themori-witch
themori-witch
Cailleach an Bás
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Rowan Méadhbh ✧ Old Woman ✧ UK ✧ eclectic hereditary witch for over 15 years, and Irish polytheist. Training w/OBOD. I am your local Eldritch Horror.
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themori-witch · 18 days ago
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Magical Powder Recipes
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A collection of some of my original magical powder recipes -
All-Purpose Cursing Powder
Bree's Banishing Powder
Clean House Powder
Come Hither Powder
Dead Man's Dust
Dream Dust
“Eye of Sauron” Revelation Powder
Get Thee Hence Powder
Ghost-Be-Gone Powder
Heal Thy Heart Powder
Hexbreaker Powder
Inspiration Salt
Lucky Day Powder
“Outta My Way” Powder
Peacekeeper Powder
Persuasion Powder
STFU Powder
Traveler’s Luck Powder
Truthfinder Powder
Addendum: The masterlists of oil recipes that I have made available -
Baneful Blends
Buffs and Blessings
Glamour Edition
Protection and Warding
For those of you who may not be able to find supplies and components locally, here are some online suppliers who consistently have affordable and high-quality products.
Penn Herb Co. - Bulk herbs, spices, and botanicals - including over 400 wildcrafted herbs, gathered from the United States and worldwide. Single ounce packages are available. Excellent source for powders.
Starwest Botanicals - Bulk herbs, spices, oils, and teas. Good amount of organic and Fair Trade products, as well as supplies for holistic medicine and tea-making.
Mountain Rose Herbs - Bulk herbs, spices, and sundries. Also carries organic products and essential oils, and has link to schools that offer courses in herbalism and herbology.
Bulk Apothecary - Bulk herbs, spices, and oils, in addition to materials for the home production of soap, candles, wine, and beer.
Specialty Bottle - Bottles, jars, and tins in many sizes at very reasonable bulk rates.
For more recipes to fill out your potion kit, you can check out Pestlework: A Book of Magical Powders & Oils. (Available on Amazon and in my shop!)
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themori-witch · 20 days ago
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themori-witch · 20 days ago
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2025 Witches' Calendar
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For all my witches out there, here’s a handy list of the 2025 dates for the solstices, some commonly-referenced holidays, full and new moons, and special astronomical events. I’ve listed my sources at the bottom.
Dates and times for all events are calculated for Eastern Standard Time, USA, Northern Hemisphere. Adjust for your location as needed and check the DarkSky Placefinder to see what special events will be visible in your area.
On a related note, readers are encouraged to create their own seasonal calendars, holidays, and observances based on your local biome and personal preferences. Enjoy!
Solstices, Harvests, Quarter Days, Some Common Dates
February 1-2 - Imbolc / Candlemas / High Winter
March 20 - Spring Equinox / Ostara
April 30-May 1 - Beltane / May Day / Walpurgisnacht
June 20 - Summer Solstice / Midsummer / Litha
August 1 - Lughnasadh / Lammas / Summer Harvest
September 22 - Autumn Equinox / Mabon / Fall Harvest
October 31 - Samhain / Halloween / Final Harvest
December 21 - Winter Solstice / Yule
Full Moons
January 13 - Wolf Moon ♋
February 12 - Snow Moon ♌
March 14 - Worm Moon ♍ (Lunar Eclipse)
April 12 - Pink Moon ♎
May 12 - Flower Moon ♏
June 11 - Strawberry Moon ♐
July 10 - Thunder Moon (aka Buck Moon) ♑
August 9 - Sturgeon Moon (aka Corn Moon) ♒
September 7 - Harvest Moon ♓ (Lunar Eclipse)
October 6 - Hunter's Moon (aka Blood Moon) ♈
November 5 - Frost Moon (aka Beaver Moon) ♉ (Supermoon)
December 4 - Cold Moon ♊ (Supermoon)
* The full moons in September and October are almost EXACTLY equidistant from the Autumn Equinox this year, so whether you'll have a Harvest Moon in September or October depends on where you live!
