#i still don't know how he got unblocked btw

[queerstudiesnatural]

blocked someone on instagram who's stalking my friend (we used to be a trio of besties but then he told her he was in love with her and when she rejected him he started stalking her. so yeah we both blocked him everywhere) and somehow he got unblocked from one of my ig accounts and he immediately followed me again like dude do you have no pride? no self respect? how are you immediately gonna follow someone you know blocked you. not even with a new account or anything, just the same old account that i obviously blocked again. like dude omg go touch some grass and take a fucking hint

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

WIBTA for taking everything I can from a former friend?

I 20 met this guy J 24M last year through a mutual friend, and since we happened to live in the same neighborhood we hung out more. For context, during this entire time I am/was also supporting an unrelated person financially, so I need every penny and have way less than J.

J has borderline personality disorder and does not go to therapy. I don't want to vilify anyone in the same situation, I'm just bringing it up because J's bps deeply impacts every aspect of his life.

He'd been going through some tough times, with his love life going to shit, cutting off his toxic family and having to find his own apartment etc, so I helped him often.

Since neither of us have much, we shared stuff regularly, e.g. he'd buy me food sometimes and I gave J my skateboard, among other things. I painted his walls & decorated, because I have the skill necessary and he doesn't. I went out to look at furniture with him. I asked my parents to give him furniture they were selling (he got it free). I frequently went to his place in the middle of the night, whether he had splitting migraines or thought someone had tried to break in. I helped him organize a Christmas party, even though he cancelled it because he got angry at someone or something. I cooked for him a few times (he doesn't cook). I let him use my washing machine after he moved into his new apartment without one, even though he owned a cat so all his clothes were covered in cat hair and I have a severe cat allergy, meaning I couldn't do my laundry normally & sometimes it came out with cat hair no matter how hard I tried (this lasted 8 months and would have gone on indefinitely if not for following events). Btw I did all of this without asking for anything in return.

Earlier this year, because of his ridiculously high expectations, he dumped his best friend at the time (the mutual friend), and assigned me his new best friend. After a few months, they became friends again anyway but I kept the "best friend" title.

In July, he hurt his dominant hand during an angry outburst. I was there when it happened but he seemed fine at the time. When he came to do his laundry the next day, Sunday, he told me that his hand was sprained and we talked about how he'd need to see the doctor the next day. He agreed to go. He promised to go to the doctor.

I know he's not good with going to doctors, especially on his own. So I texted him the next day and asked if he'd already gone. He responded "Nope, don't feel like", and upon asking why, he said that "it'll heal on its own anyway". Which to me read as 'I don't care.'

This pissed me off. I blocked him. I planned to unblock him once I'd calmed down, probably in a few days. I was really upset about this because it happens regularly. Him not going to the doctor when he should is a pattern, a bad pattern. He's gotten me sick that way.

The next day he texted my partner, asking if I was okay. They explained that i was upset at him for telling me he'd go to the doctor but then not going. He blew up at them that it was none of my business anyway whether or not he went to the doctor. Whined about his medical anxiety (which is valid but wasn't the point). Said that the sprain was healing so he didn't have to go. They argued for a while until my partner got tired and stopped responding.

Apparently I am now no longer his friend. He asked our mutual friend to tell me to pick up my stuff. I'm busy these days, so I haven't done it yet.

When I pick up my stuff, it's gonna be a whole list of things: a seat/cushion, a stovetop, 75€ worth of comics, a measuring tape, the skateboard, a box. I'll also bring him laundry detergents that are laying around at my place still.

Now WIBTA if I ask him to also give me pain medication to replace all the meds I gave him and money for the furniture I got him for free at the time (I'll ask 40€ even though they're worth more)?

What are these acronyms?

