#tarot is first and foremost a tool of introspection and contemplation

[roaenexists]

magical hot take but it doesn't take that long to attune your new tarot cards to your energy if you just also attune your energy to the cards

[esmerraine]

Hello, friend! I hope you're having a great week. +18 questions are ok? Otherwise, feel free to decline my request 💛. I'm PM, cancer sun, and crystals are my new obsession, haha. I thought I wasn't interested in sex until recently, but I realized I struggle badly to get intimate with people only because I'm afraid of rejection, humiliation, and getting physically hurt. Could you tell me how my first time will go? And what kind of man I would have intercourses with?

Hello love!

What a huge question, first and foremost thank you so much for sharing that part of yourself. I will do my best to answer but please keep in mind that Tarot is more often than not a big picture tool rather than a fine detail one.

Cards pulled:

The Empress: correspondences with Venus she is a powerful divine feminine symbol and represents all things woman, and natural and pleasurable and encourages you to connect to these things - I would take this as a positive or welcoming sign when it comes to this experience and what it has in store for you.

Knight of Cups (reversed) : prone to acting on emotion without thought. While charming it can lead to problems because of his inability to control his emotions. I would recommend keeping your head about you, don’t let your emotions or excitement override your own intuition. Be sure to trust your gut and be mindful of prospective partners that are laying the charm on too thick they may not have your best interests at heart.

Wheel of Fortune: correspondence with Jupiter a sign of the cylicial nature of life, good and bad it’s a message that opportunity is before you and with it change and life lessons. The presence of the wheel tells me that regardless what comes the wheel of your life will continue to turn, what comes up in your life must come back down. While this is inevitable don’t look at it as a threat but rather an opportunity to enjoy moments and learn from them.

The Hermit: correspondences with Virgo encourages contemplation and self reflection. The Hermit seeks truth and knows this only comes from introspection and self isolation. To me this is a sign to look inward first. What do you want to get from this experience, what do you hope to gain, if anything? You are beholden to no one but yourself with this, don’t let the outside influences push you into action before your ready. Trust yourself but first LISTEN to yourself.

I sincerely hope this helps give you guidance and want to thank you for giving me the opportunity to read for you!

💋

Esz