#girl im dating and i went through the lesbian masterdoc yesterday and like | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

invisiblyvisiblejay · 1 year

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after extensive thought (not finding any men actually attractive) i have concluded that i am in fact a lesbian. if ur wondering how that works w my gender ive decided since i think gender isn't real and i like the people a lesbian would like in a queer way therefore it makes sense for me to call myself a lesbian. also i present pretty fem nowadays anyways so the attachment to womanhood that's assumed with that label isnt like. that much different than when i wear something and i look very obviously like a woman imo. and i feel like thats the label that most accurately captures the group of people im attracted to without like. a lot of extra explanation. and like 80% of the time i call myself queer anyways lol

#this conclusion has taken me 3 actual months #im so not attracted to men that it's kind of funny i thought i was #girl im dating and i went through the lesbian masterdoc yesterday and like #i said yes to like All of the “are u actually attracted to men” questions #yknow the ones that if u agree with them ur probably not attracted to men #also i have like very little desire to even be friends w men let alone fucking. date one #so that's pretty concrete #and then i think im okay w being like. assumed to be a woman (only by people who don't know) so i think im also okay w that label #and anyways i just fucking like girls in a gay way 😭😭#and i feel okay calling the relationship im in rn a lesbian relationship #soooooo #yeah #life update <3 #andddd now i can go back to NOT constantly thinking abt my identities lol

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