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slfcare · 2 years

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When you find something you want (even if it’s just a result of casual thinking or boredom or a harmless ‘what if’), hold onto it. When you’re doing bad it’s easy to think it’s never going to happen and let others discourage you, but in those bleak moments it’s even more important to know that feeling of wanting and looking forward to something. It doesn’t matter if it’s merely a meal or a trip, seeing the sunrise tomorrow, attending a concert or hugging a friend, let yourself want things. They’ll pull you through when you least expect it.

#things that pulled me through because i wanted them:#posters on my bedroom wall #seeing the trees on my street grow flowers in spring #drinking iced water from a new water bottle #lighting a scented candle and reading a fantasy book #riding a bike #eating fruit with my dad #going on a walk with my dads dog #having my mom braid my hair while i sit on the floor and she sits on the sofa watching tv #finding a good kdrama to binge watch #making my 100th spotify playlist #having pancakes with ice cream on them #comfort kindness family #the healing (starts here)

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nemurian · 11 months

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@bigboobyhalo Your sacrifices have been accepted by the great Dapper. I'm so sorry but I don't think you'll be getting them back anytime soon. Or ever.

#nemart #qsmp #qsmp fanart #qsmp eggs #personal hc that bc the eggs are dragons they Love hoarding things #it differs with the egg #But Dappers pride-of-place in his little hoard are the plushies that Bad made him of 'their family.'#Bad's sitting in an armchair trying to crochet normally and Dapper is crouched beside him like a gargoyle watching him unblinkingly like 0-#Bad only realises the downside of how much Dapper loves them when Skeppy finally meets Dapper in person and Dapper reacts like that dog-#-who saw someone dressed up as his favourite toy and just went ballistic with happiness #-Like Dapper is Smart and he Knows that oh this is my other dad #this does not stop him from going ???? HUH ?????? PLUSHIE GOT BIG ?????? And attempting to add an increasingly confused Skeppy to the hoard #However the Real problems arise when he meets Junior who not only looks just like his plushie but is also Small and Shiny.#Skeppy can simply Walk Away when Dapper is trying furiously to get him to stay still #Junior Cannot.#Badboyhalo voice Where is my baby #Dapper (who knows perfectly well that Junior is currently going ???? is a veritable mountain of blankets) 'Oh he's missing? That's crazy.'#Anyway once again I am unable to resist writing a whole damn essay in the tags #Neon i Very much hope you like the drawing I cannot get your plushies out of my head they are so cute <3333

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electoons · 26 days

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guys this "keeping myself busy with distractions so I don't get sad" thing isn't working

#my mom is basically scrubbing the house of all traces of her bc thats how she copes. thats what she did when dad died #like two days later she was cleaning out all his medical equipment and stuff #i guess thats a way of dealing with it :( just doesnt really work for me because it makes me feel their absence even harder #like for me i personally wanted to keep Dad's stuff around for a while because. idk i guess it just felt like he was still kind of there #in a way. i guess. i dunno #obviously losing a pet is easier to deal with than losing a parent but it still blows dude i hate this #(* a parent that you had a good relationship with. i know that im very fortunate in that regard. not everyone had that and i need to count #my blessings)#idk this feels harder than losing my childhood dog because jojo was basically my constant companion for the past several years #after dad died i got suicidally depressed and didnt leave the house and was unemployed for a good chunk of time and she kept me company #taking her for walks and hikes was the only thing i enjoyed doing and the only thing that got me out of the house. she was always there #(also there's probably some psychological component to the fact that we adopted her specifically to be a companion for dad #when he was wheelchair-bound and couldnt go anywhere. so she kept him company. and then after he died she did the same for me #so. idk. like.... i feel like theres something there lol)#mia.txt #animal death

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dilfpassing · 9 months

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Man this is the first birthday I've sat alone in my room and sobbed on

#this fucking sucks #my dad called me to say happy birthday and i started crying because i got so bummed out #he was going to come up and visit and we had to postpone because i got covid #and then 20 other things went wrong already this morning #and im sick and exhausted and sad #and then i got dizzy while walking the dog im pet sitting #and i got stuck behind bikers taking up the whole lane #and then behind a pickup truck full of mulch going 20 under #and i had to cancel my birthday party #and my mom is at the beach without me spending time with her racist loser boyfriend and bragging about it to our family #and this was supposed to be the year i finally did something for myself on my birthday like it was supposed to be different this year #and im alone in my room #tired and sweaty and sad and lonely and miserable and sick and awful #and i just want to hibernate until this is over

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r0semultiverse · 3 months

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"Who is Sora's father?"

