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#hes the emotionally unavailable person
momochr0me · 3 months
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Leonardoooooo
The more- uhh dissociatin of his fam-
Either he fights or curls up ontop of the fridge no in-betweens
Likes ramen and hates olives-
Absolutely will kill one of his brothers without caring-
The more smaller yet buffier of his brothers-
He used to have rabies but unlike mike- he actually got his shots
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iwonderwh0 · 10 months
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I wanna see this android being in love in a completely unhealthy self-destructive way because being and doing everything for someone is all he knows how to do.
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kacchanbiased · 7 months
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Reading this reminds me of a tiktok I saw of someone analyzing Gojo & Megumi’s relationship:
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This person on tiktok basically analyzed the way Megumi spoke to Gojo and put that into the context of how long they’ve known each other, Japanese culture, etc and came to the (unpopular) conclusion that: Megumi & Gojo don’t have as good/close of a relationship as the fanbase likes to make it out to be.
Megumi & Gojo are both fairly closed off individuals, it doesn’t come as a shock to *me* that when put together they aren’t exactly emotionally open w/ each other—but I get that in fandom spaces, it’s super popular to turn any adult chara in the vicinity of a minor chara into a dad/mom.
So rather than conclude strange things about “asian culture” (super broad btw) maybe just… reconsider how close Megumi & Yuuji truly are? Coming from someone Japanese… if they’re not calling you by your first name… you guys might not actually be all that close.
And this isn’t me saying they aren’t friends. Megumi definitely cares a great bit about Yuuji. I’m just saying, it doesn’t have to be so black and white.
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kyuala · 6 months
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SOOOOOO hard to go through everyday life trying to ignore the never-ending feeling that im just irreparably fucked up and therefore should just give up on everything
#this aint exactly s******* but it aint exactly not s******* either#anyways it gets even harder when i have to live under the same roof as my brother who is so much better than me in every single conceivable#and imaginable way possible like#and i knowwww a LOT of it comes down to us having relatively similar yet wildly different lives despite being 1.5y apart and having the sam#family our entire lives like he has gone through NOTHING and i mean not a single societal issue ive had to face and endure my entire life#he's a man im a woman. he's white im black. he's straight im gay. he's skinny ive always been 'overweight'. he's always been the good#christian kid ive always had issues w faith and religion. he's never been mentally ill i was clinically depressed for nearly 8yrs of my lif#we both lost the same parent and im the only one who got pathological grief and a personality disorder out of it. he's had a great job for#the last 7yrs that now pays him 20k+ every month ive only had 3 odd jobs my entire life and 2 of those my MOTHER had to give me so i would#have SOMETHING and ive never made over 1.6k monthly n my last job was minimum wage only#he's had like 4 relationships and is nearly engaged im so traumatized + emotionally unavailable ive only ever been on 1 date my entire life#he has a good relationship w every family member we have i have Issues w like half the family. he's always been an active member of our#church i can barely listen to like 4 traditional hymns before i start losing my mind and spiraling. i think the only two ways we're pretty#much equal like socially is that we're both able bodied cis and christians but still the cis and christian thing is debatable for previousl#stated reasons so like. do yall see how much better he is doing than me in every little last area in life and how he's always gotten the#long straw when it comes to Not having to deal w certain obstacles in life. n i know its like yea idk what it actually is like to be him an#he could not be doing all that well first of all shut up. second of all if it was 1 or 2 things i'd get it but it's literally EVERYTHING#and i know bc of said things n our v different lives it's unfair to me to compare the two of us but then it begs the question: WHY#WHY did i have to go through these things. WHY do i have to deal w this. WHY did i get the short straw literally every goddamn time#WHY did i have to get THIS life like WHYYYYY why ME GOD. why have I had to put up w all this bullshit for 24 fucking years!!!!!!!!! im TIRE#and this is not me hating or resenting him i know it's not his fault and he is so good to me#but still. why was i left with these things? to live like this?#so yes i guess i do envy him a little bit. who wouldn't#mari.txt#personal#tw negative#dl#btw i do NOT mean some identities are better than others. i mean he is better and is doing better than me in life partially bc he's never#had to deal w certain social issues and obstacles that come w oppressed identities.
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babygirlgiles · 9 months
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After the events of the past weekend— Eyghon, Jenny, the terrifying possession and his own mortifying breakdown over it all— Giles feels that he owes the kids an explanation. Part apology and part penance, he decides to take them to the beach after school to soften the blow of what he has to say. Of course, none of this goes according to plan.
Or, alternatively titled: coming out as a murderer to your surrogate children is hard.
(Additional Tags: Past Rupert Giles/Ethan Rayne, Background Jenny Calendar/Rupert Giles, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Heart-to-Heart, Awkward Conversations, Episode: s02e08 The Dark Age, Bisexual Rupert Giles, scooby dynamics, Giles is an incredibly awkward not quite surrogate dad)
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gibbyslounge · 7 months
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dont mean to be sappy and stuff (i am never that) but dream is my favorite person ever ever ever and if the meaning of life is to learn then im so happy i clicked on a silly little video of minecraft jokes i didnt understand and decided to stick around because its kinda outrageous how much ive learnt from him and take what hes taught me with me wherever i go in life
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vitospaghetta · 3 months
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Like. You're welcome to sit here and cope out of your fucking mind to make Leon out to be a sad orphaned introvert who would never flirt with someone already in an established relationship all you want but that still doesn't make a single thing in that statement to be true.
