#so like general talking about goid and bad of family stuff and ups and downs of trans stuff and closeted stuff?

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Imagine the overbloat gang as fathers or like proud/panicking that their s/o is having a child and they don't know what to do

Imagine the gang trying to give their kids a goid life and getting baby fever like who wouldn't because the kid is literally a mixed of him and you and they gush about how much they love their s/o and children like ???????

Overbload gang as fathers and i will start violently sob

I do have a weakness for familial headcanons :) future au time??

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type of post: headcanons characters: riddle, leona, azul, jamil, vil, idia, malleus additional info: romantic, reader is gender neutral (no mentions of the child's origins), reader is not specified to be yuu, obviously takes place in the future

I think Riddle is one of the most reluctant to have children

for years he was strictly against them. his excuses were always that children are messy, unruly, his career, his relationship with you... but he was mostly just afraid of turning into his mother

as he gets older and forms his own identity, though, he realizes that it takes a lot of intentional effort to fuck up a child like his mom did, and he changes his mind

I can see him with... maybe two kids

he would never want an only child. after all, the bonds he made with his peers are what kept him going

he is a pretty good parent overall. maybe a little to focused on bedtimes and table manners, but the kids don't seem to mind

Trey and Che'nya babysit often (and it's always disastrous)

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talking Leona into the idea of fatherhood is like diffusing a bomb with a blindfold on. the guy won't even JOKE about it

if you do end up with a kid, it's unplanned, whether that be pregnancy or baby left on the doorstep

but he makes a surprisingly(?) good father. defo a girl dad, he would spoil a daughter rotten. lets her beat the daylights out of Neji because that's his little princess :)

parenting is really not as scary as he thought it was going to be

he has "I'm just resting my eyes" *falls asleep for 8 hours on the reclining chair in the living room* dad energy

the hardest part?

pretending to like vegetables in front of the kid to set a good example

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Azul would actually be an awesome dad idc. IDC!

he has a good relationship with his mom and stepdad (who definitely babysit all the time; they insist on it), so he has good role models

he's not even worried about how it'll affect his career! Azul has a "do it all" personality: businessman, entrepreneur, father, aspiring millionaire...

and he is so overprotective

he'd cover that kid in bubble wrap if you'd let him

but he's really more concerned about their feelings. sending them to school is much harder than closing a business deal

he's a little sensitive, but he knows he'll have to trust them eventually

P.S. the tweels are NOT allowed to babysit. bad influences

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Jamil. ohhh Jamil :(

kids were never on the table for him, even after he met you and fell in love, he just... couldn't imagine it

regardless of whether or not he and his family are in a better place. (for the sake of this story, let's pretend they are. I want him to be happy) he just has so much generational trauma that he knows the child will end up with some, anyway

when, if, he's ready, it will still be a tough process. but worth it

he's such a supportive dad. bragging about his child at any chance, definitely the kind of dad to show everyone the baby pictures without being asked

it gets embarrassing for them as they grow, but he doesn't care

he thinks they're the greatest thing ever, and people should know that!

he is so proud

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Vil had always wanted to play a father on screen, but once he hits that age, he starts thinking about real life, too

he's gotten where he wants to be, after all: he's still young, he's in love, and his career, as successful as it is, is starting to wind down. so, why not?

he is the most supportive partner you could ask for. despite his schedule, he's involved in everything (yes, even the messy stuff)

he's got a customized baby bjorn and everything

I can see him with... one. just one is enough for him. he also has girl dad energy. he's already looking forward to playing princesses and letting her do his makeup (terribly, of course)

he knows his child will grow to have their own wants and thoughts and personality, and he's supportive. besides, if he has another Epel on his hands, he'll know how to handle them

just... gentler, this time

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for you, anon, I will enterain the idea that Idia may someday reproduce. but there's still a 50% chance that kid is a robot

joking (kind of)

I don't think he'd even really want kids. considering his own unhappy childhood and the whole curse of his bloodline thing. but, like the others, he can be convinced!