I feel like the answer to that is fairly obvious. 👀

#It's donald duck if this post wasn't clear enough & I say that half jokingly #sora has a father & he is a duck who can walk & talk #he may not be his biological father; but he's the dad who stepped up lmao #he isn't perfect but him & Goofy are absolutely Sora's dads in this story & you can't convince me otherwise #pluto is the family dog too obviously... actually where did pluto go? Is he still at traverse town in the manga-canon?#also 'ahyuk' is Goofy's verbal stim; that's my other hot take & I will stand firm on this hill #the kingdom hearts manga is such a treat #there's so many new little details & things that make it worth a read #love how some of the game stuff is just actual canon & tangible story #kh manga has a surprising amount of cursing too! I'll post a compilation of those later #its hilarious #this is such a fun read though definitely worth a read #I'm on volume 3 so no spoilers plz #kingdom hearts #mine #op

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bootyful-seventeen · 6 months

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i am too mentally exhausted to even deal with this shit anymore with my mom and grandma and low key wish i'd go comatose for a few years to be left alone tbh

#had a clean up service come by to see the damage and give a quote on the estimate and my grandma wasnt having it #she got upset and started crying to them about she has only 1 daughter and is trying to help her and they're trying to tell her that keepin #all that junk isn't gonna be helping anyone especially my mom but she wasn't getting it and i said i'm not helping clean the junk that's #all around the house cuz i'm tired of it all and having to manage my emotions since i am for sure emtotionally stunted from my childhood #and have to deal with a schitzophrenic mom and an absent sister who's balls deep in denial while i'm struggling to find a job here #and my grandma always stressing me ot saying she's gonna kick me out isn't fucking helping here at all like she thinks it does #so when they left she spent all day sobbing on the phone how i'm a terrible granddaughter who wants to throw out good stuff #when i'm not gonna keep helping sell shit for my mom cuz my sister can do it as her family contribution since she did nothing since dad die #and the thing is i gave them all options on clearing shit out cuz i know this family by now and shit doesn't get tossed but it migrates #cuz i said months ago i can ask some friends if they could come down and help sort and declutter #grandma said no to that and said she'll kick me out if i do it and she didn't want to pay for my mom's shit to get moved into a storage uni #she leaves the clean up to my mom and i think the backyard got worse but she didn't call anyone to throw out the junk like she threatened t #so i call a fucking hoarders clean up service cuz that's what my family is on my mom's side at this point and the city will be called too #and she has this reaction cries all day and calls everyone to say i'm horrible and yells at me saying i'm the one killing her with stress #when she's already been doing that for months to herself when i'm just tired and possibly mildly depressed or something idk #i barely leave my room and don't go outside except to walk my dog but idk cuz my family's attittude was we don't go to doctors cuz #cuz they're for crazy people but of course it's gotta switch up for my mom and no one else and i'm just sick of it all #grandma doesn't accept free help and she won't accept help that i pay for myself with my money set aside for school so i'm done #unlike her when i say i'll do something i stick to it so i'm not doing shit anymore unless i can call a friend to help with this mess #it's gonna sound like such a horrible thing but i can't wait for my family to die so i can live in a clean home again and get help #like deep serious help cleaning and big time grief councelling cuz i barely had time to process my dad's death and being the one to find hi #and that was just this february like god i am going to need so much fucking therapy in my future it's almost rediculous #and probably say screw my mom's side and visit my dad's side a lot more since they seem to be the normal ones in this shit family tree #at least they're not stupid and leave junk everywhere where one neighbour getting sick of not being able to sit outside and enjoy their yar #without mountains of junk staring them right in the face and landing a notice from the city to clean up especially since #we have chainlink fences and at least 7 neighbours can see the backyard and everyone can see the front porch when passing by #i'm just tired of living in these suffocating households and even wanna file a report myself to kick them into gear #its horrible living like this and no one should live surrounded by junk and things they never use or even garbage

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lonely-dog-song · 3 months

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one sentence text post cry for help 😑

