valentinelovr

[valentinelovr]

don't know who needs to hear this but gender non-conformity is not only for trans people. cis women can wear binders and packers. cis men can wear breast forms and tuck. cis women can use he/him pronouns and cis men can use she/her pronouns. anyone can use they/them pronouns or neopronouns. anyone can dress fem or masc regardless of gender identity. anyone can take hormones and get surgeries even if it doesn't match the 'normal' presentation for their gender. all the rules about gender are fake and you can do what you want. gender isn't some finite resource. do whatever the fuck makes you comfortable.

[valentinelovr]

kano :3

Which oc is intersex?

[DO NOT TAG WITH H*RM]

[valentinelovr]

some fucking people on this website: "Intersex people are transmisogynists/transphobic! They're all cryptoTERFs and radfems and should be kept out of our spaces. TERFs love intersex people."

Actual TERFs to intersex people:

I can find more examples if you really want me to. This shit isn't difficult to find.

[valentinelovr]

wtf is fiction for if not to safely express and explore trauma

[valentinelovr]

i love miscecanis.. and misceverse in general...

[valentinelovr]

Casual reminder that the following things are considered traumatic to small children

- neglect (physical and/or emotional)

- living in an emotionally unstable environment (for example, having parents that fight often)

- any kind of physical, emotional, or sexual abuse (not just from parents)

- consistent bullying

- etc

Remember that what is traumatic to a child is not the same as what is traumatic to you now. So think again before saying your trauma ‘isn’t bad enough’

[valentinelovr]

Me when being disabled disables me

[valentinelovr]

so many alterhuman blogs are pro endo and it pains me

[valentinelovr]

you can't call yourself a bi/pan lesbian then be anti good faith. that's like calling yourself nonbinary then saying you're anti trans people. you're under the same umbrella spectrum even if you don't share the same experience. mspec lesbians are inherently good faith, you can't just separate yourself as "one of the good ones" because you aren't one of the good ones. our oppressors want you gone too, being a bad person to your own minority doesn't save you, it doesn't make you better - 05

[valentinelovr]

anyway

[valentinelovr]

hello disabled person who is dithering about whether or not to ask for a certain accommodation because you could "technically survive without it". that is the devil talking. you are allowed to demand more than "technically surviving". the world is a shitty ableist place, but if you have the chance to have your needs met in any tiny way you are allowed to take it. and yes, it's still a need even if you can kind of almost technically mostly survive without it

[valentinelovr]

People are somewhat normal about in-system relationships (romantic/qp/etc) until it involves the host. Grow up.

[valentinelovr]

The trans community be like: "Trans unity & solidarity!!!! <3 EXCEPT IF YOU'RE A MAN OR MASCULINE OR ATTRACTED TO THEM OR INTERSEX OR HAVE A CONTRADICTORY LABEL OR YOU'RE STRAIGHT. IF YOU ARE THEN KILL YOURSELF NOW"

[valentinelovr]

as a narc, i should be allowed to abuse narc-abuse truthers. they're the ones saying so!!!

[valentinelovr]

“We need more weird queer representation” you guys can’t even handle transmasc lesbians.

[valentinelovr]

Weird rant but I’m EXHAUSTED by the fact that medical supplies are either mind-numbingly clinical or literally made for children.

I’m sick of having to buy adhesive patches for my CGM that are covered in crayon scribble and unicorn patterns because all the rest are depressingly plain and I just want something colorful and FUN.

I’m sick of disabled young adults being completely overlooked by society because the stereotypes only include “decrepit elderly person” and “poor innocent child who doesn’t deserve the horrors of a disability”.

I’m sick of the idea that disabled people are incapable/undeserving of being happy and enjoying life and should just settle for a Dull Gray Existence, and if they ARE happy, then they’re an ✨amazing special inspiration✨ who’s going to constantly be put on a pedestal and infantilized to hell and back.

[valentinelovr]

We all agree that generalizations and stereotypes aren't good. All groups have variety and diversity within them, and reducing a group down to one or a few traits is harmful.

So, why is it so hard to expand the definition of being a man? Why is it different for men?