actually yāall i need to rant and iām going to sound like a pathetic loser but iāll wait until shame comes in so i can delete this later but rn itās night time and itās the right time
so like, idk abt yall, but during the late hours of the night, my emotions are heightened unlike during the day. Like if Iām happy, iām all smiley and giggly and iām never like that during the day. Iām a night person yeah. But i get sad easier at night. And tonight i am sad boohoo
what am i sad about? IM LONELY AS FUCK š
the thing is, iāve been single my whole life. iāve been told and convinced that i wasnāt beautiful or worthy of love, and no one has ever shown interest in me. Boys would bully me the most over my looks. And iām not going to lie and say ābut i was beautiful all alongā bcs i wasnt. I was a lol scrawny nerd who wore glasses and the same hoodie everyday. I didnāt care abt my looks at all, but itās a bit diff bcs iāve grown up in places where there werenāt ppl like me. So in either predominantly white or asian schools. I was never beautiful to them.
but itās not just that. Iām convinced there is something wrong with me, bcs when I see my sister, I see everything that i want to be. Sheās feminine, pretty, confident, strong etc etc. Ever since she was little, sheās had everyone all over her and people would always compliment her and overlook me.
i remember when my grandpa straight up called me ugly and then said that my sisters were like āpretty princessā to my face. Iāve always hated him. This might sound morbid, but iām glad heās dead. He was never a good person anyways.
my sister used to make fun of me for my looks as well bcs i was never as pretty as her. Everyday, I nitpick at every little thing because of her. My shoulders are too wide, iām not feminine enough, my skin is too dark, i look like a child etc etc etc like WHYYYYY canāt i stop????? ARGHHH
and WHY does it seem like everyone has had love in their lives but me???? no one has ever been interested in me, and i feel like iām going to be alone forever. I keep trying to convince myself that someone would come along one day, but i continue to lose hope. Iām so scared to get close to people, and im not good at making conversation, i canāt even make friends, how do i expect to one day get married?
i have a skin condition that makes my skin rough and bumpy, and people have always commented about it, and i donāt even want people to get physically close to me bcs of it. i hate when people touch me, and im always so hyper aware of someoneās proximity.
like what happened to the little girl that loved hugs and holding hands? i hate that iāve changed. i used to be so extroverted and happy and social, but iāve gotten shut down and hurt so many times and now im a fkn recluse like ew i hate myself
sometimes i get the urge to drink myself drunk so i would stop thinking and so that iād be free from shame and embarrassment and anxiety, but i donāt do that bcs 1. alcohol tastes disgusting and 2. i feel like if i give in, iād develop an addiction.
i feel so sorry for all of the friends that i do have and for the future boyfriend that i may or may not have. iām so insecure that it ruins everything. I think that no one rlly likes me and theyāll all leave me one day just like my friends have done in the past, just bcs i wasnāt pretty enough or cool enough.
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Having a really hard time rn so if you'd feel comfortable may I request some of the 2AM rambles I've come to know you for? Dunno if this is inappropriate or not
So sorry itās been like 20 hours since you sent this ask š I didnāt see it bc I was āØon a dateāØ which Iāll get to in a sec
First of all, and this goes to everyone ever, send me any ask you want to. Just send it. If I think itās rude or inappropriate Iāll just delete it. Never be scared to send me an ask Iām very open to asks
Second, Iām sorry youāre having a hard time š I hope things get better. Itās not 2am but I have to get up early tomorrow so here is my midnight ramble about the last couple days.
So if anyone is not up to date on my lore I move into college in less than a week, which is WILD btw literally never thought Iād even be accepted to a college and now Iām not only accepted to my dream school but Iām moving in in less than a week? Hot damn.
So like my school has orientation but they broke up all the freshmen into groups? That are called primers? God I hope no one from my school is reading this. Anyway in my primer group is me, this kid who has 20 3DS(es?) that theyāre bring to school to justā¦hand out to people(????), and my crush who Iām gonna refer to as this little blue diamond emoji š bc it makes me think of them.
š and I are doing that sort of Lesbian Flirting thing where youāre both obviously interested in each other but worried that the other one is just being nice and you donāt wanna fuck it up so youāre like nooo I canāt just say how I feel bc she might just be a super nice person! Weāre both constantly like āyouāre so attractive Iād make out with you right now but no homoā (we are both lesbians) and itās. But then today we agreed to be Harley Quinn and Poison Ivy for Halloween? And thereās likeā¦nothing gayer than that so? Idk.
We went to the mall together on a Date-That-Wasnāt-Actually-a-Date-Because-Weāre-Both-Into-Each-Other-But-Donāt-Want-to-Say-it-Because-What-if-Sheās-Just-Being-Nice and that was cool bcā¦idkā¦I worry a lot about how ppl view me as a wheelchair user. Likeā¦idk! Itās just. Hard! But š is also disabled and it was just cool to hang out with another disabled person. Very cool <3
We have been texting 24/7. Just texting our thoughts to each other, texting about comics we like, texting about the eternal emptiness we feel inside from having to be away from each other until we move in next week (yes weāre very melodramatic). We only live like an hour and a half away from each other so itās not like itās long distance by any means but we donāt have time to drive to each other before moving in bc packing and the like. Alsoā¦we literally move in in less than a week lmao it makes sense to just wait
My new wheelchair bag came today and she offered to embroider it for me and Iām like š thatās the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. I might be giving her Mercane, at least to borrow, bc she has arthritis and has been wanting to try a folding cane for a while but theyāre kinda pricy
Anywayyy my friend and I made a disabilities club for the school which is wild bc we havenāt even moved in yet lol but itās taken off a lil bit. Right now itās only freshmen but after we move in I wanna try to have likeā¦meet ups and stuff. Hopefully then more upperclassmen will join! Love being around disabled ppl.
Also my roommate is super cool. He dyed his hair green so we match āļøš so cool. Heās giving me his old Monster High DS game šššš
Also my bestie and I are finally gonna get to hang out!!!! I wish we were in the same primer š but itās okay bc weāll hang out after the orientation anyway.
I made 30 or so kandi bracelets with the name of our school and Iām just gonnaā¦give āem out at orientation. Way overkill? Yes. A little weird? Indeed. Am I doing it anyway? Absolutely.
Iām also low key famous now for something kind of embarrassing but thatās a ramble for another time.
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