New Moons
January 29 ♒
February 27 ♓
March 29 ♈
April 27 ♉
May 26 ♊
June 25 ♋
July 24 ♌
August 23 ♍
September 21 ♍ (Seasonal black moon, second new moon in Virgo)
October 21 ♎
November 20 ♏
December 19 ♐
Special Celestial Events
March 14 - Worm Moon Total Lunar Eclipse
March 29 - Solar Eclipse
September 7 - Harvest Moon Total Lunar Eclipse
September 21 - Seasonal Black Moon / Solar Eclipse
November 5 - Frost Moon Supermoon
December 4 - Cold Moon Supermoon
(Check the DarkSky Placefinder to see what will be visible in your area!)
Mercury Retrogrades (in case you need them)
March 14 to April 6
July 17 to August 10
November 9 to November 29
Happy Witching!
SOURCES & FURTHER READING:
Bree’s Lunar Calendar Series
Bree’s Secular Celebrations Series
Moon Info - Full Moon Dates for 2025
Calendar-12 - 2025 Moon Phases
Full Moonology - 2025 Full Moon Calendar
AstroStyle - All the 2025 Full Moons
Your Zodiac Sign - Astrology Calendar 2025
Old Farmer’s Almanac - Mercury Retrograde Dates 2024-2025
Sea and Sky - Astronomy Calendar of Celestial Events 2025
DarkSky International - Dark Sky Placefinder for Stargazing
Patheos - 2025 Wheel of the Year Astrological Calendar
Image Source - How Stuff Works
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themori-witch · 21 days ago
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Good morning, Ghouls! ☀️
I hope you all have diabolically delightful days, or nefariously nice nights, wherever you may be.
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themori-witch · 21 days ago
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Witch Crafts: How to Make A Scrying Mirror
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• WHAT IS A SCRYING MIRROR? •
A scrying mirror is one of a variety of tools that can be used in the divination method that is scrying [click here for more information on scrying].
WHAT YOU WILL NEED:
A photo frame with glass.
Matte black spray paint (it doesn't need to be spray paint, but I find this easier!).
Glass cleaner (if you want to use a vinegar and water solution instead, that's fine!).
Clean cloth.
Microfibre cloth (optional).
HOW TO:
Firstly, remove the glass from the photo frame and set the frame aside as you'll be popping the glass back inside later.
Using your glass cleaner and cloth, thoroughly clean both sides of the glass and try to avoid leaving smears or smudges. You can use another clean, dry cloth (microfibre for best results) once the mirror is dry, to go over the glass and buff it/remove any dust.
Allow the glass to dry completely, then take it to a ventilated area, lay the glass on a piece of paper or fabric you're not too attached to, and use the spray paint to coat one side of the glass. Allow the first coat to dry, then add a few more layers ensuring that the coverage is as even as possible, and opaque.
Leave the glass to dry in a safe place.
Once the paint is dry, reinsert the glass into the picture frame with the unpainted side facing you.
*OPTIONAL: you can embellish your frame, or the edges of the glass if you wish. It's your scrying mirror, so make it yours!
You are now ready to scry your heart out! Make sure the glass is smudge and mark free before you scry, as to not skew anything you may divine from the mirror.
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themori-witch · 22 days ago
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Liminality & Liminal Spaces
It’s been quite a while since my last original post, and I profusely apologise for my absence.
What is liminality?
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The word “liminal’ comes from a Latin word “līmen”, meaning “a threshold” and its Oxford Dictionary definition is:
Relating to a transitional or initial stage of a process.
Occupying a position at, or on both sides of, a boundary or threshold.
[Source]
That is a brief etymological explanation of liminal/liminality, but,… what is it? What is it in relation to witches and witchcraft?
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themori-witch · 22 days ago
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Amulets vs. Talismans
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Both Talismans and Amulets are magickal objects that are small in nature, therefore making them conspicuous and able to be worn or carried without arousing suspicion. Often, they will be pieces of jewellery suitable for everyday wear or objects that can be discreetly carried on your person.
1. Amulet: provides protection from danger and harm.
2. Talisman: attracts a particular benefit to the wearer/carrier. 
AMULETS:
The general consensus is that Amulets provide protection against bad luck, illness, and evil. They may do this in a general sense, or serve a more specific protective purpose.
The most common form of Amulet to be found, are necklaces and pendants as they can be worn daily without raising alarm, and it is believed by some that the closer to the body an Amulet is worn, the more powerful its effects will be.
Some potential Amulets include: gems and crystals, stones, figurines (people, deities, animals, mythological creatures); diagrams; bones; plants, and words.
TALISMANS:
Talismans are, like Amulets, items that hold magickal power. 
