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About your top surgery:
Firstly, though, hoi! I'd like to say that I am happy for you, but I don't really feel happiness. Just nothing. But I am proud of you that you got the top surgery and seem very happy about it.
And going through your posts about it, I realize that I want top surgery, too. But I'm also genuinely afraid of the post-surgery time. And this makes me wonder, were you nervous or anxious before the surgery? (Also, apologies for the rambles and for not feeling the happiness for you)
no worries im happy to talk abt it :] i was anxious in the weeks and days coming up to the surgery, yea, but it was more anxiety abt stuff around the surgery than the procedure itself (like, ik several people who got top surgery at the same clinic and everything n they're super reputable so i wasnt worried about the medical aspect, just the preparations + i had to move appartments 10 days before the surgery + had to pack up AGAIN bc im actually staying with my parents for a month or two bc you absolutely need ppl to assist you with stuff during early recovery)
the closest thing to anxiety abt the actual surgery i had was one time a few weeks before it i was like "wait. what if i don't actually want this what if this is a mistake" and then to test it i put a bra and tshirt on and realized yeah no absolutely not thats just pointless self-doubt and i still hate these
it was rlly surreal tho if im being honest? idk if its even fully hit me that this was real and actually happened. I've wanted top surgery since i was like 13 but obv for most of that it felt like it was really distant in the future, and yet now that im flat it just feels. normal? like im still super early recovery so i havent actually seen my chest w/o the bandages yet but still just looking in the mirror with the bandages flat on my chest it just looks natural to me. its been less than a week and im already forgetting what it was like to have tits lmao (altho to be fair i've been binding for years so its not like they were ever a huge part of my life, just a major inconvenience)
and post-surgery really isnt that bad. i've complained about the weird nerve stuff, yea, but that does clear up eventually (altho ik it usually take years for the nerves to fully 100% heal, they're the slowest thing to regenerate). I've had basically zero pain, but i was still prescribed pain meds to take if i need them and given a lot of advice for healing as best as possible. the most important thing is definitely to have someone (or multiple people) be able to take time off to help you with everything (like, from food to drains to making sure you're comfortable and checking on you, you're not supposed to move your arms a lot or lift anything heavy for the first 6-ish weeks).
Post-op depression can be a thing for a lot of people too, but it hasnt hit me (at least not yet) and it can be avoided/mitigated by making sure you're not alone. having friends over, or calling people, making sure you still have games or movies or art to keep u occupied helps a ton.
also i dont think i've said it here before but i got top surgery at GRC montreal, and gender-affirming surgeries are covered by the government here in canada. I sent my paperwork/referral stuff there in may of last year, and it took them a couple months for each stage of processing but they gave me my surgery date (june 7th) a couple of months before, so (not counting the time to get a gender dysphoria diagnosis + letters from doctors and therapists and junk) i only had to wait about a year.
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my relation to my fict. types
a little self explanatory, a post about (at least some of) what connects me to my ficto kintypes
honestly for some it isnt super clear, brain just went 'me'. i think ill leave the ones that have that feeling out since i wont really have much to say about them
i think all of these guys also have the feeling of "thats me" so i wont be including that in the info, but i do feel connected to them all with a sense of, thats me.
with that stated, lets start!
frisk
trauma, also probably influenced by a connection to undertale as a whole. i think the other ways i feel like them other than trauma are like, appearance, feeling pure of heart in a way while also feeling like you are the farthest from innocent. undertale feels like a familiar place to me, even though i actually was never heavily involved the fandom (and i dont even know all/majority of the lore! ive never done a genocide run, or seen a playthrough of one. just bits and pieces of a lot of lore)
steven universe
trauma heavily, its actually kind of weird how similar our traumas are, as well as literally so many small aspects of our lives. i could go on and on about things in our lives that are basically mirrored but not sure if i would feel comfortable with that lmao.
other than that, yet again i am very bonded to steven universe as a franchise. the places dont feel the same as undertale, i can assume this is because undertale is a game and i usually feel like i am 'there' when im playing games, and shows you dont really get that, more so just observing everything. (unless you make fan content or indulge in fanfiction ofc)
twice/jin bubaigawara
trauma and sense of identity. i have really weird system stuff that i feel relates to twice's experiences. also, strange addition to this but i find that i do the back and forth with myself like twice does, im not sure if its my tics or what but sometimes i will just say stuff that sounds aggressive and i follow it up by something more sweet, or trying to comfort or apologize to whatever i just insulted or complained about (its like. almost always not actually a person). not sure if ive done that recently, tbh i dont pay attention to it much anymore.
himiko toga
honestly, i feel her obsessive behavior very much, its somewhat a cope on my end but mentally ill as i am i have become very obsessed with people like this sometimes! as well as just. being very not normal about men sometimes, plinKing rn. (/ref) this one is pretty personal to me but i feel like i take some comfort in relating to toga. i do feel like i have been doing better mentally when it comes to this stuff, but it still makes me feel better to hold her close in my mind and know she is just like me.
tomura shigaraki
i need to rewatch mha. i need to rewatch mha...i dont remember that much about this kin feeling- i think honestly it was getting muddled between system-related stuff and kin stuff, but i do still feel a connection to shigaraki, i feel like its wishy washy on if he feels like 'me' or not. still included it for the sake of saying this
gir
EXTREME silly, just like me. weirdly emotionally shifting between upset and silly, and also sometimes serious. relate. also i am such a little guy, i am !!!!!
