#up the queuebe

[biperhart]

Henry: When I get murdered, can you make sure I become an unsolved case? Jasper: What? Henry: I want to be on Buzzfeed Unsolved. Jasper: Can we go back to the part when you said "when I get murdered"?

[molsno]

I posted 9,787 times in 2022

That's 1,338 more posts than 2021!

670 posts created (7%)

9,117 posts reblogged (93%)

Blogs I reblogged the most:

@mossheartlesbian

@rapturebones

@vivi266

@bloodbornekart

I tagged 4,900 of my posts in 2022

Only 50% of my posts had no tags

#game queuebe - 2,163 posts

#txt - 333 posts

#otherside picnic - 163 posts

#video - 149 posts

#lycoris recoil - 131 posts

#me - 124 posts

#pokemon - 105 posts

#shokei shoujo - 102 posts

#gender envy - 99 posts

#homestuck - 65 posts

Longest Tag: 139 characters

#society doesnt want to view me as a woman or even a man so asserting that i am a woman no matter what people think is very radical actually

My Top Posts in 2022:

#5

I think one of the more painful aspects of transmisogyny is thinking about how much of it is perpetuated in children's media. finding out about some male character in a kids show that wears a dress and makeup for comedic effect will never stop hurting, because you just know all the little trans girls watching that will internalize the idea that anyone with broad shoulders and a deep voice who partakes in femininity deserves to be an object of ridicule. you know that because the same thing happened to you 20 years ago, and you still find yourself worried when you go out in public that someone will scream at you for being a man in a dress and a danger to children. and it just makes you wonder if anything will ever really change

1,466 notes - Posted October 2, 2022

#4

I think that the most annoying thing about the term "male socialization" being applied to transfems is that for most of us, we weren't actually socialized male. if any of us have "male traits", it's because we developed those as a survival mechanism.

I certainly would have liked to be a lot more feminine growing up, but when you're born with a penis, you're expected to be a perfect, shining beacon of masculinity every moment of your life. if you deviate from this standard by expressing any behaviors that are deemed even a little feminine, you will be severely punished. if you cross your legs with one knee over the other, or you sit down to pee, or you check your nails by straightening your fingers instead of curling them, or you watch disney channel at the age of 10, or you just simply exist, you're a pussy, you're a faggot. maybe your sister will mock you for being too girly, or maybe the guy at school who would one day become a cop threatens to rape you and settles for giving you a black eye instead.

like, are you surprised that some of us try to live up to masculinity in the years before coming out? it's either that, or continue facing an endless onslaught of transmisogyny until you can't take it anymore and either transition or kill yourself.

I wasn't socialized as male, I was socialized as a tranny. it's fucking insulting to have my "male upbringing" weaponized against me to dismiss my womanhood because I never had one. and guess what! the vast majority of the masculine behaviors I picked up as a survival mechanism evaporated almost immediately after I came out as trans and realized I no longer needed to make use of them for my own safety.

stop falling for the myth of male socialization.

1,526 notes - Posted November 24, 2022

#3

if I learn that a transfem person has a kink that I'm not into, even if I think it's gross or uncomfortable, I'm just gonna mind my own business and assume they only want to engage in that kink with fellow consenting adults. rip everyone else but I would simply not cast baseless sexual menace on a transfem

3,038 notes - Posted July 3, 2022

#2

What I believe is happening in the case of coming across a public expression of sexuality, or a trans woman in a dress, or someone wearing a BDSM collar, or a woman in a short skirt is that these things will strike some people as inherently "sexual" in ways that other things (such as topless men and wedding rings) do not. And things that strike us as "sexual" may evoke sexual stigma in our minds. And this experience of sexual stigma - which can act indirectly and from a distance, as we've all seen with fears of "contagiousness" - can make us feel as if we are being "nonconsensually" implicated in a "sexual" activity, even though no boundaries have actually been breached, and the supposed act may not even be sexual for the other party. Such overreaches are worrisome, not only because they further marginalize those who are already unfairly "marked by sex" in our culture, but also because they can dilute or weaken legitimate claims of nonconsent in cases where actual sexual violence has been perpetrated.

