I (Liz) have been reading Bitch Planet, written by Kelly Sue DeConnick (who can be found @kellysue if you’re curious) and of course, I’ve been rating the series on GoodReads (I’m a binge-reader and so, so late to this party). While skimming through the reviews, I remembered something important, and since we’re all working on WIPs and many of us looking to be published one day, I figured I would share it.
One-star reviews are not always indicative of your talent, your worth, or that of your work. They are of no value to you. They will not help you grow. Let them go. Focus on your four-star and (some) three-star reviews.
(a bit more on this under the cut because this may get long and rant-y, but that right there is the main point bc we’re all sensitive sometimes and need some positivity)
One-star reviews mean that your work wasn’t for that reader. And that’s okay. you can’t please everyone, and nothing that you make will be for everyone. Bitch Planet certainly isn’t (if you’re now curious, let me warn you that the series does include things that might make a large number of people uncomfortable, including nudity, sexual assault, overt violence, racism, and so on). In this specific case, a lot of the reviews I read were from people who entirely missed the point of the series. One reviewer mentioned their distaste for the book’s “repulsive version of equality”. There is no equality in Bitch Planet. That’s the entire premise of the series. This particular individual is so far off the point, they may as well have read a different comic entirely.
But all of that is just an example of the point.
As explained by Mary Robinette Kowal: one-star reviews aren’t helpful, (and from my skimming, they may even be written out of spite if your book is a heavy-hitter). So don’t let them get you down. Even the largest, most popular works will have detractors for any number of reasons. On the other hand, five-star reviews are nice, certainly, but they’re not particularly useful, either. Take your valuable reviews--your four-stars, and possibly some of your three-stars, and make use of them. See what those people have to say, those near-misses, and see if you can improve your work for the future.
(This reference to Mary Robinette Kowal is from a writer podcast called Writing Excuses, hosted by Mary, Dan Wells, and Brandon Sanderson.)
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books read, 2017
* = previously read
bold = favorites
January
The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey
Talking as Fast as I Can by Lauren Graham
Feathers by Jacqueline Woodson
The Things They Carried by Tim O’Brien
Many Waters by Madeleine L’Engle
Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
Dreams from My Father by Barack Obama
On the Blue Shore of Silence by Pablo Neruda
February
March: Book 1 by John Lewis
Captain Marvel: Vol. 3 by KellySue DeConnick
March: Book 2 by John Lewis
March: Book 3 by John Lewis
You’ll Grow Out of It by Jessi Klein*
The Alchemist by Paolo Coehlo
The Memphis Diary of Ida B. Wells
The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
March
My Life on the Road by Gloria Steinem
The Invisible Circus by Jennifer Egan
Walking on Water by Madeleine L’Engle*
The Mothers by Britt Bennett
Lincoln in the Bardo by George Saunders
The Bad Beginning by Lemony Snicket*
The Haunting of Hill House by Shirley Jackson
The Shallows by Nicholas Carr
April
Swing Time by Zadie Smith
Hidden Figures by Margot Lee Shetterly
Afterworlds by Scott Westerfeld
Lies We Tell Ourselves by Robin Talley
Best American Essays 1988 ed. by Annie Dillard
Yes Please by Amy Poehler*
Behold the Dreamers by Imbolo Mbue
Bad Feminist by Roxane Gay
Bossypants by Tina Fey*
May
Ten Years in the Tub by Nick Hornby
The Courage to Write by Ralph Keyes
New & Selected Poems by Mary Oliver
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
The Refugees by Viet Thanh Nguyen
On the Bus with Rosa Parks by Rita Dove
Rest in Power by Sybrina Fulton & Tracy Martin
This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage by Ann Patchett*
And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini
June
Traveling Mercies by Anne Lamott
In Other Words by Jhumpa Lahiri
Why Did Jesus, Moses, the Buddha, and Mohammed Cross the Road by Brian McLaren
Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert*
July
The Irrational Season by Madeleine L’Engle*
The Secret History of Wonder Woman by Jill Lepore
The Complete Stories by Flannery O’Connor
Pilgrim at Tinker Creek by Annie Dillard*
August
Tender at the Bone by Ruth Reichl
The Chosen by Chaim Potok
Am I Blue? ed. by Marion Dane Bauer
Roadmap to Reconciliation by Brenda Salter McNeil
Are You Somebody? by Nuala O’Faolain
A Prayer Journal by Flannery O’Connor
Forward by Abby Wambach
Happy Accidents by Jane Lynch
Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout
Sister Outsider by Audre Lorde
The Ukranian and Russian Notebooks by Igort
September
Daisy Miller by Henry James
Introducing Feminist Images of God by Mary Grey
Polishing Silver by Paulette Guerin
Dracula by Bram Stoker
All About Love by bell hooks
Fun Home by Alison Bechdel
Jennifer, Gwyneth & Me by Rachel Bertsche
Girl at the End of the World by Elizabeth Esther
Patience & Sarah by Isabel Miller
Queer: A Graphic History by Meg-John Barker
Unbearable Lightness by Portia de Rossi
Love is Love (comic anthology)
Beyond Black Bear Lake by Anne LaBastille
Blankets by Craig Thompson
Finding God in the Waves by Mike McHargue
The Remains of the Day by Kazuo Ishiguro
The Secret Loves of Geek Girls ed. by Hope Nicholson
Holy the Firm by Annie Dillard*
October
UnSweetined by Jodie Sweetin
The Boy Who Loved Anne Frank by Ellen Feldman
Julia Roberts by Frank Sanello
Annie on My Mind by Nancy Garden
Are You My Mother? by Alison Bechdel
I Got This by Laurie Hernandez
Dear Ijeawele by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
God and the Gay Christian by Matthew Vines
Upstream by Mary Oliver
I Am Not Your Negro by James Baldwin
Leaving Church by Barbara Brown Taylor
The Origin of Others by Toni Morrison
Love, Ellen by Betty DeGeneres
November
What Happened by Hillary Rodham Clinton
The Principles of Uncertainty by Maira Kalman
Blue is the Warmest Color by Julie Maroh
We Were Eight Years in Power by Ta-Nehisi Coates
The Essential ‘Dykes to Watch Out For’ by Alison Bechdel
Our Own Private Universe by Robin Talley
The End of the Perfect 10 by Dvora Meyer
Bellocq’s Ophelia by Natasha Trethewey
Room by Emma Donoghue
December
Native Guard by Natasha Trethewey
Obama: An Intimate Portrait by Pete Souza
Sing, Unburied, Sing by Jesmyn Ward
Thrall by Natasha Trethewey
HIGHLIGHTS
finally read Ta-Nehisi Coates
still a lotta work to do (i.e. I still feel like I know nothing), but I read a lot of really amazing Black literature this year
speaking of which, AUDRE LORDE 😍
also James Baldwin. JAMES BALDWIN.
must
read
more
James
Baldwin
after a single encounter with each, I know I will probably read everything Elizabeth Strout and Emma Donoghue have ever written forever and ever amen
so much gay shit. so much.
Chaim Potok is perfect as always
A L I S O N B E C H D E L H O L Y C R A P
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