#like everyone is respectful and kind..
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there are a lot of evil people in the world and a lot of darkness in the world and so it’s very important for me to stress that now more than ever is the time to spread kindness and compassion. combat the evil by not only not partaking in it, but actively refuting it. destroy the notion that being compassionate or generous or kind to someone is uncool or embarrassing or even scary. be the change you want to see. start a chain reaction. positivity only breeds more positivity. do an act of kindness for someone so that that person who is too afraid to do it themselves can see you, realize that they’re not alone, and perhaps sheepishly follow your example. and then the next person who is too afraid but sees that person can do the same. when bad news comes out about bad people or horrible atrocities in the world it’s such an easy impulse to despair, and obviously it’s important to feel what you need to feel. grieve. be angry. be sorrowful. be empathetic. but dust off your pants and get up and be a part of a chain reaction that, no matter how small the scale, and spread compassion and love and care. all the reasons why you might not—“it’s hard! it’s scary! people will make fun of me! it’s useless because there’s too much evil!” are all grade A arguments as to why you should. you have no idea how many people you could inspire to do the same. even if it doesn’t get you anyway far, you can at least say you have the nobility of trying. please choose love and please choose life. you are worth loving and you are worth inspiring others to love
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does anyone see the vision
#ok thats it i cant think of any more parallels#and I tried to put the characters that have similar personalities or that have the same narrative function#like will and jackie while they are not super similar in terms of personality#(even though I would argue they carry a signature Sass)#they both kind of serve the same purpose in their respective stories as their 'death' kickstarts the narrative#I think everyone else is super similar personality wise#other than erica and javi#but since I think lucas is similar to travis it only made sense for him to have a doomed younger sibling#strangerjackets#byler#stranger things#aly talks#i would pay for someone to write a stranger things yellowjackets au in full#i've read a couple but they're all unfinished 💔#also if anyone wants PLEEEASE send me asks about this I will talk about it for days
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Lucy directs a lot of internalized misogyny toward sensitives for being airy fairy losers who just want to ~commune~ with the dead even though she routinely terrorizes her own team by going pss pss to the homicidal spirit who pushes people down the stairs, etc., so I hope the sensitive community gets wind of the extent of her talents and starts following her around as the world's most enthusiastic and least wanted fanclub. She's having to beat a crowd of Hot Topic-clad goth girls off with a stick and her coworkers are like you deserve this actually.
#she complains that one of them wanted her to facilitate a two way conversation with a horrible clown doll#when it clearly needed to be killed with fire. what kind of naive idiots are these people#and everyone else is like who wants to start reading off the Incidents List this time#she's convinced it's fine when she does it. no one else though#lockwood and co#exposure therapy until she learns to respect women
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they are sooooo cute
#by the way. sua with glasses. yes.#senior sua.....#sua is the senior who is calm and sweet with everyone like a goddess#till is the senior who looks lowkey hard to approach and goes straight home after work so nobody is really that close to him#if senior sua will comfort and gently encourage her juniors with kind words#till is the senior who seems stricter and will give criticism (with good intention. just a bit blunt)#mizi being shy in the offrec au is so cute 😭😭😭 and the fact that even though she's shy she was the one who offered to approach till#is sua offering mizi a coffee? or is it the other way around? either way adorable#i love how mizi and ivan are taller than their seniors 😭😭😭 soooo cute wah#till and sua are friends in this au. let me believe in these lies#the cool seniors who go out for lunch together and stay in each other's trailers/rooms to talk about their respective headaches#i don't know why i made this post sorry. moment of weakness#literally just rambling#anyways offrec au my beloved#alnst#alien stage#alien stage till#alien stage sua#alien stage mizi#alien stage ivan#ivantill#mizisua
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I was originally gonna use a picture of actual Jeff but that didn't work out so
#anyways I think cross would be so unbearably kind to everyone(he's not actually that kind. but to bad sans standards he's like he he)#he likes helping around and being of service or smth#and they r. he's respectful to them so they return the respect#but whatever's going on isn't good bc nightmare doesn't accept anything good#so.#....#anyways#imma eep again#sans au#utmv#undertale au#killer sans#cross sans#the bad sanses#comic
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Damian and Jay would be best friends if allowed to interact outside of Jon and the sooner y'all come to terms with that the sooner you will understand how fucking funny that would be.
These two are incredibly intelligent. Damian is Damian, of course, Jay is only 18 and he's established an entire media empire practically by himself. But what do you bet that together they'd either a) Invent a whole new flavor of idiot b) combine their two forms of hyperintelligence to mathematically engineer the most stressful situation in the universe for Bruce.
