to all of the anons that had sent a request to my inbox - if im not responding to your request it doesn't mean im ignoring you. my life doesn't revolve around tumblr, and im not a writer that sits in front of their computer 24/7. sometimes i just don't feel like writing your request, other times im just lacking the inspiration to write it, it doesn't really matter. if you're feeling like you're being ignored don't send me ridiculous comments crying about you feeling ignored - and calling me a bitch won't change anything but showing YOUR immaturity. i try my best to put out the best content out for you and i really value every single one of your requests, but im not going to tolerate people with an attitude. and if you take your time to write me hateful comments don't be surprised with me acting like a bitch.
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the only people i actually get along with are either aries scorpios or sags
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I decided to do a face reveal in a way 😌
Made on picrew! Yes I'm a little goblin who has shit eyesight and constantly wears the same clothes, but hey! At least my music taste is good, right!?
Anyway, joking aside, it's nice to meet y'all!
My name is Ashley!
I'm a Leo, take that how you will.
I'm also an INFJ, once again, take that how you will!
My favourite film is actually The Linguini Incident, but not surprisingly that wasn't an option so I settled with the fantastic Bohemian Rhapsody!
I'm always open to chat! Slide into my comments or my DMS..whatever works best for you! I promise I don't bite!
And feel free to ask questions or let me know more about yourselves!
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Married Man Update
Spoiler Alert
When we last left our Gender Bender Muppet they were starting a shameless flirting situation with a married man on his way to opening up his marriage. A real no muss no fuss situation for me.
Fast forward to now. He fell in love, I decided that was too much AND was a violation of his agreement with his wife, called the WHOLE thing off, and am pissed at him. I'll give you the bullet points.
We start talking pretty regularly. Nothing sexy/sexting. Just some solid convos and 'good morning! Have a good day" stuff. Was it happening fast? Sure but we also had known each other for 10 years. I wasn't really that surprised that we got along well.
He comes to have dinner at my place one day and while fully seeking consent....their was something about him that just set my body off in an awful way. Like curl into myself and literally run away when he tried to touch me. Discussed it with my therapist, figured out I was being triggered, am working on it....but this was sign #1.
We keep chatting and he decides that he loves me. Umm...ok....well that's not a thing but whatever man. At this point I ask him what he wants with me and where he and his wife are at. He tells me that they have started talking to their therapist about him being poly as a relationship orientation and she is enthusiastically supportive. I'm...skeptical..for reason that I'll keep to myself for her privacy.
We keep chatting and he gets a bit more..... let's say insistent...when I'm not as available as I was previously. This human/me has got a life, people. I also start to voice the long road ahead that he and his wife have to truly setting the rules for their marriage. I am setting the expectation that I will not be his gf/bf option. He's got a house to get in order. He does not really take this message to heart. I flat out call him out at one point saying "If she saw the texts you sent me she would NOT be happy." Again, he does not agree so after a few days of me just being ....well disgusted....I send him a voice memo saying such. Saying that I don't think that this is on the up-and-up. I told him that I would NOT be put in a situation to violate another human's consent or cause them harm so I was done with this conversation. He returns home after a long trip to chat with her about it and low and behold I was fucking right. While that always feels nice, at this point I officially turned to pissed.
So that's the end of that. He still wants me 'in his life' and is basically scared to do anything that will further fuck it up....but what can I say. I'm a Leo and I'm fucking mad, man. I warned you. I trusted you to do what you said. You did not do that. Burn it to the ground.
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Its leo season its time for me to go absolutely wild
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Leo's relationship with death
Leo really doesn't like to think about death.
I mean, we all saw how much impact Karai's death had on all of Mad Dogs but Leo was the only one that had to be dragged from her, yelling after her, he really, really didn't want to lose her.
And I think when he lost her it left a deep scar.
I saw posts talking how Leo wants for things to get back to normal and pretend nothing happened, which I completely agree with. I think it's in big part because of his fear of repeating losing a close one.
He REALLY doesn't want to even acknowledge death.
Here Raph seemed to be getting through to Leo-
-but the moment he mentions possibility of his family dying?
Nope, time to deflect, joke and feign ignorance.
Leo's aware that death is a big part of being a responsible hero and that's why he'd rather goof off with his brothers and not train.
Because obviously when you ignore something it just dissapears, right? So if they ignore severity of certain situations and possibility of dying it won't happen, right?
If they don't treat it seriously they'll be fine! Totally!
Then Raph shields Leo from the Krang and sends him away.
And it's as if Karai's death stared right in his eyes.
So Leo picks up the slack of leadership in order to save Raph. He behaves carelessly during this time but can you really blame him, he desperately wants to save his brother, to stop yet another family member from death that he is so scared of.
He still tries to be positive and nonchalant, that "pfff obvioulsy everything will turn out alright!" but at the end of the day, it's not that simple.
Casey's speech had hard time to really hit Leo, he's still avoiding confronting resposibility, literally and metaphorically turning away from it. But the moment Casey says Leo's whole family died?
Now that made an impact.
And every time his family is in terrible danger he looks absolutely terrified and basically every time Leo has to be dragged away to not just return and try to save them again.
And when there's nobody to drag him away?
First thing he does is sacrifice himself. Because I don't think Leo is scared of his own death, or at least he is not as scared of him dying as his family. He'd rather give away his life than live through another grief.
Obviously I'm not sayin that the rest of the fam isn't terrified of close ones dying. But while they seem less aware (Mikey) and/or more ready for the possibility (Raph)...
Leo's wholly aware but he'd rather not be and ignore his fears until he can't anymore.
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