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DIY Shelves for Our Kitchen

DIY Shelves for Our Kitchen

We did this project back in May and I cannot believe I never shared it! Our kitchen in our home is pretty big. We have decent cabinet space and I normally don’t like a bunch of clutter. At the time this is what this particular space looked like: Before. There was no storage here. It was annoying and so cluttered. So, we decided to build some shelves so we had some more storage. We had plenty…

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Boys Bathroom Redo

I want to preface this by saying : I don’t have many before photos of this bathroom. It had an old claw foot tub, a very old sink, and the grossest floor I’ve ever seen. One day I decided I wanted to rip up the floor and from there it was a whole redo. (Not on purpose). The floor that we started out with and a peek at the bathtub. Peek what was under that gross floor 🤪 Another before. The…

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Boy, 2020 has been a wild ride.

Who had global pandemic on their 2020 bingo card?

It sure wasn’t me! I promise!

It’s been a long summer, and fall, here in West Virginia. We redid our boys bathroom – I’ll share that in another post later. We also did some summer stuff. Bobby switched jobs from the oil field to working for Lowe’s. We decided to do distance learning for school (it’s going pretty good).

We are still…

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They learned something new!

They learned something new!

A little back story.

Neither of my boys could understand how bikes worked until about the age of 5. Zayden took even longer (I’m not entirely sure why it took him so long to process how it worked).

Last summer, we bought them both brand new bikes before we went on vacation to upstate New York.

The whole week all they did was ride their bikes.

Jump to quarantine 2020 – It’s…

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Quarantine 2020

Happy May!

Yes, it’s been a while ( I should really update more). Hopefully, things have been going good your way wherever you are at in the world.

We’ve been doing as good as we can here in West Virginia. Things haven’t been as strict here as it has been in some states/countries. We have already started to lighten our restrictions a little. I think our biggest struggle has been home…

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Mentally Struggling, but I’ll be okay.

Lately, I’ve been in a bit of a funk. It just feels like the world is pushing me in to many directions. It’s hard to handle and my brain doesn’t like it. I’ve always struggled a bit with anxiety and depression, obviously it’s worse in the winter. I’m currently learning ways to cope and not have to be on medication (it’s not for everybody).

Decisions are difficult to make because it could…

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Thanksgiving 2019

Welcome to Thanksgiving with the fam. This year dinner was at my cousin and her husbands new home. They just moved in the beginning of November and the house is beautiful.

Usually, we spend all holidays at my grandmas house. Over the past few years we’ve started changing up the traditions a little bit since my grandma is getting older. Most likely we will do Christmas at her home if she’s…

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My Top 10 Anime

My Top 10 Anime

Now, hear me out. I am pretty new to the anime/manga scene. Growing up I watched a few things like Sailor Moon and Pokemon, but after elementary school I stopped. I’m not sure if it was because of trying to fit in and be someone I’m not or if I was just “growing up”.

Bobby has always been really into anime and started watching some a few years ago, which is what got me back into it. I’m not…

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Happy Halloween

So, I know this will go up on November 6th (holy crap, it’s November) but it’s currently (as I write this) Spooky time. Growing up I never really enjoyed Halloween, we still don’t decorate for it at our home. My boys LOVE to go trick or treating and all the scary stuff.

This year things in West Virginia are pretty hectic. A lot of towns changed their trick or treat times to the weekend. Ours…

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Let's Be Honest

Let’s Be Honest

Something I really don’t talk about often, but let people know about when they meet us, is that my oldest son, Zayden, has autism. He was diagnosed with autism at age three and ADHD at age seven. Autism, or Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), is a broad range of conditions characterized by challenges with social skills, repetitive behaviors, speech and nonverbal communication. Along with autism it is…

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My IUD Story

Hey ya’ll, this is probably going to be a long one.

Today I wanted to take some time to talk about a medical issue that really messed up my body for a few years.

I do want to put a disclaimer before I even get started with this particular story: Just because this type of birth control wasn’t for me, doesn’t mean it’s not right for you. This is just my medical history with this specific…

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Pariscores’ Kakasaku Fic Rec

Updated May 16, 2017

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Dramione Fic Rec No. 14

Isolation by Bex-chan: He can’t leave the room. Her room. And it’s all the Order’s fault. Confined to a small space with only the Mudblood for company, something’s going to give. Maybe his sanity. Maybe not. “There,” she spat. “Now your Blood’s filthy too!” DM/HG. PostHBP.

Rated: M - Chapters: 48 - Words: 278,881 - Status: Complete

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I love that Hinata chose her family over work. I love that she decided to be there for her children. I love that she is hands on with them. I love that she makes it a point to be constantly present, to constantly make her family recognize that they are family.

Because you know why? She grew up having a clan but not home. She grew up knowing she was abandoned by choice, she was abandoned because of who she was, and not because of external factors like his family getting killed to protect her, to make her feel safe. She wasn’t afforded a fantasy of having perfect parents, at least the illusion that she was left alone because of noble reason. She grew up in a household that actively rejected her, that didn’t even give her a room to be a child. There’s no comfort in knowing that even though you have this big clan, this strongest house, they can’t make a room for you. There’s no comfort in knowing you have a house to go back to, but no home.

And that’s her trauma. That kind of insecurity over the fact that it’s not about not having a living family anymore, not having parents to rely on, but about how she was told over and over that she didn’t deserve a home, that she didn’t deserve a family to rely on, that she didn’t deserve to go home and be told, welcome back. That even though she has this big family, alive and thriving, they killed her. While Naruto thought a family is where security is, Hinata grew up in a family that suffocated her, made her feel like she was nothing.

She makes it damn sure that her children will not feel that way. She makes it damn sure that neither Boruto nor Himawari are compelled, are forced to be ninjas if that’s not something they want to do. She gave them a choice. How she gives them room to be children, to be who they are, without that feeling of constantly questioning whether they deserve their place in the family or not.

I love that Hinata chose to be a mother for her children, because she finally found a home where she can tell someone: welcome back, with no reservation. That no children of her, no husband of her, will be abandoned. Because she will always be there, she will be their home.

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its joke

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