I think he'd make a pretty good father, tbh. neurotic, sure, but he's not too clingy, nor too distant

whatever kids he has will be smart, and he trusts them. he likes teaching them nerdy stuff, too (finally, someone he can infodump to!!!)

he probably ends up with more than he'd think. 2 or 3

as long as you never bring up how cringe he was in college, he's rather mature and prepared for anything

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out of the whole lineup, Malleus is the the only one to have thought your future children while at NRC. daydreamed, really

I know, not surprising. look at the guy. he's practically kicking his legs back and forth while coming up with baby names in game

it was just a fantasy at first, then you became closer, graduated, got older, and...

Lilia began teasing him about getting grandkids, and Malleus took him quite seriously

he knows he's still young (though, at his age, Lilia was already general), but he doesn't want to wait forever. you both have many long talks on the matter

and end up with... as many children as you can handle, basically

Malleus is somewhat of an awkward father (having been raised by Lilia will do that to you)

but he cares. and he tries! very hard. plus, there's always Lilia, Silver, and Sebek around to lend a hand

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Im so happy. Im also super anxious and a little uoset but happy wins out.

(Read the tags and i trust in your best judgement of what you can handle)

Im apparently in a good enough place despite my bullshit and diabetes to get top surgery! And the screening doc even said im obviously working hard and making progress on dealing with my anxiety/depression/whatever is going on up there and theyre confident giving me the green light!!

The only hiccup is my living arrangements and i have a while to sort that out and theyll talk to my mom with me because i said thats the hardest part for me.

And i told her tonight they said im clear for it but they want to make sure if i recover with family that like basically the stress wont outweigh the positive for all parties.

And a lot of the same old shit came up like her 'not seeing it' and not believing me (even though its been 7 or more years since i told her and longer since i started finding new information that kind of helped me realize that it wasnt exactly an "everybody, every single person, feels this" kind of thing. And that always upsets me. And i did tell her that yeah even though shes more open and understanding than she used to be im still scared- and probably will be for a while- to talk about this with her after some things she said to me before.

The convo got cut short which kind of sucks because i dont want to bring it up again. But kind of a blessing since at that point i had already said to her a few times i wanted to walk away and take a break because i was stressing and getting really upset and shit but she kept talking (which is part of why im glad the doc i saw said theyd find someone to talk with my mom and i. Kind of help me not lose track and maybe keep her from talking over me and shutting down what im saying- or pointing out if/when she isnt shutting down what im saying but im ahutting down because im stressing hardcore)

I cried a lot- but honestly i think i cried more happy tears after talking with a friend about us going to the beach in a few years and maybe joining community clubs on a partial basis. And about how i dont have to be scared to tell the schools im going to maybe apply to- because i have back up.

Like. I have more power which is kind of gross that people demand 'proof' or something like that or wont believe you until they see it even with the laws in this province and all.

Ive always kind of had backup. But its hard to believe it sometimes when everything seems neverending and so far off and lost and confusing because im being told im not 'projecting right' or doing things 'believeably'. And thats fucked up. And i hid away- still hide away- a lot. And im not super vocal about it and i dont stand up for myself because ive been so scared and felt so betrayed. So i havent. I just havent. But its like. Fuck all of that.

Someone i didnt feel likw they were obligated finally let me talk and let me fumble my words and cry and shake and mumble and describe things all weird and listened. And i didnt know this person at all so i didnt feel the same tight choking feeling to selfcensor and to downplay. I didnt feel like this person was obligated to listen and tell me what i wanted to hear (because there were a few things that were rough to hear and things i had to talk about that hurt- but thats their job). Its different from talking to a friend and not telling them the whole 100% because i know things that would bother them to hear more than talking about it would help me and just- feeling like i was weighing them down even if i really wanted consolation. Its not their job kinda thing. (And i know thats not a good way for me to think and im seeing now bits and pieces of how its actually shittier that way- but ive done it for so long its just routine. Its not their job but they can tell me when its too much and im allowed to need support and to want to share with friends)

And yeah. This just got like. Insanely personal and emotional (to me) and is one hell of a text brick. But yeah

Like even with all that shit im still really happy. Like feeling validated is fucking nice. But knowing im not going to be uncomfortable and worrying im going to get hurt from trying to minimize my discomfort and like. That im doing an ok job- even a good job at not giving up just makes me happy cry and feel a lot of things