#you are always allowed to vent in my inbox btw

[paolo-and-rotpr-kid-ask-blog]

★THE RETURN OF THE★ ★PUMPKIN RABBIT, KID'S★ ★Ask BLOG INTRODUCTION★

hey guy! This is a unofficial, Roptr kid ask blog! The Rule for this ask blog! :

No being rude or acting problematic toward anyone in this blog Please, be respectful everyone and be kind to everyone! Any hate will be blocked from this blog! >:(

Don't ask anything that are nsfw please. suggested stuff are fine like blood Or Violence ig? just please add warning to your ask before sending your ask to me tho! and again suggested stuff are fine!!! Just as long as it is NOT SEXUAL. PLEASE!! For god sake!!😭🙏

random Headcanon/ships, are allowed just as long as it isn't weird Or problematic then yes! Go on and share what you have sigma!! :3

you are allowed to say bad word! Just don't say too much. As it can kinda make me uncomfortable. sorry guys. :(

You can send Fanart if you want to! I'm chill with it! and again,Just as long as it isn't nsfw, then yes! Go on! Draw some fanart! (again suggested like violence or blood are fine just add warning before sending the art to me!)

I kindly ask that you please check with me before you vent here. I truly understand the importance of having a safe space to share feelings, but I also have boundaries for my own well-being as well.This means I have the right to decide whether or not I’m comfortable with venting happening on my blog! Hope you understand!

and lastly. Go have fun !! :3

(New rule will be added soon in the future!)

Here are the Roptr Character you can ask! (including my rotpr oc, Eddie and Russell!)

Paco

Ralph

Jay

Dino

Russell (My Rotpr oc!)

Eddie (Also my other Rotpr oc)

★who is the mod of this rotpr blog :3?★

Hey! there! The name's Russell! You can also call me Rusty, Ralph, or Plory—just so you don’t confuse me with my Rotpr OC, Russell the Kerry Blue Terrier. He’s named after my preferred name, just so you know why We both have the same name lol but yeah! but I am the Mod of this Rotpr kiddo, blog! ^^

and also sometimes you see me, post something else rather then rotpr, in this blog!

★here are some stuff to get to know me!★

I go by he/Him/they/them pronounce!,

My art and aesthetic can be random lol!!! But I normally don't show my aesthetic since they always random and colorful af!!!😭🙏🌈

I'm also a therian and a fiction kin by I don't talk much about it

I have thantphobia and Athazagoraphobia.

I'm also a artist and a animator!

I don't really have a DNI list, I just blocked whoever I want btw! just as long as your being safe and respectful in here then I won't blocked you!

That' all! My koi dog! :3🐾🐟

(My introduction art about my self is coming soon! So stay tune!)

Hi!! :3 , everyone! Just a head up! I wanted to let you know there might be times when I’m not as active or able to respond to your asks quickly. Life keeps me busy, and I also struggle with an anxiety disorder, which can make it hard to keep up. :(💧⚡

If I haven’t responded to your ask yet, please don’t spam my inbox with repeated questions. This can feel overwhelming and adds to my anxiety, making it even harder for me to respond. I’m not always online—I have a life outside of this space—but I promise I’m doing my best to get to everyone’s asks as soon as I can ,:3💦

Thank you for your patience and understanding—it truly means so much to me! ~ Love, Plory !! ^^⭐🌈

🇧🇷: Oi!! :3 Olá, pessoal! Só um aviso rápido! Queria dizer que pode haver momentos em que eu não esteja tão ativo(a) ou consiga responder às suas perguntas rapidamente. A vida me mantém ocupado(a), e eu também lido com um transtorno de ansiedade, o que pode tornar difícil acompanhar tudo. :(💧⚡

Se eu ainda não respondi à sua pergunta, por favor, não encham minha caixa de entrada com perguntas repetidas. Isso pode ser muito exaustivo e aumenta minha ansiedade, tornando ainda mais difícil para mim responder. Eu nem sempre estou online—tenho uma vida fora deste espaço—mas prometo que estou fazendo o meu melhor para responder às perguntas de todos o mais rápido que puder. ,:3💦

Obrigad@ pela paciência e compreensão—isso realmente significa muito para mim! ~ Com amor, Plory!! ^^⭐🌈

★ALSO THE BLOG! AND THE INTRODUCTION IS STILL UNDER CONSTRUCTION! SO NEW THING MAY BE ADDED IN THE FUTURE SOON!★

HERE MY STRAW PAGE!!! ^^

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[edwardslostalchemy]