And for so many people to pass it off as fact and regurgitate the same idealized bullshit over and over and over and over until it becomes universal fanon makes it clear that nobody's actually interested in the real Leon.
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widevibratobitch · 2 months
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aaaaaaand it's starting. mom's bestie just texted me asking to come over this weekend cause it's Bad and it's probably the last chance to talk and maybe say goodbye to my mom's husband and i need to take care of her. god. i wont get through this weekend unless im high or drunk istg.
#time to slightly overdose my depression meds again ig lol#anyway. it is a little better with me these last two weeks. turns out the meds do work when you actually take em regularly#but first my best friend's break up that she's blowing up to unimaginable size#acting as if she just got divorced with the love of her life after 20 years#and not ended a few months long relationship with a guy who's been the source of most of her troubles since the moment they started dating#(ofc she's valid and id never tell her that because like. i get it. some people feel stuff more deeply. but its hard to be supportive#when you genuinely feel like this is the best possible outcome for her and that the relationship was only dragging her down all this time)#and now this. and this is gonna be infinitely worse. and then it's gonna get a million times worse when he actually does die.#and i feel like the worst most selfish person ever which like. probably am. but i did tell my cousin who actually knows my mom really well#and she said she understands and that my fears ARE valid because SHE'S terrified of how she's gonna handle my mom#and she wouldn't wanna be me in that situation cause it's gonna be so much worse for me lmao#like i feel like people who know my mother casually really dont understand just how unhinged emotionally she is#anyway. i feel so overwhelmed. i cant handle this jesus.#but im also emotionally unavailable and refuse to actually confide in another person because i dont want to be a bother <3333#god i love tumblr. i can literally type anything in those tags lol it's the perfect form of venting since you can just scroll by#but i will still have let it out of myself anyway uwu i literally dont need that therapy fr#anyway. i feel so unbelievably fucking lonely and on one hand it's my own fault for withdrawing and refusing to ask for help.#but on the other hand. i AM alone. like there's no one who can help me in this particular situation.#i have no siblings. obviously my dad isnt gonna help. it all falls down to me. good god. i wanna throw up.
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chronomally · 4 months
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I think Sifuu would kill it on here
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airbrushfather · 5 months
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learning so much about how to write about jon specifically today because i was (finally) cuddling with a boy ive been fancying for a while and he took my hand and i really just went 'Oh.'
either the oh oh trope is right or im really chronically fanfic authored. either way. maybe im just humblebragging that i held a boy's hand today
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opti-mized · 7 months
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work crush confirmed not in a serious relationship and also i got his number. we're so back
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overworked-bookworm · 11 months
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let me drop some drama on y’all — in the last year + 7 days, I:
reconnected with multiple friends from high school at a wedding I legally officiated for two old friends
realized in hindsight that I had liked one of our classmates when we were in school, who had attended the wedding and was now recently divorced
started talking to him very often and, by proxy, the husband I officiated the wedding for
started an on-off flirtation with the divorced friend — [clarification: HE started it, but I was very receptive when I realized what he was doing, it just took me a while]
became the “dump my mental health problems” friend for the husband^ who I’ve said is like a baby brother to me for *checks calendar* 12+ years
was accused by my friend’s wife AND the friend that I was flirting with that I was having an affair with the husband or at least harboring romantic feelings for him
she also accused me of behaving like her abusive mother, when I told her she was out of line for even thinking I would have an affair with (1) her husband (2) who I kept saying was like a baby brother to me
held an intervention for the husband about his ragingly out of control anxiety, where he proceeded to, like, beat the windows of the car and yell and be violent [not at me but around me and I was very triggered and scared] — after which he said he couldn’t trust me anymore because I was projecting my anxiety onto him, and he was fine
fell into an episode of psychosis because I was surrounded by people who didn’t trust me for reasons they’d all made up in their heads, and were all mad at me for ❤️
[while in psychosis] dealt with the guy I was flirting with talking about wanting to sleep with his coworker, and being very on/off + hot/cold with me — which I wrote off as post-divorce emotional problems I just needed to be patient through lmao
[while in psychosis] dealt with the husband’s mental breakdown about never wanting to get married in the first place, dragging my family and the family of the guy I was flirting with into the mess — we got the husband pink slipped and I stopped talking to him and his wife
was told by the friend that had been flirting with me that he’d been leading me on, as he proceeded to ditch me for another friend that I helped him reconnect with — but promised me that we were besties and nothing would change!! (how kind. also? he broke that promise immediately and called me difficult)
dealt with his new girlfriend lying to me about them not being together, because no!! hoes before bros, Alex, I would never date someone who hurt my friend!! but also you need to be personally accountable for feeling hurt!!
there’s more in the way they’ve both treated me since he decided he was done with me, but my therapist and I are still parsing through it
turns out I probably don’t need to be taking Ativan twice a day and sleeping after work + all night bc of the high dosage, I just needed to start cutting out bad friends! my anxiety has never been more managed now that I’ve decided to listen to every other friend that’s told me these ones were all no good for me! I do need the anti-psychotics, though. I heard voices for 2 months and it was NOT a good time.