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karasuno boys reacting to you sending nudes for the first time
features: hinata, kageyama, tanaka, nishinoya, tsukishima, yamaguchi, daichi, sugawara, & asahi
hinata shoyo
he absolutely loses his fucking mind
you innocently texted him "guess what i bought :D" and he obviously asked to see
and there u were. kneeling in front of a mirror. in white lingerie. and its so sheer you might as well be wearing nothing.
it's not hinata's first time seeing you in a position like this, but oh my god you sent him a picture just for him to keep all for himself of you looking like this—
he's painfully hard almost instantly, sitting back against his headboard and pulling his cock out of his shorts
instantly becomes a babbling mess and cant form thoughts
kageyama tobio
you didn't realize that oikawa was eyeing you like a man starved when you and kageyama ran into him
but kageyama sure did
and he wasn't gonna let it go
he didn't blame you, but he was just generally agitated until he dropped you off at home
but when his phone lit up with a text from you as he was brushing his teeth he didn't think twice about it, expecting a simple good night text
but he was met with a picture of you with one of his old jerseys on, the hem of the jersey in his mouth, your bare chest on display for him
kageyama forgot how to breathe
bestie if you dont answer his damn calls
tanaka
you and tanaka had been friends for a while, but you had just recently entered what one would call the "talking" stage
even when you were just friends tanaka never shied away from telling you how attractive he thought you were
and then one night you were feeling yourself, so you thought: fuck it
you texted him asking if he wanted to see this really hot picture you had taken of yourself
obviously he said yes
but what he was Not Expecting was a picture of you holding your tits in the shower, covered in soap bubbles, with your arm covering your nipples
tanaka LOST IT
he lives to serve u
nishinoya
you're sitting on nishinoya's bed as he throws a volleyball up and down at the ceiling
you're complaining about this boy you had been talking to, and nishinoya is trying his hardest not to just tell you how in love he is with you
and
and then
u have the nerve
to say
"and i sent him this really good nude and he literally just sent the thumbs up emoji—"
and then nishinoya is seeing RED
not only did this prick have the pleasure—no—PRIVILEGE—to see you naked, but he didn't even APPRECIATE IT
noya's just joking around when he says "i would NEVER—" and then he starts ranting about how to hype up a girl
but when you say "next time i'll send my nudes to you" and he can't tell if you're joking
but you're CLEARLY not joking when that night you send him a picture of your naked body on display—
he tries to play it cool but hes FREAKING OUT
tsukishima kei
you and tsukishima had been dating for a few weeks
he's clowning you because he thinks you're innocent as hell💔💔
so obviously you've gotta prove otherwise
so you send him a picture of the tattoo in between your tits
he's not even sure if you meant for the picture to be so fucking hot but there you both are and he's looking at your tattoo and he just wants to RUIN YOU—
and he's gotta make sure you know that
tadashi yamaguchi
god bless him
youre gonna actually cause him to drop dead one day
you two had done things with each other before and yamaguchi wasn't a stranger to your body
he obviously still short ciruits every time he as much as thinks about you like that though
one day, when your phone dies, you borrow his phone really quickly
but then a text from tsukishima comes through
"youre paranoid. y/n isnt gonna think u have a thing for thigh highs if u buy them a few pairs for their birthday"
and then u get an Idea.
u ordered a pair of thigh highs that night and poor yams has no idea whats coming
when they come in the mail you put on one of his shirts, the socks, and nothing else
you sit on your calves and bunch up the shirt in your hands and spread your legs juuuust enough for yamaguchi to see how turned on you are
you send him a picture and tadashi literally dies LMAO
he cant even express how bad he needs u
and u dont really grasp it until u see him again
good luck bestie
daichi sawamura
you and daichi had been together for a little over a year
he was away and you hadn't seen him for a while and you needed him
thankfully, the feeling was reciprocated
daichi made this clear when he texted you from his hotel room at 2am LMAO
my boy needs u expeditiously 💔🙏
he asks if you're awake because he wants to hear your voice
when he calls you and you can hear that his voice is a bit strained you know exactly whats going on
"daichi? you're touching yourself aren't you?"