[urmom-6669s-blog]

Feeling a helpless. I don't know what to do( this post mentions threatened suicide and rape )

Hi I'm 20 years old 🇨🇦. I have been in a relationship with this guy for 2 years. In December or November of 2021 I decided to break it off. Because I just wasn't feeling it and feel like relationship are no longer for me. So I thought rather tell him up front that I want to break up. Once I did he said some things and said ok. I was happy but I had a feeling he wouldn't let go or that it wasn't the end of it. For a week he didn't text me or anything. Then one day one of his Xbox buddies( but I feel like it was him on a throw away account) saying that I should take him back and give him a chance and all this shit. Not sure how long it was but he went through the ss and got my aunts number. And started bothering her asking her to try a persuade me to take him back. She told me to unblock his number and just start talking to him again so he would leave her alone. He still didn't stop texting her so I had to block his number on her phone. The text he has been sending during that time were saying place come back. Which was really annoying and getting on my nerves. Anyway he has been sending threats and saying stupid shit. He has threatened about killing or beating up my uncle and my brother. Also beating brother up with a hammer when he's walking to school. He also said that he would start a fire in my house with everyone in it and that he would poison my dogs. He also said that he will kill himself, he has sent photos and videos with a boxcutter to his throat or jumping off the bridge. Or that he would run into traffic. He has also threatened to get someone after me. I feel stuck and I don't know what to do. I have told my aunt all of this shit and it seems like she doesn't care. I feel like I will never be free. He has also told me that he will rape me and that he would kill me then himself. BTW I would call the cops or someone else but I I have phone anxiety so

[mlynar-nearl]

this is very long i am apologies

yes !!! i read ur essay (?) on mlynars grief too and i just think that youve got it down super neat (ive probably repeated this too many times) so like good job !!!

ah indeed i was the anon who asked abt his kit last time too (saw the art of him too btw its very pretty, very nice ur friend did an amazing job!) so do you think hed have a talent like aosta's in that he does extra (maybe % or maybe fixed) dmg to unblocked? or hes got like a skill thats like fartooth (global only target blocked but in his case its global only target unblocked?) i think either ways adding a different debuff to all of his skills would be fun ! do you think hed be rng based cc (like aak?) or like its specifically one debuff to each skill, those kinda stuff? honestly er this is a lot of questions you can selectively answer but i just think hes probably a neat wraith killer lol no more annoying unblocked assholes running around ehe but also on a separate note, do you think he has any special interactions with other operators (excl the ones from laterano) ? his hobbies etc (just go wild man, tell me wtv even his preferred breakfast or whether he hates grass or smth) also yes ty for the advice abt mandragora !! i only figured it out like... once i accidentally made her drop blocks on herself and she died due to low hp and i was like wtf cos ??? free elimination ? and i learnt i was very wrong later on but pozy saved my ass aha so it all worked out anyways ! just training for when i actually bother clearing ch 9 ig oh and until u said it i didnt rly notice that sss like... hates all snipers. (ive tried using chalter it didnt go well... pozy as well) like all the late stage sss stages just completely dont let you use snipers for anything other than like buffs (unless youre rosa ig might have chance) shit i screwed up this is even longer than last time im so sorry if this is uncomfortable to read :sob: if this is too uh ew to converse with i can chacha slide into ur dms (but give me time i am... well theres a reason im anon) but yeah anyways have a nice day so sorry for this length and as always u can selectively answer or ignore lol ! hope ur well !

don't worry about the length, i love answering questions! I will try and get to everything. thank you for the compliments ab my post i try (oh my god do i try) :]

i think his talents would involve extra damage + prio unblocked enemies + his source of crowd control. his CC would be strictly bind, not RNG like aak, because his arts are specifically grappling hook/rope shit. i think i've been theoretically calling this talent and arts type "tethering." in lore he mainly uses it for traversal, but there's no reason it wouldn't work on people, too, so i think it fits best as a crowd control bind. one of his skills would then just do a "talent trigger increase" as part of their functionality meaning extra bind chance. of course, how useful he would actually be as a concept depends on the numbers, which is the part i'm bad at, but still, fun to think about :]

for other operators, he would definitely get on well enough with some of the cooks among the RI operators, for one. his favorite flavor of sweet thing is cinnamon, and cinnamon is easy to incorporate into things, and he's smart enough to be polite to the people feeding his interests. he would also, i think, have interesting but awkward interactions with the iberians, because while he is not himself iberian, he has traveled extensively there and shares memories of the profound silence/aftermath thereof with Andoain. ultimately, i think he's polite to most everyone he runs into if he were to go to RI, but he's already rather closed off as a person and you have to open him up with a crowbar, so i don't know if anyone could be considered a friend of his. i don't even think fiammetta is really a friend of his (he would call it that, but that's far from correct), more that they have similar enough feelings on a specific topic that leads them to cooperate. i think even increasing trust with him still leaves a lot under the surface.