I didn’t have this much drama in my life ten years ago when we were actual children — the next time I start posting about liking a man, someone remind me that it brings me absolute misery. None of this would have happened if I hadn’t wanted to hop on his dick 🙄🙄🙄
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gvlmohar · 2 years
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Okay so I was very for Gijeong getting with Taehoon a few episodes back (they were really cute together... and we don't see young single dad characters in kdrama often + Lee Kiwoo is hot) but now I don't think it works anymore. I think there are too many roadblocks and they keep hurting her both physically and emotionally. Even if we keep the rejection and the broken arm (that was mostly Gijeong's fault but hear me out for a moment) aside, there is the nasty sister, Taehoon's insecurities, and a child who is going through it (I'm not going to villainise Yurim. She clearly was hit hard by what her mom did and is now taking it out on her dad, and yeah maybe she is acting like a brat. Not trying to justify it. But it is understandable behaviour. Being a child of divorce sucks. Especially when one parent decides to disappear out of your life. But I digress). But back to Gijeong. Maybe it's just me but she keeps trying to fake her personality when she's with Taehoon. And that boy has not even done the bare minimum yet. I do not think he did enough to defend her from his asshole sister. Also I just,,, do not find the Nirvana album stuff cute???? Not to mention the whole laugh crying in front of all her coworkers scene(it was hilarious and kinda relatable) , but like he just said this album reminds me of you??? She is down so bad for him. Like girlie get UP.
She is much more herself with the boss guy (idk his name) plus they can talk to each other about anything and did you see the LINGERING LOOK™ he gave her when she was leaving the restaurant???? Not saying there will be no difficulties if it happens, I mean her coworkers are pretty much assholes to her for no reason but the guy is pretty great I think. I mean he LISTENS to her. That makes him infinitely more attractive to me than Taehoon, who is kinda very caught up in his own problems atm (and that's not bad at all! Just that he needs to sort his own shit out- especially the sister bs- before bringing anyone else into that dynamic).
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goldenlaquer · 1 year
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BRUH IM THE SEIJI ACQUAINTED WITH MY OC PERSON LMAO my bad i was thinking about it today again too (and finally checked your blog) id give u more info on anon but my oc is p much a self insert w my name so awks all im saying is i had a kind of sibling situation in mind but not biologically related, maybe just my oc having stuck w seiji for long enough for him to gaf like shes his little sis.. Gap moe seiji. he slightly cares ab ppl?!?!? idek if its in character but i want him in her life so bad
HI okay so thanks for replying back anyway! That relationship dynamic is INTERESTING, but good gods almighty is Seiji emotionally constipated; he would do everything in his power to stop from even remotely acknowledging that he'd view her as someone close to him 😭; one hell of a mean onii-san i'll say; like flick her nose enough to sting and tells her to shoo-shoo her face into that other corner because the sight of her is kinda offending him; he keeps an eye out but from very very very very very very very, very far away; he's a gaslighter so he's like huh? 🤨 did i save your life? 🤨 ew you're delusional, must be all those drugs in ya that's talking 🤨- kinda guy
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glittertimes · 19 days
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Hearing my sister and her boyfriend arguing is so wild like I’m not either of your sides 😂
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amberwings · 3 months
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I… feel… like… a… little… zombie!!!
#get ready for a vent… oh boy this will be fun to look back on#i am so tired of being the one who cares more or at all#it is a particular hell to get attached to someone who is incredibly emotionally unavailable#especially when said person made it seem like they were romantic and emotionally available in the beginning#and then u felt crazy for questioning them when all long they never planned on actually wanting anything with you#I have wasted so much time but can’t stop somehow#I just don’t care about other people the way I do for this person whyyyyyyyyy did this have to be how it was#he cares so much about his friends and work and family and just does not feel the way I do#I keep hoping he does deep down but I’m afraid to say it just doesn’t seem like it anymore#who invites someone over then tells them right before bed they have to leave at 9 or 9:30 for breakfast with their friends#after I took the freezing ass metro for him!! and he only invited me last minute cause he decided not to go out with friends cause the cold#like what on earth how did I end up in this????? this is not how it’s supposed to be#and I feel a little sorry for him that he can’t let himself experience something intimate and great he is emotionally shallow#i never would’ve imagined this is how it would be…#I never ever vent ever but I just can’t stop talking about it or this sadness will eat me from inside#I even told my mom!!!#im sick of this…#maybe one day he will regret it but maybe not he is so apathetic it’s so frustrating#it just hurts so much to see that someone you thought you were close to does not value you the same way or appreciate you very much#he meant/means so much to me and now I see I just don’t mean much to him#he doesn’t want to commit to anything and said I’m his friend after leading me on for a LONG time#i turned down other people for him cause he just kept making it sound like once __ happened he’d be ready for a relationship#i was so hopeful :(
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