#lonely dog speaks #this isnt really a cry for help #i just want to make one of these every time my dad talks to me #my bro has the right idea going on a walk & hanging out at restaurants all day instead of being here #i need 2 pick a direction and start walking

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bunibelles · 1 month

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I think it’s absolutely tragic what they’re doing to our neighbor’s backyard garden :’D

For context my neighbor was a nice old man who took great care of his garden. I saw it growing up when it was just a scrub and it turned into a beautiful passion project. His backyard garden faced us on the street so every time he was working on it (which was often) we would talk with him

Recently he and his wife both passed and his sons inherited the house. The gardens been standing for a good three months now

Until like 5 minutes ago where I saw a bunch of workers tearing up the back garden 😭 I know my neighbor was the gardener’s caretaker and he’s not here anymore but all that hardwork put into it :’D

Maybe I’m just being sentimental but to my neighbor and his garden, thank u for always being there

Every conversation, every time I was there after school before leaving to uni. Coming back always felt like home 🫶🏼

#life stories #it’s been a while and my dad definitely spoke more with our neighbor and bonded over fishing etc #but seeing that part of the street and my neighbor working on what he loved #giant part of me feeling like home #literally sometimes I’d come back and he’d be there #and a few hours later I’d go to walk my dogs and he’s still there #that’s dedication commitment and passion #his garden was beautiful and lovely #and he spent so much time and love on it #only to see it getting torn up in like 2 hours 😭#it’s so tragic to me #it’s not the garden was his only legacy but still #don’t mind me #missing things hours #bella rambles

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succubi-tch · 4 months

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So I might lose my heat because the douchebag propane gas service that my dad is enrolled in to refill every few months.... has evidently not refilled our propane tank in a few fucking months as the capacity is measuring below 5%. And they don't want to come out today lol

#my dad checked it by chance while walking the dogs #when he first called they said they were going to come today #then they called back and said #''well it can last 4-5 days under 5%'' yeah bitch ASSUMING its the firsy day its dropped under 5% and not the third or fourth day.#because who fucking KNOWS how long its been so low because you fags havent been refilling it. like youre fucking supposed to. lol #hate me normies who see 5pm and become allergic to literally any kind of work or any sort of exception to any emergency whatsoever #like sorry cuntress is my impending heating emergency impeding you from getting home on time?#refill my fucking propane tank you bitch lmao. fix your wrongs AS IS your responsibility to do so.#disclaimer: cuntress and bitch are being used gender-neutrally in this rant. any worthess man woman or otherwise nonbinary person may be a #a cuntress or bitch in this context. anyway #its 36° and dropping. :)

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imogenkol · 1 year

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Pray 4 me 🥲

#was runnin like a whole ass fever yesterday and my stupid ass was like ‘well tomorrow I feel better’#*pissed off uterus has entered the chat*#meanwhile the cat stomps on my face between 5-6 am but it doesn’t matter cause I can’t breathe outta my nose anyway so what is sleep #and the dog is a toddler on a sugar high and I feel bad that I can’t give him walks but I get so lightheaded/winded just around the block #I hate that I have to ask my dad to come and help give him walks #cause he doesn’t take me seriously and thinks I’m just being lazy even tho he can HEAR and SEE that I’m sick #I was supposed to meet with another client that I’m sitting for at the beginning of the month too but now I gotta put that off. again.#Sunday feels like an eternity away #I just wanna go home man I’m struggling 😭

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jonny-b-meowborn · 9 months

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I feel like a dog that's been inside too long and no one has taken it out for a walk in a while and it's running around with its leash in its teeth and whining for attention

(I haven't been out with anyone in too long bc I'm at my dad's in Germany and there's no one my age here and I miss my bestie)

#like yeah ive been out with my dad. and on my own #but its not the same #i wanna be taken out for a walk with my bestie and roam around our town aimlessly for hours!!!!!!#id say i wanna see other dogs but shes not a dog #but like. i am running around with a leash in my teeth whining for attention. i wanna see other dogs #also my dad cant even go out with me because of his work #so like i cant go out with anyone anyway #and i love my alone walks #but i miss having company #ough #i like being at my dad's but i kinda. wanna go home already #and he's taking me back to poland next week. like around tuesday i think #so theres still a lot of time before i can see my bestie and i miss heeeeeeer #bee buzz

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lilgynt · 6 months

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i’m gonna sound like an awful person but oh my god my dads dog is so much fucking work all the time