#i also posted it to twt and they went absolutely wild over it so

[yamiiwaii]

Omg thank you for updating your analysis!!

I literally asked you about continuing it and you updated right the same day!!

yeah no problem !!! i had time and energy so i was like i might as well ! i hope it was to your liking !!

[moonjxsung]

STAR IM DEVASTATED so i have a priv twt acc right w some irls and this stay from stayville req-ed me a long time ago and i was soooo happy that i was mutuals w someone from stayville and i THOUGHT everything between us was cool? but today they unfollowed me and removed me as a follower and im devastated i dunno why they did that :((( i don't think they had a problem w me saying nsfw stuff cuz they previously tweeted things like "cancelling someone over saying smth nsfw abt an adult is stupid" and also ive seen them interact w nsfw minsung posts so i dunno if me tweeting smth like "i wanna suck flxs cock sooooo bad" couldve made them wanna break the mutual??? i dmed them too and i was like "heyy is there a reason you don't wanna be moots w me anymore </3" and not even minutes later they turned off their message perms and im devastated. its STUPID bcs they'd barely interact w me Sure but it felt nice to have a stay be my friend on my priv twt that's usually just for my irls and i </3 it's ironic that they did that too bcs just earlier today (before they broke the mutual) i noticed that my followers went down (i have a very low amt already. like. 25. not even joking) and i tweeted "yall dont wanan be friends w me anymore </3" bcs like. my followers are QUITE LITERALLY only my irls + a skz writer so i was (i think rightfully??) alarmed that the number went down!!!! man im just Sad about it and SIIIGH i know i shouldnt care so much bcs at the end of the day they're just a person online but the least they could've done was dm me back and explain why and GHFSDDSJHFKJADDSDSAAAAA you get me!?!! also im sorry i dropped this on you randomly feel free to ignore LMAAOOAOAO can i be 💫 anon? thank yew <3

(Adding 💫 to the anon list!!! Also fun fact that’s my favorite emoji of all time. Slay)

I feel like I’m the LAST person who should be giving advice abt this bc one of my mutuals and a very good friend of mine who I’d been talking to every day randomly blocked me on everything this week after me literally being there to console this person for every little thing and playing into this pretend homoerotic friendship we had even though she was clearly looking for another boyfriend and would get mad if I even called another girl pretty (???) I wish nothing but the absolute best for her but like…. The double standard is WILD. to not provide closure to a months-long friendship is just genuinely a very mean spirited thing to do imo.

(If she’s reading this, best of luck with everything and I hope you know I cared for you a lot more than you think I did. I distanced myself because you were clearly looking for someone to fill a void in your life that I could simply not fulfill, and I didn’t want to lead you on, nor be kept around like I wasn’t allowed to talk to other girls either. Regardless, I hope you know I used to sleep with my phone on full volume in case you called, and I deleted a page worth of poetry in my notes app for you I meant to deliver on your birthday. I also deleted your number so I have zero way of contacting you, but I will always be here if you need me. Take care and I love you always, I hope you still see me when you look up at the moon)

It’s not the first time I’ve lost an internet friend to the magical world of blocking, but fortunately the attitude I’ve developed towards it is that none of this is real!!! These are people on the internet miles away you’ve never met irl and they have no real impact in your life whether they remain following you or not. I’ve lost internet friends nearly a decade ago that I don’t even remember anymore. Better ones will come along!!! Especially stays! This fandom has so many beautiful remarkable people who are actually worth following and they wouldn’t cut you off like that. Sending so many positive vibes your way and I KNOW that the universe will send you some better mutuals. In the meanwhile I will be your internet bestie and I would never unfollow you for nsfw content or without some form of an explanation. And I also want to suck Felix’s dick. 🩷🫶

(I love you, don’t be so hard on yourself!!!! You’re wonderful, angel 🩷 anyone would be lucky to be moots with you)

[jaeurus]

That post you reblogged about Jimin not knowing how big the billboards are, makes me want to rant about something that I've been thinking about for a while. It's not directed towards anyone and nothing inspired this thought other than myself. Here goes... BTS don't think about things that we obsess over. They don't google things and spend their time on social media seeing what's new in the kpop world... some of us as fans do that, they as a HUGE part of kpop don't. Rant not over, one more ask.

okay i’m gonna reply to all your asks in this individually. please don’t think i’m judging you but since you dropped this in my ask so i get to tell my perspective, right? don’t get me wrong kay.

okay for the confused people reading, this ask is about this post.

