1) so I already mentioned the hisakiki eyes theme in the bonus chapters and how they can't look away from each other.....
and how that parallels...
2 Shirayuki not closing her eyes when she and Zen kissed.
but here's more
3) Hisame's plan to convince Eisetsu that Obi and Shirayuki are lovers: by staring into each others eyes for 10 seconds
4) the demonstration of the 10 second plan between Mitsuhide and Shirayuki (Kiki's explanation)
5) kiki moving hair away from Hisame's eyes-
- connects to:
6) Ryuu cutting his hair short and Shirayuki mentioning she can see his eyes better
7) Kiki always leaving one earring at home because it puts her at ease and-
8) -Hisame's eyes has the same shape as Kiki's earrings, The symbol of home for Kiki is literally in his eyes
9! 10 ! I didn't have more to add but kept the count going shh
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Some Thoughts on Mitsuhide + Aromanticism in Media and Reality
Major spoilers for Chapters 92 and onwards of the Akagami no Shirayukihime manga ahead!
When I first got into the AnS fandom, I kept hearing about some big manga!plot decision that had made some fans completely abandon the manga, so disappointed were they. I did my best to avoid spoilers so I didn't know what this event was for the longest time. Now, being caught up to that storyline and thensome, I know what that event was - and can say that I was a bit surprised when I remembered that it had upset people so badly.
Yes, Mitsuhide rejected Kiki's proposition of marriage, and she opted to marry Hisame instead. It was, apparently, clearly hinted at that Kiki and Mitsuhide were in love all this time, and it was cruel of him to reject her when she cared about him so deeply - right?
Well...maybe not.
I write this as an aro/ace person, and I'm going to be examining Mitsuhide's character through an aro/ace lens, too. I have talked plenty about how AnS has some great, positive representation in its characters, and Mitsuhide is no different. In fact, I relate to his experience quite a bit.
Mitsuhide is often teased, from the very beginning, for being "in love" with Zen. He shows no interest in anyone else other than Zen, outside of what seem like only platonic friendships, but his loyalty is solely to the Prince.
Except, it appears, for Kiki Seiran.
Their first interaction is yet another source of jokes; Mitsuhide mistakes her for a boy. And when the current story begins, the two are already always together as the Prince’s trusted aides. It's the perfect set up for a love story, even moreso when Hisame is introduced: the man initially so desperate to improve his social status and have Kiki's hand that he offers to fight her for it - and Mitsuhide steps in and saves the day. It's romantic, it's satisfying, it's...not all that it seems.
First, let me preface all this by saying that I will never go out of my way to tell others what they can and cannot "ship" or "headcanon". It is absolutely possible for this sort of plot to eventually devolve into a friends to lovers scenario. And, had it not been for Mitsuhide's blatant "coming out" to Zen and his rejection of Kiki's proposal in Ch. 92, it might have turned into this. But to me, it would be incredibly disrespectful to Mitsuhide as a character to berate him for "not marrying Kiki" when he explictly tells Zen in Ch. 98, after chapters of soul-searching, that he is not interested in marriage - with Kiki or anyone else for that matter.
Mitsuhide turns Kiki down the first time by saying that he wants to wait till Zen himself is married and living his own path, and that as Kiki is so close to the Prince and is so trusted a friend, it would be impossible and downright strange for him to consider wedding her. It doesn't help that since Kiki is on a deadline to marry, Mitsuhide is put in a position where he must immediately choose the path he wishes to take. I definitely feel here for Kiki, who has by her own admission harboured feelings for Mitsuhide for years now (feelings he never caught onto - #justacethings!), only to be told in no uncertain terms that he cannot reciprocate them.
I empathized a great deal, as an aspec person, with Mitsuhide's first confession here. Growing up aroace in a world dominated by amatonormativity, I was told indirectly or otherwise that there was something "wrong" with me, and that my priorities - work, friendships, family, hobbies - would one day come second to an important intimate relationship. Since that never happened for me, I just assumed, as Mitsuhide did, that I was waiting for something in my life to settle down before I dated: till I was done school, for instance. Or, when my teenage relationships inevitably failed, they just "weren't the one" or it was a situation of me being "not ready". Never did it enter my mind that I could tell someone (or even myself) that I would never date or marry at all, and I wonder if this concern ever crossed Mitsuhide's mind, too, when he withheld some details from Kiki in his first conversation with her about the matter.
When Hisame and Mitsuhide speak about what transpired with Kiki in that discussion, Hisame senses that Mitsuhide was not completely honest with her about his true feelings. Although Mitsuhide is understandably angry by this accusation, he nevertheless does not deny it - and eventually speaks to Kiki again to clarify that it is not just her he is rejecting, but everyone and anyone else who may propose to him in the future. This he says in no uncertain terms; his oath is to protect and serve Prince Zen, and this he holds above all else, marriage included. At last, he is able to put his feelings on the table and be honest with others and himself: he does not want to marry, he wants to remain at Zen's side.