- Julia Serano, Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

11,020 notes - Posted October 5, 2022

My #1 post of 2022

logging on to www.girldick.cum

12,143 notes - Posted September 14, 2022

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[cube2cube]

Episode 50 is out now! To celebrate 50 episodes of Cube2Cube, Ceef and The Squid have decided to spend this entire episode making fun of me for messing up the episode numbers.

[chaospochi]

today was a good ep for hungry plumpy rodents!

[odairing-a]

@dubovoye <3′d for a starter !

“  BOLKONSKY! ”  barked  more  like  an  instruction than  a  greeting, though  finnick  hadn’t meant  it  to  come  across overtly  unfriendly.  he  approaches swiftly,  weaving  through victors  socializing  in  his  way  and  takes  a  seat  opposite  his  peer,  tone  falling  to  something  far  more  casual. “  mags  said  she  spoke  to  you  earlier about  an  alliance between  our  tributes. mine  have  agreed. ” it’s  typical  for  careers  to  form  packs  with  each  other  prior  to  entering the  arena,  so  this  is  unsurprising.  

despite  this  being  finnick’s  first  year  as  a  mentor, he  holds  no  uncertainty  about  his  capableness for  the  job,  nor  the  justifiability  of  his  win.  he’s  snapped  at  his  tributes twice  already, demanding  their  respect and  submission  to  his  authority  and  has  publicly  smashed a  crystal  glass  against  another victor’s  head  for  their  mockery of  his  young  age.  this  rage  is  completely absent  now,  however. he  has  no  reason  to  be  anything but  civil  with  the  other, although  he  has  no  qualms against  changing  that  should  it  become  necessary. mags  said  she  likes andrei,  and  mags  is  an  impeccable  judge  of  character, so  he  doubts any  issues  have  much  of  a  change of  arising.

“  mags,  unfortunately,  cannot be  here,  so  you’ll  be  talking  strategy with  me.  assuming your  tributes  have  agreed  as  well?  ”  yes, mags  is  currently occupied  with  a  nap  on  the  district  four  floor.  finnick was  sent  on  her  request so  she  could  sleep  a  while  longer, not  that  he  has  any  objections  about  it—  no  one  deserves a  break  more  than  mags.

[odairinga]

can u believe Finnick @ 14 feared nothing and now he just lives in it

[fiveviktorklaus]

I will never come up with anything better than christopher the queuebed for my queue tag guys. that’s it. that’s the best I’ve got.

[biperhart]

Henry: Name a more iconic duo than my crippling fear of abandonment and my anxiety. I’ll wait.

Jasper: You and me!

Henry: *tearing up* Ok.

[biperhart]

Charlotte: How did none of you hear what I just said?!

Henry: I've been zoned out for the past two and a half hours.

Jasper: I got distracted halfway through.

Ray: Ignoring you was a conscious decision.

[biperhart]

Henry: Your hand is on my leg.

Jasper: No, your hand's on my leg.

Henry: No, it really isnt.

Jasper: Classic "he said, she said"

Henry:

[biperhart]

Charlotte: When are you going to ask Henry to be your boyfriend?

Jasper: Well I got us on the kiss cam at a baseball game, and that's where I was gonna ask, but once we got on the scoreboard, I just went for the laugh and kissed the old guy next to me.

Ray: Anything's funny when you put an old man in it.

Piper: Except for the ground.

[biperhart]

Jasper, putting his hands over Henry's eyes: Guess who!

Henry: It's either Jasper or the cold, clammy hands of death.

Jasper, putting his hands away: It's Jasper!

Henry: Dammit.

[biperhart]

Henry: Why would you think any of this was a good idea?

Ray: Probably because I'm a dangerous sociopath with a long history of violence.

Henry:

Ray: I don't know how you keep forgetting this.

[biperhart]

Ray: Something’s off.

Henry: Maybe you’ve finally developed human emotions and feel bad for hurting people.

Ray: No, but that’s funny.

[biperhart]

Ray: Hi, I'm Jasper's emergency contact.

Counter Woman: You're here to pick him up?

Ray: I'm here to remove myself as his emergency contact.

[biperhart]

Henry: I drink to forget but I always remember.

Charlotte: You're drinking orange juice.