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“I think hell is something you carry around with you. Not somewhere you go.”

— Neil Gaiman, The Sandman

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“Stay single until someone actually complements your life in a way that makes it better not to be single. If not, it’s not worth it.”

— Unknown

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A 3-5 year relationship with no ring, no engagement, and no clear steps toward marriage usually speaks volumes—louder than any words he’s said. The hard truth is this: he may see you as good enough to call his girlfriend, to share his bed, to spend time with… but not good enough to make his wife.

And that stings, I know. But it’s Da Truth—the Naked Truth.

Ladies, let’s be clear: you have every right, God-given and personal, to live life on your terms. You can choose what you allow, how long you stay, and what love looks like for you. But what you shouldn’t do is waste your most valuable years—your time, your heart, your energy—on a man who’s not serious about building a future with you.

If he’s comfortable keeping you in a holding pattern with no real plan, no progression, and no purpose, then it’s time to ask yourself: what am I really waiting for?

You are not just “girlfriend material.” You are wife material, queen material, purpose partner material. Don’t settle for someone who benefits from all that you are without giving you the commitment you truly deserve.

Know your worth. Set your standard. And don’t be afraid to walk away from anything that doesn’t align with your destiny.

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But in the end one needs more courage to live than to kill himself.

Albert Camus

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Stop Settling-Go DATE!

One of the biggest mistakes that you’ve made is not going to date. You meet one cool guy and put all your eggs in his basket, start talking every day, texting all the time, spending all your free moments with him... and before you know it, you've stopped entertaining other options for a man who hasn't even made you his girlfriend

Be the energy you want to attract. A high-value queen wouldn’t lock herself down for someone who hasn't proven he deserves her. She dates, explores, and enjoys her life without prematurely committing to someone who isn't showing commitment in return.

Go to the movies. Go Enjoy a nice dinner.

Go bowling. Take trips, have experiences, and meet people.

Dating means keeping your options open until someone steps up and shows you that they’re serious about YOU.

Stop acting like you're taken when you're not. Until he shows you through actions, not just words, that he wants to build something real-LIVE YOUR LIFE! Keep your standards high and your options open.

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“I know for sure that what we dwell on is who we become.”

— Oprah Winfrey

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