If it's ok to rant. I'm not jaded enough to think that Bakugou hasn't changed (he's more mellow than before) and that he hasn't had "development" but the development he gotten as of now has more to do with him learning to be a 'better hero' rather than acknowledging how horrible he is as a person to Izuku and in General, or how unfair his thoughts abt Izuku are. We don't see him realizing this and trying to make amends. Yet the narrative treats this as a massive improvement (1/2)

And bc Izuku isn't resentful of him. No one in universe and in the fandom cares. Him saving Jirou is treated like a big deal, him saying he wants to know what he is missing to be a no 1 hero is also treated like a big deal but we never see him contemplate how badly he treats Izuku and his shitty jibes and insults against Izuku are now treated like a joke. I don't know if him learning how much of a horrible person he was will come afterwards, but I'm also worried we'll never get it. (2/2)

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How can I give you a microphone so you can say this much louder so everyone in the fandom can hear you? Because tbh yes, his "development" is more about him being humbled and his pride getting hit and hes learning to be a "better hero" by opening up to team work and even then he's still an asshole. The development I'd like to see, like you said, is how he treats Izuku, the victim he abused for more than 10 years. It would be great if he like came to the realization that MAYBE just MAYBE he's been a shit head to Izuku. Because the way he still treats him is not okay. He's still an asshole no matter how much hes mellowed down. :/ when he starts to understand how much of a horrible person he was to Izuku, then that's when I will start to be interested in him. Until then, I will continue to loathe his character because I don't have to like hjm and I can consume media the way I want to. Hes not impressive. He's just annoying.

[hyunnows]

To the anon who was venting to me, I misclicked and accidentally deleted your ask but I read the whole thing first. I'm so sorry that you were rejected by those companies because I'm sure you're very talented <3 even though the kpop industry has been allowing more mixed race and trainees/stars in the spotlight, it is still considerably racist and colorist so I'm so sorry that's why they probably rejected your audition.

i copy and pasted the ask before accidentally deleting it so here were the contents: "Tee i just need someone to talk too u can ignore this if u want to cuz its a damn boring mssg about my life but i just need to let it out so pls forgive me :( I rlly love music everything about it and i like wanna make that my career! so i auditioned a lot! every audition i did made me feel more insecure i always got rejected so i thought it was cuz of my looks i am dark skinned and ugly were the only things that came to my mind but i kept trying btw their kpop companies so i, idk what to do 😭"

As someone who also has dark brown skin, I've thought about auditioning for things as well, but since I don't commonly see people who look like me succeeding in those departments, I get really discouraged too. Especially when other auditionees are lighter, or even when they fit a criteria more because they're a single race while I'm mixed. It's even worse to see them pick others over you because of that racist bias.

I really hope you keep pursuing music and keep auditioning because someone is going to see the talent that exudes from your being. Someone will see the unique, unfiltered, and utterly gorgeous visual you bring to the table. Someone is going to notice how you've poured your heart into your passion. Don't give up because I know there's a spot for you in the music industry, whether it's kpop or not, I believe in you <3

But I will say, just because your skin is dark, that doesn't make you ugly. You are beautiful, georgeous even, and I hope that the rest of the world will get to see that someday.

Please feel free to send me another ask and vent in my inbox or even my dms because they are always open! I really hope you see this and I'm so sorry about deleting your ask.

I link this usually on my works but I want anyone feeling down to check it out. It's just a small post with a few positive affirmations and quotes. I hope it helps.

With much love, tee <3

[aquarianlights]

I think.... I'm depressed. I know this was before 2020 happened, so it shouldn't be because of what's been happening all year. I feel like I'm stuck no matter what I do and my situation won't change. maybe it never changed looking back all the past years. I asked some friends on what to do but they don't know any advice on what they can offer either. I don't know what to do without anything involving financial decisions, which isn't realistic. I feel like this is the best I can do in my life and that's the most control I have. I'm worried I'll get screwed over more as time goes by.

Everyone always seems to think therapy *always* will cost money, but there are options for free and extremely reduced price therapy out there. Idk why people don't take advantage of sliding scale therapists more. 5 dollars per week may not be doable (it's not doable for me rn, so I get that), so if you find the right organization or the right sliding scale, they'll slide down to 0. But since sliding scale is based on income, if you're employed, you need to look for a community organization that offers free therapy. Some are the type that get you in the next day, but most are the type that take a while to get into.

These are in most places, including very small towns, but they're more likely to be in cities or suburban areas. If they're not directly in your area, they're definitely in a surrounding are.