"yeah. yeah, i am, i'm sorry i just need you so bad—" he whines
"don't stop." you state bluntly
and then daichi hears clothes rustling
and then you start moaning and whining and oh my fucking god
when you hang up to go to sleep he texts you thanking you
so you bless him again
rip daichi fr fr
Sugawara Koshi
you and suga were friends
yet you both knew that with how attracted you were to each other it was only a matter of time
and then one night you're both at a party and someone has the genius idea to play truth or dare
you and suga are both a bit tipsy and so obviously you agree
and then someone dares you to let suga give you a hickey
and then you're straddling suga's lap and he's sucking on the sweet spot on your neck and holy shit
he pretends he doesn't hear you whimper over the music and you pretend you don't feel him growing in his pants
eventually you both go home and by this point you're both sobered up
and holy shit is the hickey on your neck is big
you send a picture to suga to show him his work
but you intentionally make sure he can see your bare chest
asahi azumane
this fucking man
has NO IDEA what he does to you
he sends you a mirror selfie at the gym holding up a peace sign because its just a little thing that the both of you do
and his thighs look so. fucking. good.
and so you decide your boyfriend deserves a shot of your glorious thighs right back
so youre wearing one of his shirts and nothing else and lay on your stomach with your ass in the air
and you look so cute
and asahi almost drops dead where he stands from arousal
its what this gorgeous man deserves for living rent free in your head like this
authors note: this was fun :) send me requests!!!!
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may I request hcs for Jason, Thomas and Wall Boy with a S/O who's very tall, maybe even taller than them and v v insecure about it at times 👉👈 maybe cause they're not this petite, cute figure they feel like they have to be
(yall out here wanting to be giraffes lmao same im 5’3. but also apparently most of the hella tall slashers are 6’5 so i changed it up a lil)
JASON VOORHEES
(him= 6’7. you= 6’4)
hes thankful for your height because he wasnt about to break his spine just for some affection, he loves you but he also loves being able to stand up straight.
you actually met in your last year at the camp, well, he saw you, you were fiddling with your swimsuit and mandatory lifejacket trying to somehow stretch them to fit more comfortably, to no avail. you got in the canoe with your friends and actually saw him but didnt scream, as you thought he was dead.
turns out he isnt, shocker, and took a liking to you for not instantly being terrified of him. you frequently woke up to see flashes of a hockey mask in the cabin window but just played it off as a nightmare or lucid dream.
you eventually started to have one sided conversations with him out in the woods and it evolved into how you are now, whether youd call it love or not. if youre ever visibly insecure hed just kinda eye you for a minute and not do anything unless it was really bad, then hed let you cuddle him or whatever you wanted to do with little objection.
also he makes it very clear that he actually prefers the fact that youre tall and loves you exactly how you are, no matter your appearance. also just because he prefers your height doesnt mean hed hate/kill you if you were short, it just makes things a lot easier.
THOMAS HEWITT
(him=6’5. you= 6’6)
hes never met anyone taller than him and is honestly intimidated but like him, you’re mostly a gentle giant with a heart of gold. but considering you’re taller than Thomas you’re also taller than the whole Hewitt family, that doesn’t stop them from messing with you though.
you have been known to help the family with their “activities”. acting like you were a victim too and then using the sheer size difference between you and the stranger to take them down and hand them off to Thomas. we dont talk about that though.
though most people are jealous of your height, its not all that great all the time. especially with the fact that most of your clothes are just ever so slightly too short but you cant go and buy more.
Thomas physically refuses to let you be insecure about your height for more than a minute though. if he sees you looking in the mirror and focusing on your legs or trying to pull your skirt/pants down more than what would be considered normal then he’ll grab your hands and just stare at you with the love of Cupid himself.
this man literally loves you so much and will not let you think badly of yourself for a second, he’ll do anything in his power to make you as confident as you can be and will be visibly upset if you talk badly about yourself.
BRAHMS HEELSHIRE
(him= 6’3. you= 6’5)
he already has enough trouble running through the walls with his height, evident by the huge chunks broken out of the support beams from where hes obviously hit his head and the cracks lining the top of his mask from the force of the impact. so have fun trying to go anywhere inside the walls with him.
he actually finds it kinda cute that youre taller than him and it kinda makes him feel like a kid because he has to look up at you, if that makes sense. but he loves everything about you, and if youre a little clumsy because of your height he finds it even cuter.
at times you feel like youre a doll in a dollhouse, what with the mansion and your porcelain faced boyfriend, but those thoughts are often soured by the negative thoughts of how dolls dont look like you do, theyre usually small and fresh faced and cute, which youve never seen yourself as. but brahms does, and he makes sure you know how cute he finds you with nicknames like “doll” and “button” and borderline aggressive compliments.
he’ll carry you around the house even if you say youre too tall for that, but he’ll deny it and ask you to carry him too, its just fun to him. he’ll also do stupid things like play tag with you but inside the walls, and if you happen to get hurt, expect a dozen bandaids per scratch because he thinks thats how it works, dont tell him the truth though you might break his heart.
also he’d find it funny and cute if you tried to put things just out of his reach, because that means you underestimate his willingness to climb on the counters or whatever he has to just to get what you tried to hide.