There is debate over what the exact differences between Amulets and Talismans are, and it will vary between sources as to what you read or see. 
In general, Talismans are said to draw things to the wearer/carrier, instead of have a passive protective effect and their magick is specific and not generalised; by this, I mean that unlike Amulets that can just serve general protective purposes, Talismans are used to attract specific benefits tat are determined by their design. They can also be charged to increase their power.
Talismans are more complicated than Amulets in appearance; Amulets can simply be a crystal hung on a leather throng that you wear around your neck, whereas Talismans tend to have symbols, figures or incantations carved or engraved onto them in colours that correspond to the intended benefit you wish to bring upon yourself. 
When it comes to having your Talisman on your person, it is much more common for the item to be something you can carry in your purse, pockets or bad than something you’d wear. They can also be placed near the item or person you wish to bestow the benefits upon. For example, you may place the item above a child’s bed if you want to give them good dreams, or put it into your purse if you wish to draw wealth and prosperity to yourself. 
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themori-witch · 24 days ago
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Here are some examples of commissions and work that I've done! DM me for any enquiries! ✨️💜
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I'm currently in the US with the love of my life and would love some work to get back to once I return to the UK!
If you'd like some custom dice made, hit me up! I'll share some of my recent work soon! 💕
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themori-witch · 24 days ago
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I'm currently in the US with the love of my life and would love some work to get back to once I return to the UK!
If you'd like some custom dice made, hit me up! I'll share some of my recent work soon! 💕
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themori-witch · 24 days ago
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83 Herbs and Their Magickal Properties
Okay, so this is going to be a long text post so sit your cute butt down and get comfortable. You may want to make some tea or grab some kind of nourishment before you get comfortable because you are going to be here for quite a long time.
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themori-witch · 24 days ago
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An Leabhar na Draíochta
The Mori Witch’s Book of Magick
A collection of original writings by Rowan Méadhbh Keaney.
[Updated: 08-07-18]
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Magick
Types of Magick
Binding [Witchcraft 101]
Curses vs. Hexes: What’s the Difference?
Necromancy [Witchcraft 101]
The Basics of Wards & Warding [Witchcraft 101]
Psychic Phenomena [Witchcraft 101]
General Info
Taglocks [Witchcraft 101]
Magick Oils
Making A Simple Protection/Negativity Repelling Sachet
A Brief Summary of the Major Arcana (Tarot)
Liminality & Liminal Spaces
Witch Bottles?
Astral Weaponry [Witchcraft 101]
The Basics of Astral Projection & Astral Travel [Witchcraft 101]
Herbs & Herbalism
10 Herbs to Keep Close By
Uses for Forget-Me-Nots & Lavender in Magick
83 Herbs and Their Magickal Properties
Correspondences of: Carrier & Essential Oils
Herbs and Things to Avoid During Pregnancy & Lactation [Witchcraft 101]
Divination
Palmistry: [Part 1] ✧ [Part 2]
How to Work & Calibrate Your Pendulum
Divination Drinks: Tea to Aid in Divining
Scrying [Witchcraft 101]
Tarot 101: Bonding With Your Deck ✧ Charging Your Deck. 
Divination 2.0: Tarot Spreads
Rowan’s Cross New Year Tarot Spread.
Illuminate My Path Tarot Spread.
Removal of the Festering Limb Tarot Spread [a spread for cutting toxic ties].
Creatures
Let’s Talk Quickly About Bean Sídhe
Spells
Bath Magick
Roe’s All-round Cleansing Bath [Bath Magick]
“Bathe Me the Fuck Better” Bath Spell [sachet]
Healing
Minor Pain/Healing Spell
Spirit Work & Divination
Incense Blend (ft. Candle Magick) to Contact A Deceased Loved One
Jar Spells/Spell Bottles
Roe’s Foolproof Decoy/Entrapment Bottle
Curses/Hexes/Jinxes
All That You Love Will Turn to Nothing [curse].
Love
Open to Love: A Poppet
Chants & Incantations
A Chant for Luck!
Talismans & Amulets/Enchanting Objects
Amulets vs. Talismans
Regain & Maintain Your Self-Control
Tips, Tricks & Advice
The Mori Witch’s Tips & Tricks
Witch Tips: [X] [X] [X] [X]
How Do You Deal with the Negative Connotations Surrounding Witchcraft?