#you guys like to ignore the canon reality that damian like#admires jay and his work#and that creates a dynamic that damian really doesnt have with anyone else#most of the people damian admires are his family and so theres that sort of bit of buffer there#jay however isnt really obligated to be around him the way dick and bruce are#so if damian wants to be his friend hed have to actively work to earn his respect#jay also is like pretty canonically the kind of guy who looks out for other people#hed see a lot of himself in damian#theyre both immigrant kids and everyone assumes the worst of them#and right now in particular i think jay would want to make sure damian doesnt end up like him#jay nakamura#jon kent
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a coworker who I very much admire and respect, and who I am very much a little bit very afraid of, watched me do a tour today
I did not do well.
I did my best! But there was so much room for improvement.
At the end of it, my coworker said she had some feedback for me, "but only if you want it, I know that some people feel a certain kind of way about getting feedback from people who aren't their managers, and you and I are equals here", and when I told her I would love to hear it, she led me off to a private part of the museum and spent a solid half-hour talking with me about how I could have improved
She had written notes. Like, her copy of the day's schedule was covered, front and back, in notes. Which she happily gave me when I asked if I could have it.
I forgot about this part of working in education. The part where we all want each other to succeed, because we have a mission together, and the more we build each other up, the more able we are to put that mission forward.
#the bear roars#I wound up admitting to her that I am kind of afraid of her#and she laughed and put a hand on my shoulder#and said very seriously "oh Jonah... EVERYONE is afraid of me here!'#I love her so much and respect her so much and admire her so much#I desperately want her to think I'm Cool and a Good Educator#it's not even like she's mean or grumpy#she's just Intense#and she does not suffer fools or misbehavior#if I can be even half as good at my job as she is I will be a legend
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soft forcemasc is so fuckin annoying tbh. this isnt pintrest boy its a fetish. act like it.
#the beast speaks#but you say “hey tghis is explicitly kinda rapey as a core fundimental building block of it”#“like thats the point of the kink its FORCED” but then dudes go :< but cnc is problematic#and its like. yep! i dont think youre into a cnc kink if you dont like cnc im sorry#also everyone acts like its mysogenistic but all of it is so tooth achingly sanitized of any kind of patriarchy#“being a man ! is about flowers <3 and sunshine ^_^ and respecting women ~”#“you dont need to have any male aesthetics !! you can just be uwu uwu softboy”#im a faggot#and i like faggot sweaty nasty men#the tranny tarr pit#sodemy is pretty swag
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I Will cry over the dwarves wanting to give Snow a gift, for apparently no reason other than gratitude and love for her.
And deciding to make a bed for her to sleep on.
After a day, they were already prepared and enthusiastic for her to stay. Even Grumpy was putting a lot of work on it.
Someone hold me

#snow white#snow white 1937#snow white and the seven dwarfs#Snow white deleted scenes#disney movie#disney princess#disney snow white#the seven dwarfs#My babies#They already loved and respected and cared for her so much#I love the deleted scenes with the whole family-#They all make me so happy you have no idea my babies#disney#found family#white background#youtube#Not only the dwarfs- The animals also kept vigil and helped along- Everyone unified because of the kindness and loving nature of that girl#All unified by their love for that girl#I will cry I am in shambles I#Also more appreciation to the work these animators and storyboard artists put on this- Entire sequences like this were discarded#Remember the MONTHS of hard work it takes to animate these scenes and make the music and voice the characters#Give love to traditionally animated deleted scenes- They had blood sweat and tears poured on them
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I will be completely honest, I will never understand why some people ship extremely toxic ships (one sided toxicity I mean)
Like, that dude only wanted your status and poisoned your body and mind, even joining your worst enemy’s side just to get luxury and ignore all the poor he could help by almost killing you, and YOU WANT ME TO BELIEVE THAT THEY LOVE EACH OTHER????? Hell nah, get that shit away from me. I like my ships with some flavour, but not this poison (I only allow poison from both sides, they both must be fucked up, and usually I only like it if it’s an au where they are fucked up)
#pat talks#yes I am looking at you#affocacao#I hate you#so much#I also don’t like some others#shadownilla is in an extremely thin line#I love a good enemies to lovers#but not ‘I killed everyone you love because I can’ enemies ti ‘we are some kind of compatible but only if you listen to me only�� lovers#I am also looking at you#burningcheese#and#mysticacao#why is the crk fandom so obsessed with toxic ships?#having purecacao right there!#or even polyancients!#and don’t get me started on dark choco ships#even after his redemption#people ship redeemed choco with sometimes licorice sometimes red velvet#that guy wants freedom he is NOT coming back for some pussy#I hate to break it to ya#and don’t say it’s because I am a chococara shiper#it’s because he deserves respect#I am usually not angry about this things#but I can’t help but hate it#I know they are ‘guilty pleasures’#when you do it once it’s fine#twice is greedy#but this many times?#fuck off
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Something that drives me a little insane is that The Boss's Will was never an actual thing. She didn't have some great wisdom or teaching or philosophy. She just lived and died by her own beliefs and then everything decided to make it A Thing and got so caught up in the fact that they were making A Thing that they completely missed the point she was trying to make. Like, The Boss's Will was such a paradox because its existence already was the opposite of what she wanted, glorifying her instead of using what happened as a cautionary tale. They decided to make The Boss two and three and four and then some when the point was to not make The Boss ever again at all.