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i finally rewatched Us watching for details... I also took a bunch of screenshots, I’ve mentioned before I live in santa cruz and grew up going to this boardwalk so im obsessed with this movie, I’m going to go try to take some better comparison shots sometime (here’s a few I took before) (and here’s a Tethered mannequin that was outside of the frightwalk for a while. i havent been inside for ages so I don’t know if they moved him inside or if he’s just gone now) (i HOPE they did something with the theme considering the frightwalk is literally a horror attraction beneath the boardwalk. i dont really want to go in there by myself though lmao. not a fan of animatronics jumping out and screaming at me)
this is a lot, i have many things to say
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- the opening news segment is 11 at 11
- you can faintly see adelaide/red’s reflection in the tv screen, with a toy rabbit (her shirt also has twin lines on it in multiple places but that could be looking too far lmao)
- in the “Hands Across America” segment (aside from the obvious red figures linked together in the logo) : “from the golden gate bridge to the twin towers” another possible 11/twinning, and it starts in california, which is where the tethered revolution begins
- on “from sea to shining sea” the exact same coastline image is just flipped
(there’s also another 11 on the side of the TV here)
- “This summer, 6 million people will tether themselves together”
- brief mirroring in the boardwalk ad, not just two girls running on the beach but also two girls with upside down reflections in the ground,
- fairly obvious one, but “find yourself” (as a sidenote there’s nothing in that spot irl, the roller coaster and the swings are real but there was never a ‘vision quest’ or a ‘merlin forest’ as far as I know and there’s no door or anything there either, the interior shots must’ve been done separately somewhere else) (nothing’s left here from the movie now either, I have no idea when they filmed it because I never saw anything or heard anything about it)
- adelaide/red whistles “the itsy bitsy spider” when the lights go out in the vision quest - “down came the rain and washed the spider out,” it’s raining outside when her tethered comes up (and she is dragged down). she also drops her red apple on the ground before she enters
- zora’s rabbit shirt
- everyone else is eating fast food of some kind, except adelaide, who is eating red strawberries
as well as being a visual cue, its possible she has an aversion to meat if she was forced to eat raw rabbit as a child
- young adelaide arranging animals in the sand (it seems like some of the tethered tend to mirror their counterpart’s movements, so it’s possible she’s mirroring red, though it’s probably not that likely she’d be planning this early/the dance hasnt happened yet so its probably just foreshadowing)
- young adelaide very pointedly watches “her” mother crying, saying “I just want my little girl back” - she will never have her little girl back again, though she doesn’t know it (I’m not sure if adelaide still remembers what she’s done at this point either)
its also mentioned that ‘grandma’ has passed away as of the present time, likely adelaide’s mother (i dont remember if its stated outright but since the house belonged to the grandma, and it’s in santa cruz, that would line up) so. the tethered mother, if she’s still alive, would not kill red’s real mother in the uprising. dont know about the father, or if red knows/cares about this, but. thats there. that also means the original mother will never know what happened with her daughter (likely the father won’t either, it’s not clear if he’s still alive but there’s no mention of him being around/he’s not at the house so it seems likely he passed already too)
- adelaide, her reflection, and a (not so) itsy bitsy spider
theres even two spiders, one a toy, one real
- jason crawls out of a cabinet at zora’s feet and scares her while she’s looking in a mirror (which is also a very pluto-like movement)
- adelaide finds the toy rabbit in a box; assuming the intro was chronological, we saw “her” with it in the tv screen reflection before she went to the boardwalk, so this was red’s rabbit first (she probably does not remember this, though) (red also later finds this and cuts off the head, not sure why though)
- adelaide “sees” her child self in the room with her (in her memory) learning her dance alongside her reflection
but the reflection is the one she “sees” looking directly at her
(she’s also interrupted by hearing her son, above her, screaming because he’s trapped, but that might not be intentional) (though when red comes down here later, she is also interrupted by her son getting stuck in the closet too)
- she’s also wearing a choker necklace with a matching gold bracelet, maybe an allusion to. the choking and the handcuffs, again i might be looking into it too much, but. the white clothes which steadily become red with blood seems very intentional so i wouldnt be surprised if the jewelry was planned specifically too
- its really hard to see and its a split second throwaway comment but kitty goes “oh isnt that beautiful” showing her the magazine and i thhiiiink thats a white girl in a native american headdress :’ ) probably doesnt have. much deeper meaning other than ‘clueless white friends’ but
- guy buried in sand comes bursting to the surface again and scares his friends (also eyyooooo you can see the wharf in the background im down there all the time) (sorry this is still wild to me. i grew up here ive been to that beach like 9 million times)
- i didnt catch it and was waiting for it to be shown again and it wasnt and i dont want to go back for it but anyway jason has a drawing of a bunch of people holding hands in a line like the hands across america thing in his room, theres a lot of drawings around and we see his drawing of the first untethered, so he probably drew that as well
- jason has a hard time communicating, but he seems to use drawing as a way to express himself. he doesn’t tell his mother about the encounter with the old man (and only shrugs when he’s asked about it) but he does draw it. adelaide found self expression through dance when she was a child before she was able to talk, so he probably got those traits from her. her voice also goes low and hollow on the line “I just didn’t know if you were lost, or... taken”
