#idc how emotionally inept you are

[didiwaffles]

The more I look at those so-called supposed "healthy" relationships, or at least how they supposed to look, the more I have the feeling that they imply not caring about your partner at all.

What the fuck do you mean "true love" implies that you feel good spending time with them but you also feel good when they're not around. I understand that not being able to function without your partner is toxic, but if there's absolutely no difference whether you're with them or not, how is it love??

Healthy relationships are about overcoming challenges together, not about avoiding them. That's the farthest from "healthy" OR "relationships" I can think of.

[menefie]

So...

Tbt, not on a "I hate men" tip, just relaying a objective perspective, it seems most men don't really have sex appeal.

I somewhat feel sorry ones without the boost of physical looks, cause a lot of adult males are either unreasonable cocky acting, romantically/emotionally challenged, some sad boys/bitter Billies, or a mix of these. They also seem inept on properly choosing who and how to pursue.

I just really sat and thought about why I'm this disinterested to date overall, and thinking about all the males I experienced, and I'm just like it makes sense.

I personally see why so many females nowadays have a "what can you give me" approach to males.

I think a lot of them need to self reflect and ask what is my benefit(s) outside of providing money/materials.

This isn't me vouching for females neither, cause tbh Idc for a lot them of. Also not vouching for myself cause I know I'm only meant for a specific type of person. But, considering I've had more in depth experiences with males opposed females, and also never had a true commited romantic relationship with one allowing me to have a plethora of close and distance interactions with them, I feel confident on this.

Even now, though I've made it known I'm technically not dating and I'm not close to anyone other than literally 2 whole people, I've still been having many interactions with males who've shown interest. Haven't been feeling it.

Even the male celebrities I'm attracted to, aside from my personal taste in their physical looks, I like how awkward/quirky they're. But if I saw any of the problems I've seen most males with, I wouldn't be interested.

Many females "just want to use men", cause, from my experience, it makes sense.

[sasukesun]

naruto for the ask game 😁

hiiiii ima! yes, thanks for this i love talking about the boys

favourite thing about them: i. just. love. him. but if you want me to be specific… how genuinely good he is, despite all the (valid and that shouldn’t be repressed btw) resentment and anger he has, how much love he has to give even though he grew up with none, how he never gives up, his optimism can be naive sometimes but it’s still inspiring to see, and i also love how fucking crazy he is

least favourite thing about them: how fucking dirty they did him at the ending and in b*ruto omg how you go from i want to change things, live and work with me sasuke and valid resentment towards people that wronged him to… that, fuck youuuuuuuu

favourite line: i think it’s cute when he says he is strong because he has people to protect but also “it’s just that when i hear you blabbering about carrying everything on your shoulders, i can kinda feel the pain too, it hurts inside so much, i can’t just leave it alone” wtffffff crying my eyes out, that’s romantic idc

brotp: best relationship is with iruka (if you don’t count sasuke) but i’m not sure that’s a brotp because iruka is his dad™… if not, i would say sai lol

otp: heh. narsas ♡

notp: same as sasuke, any ship that is not narsas because naruto is not interested… also the whole naruto x k12 guys is cringe, they aren’t in love with him, and honourable mentions to naruhina boring ass bad couple and narusaku (you’re a firmly believer in the inherent eroticism of being in love with someone else, which happens to be the same person)

random headcanon: he is into gardening and he uses the spices in his garden to cook ramen, which is the only thing he knows how to cook (i have a whole hc about him cooking actually if you or someone else want to see)

unpopular opinion: also tough to say because the unpopular depends on which part of the fandom you’re looking at

naruto shouldn’t have “put sasuke in his place” like the dudebros like to say. naruto never held anything against sasuke because he knew sasuke was hurting and he wanted to understand him and help him more than anything. he is sasuke’s equal

i think part of his development should’ve been him realising his dream about being hokage started because people couldn’t give him basic human decency and he just wanted respect (which he’d gotten later, even though it was hypocritical of people because he had to almost die for it). and i know he also wanted to be hokage because he wanted to protect everyone, but he should’ve put more thought into the whole hokage thing and not repeating itachi’s dumb words (itachi again spreading bad writing everywhere)

kage summit is a great arc for him, the dudebros hating on it because he had a panic attack just don’t understand nuance and love and naruto

naruto is not a shoujo protagonist. he’s very much masculine. typical masculine. the guys aren’t in love with him. they just used to see naruto as a loser until naruto proved them wrong, so they started to respect him. they don’t want to fuck him. this shouldn’t be unpopular but his female self inserters are something

his writing was done dirty at the end idc what his haters say, he is ooc as well as sasuke

he did not manipulate or “beat sasuke into submission” at the end jesus fucking christ do people know what talking is? how do people even read the last chapters and assume such a braindead idea i’ll never know

naruto is not emotionally inept, he fucking knows what love is, he has a lot of emotional intelligence actually, if he doesn’t show interest in someone (cof cof hinata), it’s because he’s. not. interested.

song i associate with them: hero’s come back by nobodyknows+ lol

favourite picture of them: also impossible. i’m particularly fond of caps where he looks like this -_- but it’s impossible. have naruto being right in compensation for it

[milkaneiko]

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