Why Protecting Yourself During Samhain is Important
Mugwort: WARNING!
Sigils & Sigil Magick
“My Positive Relationships Will Flourish” [sigil]
“I Cannot Be Broken” [sigil]
“The Traumas of My Past Will Not Trouble My Future” & “I Do Not Fear the Troubles or Frights That My Eyes Have Seen” [sigil(s)]
“I Am Not My Past; I Have Worth” [sigil]
“I Have the Power to Succeed” [sigil]
“I am in control.” [sigil]
“I hold the power of a storm in my heart.” [sigil]
“I am filled with motivation.” [sigil]
“All that you love; all that brings you joy, will bring you nothing but emptiness.” [sigil]
“Spirits are welcome here, on this night.” [sigil]
“I have an improved and active memory.” [sigil]
“I heal quickly.” & To ward off sickness and promote good health. [sigil(s)]
“I recall my dreams with clarity and ease.” [sigil]
“I am charming.” & “This day is a success.” [sigil(s)]
“Forest Demon.” [sigil]
“Brain fog will not cloud my mind.” [sigil]
“My mind is still; my mind is soothed.” [sigil]
“I commune easily with the dead.” [sigil]
“My problematic habits and behaviours are bound; they cannot resurface and do harm.” [sigil]
“The pains of my illness are easy to bear.” [sigil]
Potions & Elixirs
Roe’s Magickal Pick-me-up (for the tired witch)
Runes
Witches Runes [Part 1] ✧ [Part 2]
Paganism
Sabbats & Festivals
Sabbats: Samhain ✧ Beltane ✧ Lughnasadh ✧ Yule ✧ Ostara.
Pagan Festivals: Walpurgisnacht
A Samhain Special: Pumpkins!
Deities
Gaelic Deities: The Dagda ✧ Óengus ✧ Abarta
A Brief List of Well Known and Commonly Worshipped Pagan Deities
“How would one worship and invoke Lir and The Morrigan?”
Other
Celtic Tree Lore
Dumb Suppers [Paganism 101]
Brief Summary of Why Wicca and Witchcraft Are Not Interchangeable.
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themori-witch · 29 days ago
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Witchcraft 101: Crystals & Water
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When it comes to crystals and crystal care, an important thing to know is which crystals can be put into water safely and remain undamaged. I suppose, in a way, the more pressing question isn’t which crystals can, but rather which cannot.
A general rule of thumb to guide you, is to take a look at The Mohs Hardness Scale [linked here]. Although not perfect, the rule is that anything numbered a 6 or above is generally safe to put into water.
The Mohs Hardness Scale is a set of ten reference minerals (numbered 1 through 10) that are used to determine the relative hardness of minerals and other objects. [X]
Another thing to think about is the water in which you wish to place your crystals. If you are set on cleansing, for example, and want to use salt water as a means of doing so, the crystals that are safe in salt water are different to those that are safe in unsalted water.
CRYSTALS THAT ARE NOT SAFE IN TAP/MINERAL WATER:
Angelite.
Apatite.
Apophyllite.
Azurite.
Celestite.
Fluorite.
Gypsum.
Halite.
Hematite.
Jade (for long periods of time).
Lepidolite.
Lodestone.
Malachite.
Opal.
Pyrite.
Selenite.
Smithsonite.
Ulexite.
CRYSTALS THAT ARE NOT SAFE IN SALT WATER:
Amber.
Apatite.
Azurite.
Black Tourmaline.
Calcite.
Carnelian.
Celestite.
Fluorite.
Hematite.
Kunzite.
Kyanite.
Labradorite.
Lapis Lazuli.
Lepidolite.
Malachite.
Opal.
Pyrite.
Selenite.
Tangerine Quartz.
Tiger’s Eye.
Turquoise.
SOME WATER SAFE CRYSTALS:
Agate.
Amethyst.
Aventurine.
Black Obsidian (can crack/break in extreme hot or cold temperatures).
Carnelian (in unsalted water only).
Citrine.
Clear Quartz.
Jasper.
Moonstone.
Rose Quartz.
Rutilated Quartz.
Smokey Quartz.
Tiger’s Eye (in unsalted water only).