- her voice also gets very strange when she’s talking about her memory of the encounter in the vision quest. low, shaky, harsh. its fascinating hearing how much alike the voices are (obviously they’re both the same actress/if the tethered are clones it makes sense that they’d have identical vocal chords but like. red’s got a fucked up voice. hearing echos of that in adelaide is wild and i didnt notice it at all before)
- its not clear whether adelaide actually remembers what she did, or even realizes she was the copy - is she trying to protect her family from what she believes was the girl who almost took her, or trying to stop her from getting her revenge? she describes the event to gabe as if she was the one who was attacked but escaped, and im not sure if she’s lying or has convinced herself that’s the truth
something’s going on with jason and pluto too but I don’t quite know what it is. when we first see jason he’s wearing a Jaws shirt, kind of a similar vibe to the thriller shirt, and when the tethered arrive he’s wearing a white tuxedo t shirt, white matching his mother’s white outfit. the others all go off to kill their doubles but pluto holds jason’s hand, sits with him quietly, watches his magic trick, he’s told to go “play” which. obviously has a violent undertone to it but he doesn’t actually try to kill him. i dont even remember seeing him with the scissors. why are jason and pluto different. why does pluto get stuck mirroring jason’s movements even to the point of his death but the others dont. why didn’t adelaide mirror red
i guess its possible its because pluto is the youngest in the family so maybe he hasn’t broken out of his connection yet? they didnt really ever explain how they learned to do that
and as for the connection with adelaide it. could just be that jason takes after his mom more and zora takes after her dad more but that seems too simple. i mean theres the theory going around that jason was actually switched with his clone too at some point and its got some good points (jason forgetting the magic trick, getting stuck in the closet again, etc) but theres a whole line of logic to debunk that too so its just. What’s Going On Here
cal 11
i took the first pic to get a comparison shot at the same place later irl but then noticed the ambulance they come across is the same one (#2) they saw earlier
pretty obvious but the real rabbit comes out through the picture of an identical rabbit (there’s also probably a “rabbit hole” allusion here)
i noticed this before too but now i have a screenshot of it, im the rabbit in the background just chilling on the floor during the climax here
- im sure i must have seen this before but i forgot about it. the 11:11 guy’s tethered didn’t have a sign so he just.......carved it into his head
- it never healed, either, he did it badly enough to scar
- red says “I couldn’t stop thinking about you, how you could have taken me with you” - she doesn’t mean adelaide ran off and left her there. adelaide made the choice to trap her in the underground. its possible red might have even been thinking how she would have let adelaide come with her if given the chance, which. i mean, i dont know how her parents would have reacted to suddenly having identical twins out of nowhere, but like. knowing there’s a chance red might have accepted her. and all this could have been different
this is definitely a movie that’s not really intended to be fully explained, there’s a lot of questions that aren’t really supposed to be answered, but nonetheless one of my biggest concerns is where do the clothes come from underground. red tells us they were all abandoned down there generations ago so nobody’s supervising or providing anything. how do they end up with copies of the clothing their counterparts are wearing. and here adelaide has a messed up faded old shirt that either looks similar to red’s shirt or is the same shirt just badly damaged, she switches it with red’s before she goes out for good so that explains how she gets the new shirt, but where did this one come from. why is it different if the other clothes aren’t
and of course there’s the whole question of “where did they all get these red jumpsuits from” but again. questions that aren’t really the point, i guess
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* ╰ waddup y’all ruby’s back 2 annoy u all w a lil british fuckboi action . here’s stevie , inspired by matty healy n thinkin she’s a god among men . i don’t recommend u read on but in case u do i pray u forgive me enough 2 want plots w that like button . 🤡
new york’s very own 𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐕𝐈𝐄 ‘ 𝐆𝐑𝐄𝐘 ’ 𝐆𝐑𝐄𝐘𝐒𝐓𝐎𝐍𝐄 was spotted on broadway street in doc marten smooth leather chelsea boots . your resemblance to diana silvers is unreal . according to tmz , you just had your twenty - second birthday bash . while living in nyc , you’ve been labeled as being 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐬 , but also 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 . i guess being a cancer explains that . 3 things that would paint a better picture of you would be erudite inclinations informed by a god complex , melodrama as your magnum opus , & the world’s most secretive love life . ( i had a secret marriage that lasted 6 months but ended due to my fear of my family’s mafia ties getting in the way . ) & ( cis female & she / her )
𝒏𝒂𝒎𝒆 : stephanie charlotte greystone
𝒏𝒊𝒄𝒌𝒏𝒂𝒎𝒆𝒔 : primarily stevie , although her stage name is ‘ grey ‘ which has caught on as a go-to nickname . takes little to nothing else wilingly
𝒂𝒈𝒆 : twenty - two
𝒛𝒐𝒅𝒊𝒂𝒄 : cancer
𝒐𝒄𝒄𝒖𝒑𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 : professional musician with a voiceclaim of lorde , on temporary hiatus to write grey3 . casual photographer
𝒈𝒆𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓 𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒕𝒚 / 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒔 : cis female / she her hers
𝒐𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 : pansexual w strong female pref but tbh if u can handle her energy she’ll b down WKERWJER
𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕 : 5’10 🤤
𝒍𝒂𝒃𝒆𝒍𝒔 : the hedonist , the aesthete , the opaque , the vainglorious , the prodigy , the intangible concept
𝒔𝒐𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒑𝒐𝒔 : rhiannon - fleetwood mac / WHAT U CALL THAT - chase atlantic / iceberg - borns / UGH - the 1975 / boss bitch - doja cat / elephant - tame impala / black hole sun - soundgarden / black madonna - cage the elephant / this charming man - the smiths / swim - chase atlantic / 1999 WILDFIRE - brockhampton
tw drug mention
𝒊. 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒆𝒓𝒕𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏.