Sliding scale/free therapists may not always be ideal, especially for people like me that have more ab-psych things to deal with, but the more basic things that all psychs & therapists are trained to deal with like depression and anxiety would be able to be handled by a sliding scale/free therapist. All the free and sliding scale therapists I have seen have been good, but obviously don't have the training to help with things like my borderline personality disorder or my schizoaffective disorder. However, depression, they could help with. But when I don't have money or insurance, it's better than nothing in my opinion.

Other options are text lines, where you text with a counselor or volunteer. I've used these twice and they've been a great resource in a pinch. I think the ones with actual therapists (therapists are not psychologists btw) cost money, but I'm not sure. 🤔

Another option is outpatient treatment centers. Basically a place you go when you're suicidal to just be around those who can watch you & have someone to talk to until you're okay. I'm not sure how available these are (or if that is even the right thing to call them 😭) because I only became aware of their existence when I moved to Colorado & haven't been able to find an equivalent in any other state. 🤔 But I haven't really looked much or that hard coz I'm not looking for that kinda care rn but... this is a GREAT option for some people and it was wonderful for me at one point.

This was a place I went where you just basically check in for 12-24 hours or you can drop in to have an appointment with a counselor who is a volunteer. Inside the facility, they have rooms and a shower and a communal kitchen and a communal day room as well as other things. We were basically allowed to do whatever we wanted. I forget if we were allowed to bring our phone or laptop... but I *think* we could. 🤔 I know what I'm describing sounds a LOT like a psych ward for those of you who have been to a few psych wards in your lives, but trust me when I say I did NOT feel like I was in a ward at ALL. If I had, I would have bolted or never checked in at all.

The purpose of this place was to have a place to go when you're feeling suicidal and/or like you're going to harm yourself, but really don't want to and don't want to end up in a psych ward. It's where you can be around others who can watch/monitor you and have someone to talk to if you want/need to.

There is a stipulation that you can't leave until the time is up that you signed for. And there was only one person there with an actual degree in psych, but they had to okay you before you left. Everyone else who was there as counselors were volunteers who could just relate and wanted to help. It was like living in a mini commune with a bunch of people who genuinely understood what I was going through and genuinely cared and that was exactly what I needed in that moment when I was really on the verge of attempting. I went there a few times, actually. When I was still suicidal, I searched all over for a place like it in NC, but all I found were psych wards with 72-hour holds, which was NOT what I was looking for. The thing I experienced was so incredibly different and what I had been looking for my whole life basically. It was magical and if someone else can find one of these outside of colorado, let me know. Or if someone knows what these are actually called coz Idk what to really call them lol.

This is really silly and more of a last resort thing and should NEVER be used in the place of therapy, obviously, but there are apps out there to help cope until you can get in to therapy and just to help with little things in your daily life. Maybe try to figure out what is bringing you down specifically. Do you need to work on organization? Do you need to improve your ability to calm down & relax? Think about things like that and there are apps out there to help. There's even an AI out there that I tried out for funsies that has some features to help with depression, called Replika. Again, therapy is #1.

I do wanna add I have never heard of a free psychiatrist, but I did have a couple sliding scale psychiatrists in my life, so if you're looking for medications (which might be a GREAT step in the right direction! 🥰) it will be much, much harder to find a sliding scale psychiatrist than a sliding scale therapist or psychologist. 🙁 I don't think there are many around, honestly.

But yeah those are just some options I can think of off the top of my head that either don't cost money or cost very little money and/or go off of your income. And when they go off of your income, they generally try to take what you verbally say to them into account as well. So if you cannot afford anywhere near the number the calculations come up with, it's not always like... a set in stone number. Some places will be more than willing to discuss a lower price or even a free option with you. Other places might say "no, that's the number. Take it or leave it." It's hard to say till you make some calls.

This is all speaking on the US, btw. I haven't a clue on other countries. 😬

I hope this maybe helps someone a little lol. Idk why everyone always forgets about sliding scale/free therapy. The amount of times free therapy and sliding scale therapy has saved me when I was uninsured and/or didn't have money is ridiculous. 😅And it's not like they're only in big cities or something. They're legit everywhere, including small rural areas. It just takes some time, effort and lots of exhausting phone calls to find them. 😬 Which is the part a lot of people just don't want to do/deal with. Which is understandable.

I'm so sorry you're struggling. 😞 I hope you can find something soon or something happens for things to get easier. If you ever need to vent, feel free to jump in my inbox. I always have my queue running, so it might not look like I'm here, but I do check my asks about once a week. 🥰

Stay strong. 💞💞💞

[official-virtual-hug-dealer]

I don’t mean to criticize your personal choices, but venting can be very helpful and sometime even a crucial step to take.

