.

[egonspenglershusband]

<3

[stonedstarfleet]

I just think he’s neat.

[1111-sunset-circle]

i love f/os and s/is with a big size difference. are they smaller than you or bigger? please tell me more about this dynamic in the tags

[mugenloopdalove]

Parallel play with your f/o.

Maybe you're both scrolling social media, and showing each other your favorite posts as your scroll by. If you're on the same social media, maybe you sometimes show each other posts only to realize you're showing the other a post from their own account. (Whoops!)

Maybe you're both playing your own games, peeking over at the other's game now and again or showing off an achievement and cheering each other on.

Maybe you're both working on your own hobbies or crafts, admiring each other's work, and pausing your own work to give the other a helping hand as needed.

Maybe it's a mix of things! One of you watches the other play a game while working on a craft. Or one of you shows the other memes on social media relating to what the other is doing.

Or hell, maybe you're both just quietly working on your own things, not needing to say anything as you work and enjoy yourself in the quiet!

Either way, you don't have to be doing the exact same thing to enjoy each other's company!! Your f/o just loves being around you and getting quality time together, and they know you do too! You can share your activities or just work side by side, all that matters is you're together.

Proship/comship/neutral this post isn't for you. Your f/os would rather be alone than with you.

(banner by @/cafekitsune!!)

[rowavolo]

btw your faves are protecting you from any and all negative vibes from reblog bait, chain mail, "interact or 'X' will happen" posts and everything else of the sort.

You don't need to reblog or interact with this or anything, but know your faves are with you in spirit, keeping away all the bad juju !

[tired-little-fawn]

"Imagine your F/O" believe me he is on my mind 24/7 I don't have this problem.

[rexscanonwife]

[The Imperial March motif plays softly in the background]

♡Taglist♡: @me-myself-and-my-fos @tiny-cloud-of-flowers @sunstar-of-the-north @dearly-beeloved @changeling-selfship @little-miss-selfships @silverhardt @bob-in-tekken-8

[selfship-quotes]

S/I: *banging a pen on the table out of frustration*

F/O: Stop that. How would YOU feel if I banged you on the table?

S/I: I—

S/I: I don’t know the correct answer to that question.

[selfshipseaside]

♡ Imagine those sleepy mornings with your f/os. You know the kind, the lazy hugs and kisses being exchanged, pulling each other closer until either of your alarms go off. Pressing snooze for just five more minutes with them, cherishing that moment of closeness that you want to last forever. Do you wake up first or are they the one to wake you up with a gentle good morning? Perhaps you wake up to them looking at you lovingly, not expecting you to notice their quiet stare. Or maybe it's the other way around, you watching them take in those quiet deep breaths and exhaling, wondering what dreams they're having in that intricate mind of theirs. Laying there with someone each night and every morning might not have been what your f/o ever pictured for themselves, so they cherish those sleepy mornings. Even if the call of the day eventually tears you both from the sheets, they find comfort in knowing that they'll have that time with you when the day is done. The quiet knowing that they have the person they love with them, and that every night they'll be able to hold you and be held. They love you more than anything else, and they wouldn't trade what you have for the whole world.