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kaninchen-reblogs · 1 year

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okay but honestly? big love to all the transfems out there who don't fit the "usual stereotypes" that get tossed around a lot in online spaces.

Straight transfems

Asexual/Aromantic transfems

Sex-repulsed/non-hypersexual transfems

Transfems who aren't good at math

Transfems who aren't good with computers

Transfems who aren't big on gaming

Fat and/or hairy transfems

Transfems who like sports and the outdoors

Transfems who are "mainstream" and don't really do subcultures

Transfems who aren't furries

Neurotypical transfems

And of course, the biggest love to older transfems and transfems of color -- without you, this community wouldn't be here at all.

As a furry transfem gamer nerd who listens to weird music and is neurodivergent as hell, I love seeing all these folks online who are like me -- but I just wanted to post this thingie to make it clear that all transfems (and all trans people in general! I love you too, transmascs!) are deserving of love and appreciation, not just the ones we typically see online, y'know?

#kanny says things #sorry if this is a weird thing to post at 2:40 in the morning #im just thinking about how sooooo many of the transfems i see on tumblr tend to fit many of the “stereotypes”#which is fine! and good! I also fit most of them too!#but part of me feels a little bad that there's like... a “universal trans experience” that's starting to grow #like “oh you have a blahaj you *must* be trans”#or “oh of course you wear striped socks and play MMORPGS”#I dont want it to turn into a monolith! I dont want there to be One(tm) trans experience! thats expected of everyone!#I WANT there to be varied trans experiences! I WANT there to be trans folks who I honestly CAN'T connect with #Hell I want there to be trans people that I don't get along with and that I disagree with and that I don't like being around #because that means the community is large enough to have a vast and varied experience #and thats healthy and i want that! I want more trans people!

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