Those on the aromantic and/or asexual spectrum are often told, through popular media or directly by family and friends, that an intimate romantic relationship should be prioritized above all else. Relationships are all about compromise, about changing your immediate desires when it means letting your partner be happy, so that everyone "wins". This is a very amatormative way of viewing things. What happens when your priorities and values do not work when a relationship is involved?
For me, my priorities are my hobbies, my dog, volunteering, my close friends, and maintaining my health. I can think of nothing worse than having to change any of those values or even alter them to allow for another person in my life - one with whom I'd be expected to intimately share my space and time with, at that. It seems this is what Mitsuhide feels, too: marriage would interfere with his sworn duty to protect Prince Zen, and this for him is his highest priority. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that! He seems perfectly content with doing so...until, of course, he confides all this in Zen.
There is quite a humourous post on Mitsuhide's "coming out as aroace" to Zen here on Tumblr already, but on a more solemn note, this is a similar reaction (at least, the core themes) as I got when I first came out to close family. I was just "not ready to be with someone" and "hadn’t met the right person". I needed to "grow up and try harder", and "one day I would want to find someone to marry".
Although Zen’s motive for scolding Mitsuhide is rooted moreso in not wanting him to give up his life and wellbeing for Zen's own sake, there is a genuine confusion and shock in the Prince’s words to his aide: what will Mitsuhide do if he gets other proposals? Is he just waiting to see if he'll change his mind? It is very difficult at first for Zen to understand the gravity and finality of what Mitsuhide is saying, and this is often the case with many aroace people: the "you will change your mind one day" line.
But so what if I don't?
I found Zen's emotional response, and Mitsuhide's equally emotional reaction, quite moving as the two grew to understand each other's thoughts and feelings on the issue. It certainly did not help that Mitsuhide was still reeling from the trauma of the Bergatt affair, and I sense that Zen suspected Mitsuhide's reasoning and fierce desire to protect him was based on that experience. And, to some degree, it might be! But again, the idea that trauma is at the heart of someone's "choice" to be aro/ace is not an uncommon one, but it is a hurtful one, and one that undermines the feelings and values of the person who is coming out. I am not aroace because I was traumatized, I am aroace because that is who I am. Mitsuhide might be more inclined to protect Prince Zen because of his fear of being unable to do so, but that is a separate matter from his desire to never marry.
And for Kiki, who so openly admitted her true feelings and desire to be with Mitsuhide only to be turned down? As I wrote earlier, I truly feel for her; it was by no means easy for her to be rejected not once but twice, regardless of the reasons. But as hard as it may be to accept, she is not owed Mitsuhide's romantic attraction or his hand in marriage; she is owed his honesty and respect, yes, but he cannot simply "change" and fall in love with her. It cannot and does not work that way in reality.
Mitsuhide's rejection of her romantic proposal also presents a rarely-explored (and rarely well portrayed) concept: a purely platonic friendship between a man and a woman, built on love and mutual respect. Friendship of any gender is usually pushed aside in favour of romance; to see a strong, solid friendship prioritized over a forced relationship is both pleasantly surprising and deeply admirable. Everything Mitsuhide tells Kiki sounds as what one might tell a platonic friend of the same gender in any other amatormative media piece - I love you, I respect you, I enjoy working with you, but I am not in love with you.
I have always had deep respect for the way love has been portrayed in AnS, and I was so excited to see aromanticism and asexuality depicted, too. Having a character reject a relationship in favour of remaining single for its own sake and to say true to his values is almost unheard of in popular media; asexuality is typically portrayed as a condition in need of treating, or one that the "right person" can "fix". Mitsuhide, mercifully, is not portrayed in this way. Zen's initial reaction is, of course, quite heated - his shock is understandable if it is not justifiable, and even if it hurt to read, it is a fairly accurate depiction of some common misconceptions about aromanticism/asexuality.
And in the end, after all, Zen (and Kiki, and Shirayuki, and Obi) come to understand and respect Mitshuide the way he is - as it should be.
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Amatonormativity: the assumption that everyone desires and strives for a romantic relationship.
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Cooking With Zen Event!
In August, we will be hosting a new type of event. Zen has went without knowing how to cook too long in his life, so his closest friends that know how to cook are seeking to remedy that!
Cooking With Zen will be a five week long event (or a little longer, if you want to start earlier or run later, since August is not a perfect five week month and our announcement is a little late). And as always, late submissions are perfectly okay no matter how late.
Please tag the blog, so we do not miss a single submission and also we will be following the tags, Cooking With Zen, Cooking With Zen Event, Cooking With Zen 2023, and Cooking With Zen Event 2023. You can either use one or all of the tags, if you would like.
Each week, a different character is the one teaching Zen to cook, until we get to the end. Submissions do not need to just be lessons in cooking, but can also include just cooking together with Zen. If you want to submit a recipe or a headcanon for what someone may teach Zen to cook, that is also a wonderful submission and a really cool way to engage with the event. Or even an additional recipe alongside a submission is wonderful as well, whether it is for clarity’s sake, or just for fun.