there is perhaps no more a formidable surname in the organized crime circuit in all of europe than greystone , a name risen to fame through countless court cases and highly publicized trials . dubbed ‘ el chapo of the old world , ‘ liam greystone makes his reputation known as a ruthless and conniving leader of a million dollar cartel business , distributing to most of the UK and eastern europe . it’s perhaps an even greater shock to find even as public enemy #1 , he takes a welsh wife by the name of marissa and weds her in a lavish and very public ceremony , surmounting crowds not unlike those of the royal weddings . such a decision is a clear power move on his part , flexing the pure influence it would require to have such a public family life with no fear of repercussion from rivals or enemies .
it’s several months following their wedding that james is born , with nicholas taking a few years after . elite prep schools in the most posh london neighborhoods were abuzz with equal parts curiosity and concern to be sharing streets with the most feared mafia family in their whole country , though the elite nature of liam’s new societal presence meant he took to his ‘ dealings ‘ with a but more subtlety than before his rise to power . something of a media frenzy , it’s the talk of the town when marissa falls pregnant another time , nearly a decade after nicholas’s birth , this time with a baby girl , something that’s all the sun and mirror can seem to post about in their celebrity tabloids section for weeks on end . her birth raises questions of immense speculation : what will the world do with a greystone girl ?
as it would result , they’d worship her . stevie found herself raised in a world that sought her out at every turn , cameras pointed towards her at every outing . james and nick , now teens by the time she enters primary and just as big of terrors as their father , view their lavish lifestyle as the result of some bigger destiny for greatness , as their father had always fed to them , something they passed on to their baby sister who took it as her mantra . one of the earliest manifestations of a rather intense personality , stevie takes this to an extreme , turning her unwanted stardom into a fuel for an ever-increasing god complex to develop . the apple of her father’s eye and every bit as quick , her instructors note a dedication to perfection and an obsession with accomplishment , along with a natural intelligence that leads her to blast through her studies with relative ease .
she’s just 16 when she completes her schooling and already has a reputation that will precede her , just as her surname had before . relaxed and observant , her voice never peaks higher than a low alto with her charming londoner drawl , a facade never cracking from her knowing poker face . there’s something about being so above everyone ( even if it is a self-imposed superiority ) that leads stevie all but to the brink of isolation , finding solace only in the words of a self-deluded father and her own scribings in a leather bound notebook . piano lessons since early childhood lend themselves to melodies following melodies , and before she’s even able to legally drink , she’s released her first album under the moniker ‘ grey ’ titling it pure heroine as a cheeky nod to the inevitable accusations of it being her family ties that got her a record deal . but as streams of the melancholy tunes begin to pick up fans worldwide , the album’s themes of isolation , abandonment , and wasted youth hit harder than ever anticipated from the youngest greystone . she leaves home to tour the world with the album reaching #1 in countless countries , forging her own path with a maturity beyond her years and a vision beyond this world .
the tour ends and she’s smitten by the charm of new york , opting to move to continue to pursue her music away from the tangled complications of family life in england . barely 18 and perhaps intoxicated with the loneliness of a life spent in the watching eye of others , the semblance of privacy is something she takes to like an addict , exasperating prying paparazzi with her notorious refusal to comment on details of her personal life . she builds a wall between herself and the world , keeping out prying eyes with a tight - lipped grin . its at this time that she lets the first person into her life perhaps ever , a whirlwind romance so intoxicating it results in a courthouse marriage done in secret . never to be seen together , never a word spoken to anyone else , stevie relishes in the secret which is soon to sour upon the passing of their honeymoon phase . with her brothers expanding their reach into the US for their unsavory dealings , it’s not long after her marriage begins that the conflicts reach a breaking point , an annulment following barely 6 months after they had traded ‘ i do’s . ’
she takes to the studio with a new resentment of the concept of love and even more sequestered heart , producing melodrama which takes the world by storm , snagging her a grammy win for album of the year . fatigued from the constant go-around of keeping her secrets her own except for when they’re taken to radio streams , she does a limited tour for melodrama and lands herself right back in new york at 20 , putting grey3 on the backburner as she takes to all the hedonistic engagements she had indulged herself in during her time on tour . she’s kept herself busy between mindless flings and days-long benders with hobbies such as photography and writing , the former of which is building her a rather impressive reputation in the arts world .