#metal gear solid#mgs#I mean I'd say Snake kind of got it with the idea that no person should be treated like that#but then he decided it should mean more respect for soldiers and war forever which is not it#and THEN he was like well might as well and leaned hard into the role everyone was trying to force on him#which is The Boss two but better and evil. fun.#faksyan talks#faksyan talks mgs
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I don't know what I love more, the fact that as rook you can make a statement in NO uncertain terms that you are NOT responsible one way or the other for the theological implications of the shit you're discovering in the 'regrets of the dread wolf' memories. not my jurisdiction. quite simply none of my business. not my chantry circus not my chantry monkeys. irrelevant to the matter at hand here we'll kill that god if we get to him he can get in line. or if the best thing about it is seeing the lone little 'lucanis approves' that pops up right after choosing it. corvid with a knife about to commit deicide keeping it real and sensibly, pragmatically, wilfully agnostic with me here in this magical lighthouse today
#we do not see it. we cannot read all of a sudden.#rye having war flashbacks to watcher conferences and firmly going 'we are *not* getting derailed by the metaphysics here folks'#rare stern moderator/dad hat moment from ingellvar lol. he's Seen Some Shit in his time (debates that raged over the multiple#and not always concurrent life times of the participants involved. ain't no academic rivalry like watcher academic rivalry#because watcher academic rivalry doesn't stop even when everyone involved is dead. and the rest of us have to live with it)#I. do not think the way I'm getting this quest is how it's meant to be experienced so I'm a bit at a loss as to how to pace it out#I've been an annoying little completionist so I have ALL the statues and could just marathon it out#but that does not feel like the best way for the story and upcoming reveals to work. hm. how to do this#I'm supposed to go fail to save weisshaupt right around now I can't be having study group with all of you rn as much of a delight as it is#rye is nominally an andrastian as mainstream nevarrans generally are but as I gather is the case with many of the watchers#what he *actually* believes in is the grand necropolis itself haha#(and the philosophy of history memory death and relationship (as well as responsibility) between the past and the present#and indeed the future that it represents. we have a duty. to what has been to what is and to what will come after us. good shit)#the nevarran/mortalitasi element just makes their lack of care or respect for chantry orthodoxy *mwha* that extra bit special#the nevarran lack of concern bordering on quiet condescending disdain for official chantry doctrine and policy my beloved#dragon age#dragon age: the veilguard#dragon age: the veilguard spoilers#dragon age spoilers#poor harding really is living through the most relentless 'if this is the maker testing my faith he sure be testing me' gauntlet of all tim#good news: god might be real! bad news: god might not even be a real thing but more like a magical accident or vibration or something#honestly tho. if we could get full lovecraftian incomprehensible to human conception the maker -- He is a particle and a wave style --#that's the only way I'd be cool with him or them actually answering the question of his existence. that'd be kind of sick#'yes. but no. but maybe. depends on how you define god. and exist. and he. and does.' *ingellvar sets of the METAPHYSICS!! klaxon#that's a time out folks good game but easy on the jargon and navel-gazing definition of terms next round#rye and lucanis have some slightly differing views about at what exact stage of a problem murder becomes a valid solution#('well you just kill them and then I'm the one who has to deal with the next much longer part')#but they're surprisingly kind of vibing on a lot of other stuff lol. good for them <3#oc: Ellaryen Ingellvar
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every time i see people critique the online fandom 2020 era culture its like.... youre not wrong it definitely Was Not Good looking back, but also imo you can NOT discuss it appropriately while discussing it outside of its larger context.
like hm. wonder if anything was happening that made everyone More Anxious And Neurotic? wonder why ppl put SO much emphasis on respecting peoples personal boundaries? wonder WHY ppl were so desperate to behave however to remain in the online in-group, as if it was their primary/only social outlet?