The prompts or characters are listed in chronological order as to when Zen met them, and thus, if you wanted to create a string of related submissions within canonverse, you can go chronologically through events of canon. Though AUs are always welcome as well.
If you wanted to fiddle around with Week Five and make it a whole friend group in the kitchen cooking together that is also fine. And can be a lot of fun!
You can do one submission a week or even multiple a week, depending on what you want to do and what works for you. The submissions can be platonic or romantic, whatever you would like.
The prompts/characters are listed down below:
Week One: Mitsuhide
Week Two: Kiki
Week Three: Shirayuki
Week Four: Obi
Week Five: Zen cooks for his friends
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MitsuKiki Weekend 2024
Day 1: Nap | Massage
Day 2: Break | Drink
Day 3: Story | Game Night
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Hello, everyone! Welcome to this year's event! Instead of MitsuKiki Week, which I was originally going to do, in light of the declining interest in MitsuKiki, and the upcoming ANS events that are happening this year, I have decided to change this to a Weekend event instead. So hopefully, this'll be easier for any of the participants who wish to join this event.
The theme for this event is "Relaxation". Perfect for a weekend event! 😁
Feel free to write MitsuKiki romantically, platonically, professionally, etc. I'll leave it up to you.
The event will begin on May 3 — May 5. Less than 2 months to work on your entries. Which should give you plenty of time. As usual, there is no need for you to do all of the prompts unless you want to. Also, if you can't take part in this event due to your schedule, you're free to post late submissions whenever you wish.
Remember to tag us and add #mitsukiki-festival and #mitsukiki weekend 2024 tags to your posts.
Thank you very much for reading, and I hope you'll take part in the event. I'm very excited. 😁
Sincerely,
— MitsuKiki Festival Mod Team
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Hearts and Minds
Mitsukiki Week 2023 Playlist for Day 3: Longing by @mitsukiki-festival
This one started out as Mitsuhid-ace playlist but then I used the day’s prompt and “Head vs. Heart” themed songs to find lyrics that fit from Kiki’s point of view too. Both Mitsuhide and Kiki work through their feelings for each other throughout (with plenty of waiting...), but it all works out for the best as they remain friends and knight partners.
Hearts and Minds
Tried To Fall In Love (My Head Got In The Way)- Kevin Devine
Friend Hospital- Nada Surf
Capital Karma- Manchester Orchestra
Art Talk- Fialta
For Me This Is Heaven- Jimmy Eat World
No One Says You Have To- Kevin Devine
Summary lyrics are cited after the cut:
Tried To Fall In Love (My Head Got In The Way)- Kevin Devine
Tried to watch the band but my head got in the way
Who was the stranger
Moving around inside my life?
Could he account for
The blankness that blanketed my eyes?
What was the answer?
Where was the pin to pick the lock?
Why was I waiting?
When would I finally wake up?
I tried to fall in love but I couldn’t get past my pain
I tried to fall in love but my head got in the way
Friend Hospital- Nada Surf
We are traveling daily by the hour
Moods clouding mountains ideas like towers
Choosing sides, digging in, then changing
Hearts and minds are chafing from all the rearranging
So much better that we're not together
Cause I will not lose you
Or be the blues to you
Friend hospital
Wild sadness knew weakness
Capital Karma- Manchester Orchestra
I defended your drama
I'm a heart, you're a brain
All I wanna do is wait for you
Now you're craving your karma
Where'd it go? And what'd it say?
Am I losing my patience? I feel it
I'm afraid that you know, you can see it
Let me stand by the door, let me breathe in
I forgave myself, so forgive yourself
I'm not trying to stand in the way
I'm in love with whoever you are
Nothing here is gonna take that away
It is you and it's been from the start
Art Talk- Fialta
Two kids, stuck in this city
Blonde hair always stuck in our eyes
Try as we might, we could not predict the outcome
Though we tried
Plotting is a gift we both deny
We stood in line still both of us pretending
And we left confused at why they changed the ending
But I guess it’s fair
And then one day, you said that you were leaving
And you said to wait, I waited for a season
But you never came, I guess it’s fair
For Me This Is Heaven- Jimmy Eat World
The first star I see may not be a star
We can't do a thing but wait
So let's wait for one more
And the time's such clumsy time
In deciding if it's time
I'm careful but not sure how it goes
You can lose yourself in your courage
When the time we have now ends
When the big hand goes round again
Can you still feel the butterflies?
Can you still hear the last goodnight?
And the mindless comfort grows
When I'm alone with my big plans
And this is what she said gets her through it
If I don't let myself be happy now, then when?
No One Says You Have To- Kevin Devine
It gets so lonely inside my mind
I'm surrounded in love all the time
I get stuck in simple phrases
Complicate straight lines
If there's a knot that don't need tying
It gets distorted inside my mind
Isolation, disconnection
Another person's life
I say, "I can't race forever.
Can't raise the rock so high."
She says, "No one says you have to.
Let go and take your time."
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