𝒊𝒊. 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 .
if y’all ain’t tired of me yet god bless u . .. . bc i straight up b tired of myself :/
anyways dis is stevie , also accepts grey the same way ppl talk abt lorde n switch between ella n lorde ! she’s not picky :~)
major inspos are matty healy from the 1975 n hayley kiyoko if she was less of a try hard . little bit of kristen stewart in there , big 2016 ruby rose energy n brie larson top me tomfoolery as well !
basically da fuckboi of ur dreams .. .. . lil devilish londoner who stays thinkin she’s the closest thing to a god on this green earth !
notably , she’s incredibly intelligent and profound , tends to take on a rather patronizing and condescending tone bc she straight up b thinkin she’s usually the smartest person in the room ( how annoying )
so laid back n observant , rlly has no need to raise her voice ever bc her arguments b runnin circles around ppl ! imagine the way harry styles talks low n slow n calculated. . . . . cameron from love is blind ,. .. . kristen stewart lowkey sometimes .. .. .. das grey . sexy ass alto monotone 🤤🤤
i dont wanna use chaotic bc she rlly isnt the WILDEST bitch but that god complex means she deadass thinks she can get away w what she wants n she usually does ? less of a chaotic evil n more like a neutral evil lmao she can follow rules just fine she jsut prefers whatever suits her better
on that note — OBSCENELY self obsessed . follows her own natural whims n impulses bc that’s just what appeals to her . is inclined to follow rules if she calculates itll work in her favor bc she also doesn’t like to look sloppy !
super secretive and OBSESSED w her presentation . every movement is calculated n she doesnt want anyone seeing a side of her that she hasn’t designated for them ! she doesn’t care what other ppl think but she DOES care abt what she sees herself doing n her vision . doesnt fit the vision ? will NOT happen in her book .
straight up a WHORRE lmao she likes 2 fill the void left by a lack of human connection w sexual intimacy n then is like nice imma have u leave now love LMAO . does not discriminate and is rlly inclined to follow any sexual impulse
this was implied but her relationships are super messy ? does the leonardo dicaprio thing where she will never fuckin discuss her love life in interviews or anything so ppl just gotta SPECULATE . she lets ppl post all they want abt her but she wont say a WORD abt them JWHEKJWH her socials r basically just abt her n her music we said SELFISH lads . she’s bad @ bein tied down n is probs polyamorous as it stands but im p sure she has cheated on every single person she has ever been with lmao
lowkey a shit friend most of the time lMAO she can b really unreliable bc u guys can have plans n then she takes someone home n misses yalls plans n then texts u 4 hours later after all ur missed calls n is like my bad bruv i got tied up AS IF THAT FIXES IT KWEJKWJEKWE
chain smoker n its nastie but lowkey sexy somehow :/ , will ONLY wear outfits that r equal parts thrifted n designer , always has her hands in her pockets n if her jacket has a hood its UP like a big ole homo , is rlly annoying bc shes good looking n KNOWS it so she uses it to her advantage , wants 2 get her motorcycle license , judges u based off the music u play in the car , judges u on everything tbh.
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Why we need more SkamFr seasons
ok, so I never do this, but I really wanted to this time. Here is my essay on why a Daphné season and an Eliott season would be fucking important to me. (Oh and excuse my English: its not my first language)
why I/we need a Daphné season:
okay so first of all, I recognise a lot of myself in her. The insecurity, the obsession with her body, the urge to be liked and loved and also a lot of her personality in general.
Ive been bullied in high school (dont worry this isnt gonna be a sob story lmao), that had a huge impact on my self-esteem, naturally. I started to compare myself to other girls: popular girls/those girls who guys like. (just like Daphné with Manon) I would look in the mirror everyday for hours to analyze every part of my body and to search for every flaw. My body became my biggest insecurity, I started hating it. I imagine our Daphy does this too. let me be clear, I do not think I have an eating disorder nor would I diagnose myself, but Im just saying that my thoughts werent healthy. I still have those thougts: everytime I walk into a room I start comparing myself to the other girls and I do this thing where Im constantly feeling my jaw and stomach to see if I became fatter. This all made me feel undeserving of love and Im afraid Daphné feels this too.
other than that, I also feel like Daphné hides her real feelings with enthousiasm (like with the foyer). When I see her do that, that hits close to home. Im a very extraverted person, so a lot of people probably wont believe me when I tell them that I have mental issues. Thats the exact reason im not talking to people about it: they wont understand. Thats why representation fucking matters: people need to see that everyone has their own struggles and just because Daphné for example is a very “happy” person, that doesnt mean thats also the case inside her head.