*This post is not talking about which crystals are safe to be put into elixirs or any liquid that will be ingested. Please do not use this post as a guide for that. It is not recommended to put any stones into drinks or fluids that are intended for ingestion. Please be safe. 
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themori-witch · 1 month ago
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Divination Drinks: Teas to Aid in Divining
Divination in all of its forms (tarot reading, tasseomancy; palmistry; pendulums, etc,.), can be quite exhausting and require large amounts of energy. These teas and tea blends will aid you in divining by enhancing your psychic power, and/or boosting your energy.
Tea Blends:
Psychic Tea (Scott Cunningham)
3 parts Rose Petals
1 part Cinnamon
2 parts Yarrow
Brew the tea, strain it and drink a cup before performing any form of divination as this tea enhances psychic awareness.
Tea for Divination (Moura)
1 tbsp China black tea
2 tbsp Lemon Balm
1 tbsp Rose Hips
1 tbsp Mugwort*
Brew the tea, strain it and drink either before divination or sip during/throughout.
Teas:
Jasmine Tea
Jasmine is said to induce prophetic dreams, which can aid in the growth of psychic power and psychic awareness making this tea a good choice of drink to be had before divining. 
Drink 1 cup of this naturally sweet and fragrant tea before sleeping the night before you wish to divine.
Vanilla Tea
You can brew your own or buy ready-made Vanilla tea/tea bags. Vanilla enhances psychic ability and allows the benefits of this enhancement to be better felt and absorbed. 
Drink Vanilla tea before and during any divination work to open yourself up and be more receptive.
Peppermint Tea
Peppermint tea heightens your psychic sensitivity, as well as working to clear the mind and sharpen focus. It can also be used to cleanse the mind and body of any negative energies beforehand.
This tea should be consumed before any psychic or divination based activities. 
Some Other Things to Consider:
Some herbal tea blends may not be to your taste but this can be remedied by adding honey to taste. 
Other herbs, such as Cinnamon, are used to add oomph to magick and can be added to tea blends and teas to do just that. If you don’t want to add pre-ground and grainy Cinnamon to your drinks, you can use a Cinnamon stick to stir instead. This will add the oomph you’re after without altering the taste too much.
If you want to make your brew even more potent, stir clockwise. This adds positive energy to your tea.
[* = This herb is harmful to pregnant or nursing women!]
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themori-witch · 1 month ago
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I entered the last year of my 20s yesterday. I feel like I've been in my 20s for the entirety of my life, and I'm ready to shed the decade. People tell me not to wish time away, and I'm not - not really. I will enjoy the next 12 months as I am finally truly happy and in a good place to be able to fully do so. I'm just excited for my 30s.
Here's to being 29.
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themori-witch · 1 month ago
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BLACK SALT (also known as WITCH’S SALT) is used primarily for protection, banishing, and repelling.
Those uses aren’t exclusive—it has also been known to feature in baneful magics, and can be used in uncrossing rituals.
WAYS TO UTILISE BLACK SALT
To protect your property from negative spirits, people with ill-intent, unwanted visitors, and negative energy: sprinkle black salt around the perimeter of your property.
To both banish any residual icky energy that a person may have left in your home, and prevent them from returning: sprinkle black salt on the front step and sweep it away. If you’re feeling more traditional (and brave!) you can throw black salt at the back of someone that is leaving your home also.
To prevent nightmares: use in a sachet and keep beneath your pillow.
To repel negativity, unwanted visitors, and rumours/gossip: sprinkle generously across windowsills and doorways.
To cleanse your home and keep nasties from entering: add black salt to a floor wash and go ham on your floor. Focus especially on high traffic areas.
To undo a curse, hex, or other form of malignant magic that has been cast upon you: use in an uncrossing oil or powder. Learn more about uncrossing [here].
To alleviate any negative thoughts and feelings that you are carrying: add a pinch of black salt to your bath, or to an oil with a similar purpose that you anoint yourself with.
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themori-witch · 1 month ago
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Witchcraft 101: Uncrossing
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“Uncrossing is the removal of a type of curse or ‘cross’ that has been laid upon an individual that makes a certain area of their lives difficult because of negative energy that is attached to them, causing them to see and experience only difficulties in that area. Uncrossing removes this negativity, allowing the person to move forward.”
—Silvio Guerrinha.
Simply put: uncrossing is the act of undoing any baneful magic(s) that have been cast upon oneself. 