So long as you vent to someone willing to listen (and my inbox and messages are always open btw, just tell me if you don’t want me to respond) it can be very freeing and helpful to go through what you’re feeling and experiencing in that moment.

Venting can help you to go through and sort out overwhelming things and get out what’s bottled up inside, leaving you lighter and allowing problems to be resolved easier.

And as long as the person you’re venting to is willing to listen, it isn’t as burdening as you think it’d be.

Think of your feelings as a bunch of boxes. When you vent to a willing listener it’s like they’re taking some of those boxes and saying “That looks heavy, let me help you with that.” You still have boxes, the feelings and issues don’t disappear, but now it’s more manageable.

Tl;dr: Your decisions are your own, but venting can be very helpful and sometimes necessary for sanity and survival.

alright new rule: I'm not allowed to vent about anything ever.

[aquarianlights]

I know I haven’t gotten around to answering anything in my inbox or DM’s, but I’ve seen everything. I just haven’t answered everything.

I’ve been in a really bad place recently and I didn’t wanna bring negativity into anyone’s lives and whenever I tried to respond to things, I ended up venting and I didn’t wanna do that. But if anyone is willing to, uh, talk to me about stuff going on or allow me to vent openly/publicly to get stuff out, that’d be cool. I don’t know why I feel like I can’t just make a text post. . .that’s very unlike me. Rather, unlike the old me. The me who I’ve been my entire life. I’m a whole different person now and I generally love myself, but it’s been really hard to talk openly lately. I almost feel like I did when I was being gaslighted or abused. But. . .aware of it happening this time. But doubting myself because “No, there’s no way anyone would ever do that to me. Especially not people who claim to love me and who have proven they love me over and over again!” It’s unreal. I can’t tell if it’s the PTSD talking or if I’m just being paranoid.

I am getting back into therapy, obviously, but there’s waiting lines for my insurance in a big city like this and I have to get with a psychiatrist before I can get in with a psychologist. And since my car is uninsured and the tags are expired and I cannot get the tags renewed without insurance, I don’t wanna chance driving outside of the city where I know the roads. Hell, I don’t even go towards Metairie where I used to live. When I was over there the other day on business for 2 fucking seconds, I was panicking. Legit panicking. So the second I got back in New Orleans roads that I recognized, I felt a lot better. Sure, there’s still chance I could get pulled over and arrested for driving uninsured and with expired tags, but I’m just hoping and praying my white privilege and acting cute and innocent and my manipulative talking skills that I’ve always had a lot of luck with on authority figures will get me out of it. I 90% doubt it will work, but that’s the only hope I have because until winter rolls around, I cannot walk or use the streetcars during the daytime hours unless I have someone with me. And I have to get certain places at certain times. So it’s very frustrating. But I literally cannot pay the very lowest rate on my car because it’s higher than a months rent. ._. SIGH.

What do, fam. What do. Which, btw, if anyone has suggestions for auto insurance for high risk drivers, that’d be great. My high risk status does not go away for another year, I believe, because of the court battle that lady dragged me out in that was not my fault (but is my fault by law because of the situation) and because of one more minor accident that was entirely my fault. So, I need insurance badly but I have already hit every single name I can possibly think of and that google provides. If anyone has any private insurances or something, let me know. NOLA is also the highest car insurance rate place in the entire US, so that’s, uh... another hurdle. My last insurance was Amica. I was with them for 8 years. I’m just looking for limited liability now. I also have a sports car, so that doesn’t help. But seriously, if anyone has any ideas, hmu. I need it so badly. The longer I go with a lapse, the more it is going to go up. :/ And I need to get my car insured before classes start at my third college so that I can drive to the campus 4 days a week. I’ll just be staying on campus so that I don’t have to drive home during the one gap in the day I have scheduled. I’ll just work on my schoolwork or something. I’m not risking driving around. The fuck no. But the fact I have to drive twice in one day at minimum four days a week more than I am right now is.................... scary. Especially since I don’t know where my college will be in reference to wherever we are moving to. Ergh.

I really need someone to talk to or someone to ask me questions about what is going on more than the general “update pls” or someone to distract me. :/ Anyone who has the capability of doing that (I know those first two things are beyond my personal capabilities when friends are in need so I don’t expect any of my followers to be able to do those things, but it’s worth a shot. I need the second one more than anything else.) should really get on that because it would boost my mood and help me IMMENSELY. I love you guys. Thank you for putting up with my current dilemma. I have one other auto insurance company left to call so I’m gonna ring them, but I do not have any hope. So....... we’ll see. We’ll see.