hmmm🦠if🦠only🦠we🦠had🦠the🦠cultural🦠context🦠here
#like its easy to look back on and mock and i dont think you SHOULDNT but. you have to also consider the fucking Scenario#its even worse (aka more noticable) in MASSIVE and popular fandoms at the time like dsmp but like....#Have You Considered It Was Like That For A Reason Perhaps#'why do they care so much abt boundaries' irl ppl had LITERAL DISTANCE BOUNDARIES to respect at fear of their health#it makes sense to kind of transfer that hesitation and feelings to other stuff. at least to ME#why did everyone lean SO hard into the tone indicators and call outs and shit? bc you CANT GO OUTSIDE AND HANG W FRIENDS#your only immediate social circle is VERY limited. of course theyd be fucking terrified of losing the only other thing they have#idk im just. shooters for 2020/2021 online culture ig theyre in the wrong but theyre justified for it jfdksljfk
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i was the happiest these past two nights ♡
#two pics of hyunjin and seungmin bc Bias and Holds a very precious spot in my heart respectively#also that’s the best i could get for lix and innie i’m sorry jdñajs#but yeah it was so. i have so much to say#the first day they were kinda holding back i could tell but once they got comfortable and realised the kind of crowd we were they just went#—all out#they gave us so much energy#they learned a chilean cuss word that also means amigo and they wouldn’t stop saying it both days#<-chan actually said it out of nowhere the first night and we were all like WAIT WHAT YOU’RE ALLOWED TO SAY THAT!??!?#he then proceeded to call changbin hueón. then hyunjin said it too. i cried#we also learned by felix himself that he does in fact have a half chilean cousin and they ate chilean chorizo once when they were kids#lino threw water at us in my section and it hit me right in the eye#changbin and lix’s water got to me as well#i don’t even have words for hyunjin and how beautiful he is#like i can’t believe i saw him up close with my own two eyes he is so unreal i still can’t believe he exists#they are all sosososo precious to me#but seungmin was definitely the mvp this time. everyone is gushing over him#i knew this from the maniac tour but he is so charismatic and it just hits different in person#he was also so happy to be here we could feel how much he loved it here and it warmed my heart so bad#and it was cute how excited he was to perform cinema and how happy he got when we did the fanchant he proposed on his live the other day#they apologised for just now coming here after seven years. lix said they should’ve come a lot sooner#but it was so worth the wait#i hope they have the best tour as it goes on and that they come back for the next one now that they know how much we love them over here<3#dominate tour
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whenever i dress masculine im like wow this is amazing i feel so cool and want to do this forever and whenever i dress feminine im like wow this is amazing i feel so cool and want to do this forever. i just love everything
#its so hard because like.#ive spent so much time being invested in being femme4butch and really kind of staked my identity on it#and now kind of spending more time in butchness and masculinity which is fun and different and exciting#but i still feel so like internally pressured to just pick one or the other and make up my mind bc i still view it as this dichotomy#which i need to get out of. really trying to make room for and honor and respect all of me in my contradiction...<3#as much as i think femme4butch is so great and wonderful and fun to be in a relationship like that... its ultimately kind of limiting 4 me#like im still 100% attracted to butches/queer masc women first and foremost but i dont want to be crammed into that dichotomy at all anymor#i really do kind of get the criticism against it as a binary. its not for everyone and its sadly just not for me#i would say the way i express my masculinity is definitely butch but so is the way i express my femininity femme-#- in a distinctly lesbian sense#like honestly yeah labels are for clothes!
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Tywin’s disregard for the Watch and wildlings and everything else to do with the Wall is. Insane tbh. Like he’s one of the most tactical and intelligent people in the series and in literally one page grrm is like no really, southerners don’t GET IT
#like I know I have readers bias#I have Jon’s perspective and Sam’s perspective of the wildings and the others#and mance’s numbers are unheard of the wildlings have never banded together like this before#AND it’s like The Whole Point of the books that everyone’s focused on the iron throne when the real issue is the fkn walking dead#but for Tywin of all people to be like lmao absolutely not#kind of hilarious tbh#like not even a ‘send him some prisoners I guess’#Tywin is nothing if not Correct esp in front of Tyrion and whatever underlings are around#and the Lannister arrogance of trying to sway the watch to choose slynt as lord commander#and have THE neutral force of Westeros under his thumb too#he has never looked so self important tbh#and like he always does esp from Tyrion’s pov but there’s always an amount of respect involved this didn’t have any of that#anyway. crazy#asoiaf#asoiaf reread#got
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