other shealtiel facts...he prefers cats to dogs but understands the appeal of both, but his favorite animals are birds. being a sniper, he sees a lot of them, and spends a lot of time in places birds nest. i imagine lateran schools have a class on religion similar to catholic school (where i have unfortunately been), and that was his favorite subject because his mother was a canonist and spent most of her time analyzing the scriptures and teachings of lateran. he's surprisingly flexible because of this- he actually idealogically overlaps with andoain more than he'd like to admit, he just hates the man's methods. and life choices. when he's on the road he survives off of breakfast bars and terran poptarts. he prefers chilly weather to heat, but hates heavy snow. he has a halfway decent singing voice but never uses it outside of when he's free enough to attend a lateran service. his plan for immediately after achieving his goal (killing andoain with fia) is to take a vacation somewhere cold-but-not-too-cold and isolated and not answer his messages for six to seven months. he's still on the fence about where, though. he would do that right now if he didn't have duties to fulfill. his favorite mixed drink is a gingerbread gin and tonic (g&t + baking spice infused amaretto.) his favorite non-alcoholic drink is cranberry juice. he's become partial to a dying brand of iberian cookies because andoain likes them and he's started buying them up ahead of him out of a petty sort of spite.

SSS really does hate snipers which sucks b/c i do love me a sniperknights. chalter doesn't fall off quite as bad as some because she's useful for bosses but it's still Bad. i still bring snipers for the aspd buffs, but most of them just arent gonna hold up too much. sad :( gj with mandra! she's annoying but at least in her actual boss levels that aren't TFN you get the automatic pillar destroyers. good luck on chapter 9 when you get there :]

[the-real-zhora-salome]

If I think that I followed him... I mean he has cute pets, but he was already shipping I0kius after 2 secs of trailer, and I was like "Ok dude, but slow down! M0bius could be the final villain or 0din in disguise as far as we know", and then, after MW said BEFORE the show started that ship wasn't going to happen, he said that MW was surely lying not to spoiler the show, and finally all a series of things he said after the finale (that were leading into "Iarries" territory), definetively made me unfollow.

I think the things that upset me the most was/is him claiming that Tom is sending secret messages about S2, him still trying to kiss Kate and MW's ass meanwhile following people who sent them death threats daily, him playing the victim when called out about mocking silkies stan, and honestly all this new obsession about OW (that I really do not understand).

Btw, if cosplaying as M0bius is considered the bravest act in human history, I wonder what he thinks about a queer pregnant woman facing harassment and disgusting hate everyday, and still keeping a positive attitude... ah no wait, she and her character don't exist, they are just a glitch in the matrix (and apparently Zawe too, since it was clear that she is Tom's gf)

When he got called out for following some of the worst antis (and being followed by them), his excuse was that he follows over 4000 accounts and is missing lots of tweets.

First of all, how do you follow 4000 accounts??? That's preposterous.

And secondly, no. No that's just a cop out. He pretends to not know how the twitter algorithm works. When you interact with lots of accounts around one topic, the algorithm will suggest lots more tweets of the same kind to you. Plus, we can be sure that he is following all the important hashtags and themes etc etc.

There's simply no way that he didn't see some or much of the disgusting hate that his buddies were pouring over Sophia.

And he said nothing.

Instead, he likes to trot out the one and only tweet where he ever half-heartedly said that you shouldn't harass creatives. Big fucking deal.

He blocked me a long time ago - long before the Loki show, and I had never interacted with him, so I have no idea why he did it. Then at some point he must have unblocked me. Again, no idea why. But recently he blocked me again because I liked a tweet that he didn't like.

What a child.

Which, come to think of it - he's not.

He's 28 years old.

Can you believe it?

HE IS 28!!!

I'm still baffled by this knowledge.

He has a loyal following of lemmings, and he very subtly instigates pile-ons. And then he plays the victim.

Sad.