Im very happy to have a friend who really understands me and is always there for me, so I would love to see Daphné find a person like that for her. (Basile!)
why I/we need an Eliott season:
In s3 we already see a little bit of how Eliott struggles with his MI and how he handles it. Again, im not diagnosing myself, but I also really struggle with anxiety and some days I feel my emotions more intense than anyone I know and other days I feel completely numb. I respond to that with drinking lots of alcohol or making myself really sad on purpose. those are not healthy coping mechnanisms, but its reality. We already heard and seen Eliott handling his guilt, his emotions and especially his relationship with Lucas and Lucille. Thats also not healthy sometimes. But we need to see that, we need to educate people on how MI people handle their illness sometimes, how it really is for them. I would love to see how he is when he is alone and how he copes with it. healthy or not.
also when he basically tells Lucas he doenst want to burden him. Damn. Ive felt so much guilt for when I was down and snapping at people and especially for telling someone Im not OK, like why would I burden someone with that they wont understand and they cant help you. I do still think that my feelings weren't and aren't valid, that people have it worse than me so im not allowed to feel bad. what SkamFr is already showing us is, that people can help you and that your feelings are valid. Talking helps. there are wonderful people in your life who can help you. That you're not alone.
so I hope this made some sense lmao. Im sorry mecs for the long ass essay but yeah I want SkamFr renewed so badly.
thank u so much if you read the whole thing and my inbox is always open to talk!
(@renewskamfrance)
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ᵖᵉʳˢᵒⁿᵃˡ ʰᵉᵃᵈᶜᵃⁿᵒⁿ / PSA ! BILLY #002.
now before we get into anything, i just wanna point out that this is my personal understanding and for my own comfort. interaction wise, this will ALSO HIGHLY DEPEND between comfort with the mun and heavy plotting and muses’ chemistry but by now i hope that most of you have read my headcanons for max because i take my portrayal of her super carefully and respectively. i’d like to make it clear that i DO NOT and have never seen the ‘ship tension’ between billy and steve nor do i think billy is a good person/brother to max. and if by chance ( which i don’t find i’m gonna get into anytime soon ) i write in that realm, it must be that i’m comfortable with you and we’ve plotted it well enough for me to WRITE IT as an au or development. otherwise, it’s impossible for max to even think about him in that sense : i know there’s gonna be some that don’t agree and that’s fine but before stirring some sides about this, again this is just my personal psa for my max’s proper portrayal and comfort. so hear me out . pls dont hate me lmao
if you are a billy writer and i’ve talked to you over ims and have read my headcanon of billy and billy’s dad then you probably have the idea that max does not like nor can never forgive her step brother whatsoever. to sum it short please refer to this ( important post ) by @turnedbabe . but to break it down regarding max: there is no relationship of sibling there. with the knowledge of abuse, max was emotionally abused and because billy knows he can’t hurt max –––- he hurt others around her, and that’s a form of hurting her internally not to mention he hurt a POC specifically for that reason. yes, he was damaged because of his father. yes, a part of why he is the way he is: is because of neil. yes, he also could change / needs help one day but that didn’t give him the right to treat others the way he does. it doesn’t change the fact that he’s done all the unforgivable things he’s done despite having the ‘argument’ of being ‘a mirror of his dad’ which you can read from my first post . unlike other characters that are damaged i just feel that billy had a choice to NOT BE LIKE HIS DAD. steve and billy are two COMPLETELY different people but if you want an example: they both have shitty dads, mess of a family. sure steve’s had a past of being a dick as seen in earlier season one but is nowhere a smidge NEAR what billy is. he chose NOT to be like his dad and instead, a better version of himself. but with what billy is shown as, redemption is hard gain/give to a person like billy. and if you read my first headcanon post: max has given up trying to understand him and instead SHE HAS TO PROTECT HERSELF from him , and not only her now but her friends too because of the way she was treated. ABSOLUTELY NO ONE CAN BLAME HER for that. we don’t know his full story for sure i get that, but through a 13 yr old’s eyes, fear and anger is there. he may not hate her sure, but arguments like protection? to max’s eyes, it was threats and fear that struck her which causes trauma to a young teen as well as others which is sad . another thing i see around alot is that his ‘sexuality’ is also another reason for his behaviour which i absolutely find baffling because it has NOTHING to do with that. his sexuality and not being ‘out’ is a part of his being but not a part of the person he’s become. related but TWO completely different arguments and is definitely not an excuse, if anything the closest excuse that’s valid is his dad, but to say that he is an angsty teen who isnt out of the closet is not really a good excuse for giving him redemption for the person he is and things he’s done.
idk, as much as i want to go on much deeper, thats all i could really say that was important that related max greatly. kudos because this was hard to talk about/explain but if you wanna talk about it more, my ims and inbox are always open, for constructive critism only so long as you can justify it which i could definitely try to understand and even plot , not pointless commentary . read my first post to connect it with this one so it makes more sense.
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