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Nb culture is sometimes just laying awake at 3 am thinking of names to replace your deadname with instead of going by your last name 24/7 end then just being like. Leaf. Stone. Alex. Slate. Specific type of stone. Different type of stone. More rocks why do I know so many rock names. Nah too feminine. Nah too masculine. Nah that’s the name of my father’s ex-wife. Hmm.
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4, 6, 8, 12, & 26 for the sunny asks 😌 (did i purposely choose even numbers? maybe
4 - Which season is your fave?
it's a big cliche to say season 13 because it was just Amazing all the way through and tbh 10, 11, 12, and 13 have been some of the best seasons, i adore them, but less new seasons that are obviously going to be better as they evolve their humor, i'mma say either 6 or 7
6 - Which ep do you think is the most overrated?
i dunno! all the episodes i'm thinking of that might be considered "overrated" i like in some way. that's the thing with sunny, they're a sitcom so nothing is too linear, but everything usually contributes to the characters in some way. maybe all the mcpoyles episodes. they're probably my least favorite reoccurring characters, i just don't find them funny very often????
8 - Rank all the sunny ships from fave to least fave.
uhhhh, okay. i actually don't ship sunny characters too hard so my opinion on these are pretty muddled
charbitch (shhhhh this is a valid sunny ship shhhhhhhhhh totally not a newmann thing shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh)
charmac (i'm Soft for childhood friends to lovers okay don't @ me)
deetress (we love enemies to lovers recovery girlfriends)
deetemis (is that their ship name??? idk but I'm Love Them)
macden (i do like this but under specific like... circumstances?? y'know?? you don't know... sigh)
i dunno the ship name for frank and artemis so i'mma call them artechoke because i think i'm funny (idk i vibe with those kinky little shits together but not as a romantic, functional relationship lmao especially after being frank,,,, they have fun tho and i love that for them)
chardee (i....... time's up got me like 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 let's not exacerbate charlie's trauma thank you 💕 i believe in them healing and them being friends after therapy because I See Their Potential To Help Each Other Heal but romantic relationship? after that? nah, perish)
charlie and the waitress. leave her alone, dear boy. please. sir, please. p l e a s e.
did i miss some? probably. any others go here bc idk i either don't have an opinion on them or don't like them :/
okay just checked ao3 and i can't believe you sick fucks made me read dee reynolds/dennis reynolds with my own two eyes. maybe charlie was onto something about killing off every braincell he can.
12 - What pieces of sunny canon do you have to ignore in order to enjoy the show fully?
charlie saying the hard er n-word. t w i c e. not cool, guys. in season 12??? really??? i will end you rcg, i'll do it. stop saying slurs, y'all are hilarious without them, i promise, stop using that degree of shock value "dark" humor for cheap laughs of discomfort from the many marginalized groups who do actually enjoy the show because your delivery is god tier most other times 💕💕
26 - If you could force rcg to make one thing canon, what would it be?
MAKE 👏 CHARLIE 👏 NONBINARY 👏 AND 👏 ACE 👏👏👏👏 P L E A S E, I KNOW HE'D NEVER BE CANONICALLY NB, BUT ACE??? AT LEAST??? PLEASE KINGS??? STOP TREATING HIM AS THE SEXUAL ABUSE PUNCHING BAG, I'M TIRED OF SEEING MY BOY HURT 😭😭😭
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elvira you know I always see what you're hiding in the tags,, I will always read it if you answer all of them abhsjdbs
nev you asked for this and im going to go thru with it bc im an oversharing idiot like oh you asked me how’s the weather i will tell you about all my trauma instead :D 
What do you identify as and what are your pronouns? i’m cis yo i’m she/her. i’m biromantic ace. thats the label i would put on it i guess. i really just refer to myself as gay bc i like pretty boys who look like girls and pretty girls and pretty nb and queer people and basically i just like pretty people ajsfbjf
How did you discover your sexuality, tell your story? theres no story to it. no epiphany or realization. i just always was ok with thinking that girls were pretty and that gay people are cool and it wasnt until recent years that i was like oH SHIT AM I GAY
Have you experienced being misgendered? What happened and how did you overcome it? no i guess bc i’m a girl and id as a girl and have a very obvious girl body
Who was the first person you told, how did they react? i guess my best friend. we’re both very ok with gay shit and we just always made comments about pretty girls and now we’re both pretty gay. i like my big tiddie anime girls and she likes her pretty kpop girl bands
Describe what it was like coming out, what did you feel? i’ve only “come out” to some of my friends. i would NEVER in my LIFE even imagine telling my mom i like girls. shes homophobic Like That
If you’re out, how did your parents/guardians/friends react? uhh see above. my mom, stepdad, family members are all homophobic. hispanics in general are Like That rip. i think my dad would be the most ok with it but he lives in mexico and i dont talk to him often anyway. doesnt matter
What is one question you hate people asking about your sexuality? i hate when people ask me about the ace part. like they have a bigger problem about my not wanting to have sex over the liking girls part tbh. sometimes it’s difficult for me to even describe where i am on the ace spectrum. it’s honestly the more difficult part 