‘BTS don’t think about things that we obsess over’ - well that applies for everyone in this world honey, no two people think the same nor do they feel the same. one might think, in fandoms people obsess about the same things but again, that is hardly ever the truth. people like and think about different aspects of everything in this world and bts are no exception.

‘They don’t google things and spend their time on social media seeing what’s new in the kpop world.’ - frankly, do you google about everything? for me, i don’t look something up unless i see like a lot of people talking about it. and by ‘people talking about it’ i mean my tumblr feed mostly. similarly, for bts it’s the people around them and that’s their staff, managers, the rest of the members. they look up stuff which they are talking about. also, in every industry, every artist is busy with their own stuff and unless the other artist is their personal favourite they won’t be having day to day release information about them. same applies for you really, you know and are talking about bts cause they are your personal favourite. 

part two : llollofagirl said: When I said that I inspired this thought, I meant it. I say this to myself as a reminder before I say it to any of you out there. They have a schedule that we will never in a million years understand. They are actually busy and quite honestly I think they don’t care about most of the things we think they care about. Whenever something is released in kpop I wonder if BTS have seen it and if they are watching it on repeat like I am. As time went on I realized that they aren’t. Not done, sorry 😅

everyone cares about different things in general. it’s not possible for anyone to keep track of everything. just like you can’t name every kpop act out there, they can’t tell who recently had a comeback (unless they’re also having a comeback). but i bet the rapline will know if epik high release something new work, gguk will be blasting iu’s new song through every speaker he owns and so on (but them knowing about their favourite artists too is subjective to a lot of factors which applies to all of us, a lot of us miss award shows every day cause everyone has things to do also timezones should ch0ke).it’s so evident from the music they recommend to us too. you can’t tell me that you’d heard already of every single artist they have recommended till date. 

part three : llollofagirl said: They don’t sit around and talk about the latest twice/BP/RV video like some of us believe. In one award show one day after the release of “Yes or Yes” most of them didn’t know there was a new song. I just watched their reaction to Chungha from the GDA and only Jin knew some of the lyrics to her new song and Jungkook seemed surprised there WAS a new song. I was surprised because for some reason I was sure they had seen it and was waiting for a killer reaction. Which brings me to shipping.1 more.

i’m not sure why you only mentioned girl groups. hey they might be talking about them or not. your post is kinda self contradictory. you made this post to talk about how we always overanalyze everything they do but you’re doing the same really. and i’m not saying it in any kind of condescending tone bls bby.

part four :llollofagirl said: After realizing this which I’m sure a lot of you have realized way before me, the way I view kpop life has changed, which again brings me back to shipping. I think a lot of us think that idols are just a bunch of teenagers waiting to date the new big star. What if they’re not? What if they really do want to focus on their career and don’t care about dating? What if they do care about dating and are dating right now? We will never know because we don’t understand that life… las one I promise.

i’m a pre- law student and although i shamelessly hit around on hot guys but i don’t have time for any relationship so them not wanting a relationship is literally the most normal thing ever. if you’re talking about twt stan, yes some are really wild but most people here on tumblr are old and mature enough to understand the different natures and possibilities of relationships. and if any of them are dating, i only wish them a happy time with each other because they deserve it.

part five: llollofagirl said: I don’t think we should try to understand that kind of life. I mean I can barely understand mine! So let’s just enjoy kpop for what it is… music, and try to lay off of analyzing idols and their love lives because it’s not what we think! I am not trying to belittle our bond with our idols, but let’s not act like we have them all figured out, because we don’t. And believe it or not we have an impact! We make videos that sometimes gain millions of views!! Let’s realize that! Sorry and thank you ❤

honey no one can ever understand the hardships you’re going through in life. it might look easier to an outsider but only you truly know what an obstacle in life puts you through - both good and bad things. everyone has it harder and so do the kpop artists. there will always be people who overthink every little move, and take the smallest thing seriously (the jimin and jeongyeon thing, i swear till date i never found what the fuck they talking about like what is it that you delulus are seeing and am not and i absolutely love twice). about creators writing fiction or making videos which garner a lot of views, you cant filter it out completely at the thought process you know. both good videos and bad (negative) videos gather millions of views, it’s all newton’s third law.

in conclusion, i’m not really exactly sure why that post induced this response in you XD XD but it was a nice debate haha. i mean i ain’t american so lmao i gotta laugh at that post. 

have a great day / night ahead of you bls, stay safe and hydrated