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i wanna die

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being a narc who's also aplatonic SUCKS I love making friends and socializing it gives me so much supply but oh my god I Cannot for the life of me actually keep a friendship intact.

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I’m not the centre of attention anywhere so you know what that means! Self destructive behaviour time!!

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its really weird having NPD traits but not full NPD?

And I've seen people talk about having pd traits but not the full pd, so I'm assuming it's probably okay to use pd specific terms if you have those traits...

But my moral ocd makes me feel like I'm not allowed to use NPD terms even if I identify with them...

I understand not being allowed to use narcissistic I'm okay with not using that term, but my brain doesn't even let me use terms like "internal hierarchy" or "favorite person" it feels like I'm lying to myself no matter what....

Ouuuughdbidndd......

As someone with npd, do whatever you want forever. Pds can overlap and if a term applies to you, you should use it. One time I saw a post infighting about someone with npd using the term fp, someone commented saying it was a bpd only term and that people with bpd can’t have anything, which made me…very confused lmao. We have much bigger issues to deal with as a community than what terms belongs to who, in my opinion. As long as you’re doing everything in good faith, I don’t see a problem

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Absolutely atrocious shirts that I think would go hard if a narc wore them

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NPD culture is just. getting so quickly annoyed at our tumblr mutuals constantly reblogging and putting shit on our feed that we dont care about like SHUT UPPPP HOLY FUCK!!!!!!! WE DONT CARE ABOUT XYZ SHUT UP!!!!!!! like we're 🤏 THIS CLOSE from blocking and unfriending some of our tumblr mutuals because they just wont shut the fuck up about shit we dont care about. its so goddamn annoying. please for the love of fuck shut up about xyz for two seconds we became mutuals with you because youre cool not to see xyz on our page every four fucking scrolls.

(fuck please tell us we're not the only ones please tell us we're not a dick for this

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NPD culture is having extremely high expectations for your birthday unconsciously, making it much more likely for you to get upset that day due to the fact those expectations cannot reasonably be met

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NPD culture is buying a plant and trying so hard to keep it alive and it dies. perish then you stupid fucking vegetable. never liked plants anyway. this close to putting you outside and letting you rot since apparently actually trying means you lose all your flowers. all of this because god fucking hates me and my hobbies personally. no i'm not crashing out over a plant out of frustration this is normal behavior i'm normalling so hard right now.

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physically disabled npd culture is purposefully overdoing yourself so you end up being bedridden and people have to take care of you and are all nice to you.

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NPD Culture is gritting your teeth as your friend vents to you about something because you cannot for the life of you find any desire to care about anything else other than how it will impact you; up until one of your interests gets brought up in relation to it. Then suddenly it's a lot easier to be sympathetic and comfort them. - ⚠️⚡

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honestly, i think the idea that you can gauge someones privilege based on only one aspect of their identity is inherently flawed the more we as trans men speak up about our relationship to male privilege

boiling trans men down to just men to justify calling them privileged and completely ignoring other facets such as being transgender or being neurotypical/neurodivergent/disabled/abled or whether he comes from a wealthy/middle class/poor family, etc is overly simplifying it to the point where it loses its meaning, and even then we need to also define if people are assuming someone is privileged only socially (as with things like job searching or being taken seriously by other people) or if someone is privileged structurally (as with having access to and receiving proper medical care)

all this to say: we need to fundamentally reshape our understanding of privilege not based off only one part of ones identity, especially keeping in mind trans, nonbinary, intersex, white-passing mixed race people, and everyone else whose identity cannot be boiled down to simply one characteristic among many that they possess

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merp & berp

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When someone ends their comment with "hope this helps!" do you think they are actually intending to be helpful?

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"what's happening to trans men isn't ~transandrophobia~, it's just plain old transphobia!!!1!1!1!!!!!!"

so you admit it? you admit you're being virulently transphobic to trans men?

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actually, "autism is a huge part of who i am and i'm proud of it" and "autism is a disability that requires accommodations" are both true statements that can and should coexist

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my teeth r yellow 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 hello world