Before you attempt an uncrossing, you must first determine whether your run of bad luck or the spate of negative occurrences has a mundane or magical origin. You can do this in a number of ways, but the general consensus is to look for the sudden onset of issues such as: nightmares, sleeping trouble, loss of energy (physical, emotional, mental, spiritual), bad luck, financial and relationship trouble. 
*Of course it is possible that all of these have routes in non-magical things, but these are said to be signs of a curse, hex, or jinx of some kind. 
If you work with entities or deities, you may ask them for clarification or confirmation on this issue. 
The term uncrossing is used widely, but a lot of the magics you see will have their origins in Hoodoo and Voodoo, so be cautious (Hoodoo is not a closed cultural practise, but a restrictive one. Voodoo/Vodou is not closed, but it is restrictive and requires a legitimate initiated teacher).
• TYPES OF UNCROSSING MAGICS
Uncrossing magics come in myraid forms—practically every form of magic can be utilised in an uncrossing. Common examples are:
Floor/house/body washes.
Anointing oils.
Powders.
Sachets.
Charms/Enchantments.
Talismans.
Examples of Uncrossing Magics
Mild & Spicy Curse Breaking Powders.
Curse Removing Wash.
Uncrossing Powder.
Lemon Uncrossing Spell [sachet].
• COMMON INGREDIENTS IN UNCROSSING MAGICS
You will notice that there are a few recurring ingredients in uncrossing magics. This is because of their notable strength and power in undoing baneful magic by repelling negativity, purification, cleansing, and protection.
Lemon.
Lime.
Orange.
Eucalyptus.
Chamomile.
Salt.
Mint.
Rosemary.
Sage.
Basil.
Patchouli.
Sandalwood.
Verbena.
Rue.
Garlic.
Vetiver.
Broken chain.
Ribbon.
String.
Black Tourmaline.
Clear Quartz.
Lemongrass.
St. John’s Wort.
Dragon’s Blood [resin]. 
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themori-witch · 1 month ago
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Life Update! ✨ 2025
Since I last checked in, a lot has happened and I think that you all, my fiendish friends, will be happy to know that all of it has been good. Better than good, actually.
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Let's Get Into It! ✨
The big one that I feel might take some of you by surprise is that after 7 years, I ended my relationship because things weren't as good as I had pretended they'd been to the public. I'm not here to slander anyone or divulge details, but all I will say is that things were not good and I needed to get out.
Not long after, this man came crashing into my life and over the time we've talked and been together, he has changed my life for the better. He is healing a heart that he did not break; he has shown me that I do not need to dilute myself to be loved and brought out aspects of me that I had feared were lost forever when they were taken by the wrong people. I am a lover girl at heart, and I am safe to be that way with him.
Ghouls, I would like to officially introduce you to Jody. He is a fairly well known cosplayer on TikTok [here!] and that ridiculous app plays a bit of a role in how we met.
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I started playing D&D! Which is something I'd wanted to do since I was 14 and last year, after loosely discussing it with a friend, a group was put together and these people have also changed my life. They are the most phenomenal group of people in the world and are not just my friends - they're my found family and we have had two in-person meet ups. One of which, the first, was a trip that actually gave me the strength to end my previous relationship because to be loved is to be changed.
Our D&D party is the definition of reluctant and unlikely heroes and we have the best time whenever we play. My character is a wood elf Druid (I know, I know).
This is my babies and I in our matching Kuromi headbands!
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With my newfound confidence, the love and support of good people and better outlook on life, I've been able to put time, effort and money into myself and the people I love. In March, my sister and I were able to take our beloved Spawn Point (Mum) to Milan for her milestone birthday. We had an absolutely incredible time and got to visit the spectacular Duomo. We had good food, got a little lost, and I'll never forget it.
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Smaller Updates! ✨
My health is the best it's been in a very long time, because I'm now not only able to focus on myself instead of putting myself on the back burner for someone else.
I still have my ratty babies! Not all of them, of course, some have passed but Halsin, Raphael, Liara and Kasumi remain with me and are going strong.
My business is doing well and I'm so happy in my infernal foundary (kitchen), hunched over and making dice set after dice set.
Because I no longer feel the need to be someone that I'm not, I got my nipples re-pierced, got my other nostril pierced and two more tattoos (the spiders on my legs, hehe) and I've never felt so good about myself!
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