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thetreeturnedoff · 2 years

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i hate security questions so much. they're always things like "what's your favorite movie" or "what's your least favorite food" or "what's your best friend's name" and like. i can't guarantee that the answer i give will always be accurate?? a year from now my favorite food may have changed. my current best friend and i may have had a falling out. and what then? the answers are no longer accurate and i might not be able to answer them, and then i'm locked out.

i also see one asking about my father's middle name a lot, and he doesn't have one. and idk my paternal grandmother's first name because she doesn't go by it, and i'm not married and i don't have kids and i can't remember how my childhood best friend's name is spelled so the majority of security question options i can't even answer. they're always either subject to change or about stuff i haven't experienced and yet they're everywhere and always required. they're evil and i hate them

#given how everyone reacts whenever i complain about them i'm wondering if this is an autism issue #or just like nd in general #but i hate how like half of them are about things that assume you dated and got married and had kids #not everyone can or will or wants to do that. or has gotten around to it yet #and it leaves you with the questions with answers that can change and i refuse to pick those #i was doing work insurance stuff last night and had to fill out so many of those and i got so fucking frustrated #i'm not bringing up the autism just to be quirky. nobody else seems to have a problem with them and i feel like they wouldn't be everywhere #if everyone else hated them. and ik being nd makes me think very differently from the people around me #whatever the reason though they suck and i cannot stand them

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