Describe the style of clothing that you most often wear. basic nerd. you know those fics like “she dressed in a black t-shirt, skinny jeans, and all star converse” yea that she is me
Who are your favourite lgbt+ ships? ajkfj this is a good question and canon wise i love Ash and Eiji from Banana Fish, Uenoyama and Mafuyu from Given, Nezumi and Shion from No. 6, and Simon and Baz from Carry On. Not canon i love Kurama and Hiei from Yu Yu Hakusho, Izuku and Todoroki from My Hero Academia, and Inosuke and Tanjiro from Demon Slayer. Note how most of them are anime i
What does makeup mean to you? Do you wear any? i dont really wear any bc im lazy. if you like it you do you but idrc for it? except for lipstick i LOVE lipstick i have all the colors. i wear it so it distracts people from the rest of my face
Do you experience dysphoria? If so, how does that affect you? ...no
What is the stupidest thing you’ve heard said about the lgbt+ community? i live in the south so ive heard tons of shit talk about gay people. i dont really have any that stand out. my mom just likes to say that we’re going to hell :D so let’s give em a show ay
What’s your favourite thing about the lgbt+ community? i guess i like how we find solidarity in each other just bc we’re not straight. most of the lgbt+ folks i know are pretty chill about everything
What’s your least favourite thing about the lgbt+ community? terfs but they dont count
Have you ever been to your cities pride event? Why or why not? i live in a small town and i could never sneak out of my house for that bc i still live with my mom so no
Who is your favourite lgbt+ Icon/Advocate/Celebrity? theres so many big celebrities now that id as lgbt+ but im going old school and loving my man, my tumblr url namesake mr Oscar Wilde. my man got put in jail for sodomy 
Have you been in a relationship and how did you meet? lmao never bc im mean, ugly, and terrible at talking to people irl. i had a bf in middle school? but bc i was 12 i dont count it 
What is your favourite lgbt+ book? Carry On and the sequel Wayward Son. (very anxiously waiting for book 3 Anyway the Wind Blows come on Rainbow Rowell)
Have you ever faced discrimination? What happened? for being gay? no. bc im not really out. ive faced discrimination for being a brown woman tho :)))
Your Favorite lgbt+ movie or show? yall i love gay anime: Given, Banana Fish, No. 6, Yuri on Ice yeee. i dont really watch tv with real people but i think that Brooklyn 99 does a very good job with Holt and Rosa yall im love Rosa
Who are some of your favourite lgbt+ bloggers? theres bloggers??? um idk i love u nev so you count right @why-do-you-pick-flowers
Which lgbt+ slur do you want to reclaim? for a while everyone was mad as hell about “im gay for ___” and idk im gay for everything so thats a “slur” i use for myself
Have you ever gone to a gay bar, or a drag show, how was it? ive never gone omg i’d probably be intimidated as hell like i have a lot of problems just existing so to be existing around very flamboyant and extravagant people like that makes me break into a nervous sweat
How do you self-identify your gender, and what does that mean to you? ive always felt like a girl even tho my mom always said “oh you like boy things??? you should have been born a boy” but like, your likes and dislike dont determine your gender. i like “boy” things and “dress like a boy” but i dont FEEL like a boy. ive never had any desire to become a boy or id as a boy. gender is a social construct fuck society
Are you interested in having children? Why or why not? i have a very complicated relationship with children. babies are ugly and toddlers are annoying but i feel like if i had children i would love them obviously because theyre mine. this is gonna be a weird analogy but like i dislike cats. BUT  i have cats. and i love the fuck outta them. so i feel like thatd be me with kids. but im ace so like.... who would even have kids with me. i could not. pregnancy seems like a hassle and adoption is... i have thoughts on that but thats for a different post. also i can see myself being married and not having children OR having kids without a spouse. theres just something complicated about having both??? maybe im just fucked in the head idk bro
What identity advice would you give your younger self? you dont hate girls you like them, dumbass
What do you think of gender roles in relationships? fuck gender roles. get pegged, bros. i also have a very specific dynamic if i ever got into a relationship (which you know. wont happen) but like if i dated a guy i feel like i’d be very top. a MAN telling ME what to do??? fuck that. but if i dated a pretty girl??? top me pls
Anything else you want to share about your experience with gender? i think ive already said too much oh god someone is gonna look at this and be like what the FUCK but like lmao dont be afraid to ask me i apparently have no shame
What is something you wish people know about being lgbt+? it’s scary at first because you think “im not normal” but like pray tell me what is normal. do what makes you happy. fuck society
Why are proud to be lgbt+? i’m comfortable with the people i like. i might not be very confident and i have depression, anxiety, self esteem issues, probs adhd or ocd idfk but at least i know if i see a pretty girl or smth im gonna be like wow that girl is pretty and have no bad thoughts about it. it’s just how it be. after a lot of dissecting my past behavior, ive always been this way. you cant change who you are. just accept it
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