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If you is look at AAC screen whilr AAC user is type. Please. Just stop please.

Is not cool. Not help. Is not thoughtful.

You is only make us anxious, or upset, or feel bad overall.

We need type process what is going say :(

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really grasping at straws to try and call me “ableist” or “saneist” because I said thickened water is not for making fucking slime stim toys .

it’s actually massively insulting to neurodivergent people’s actual real and serious struggles (like being incarcerated, or being homeless, or being the target of abuse, or going hungry)

if you genuinely believe that ppl on ventilators and paralyzed ppl are oppressing you and “hateful” for telling you that thick water is not a toy and that you shouldn’t use it to make slime with then please fall down a flight of stairs and break several bones. thanks

[tobytalksaac]

Is toby ok with dms? Would love chat if toby is ok with ! Toby seem cool person :)

yes ! Toby not front lot recently, so may not reply every time. But Xe would love to talk!

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I love you Autistic people , I love you low support needs Autistic , I love you medium support needs Autistic , I love you high support needs Autistic , I love you fluctuating support needs Autistic , I love you Autistic who use AAC , I love you Autistic who use Communication Cards , I love you Autistic who semi speaking , I love you physically disabled Autistic , I love you Autistic with ADHD , I love you mute Autistic , I love you Autistic who use infinity symbol , I love you Autistic who use puzzle symbol , I love you who use person first words , I love you people who use " high functioning " or " low functioning " to refer to self .

I love you Autistic .

[tobytalksaac]

Hi! Momo

Toby think Xe understand question. Yes alters are fragments of whole, is very common for alter to have different opinion. Toby not know how or why alter form that have big difference in identity, but Xe know that is very common, like Toby is endo-neutral even though majority of system is anti-endo.

most alter in us system feel need to be own person, so they form own opinion on topics. For example, us have had homophobic alter even though system is most ly queer

Toby not sure if answer momo question, if not Toby open to talk more!

im so glad I found someone else who has headmates that vary from pro-endo to anti-endo and pro-radqueer to anti-radqueer. it can be complicated sometimes and I don't see a lot of people talking about this

Toby get upset some time because people not get that alter are different people! I not agree with Radqueer, TransID Headmate, just because Headmate have that opinion not mean Toby agree!

Toby is civil with Headmate because not believe should be mean just because not agree. Toby will keep re blogging their posts about AAC, not mean Toby agree with them

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im so glad I found someone else who has headmates that vary from pro-endo to anti-endo and pro-radqueer to anti-radqueer. it can be complicated sometimes and I don't see a lot of people talking about this

Toby get upset some time because people not get that alter are different people! I not agree with Radqueer, TransID Headmate, just because Headmate have that opinion not mean Toby agree!

Toby is civil with Headmate because not believe should be mean just because not agree. Toby will keep re blogging their posts about AAC, not mean Toby agree with them

[tobytalksaac]

Yes! use AAC even if not non speaking, semi speaking, mute! make you self comfortably, accommodation self. mouth talk is as valid as AAC talk.

Anyway little post

I don't "need AAC" I'm not Nonverbal, or semiverbal, I have reliable speech, but? I hate talking, it's tiring and hard especially being autistic and not being able to articulate tone, voice level, etc

Talking isnt "easy" but i can, minus shutdowns and stuff

But comm cards, tts, AAC in general? Is freeing, it's reliable its, it's better

There is no one person who can use AAC , love urself

[tobytalksaac]

Just so you know, the last post you reblogged was written by someone who is ‘radqueer’ and ‘transID’, including ‘trans harmed’. It seems like it goes against your DNI.

Hi , person is one of Toby's headmates, while Toby not approve of beliefs personally, Toby agree with what post said.

Again, Toby does not like radqueers, but xe is still civil with headmates, and was told headmate had made post that toby agree with, and toby wanted to reblog.

(Hi it's another headmate, I largely helped toby write this post, as xe was a little frustrated. Anything further about this topic will probably be me relaying toby's message)

[tobytalksaac]

is ok if words hard . Is okay if type hard.

Be you , no one has right judge you.

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In this blog we stand for Palestine 🇵🇸

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I want to remind every openly queer minor to be safe online. I, before now, had my personal tumblr linked in many places where people IRL that knew me could find. This was proven to be a mistake when a classmate of mine who does not like me and hangs around a boy who has harassed and made fun of me and my friends in the past for being queer/trans, found my tumblr account, found a post from January 5th of this year that was talking about her (but did not mention her by name) and showed it to me in class, saying she knew it was me.

When i logged into this account in class immediately after she told me, I saw had notifications from a user that had two posts on their account, no likes, and was only following me and staff. They had sent me an ask, and left multiple comments under various posts of mine.

I also noticed an anonymous ask under (our headmate) Toby's account (@tobytalksaac)

These asks were conveniently sent just before I was made aware of this person having my account.

A few days later, i get a notification that she has followed me on TikTok, which only 2 of my IRL's have, and that i have not posted on in months.

She is stalking me online.

Please be careful where you link your personal socials, especially if you have a crazy bigoted classmate.

I apologize for the lack of image descriptions, if anyone would like to provide some i would greatly appreciate it.

[tobytalksaac]

In true DID fashion, I've forgotten that March 5th is

🌈🌟 DID AWARENESS DAY 🌟🌈

I'm going to celebrate by dissociating

Happy awareness!

[tobytalksaac]

Hi! Can have aroace  flag of emoji ?

-Toby

Course you can Toby. Added an asexual and aromantic version as well purely for solidarity of my community

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tobys is squid.

leave the answers in the tags

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toby should jump off a building

Toby is unaware if this is from student that found systems Tumblr that hate host but message have been reported to both Tumblr and school staff .

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Hey Toby I’m trying to get better with using xe/xem pronouns for people. I don’t wanna be ignorant or rude. I’ve never referred to someone using xe/xem, so if u get the chance can u show me an example or how to properly use xe/xem? Please and thank you❤️ TLDR: i dont know how to use xe/xem properly, can I get help?

Also for @the-flowing-river

Toby's Pronouns is used like this : Xe is going to school, Xeyr favorite teacher is science teacher.

Or I love Xem, Xeyr nice.

Also pronoundressingroom offer good example

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all AAC should be completely free forever. no there shouldn't be "free versions of paid AAC apps" i mean like every single feature and option should be free forever and ever. we should not have to pay to communicate.