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Uhem, here to give ur blog some well deserved love

K bye now

AWWWW DARLING let me hug you! All the love right back at you, you lovable, talented, kind and wonderful human being!

[tarchey]

Hi

this is random

But i was randomly rambling to my friend about my mutuals on tumblr, and how you recently got married

And that said friend has now changed to my girlfriend

And it turns out that my ramblings about you and your husband were what made her think of being with me

And i just felt like you would like to know

Because im really happy now

And being queer isn't really that usual here our country is very homophobic

Yeah

Wish you lots of love

Hey there lovely Anon,

I don't know what to say, I am so touched by your message! And I was somehow involved by you getting a girlfriend? You bet I'd like to know! These news are so awesome, congratulations, my dear <3

I know I'm in a relatively safe spot right now compared to other places, but the country I'm living in also gets more and more homophobic. The country I was born in as well. It doesn't feel as safe as it used to and these last elections for EU parliament are really concerning and cause some anxieties and sleepless nights, if I'm being honest.

Wherever you are right now, you deserve to be happy! I wish you all the luck and I am so proud of you.

Lots of love! <3

[tarchey]

hi, I think your blog is rly cool and I love your art! :DD

Thank you so much, sweet anon!

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it's been, like, over half a year since i've last done anything on tumblr but i randomly thought of u so :) hi!!! how are you??? <3<3

Hey there!

It's been a while since I've been active on tumblr. I don't even take the time to procrastinate and reblog stuff any more, which is kinda sad. But eh, I'm still here and I still get so many notes every day from people who find my art and choose to like and reblog it. Always manages to make me smile.

As for how I am? I'm actually good! I'm always kinda overworked, but since I'm an independant artist, I can't really complain about that. I travel a lot, I meet a lot of people, which can get a bit overwhelming sometimes, but I kinda manage to keep everything in balance – at least for now.

Thank you so much for your kind message. It means a lot to me, that people just randomly think of me! I hope you're having a wonderful day, sweet anon!

[tarchey]

Hi, just popping into your asks to wish you a good day/night!

Thank you so much, sweet Anon! <3 I wish you the bestest of days/nights!

[tarchey]

Politely requesting photos of Sputnik because he's so cute and I literally can't live without him, he is my happiness drug 😭❤️❤️🐶

You asked for Sputnik, so Sputnik you shall receive!

[tarchey]

How have you been dear? :)

Hey there, dear anon!

Well, these last six months have been... something. Don't want to get into too much detail, but it has been quite a challenge on so many levels.

I have been continuously getting better lately and I think I just overcame some sort of threshold where I feel more safe and can actually enjoy stuff again. Still need to make damage control though bc I have been neglecting friends and family.

But yeah, I know you shouldn't do this but compared to all this shit that is going on worldwide, I think I'm fine.

I hope you all are safe <3

[tarchey]

My guy, how do you even get so good at art 😭

Spent countless hours in school, doodling to stay focused. That's basically why I can draw today. I've never been able again to draw so much as back then in school.

Of course the teachers always assumed I wasn't paying attention bc of the doodling, so I had to draw on the down-low. Or else I'd be staring into the void, looking like an attentive student, but in my head actually chilling in middle earth.

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I always love seeing ur username in my notifs its like

I know that one. I hope that guys having a swell day

I hope you're having a swell day too, my friend!

[tarchey]

OH MY GOD YOU'RE MARRIED HAPPY DAYS CONGRATS MY GUY !!! INSANE STUFF moots getting married and all WHOO

hajsdbfkahsbfd THANK YOU

[tarchey]

How should I react to those videos that are like "I'm (Trans/Gay/etc) and I don't like the Lgbtq+ community" That go into detail about people who use neo-pronouns are 'mentally-ill' or why trans people aren't valid? They terrify me because they almost always have some logical explanation using credited science, which makes me question my stance on being pro-lgbtq... I'm nothing but an cishet ally, but I'm terrified of being like them because I fear their mentality opens a gateway for sanctioned hate. I don't know what to do. I don't mean for this to sound bigoted, I'm genuinely worried. But the sad part is they would probably use my unclear stance to justify their arguments.

Don’t interact with them at all!

I assume you’re probably seeing these videos on Instagram/Tiktok/other algorithm based social media platforms. So if you see a video taking this turn, just scroll on immediately. If you even only watch these videos, the algorithm will notice that and show you more of them, which is just not good for your mental health. And if you interact with them (likes, even negative comments, everything), you’ll even help them to get more views. Any interaction will amplify their range.

There are assholes in every community. Only because an individual is queer doesn’t mean they automatically share your views and opinions. But just know that this is only a small group. We are more.

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THANK YOUUUU!

Me when my friend, my super talented, very good at drawing, wow wow I can't believe they're my friend @tarchey sends me a drawing he cooked up during the five minutes they have for themselves in between work, social obligations and sleep

[tarchey]

BB STAHP! I’M SOBBING!

Me when my friend, my super talented, very good at drawing, wow wow I can't believe they're my friend @tarchey sends me a drawing he cooked up during the five minutes they have for themselves in between work, social obligations and sleep

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Am I really gay or can I just appreciate beautiful women? I know I worded this comedically, but I mean it. A while ago I broke up with my partner (they go by any and all pronouns but are feminine presenting) because the attraction I felt to them couldn't extend to me wanting to marry them. Before the break up, we agreed that if I felt uncomfortable, we could go back to being friends - which we did! And we still are friends. But they made a post about being used as a test subject for my sexuality, and I feel guilty. So I really want to know if I am gay, or if the attraction was more to the person than to the gender, or what. I apologize for asking this, I don't really have anyone I can discuss these things with. I don't want to call myself questioning or queer if that's not what I really am. I don't want to put anyone else through what my partner went through.

I also know you probably don't have the answer for this, but I'll take any advice you may have.

And happy pride month! Even if this ask kinda ruins the mood...

Hey there! Don't worry, it doesn't ruin the mood at all. Sorry for the late reply though.

Just as you suspected, I can't provide any answers about your sexuality because it's something only you can truly understand, and it may even evolve over time.

I'm curious though: Did you break up simply because you didn't want to get married? If you were both happy, why not just stay together? It doesn't have to be an all-or-nothing situation. Some people don't want to marry and still choose to spend their lives with their partners but prefer to make it a continual decision, rather than feeling obligated or trapped in a marriage. There are many reasons to stay together without being married.

It's great to see that you've decided to remain friends. However, if they feel like they were merely your test subject, it would be a good idea to have a conversation with them. If it's not true, there's no need to feel guilty, but talking things out and finding closure might be helpful for both of you.

And whether you liked them because of their gender or not... does it really change anything? After all, you did like them and still seem to care about them. Just remember not to get too caught up in labels. They are meant to guide and educate us, not restrict or dictate us. You may identify as queer, and that's great. You may not identify as queer, and that's perfectly fine too. Why need a definite answer now or ever? Stay curious and see what happens next!

[tarchey]

Will you be fighting Pedro Pascal for the honorary tittle of Daddy, pappa?

Nah, a family can have more than one daddy.