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[seedyvampire]

LoA and Specific Person(s)

So there's some controversy in the LoA community right now around manifesting Specific Persons, and I gotta be honest: I've been confused by what a mess that whole state of affairs is for a minute now.

It's been known for ages in the community that Everyone Is You Pushed Out, meaning that people's behaviors and how they treat you are a reflection of what you consistently think about yourself and them... just like literally everything else in your reality. You aren't controlling other people, mind you, but you're controlling your own perspective (or you're supposed to be) and that shifts the reality you're in, changing which versions of others you get depending on the narrative you've selected. So basically: if you want to manifest a love text from your SP, just focus on believing you already have it and ignore whatever doesn't line up with that truth to shift yourself to an alternate version of your reality where your SP texts you.

Huh, that's kinda like how, if you wanted to manifest a new car, you'd just assume it's already yours, ignore any contradictions, and let yourself shift so it comes to you naturally. Wild, it's almost as if manifesting an SP is actually no different from manifesting anything else.

Now while it's perfectly understandable to be confused about things like free will and how other people show up to you when you're new to the Law, that's frequently just a part of the learning process, I'm genuinely befuddled by the amount of LoA coaches who perpetuate limiting, negative, unhelpful garbage like, "If your SP rejects you or treats you poorly and you still want to manifest them, then you need to have more self-respect and you need to work on your self concept and you should just try manifesting someone else and you're being needy and codependent for wanting someone who doesn't want you and you need to improve your self worth and blah blah blah..."

This is a beyond messed up approach, for so many reasons that I could go on and on about, but I'll try to stick to only what's crucial here.

So if I'm understanding this correctly: some of these manifestation coaches actually make clients pay them to then go and tell them they're wrong for wanting the manifestations they're being paid to help with? These coaches are actually discouraging people, customers giving them their time, trust, and money, from manifesting someone treating them with more love and respect because of some 3D-based approach regarding a necessity for more self-respect or something?

Yeah, because I guess you need to respect yourself so much you don't let yourself manifest what or who it is you truly want. You need to respect yourself so much you don't allow yourself to believe you are able and worthy of receiving better treatment from another person. Make it make sense, y'all.

To every coach who's out there doing this: why are you giving any credit to the SP's behavior at all in the first place? Worse still, why are you also teaching your clients to do likewise? Isn't completely ignoring the 3D, in favor of focusing on the desired outcome instead, literally just how manifestation works? That's how it is when you manifest every other thing in your reality, so why are you out here acting like SPs are any different, when we've already established that EIYPO, making SPs just as manifestable as a pair of socks? You are overcomplicating an incredibly simple process, and worse: you're teaching people who may be too new to know any better to do the same.

Now don't get me wrong: if someone's 3D actions are so gross they turn you off from even wanting them, like, I've been there and I'm completely with you. If that's the case, then do not bother wasting your precious, sacred energy manifesting anything or anyone that you don't actually want. But if you're out here still wanting to manifest an SP even after they exhibited undesired behavior towards you, you are not sick or wrong or inherently disrespecting yourself, and getting desired behavior from your SP is very much possible.

If you do feel an ongoing desire for this person, even with their past actions, there's at least two very valid reasons for it: because 1) of course you want to love and be loved, it's only natural and I'm so sorry if someone ever tried to make you feel like you're weird or somehow defective for that, and 2) on some level you know you have it in your power to manifest having the desired version of them, because they, just like all your other desires, are already within you.

Please, everyone everywhere, stop giving excess significance to your manifestations. Acting like manifesting people is any different from manifesting anything else in your reality is giving away your power to them. I know it's very easy for us, especially when we're in love with the person in question, to want to put our SP up on a pedestal, but you have to remember to keep yourself there first. It doesn't matter if it's a celebrity you want to date, or an ex partner/friend you want to patch things up with, or a long-lost family member you hope to meet again, etc. All people, places, things, and circumstances are equally manifestable. Your SP has no power over you that you do not give to them yourself, because THEY are in YOUR reality.

[seedyvampire]

If you can imagine it, if you desire it, then consider it already yours. While it is entirely paradoxical to the emotion of desire, you must train yourself out of thinking that wanting something means it is separate from you. If you can imagine it, then it already exists within you, which is all that you need to know to know you can manifest it. Therefore: the moment you feel your desire is the same moment you can celebrate knowing it is done. Regard the fulfillment of your desires as an inevitability, and it will be.